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Re: Nigerian Man in US Whose Wife Threw Him Out His Own Home Speaks (vid) by Nobody: 7:36pm On Jul 19, 2022
Dshocker:
That is the reason why most men don't like taking their wife aboard.

Especially if you enroll her into nursing or to study medicine, by the time she is through studying such course, then the chances of her being your wife is like 20%.

And it is her fellow colleagues that will brainwash her into believing that being single is the best and her husband has no right to question her decision.

Dear men; If you ever plan on relocating your wife aboard, make sure she signs a prenuptial agreement.



Na the woman buy the house dey pay for the mortgage...my mind tells me he was cheating and on top joblessness grin

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Re: Nigerian Man in US Whose Wife Threw Him Out His Own Home Speaks (vid) by faithfull18(f): 7:36pm On Jul 19, 2022
Didn't watch that.
Re: Nigerian Man in US Whose Wife Threw Him Out His Own Home Speaks (vid) by lexy2014: 7:37pm On Jul 19, 2022
MrBrownJay1:


all you people who never set foot outside Africa, (let alone the US), and/or ever dealt with the US law on domestic violence, should stop writing nonsense online.

Wow...baba, pls share with us how you set foot outside Africa specifically the US and how you dealt with US laws on domestic violence

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Re: Nigerian Man in US Whose Wife Threw Him Out His Own Home Speaks (vid) by Antoeni(m): 7:37pm On Jul 19, 2022
Set Awon JJC Skillz

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Re: Nigerian Man in US Whose Wife Threw Him Out His Own Home Speaks (vid) by naija4life247: 7:37pm On Jul 19, 2022
Okay.

I think only the gods like Ogun, Sango, Obatala, Aiyelala and Esu Odara can settle this

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Re: Nigerian Man in US Whose Wife Threw Him Out His Own Home Speaks (vid) by harmargedon: 7:38pm On Jul 19, 2022
Let her come to Nigeria first, we want to tell her something grin grin grin grin

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Re: Nigerian Man in US Whose Wife Threw Him Out His Own Home Speaks (vid) by Deicide: 7:38pm On Jul 19, 2022
For people that don't understand, he has no choice than to sleep outside. Anything he does that involves gra gra he would enter trouble and probably loose the house forever

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Re: Nigerian Man in US Whose Wife Threw Him Out His Own Home Speaks (vid) by Arelyn: 7:39pm On Jul 19, 2022
The problem the black community faces abroad is that of cultural ideology influenced by our innate ego...Truth be told, we are shaped by our culture and influenced daily by our experience in life but the moment we allow our ego(emotion) to come in place of logic when applying ourselves to situations in life, issues like this are bound to happen

Let me start by saying there is a lot that can happen to an individual overseas that will translate to big reputational damage should such an individual apply his or her cultural ideology to it but because of the rules and regulations of the host country, they are not only normal but legally and socially acceptable.

Over time, black women have learnt the ropes within the legal system that they can manipulate to their favour which may be a result of a genuine desire to seek protection from a very "bad" man or just a selfish manipulative quest to dominate a relationship. These laws are possible because more campaigns seek to portray the female gender as an endangered species therefore more regulations are created to support women in these countries.

It is so surprising that "black women are the largest group with the highest divorce rate in the United States " even more than the white woman which doesn't reflect positivity in black women. It is not uncommon for this group of women to become largely illogical and emotions driven, the moment they attain similar or better economic status compared to their men except for those that remain rooted in their cultural ideology and principles of virtuous women

I wonder why these laws are there while statistics that "Asian women are the least to divorce their men" remains valid. I work in a team of 13 professionals and on nights out, questions bordering around divorce do come up, it's surprising that the Asian women in my team don't see divorce as an option but my black sisters don't just take the chill pill at all. An Asian colleague once said " when you have a broken toy, you fix it, you don't throw it away " that stuck with me for a while

My submission is not to support those groups of men that are full of themselves and won't mind treating their women badly, if a woman seeks protection from men like that it is understandable and justifiable but I have seen more women get their men in trouble with the authorities just for the sake of better social welfare package.

I just want us, individuals, both at home and abroad to know that the more black families are destroyed, the more black children are not provided with the best opportunity to attain the optimum best for themselves as the statistics show that black children from broken homes are more likely not to turn out well in life...These are evident in most American movies, "blackness" is always characterised by broken homes, drugs, violence etc...The more reason the series "Power" gained more viewership than "Empire" even though they had a similar storyline of grass to grace but power depicts the appropriate narrative of a black man which millions of young black men can relate to the main character's experiences while it suits the narrative of how Hollywood wants to portray a black man

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Re: Nigerian Man in US Whose Wife Threw Him Out His Own Home Speaks (vid) by jrusky(m): 7:39pm On Jul 19, 2022
Dshocker:
That is the reason why most men don't like taking their wife aboard.

Especially if you enroll her into nursing or to study medicine, by the time she is through studying such course, then the chances of her being your wife is like 20%.

And it is her fellow colleagues that will brainwash her into believing that being single is the best and her husband has no right to question her decision.

Dear men; If you ever plan on relocating your wife aboard, make sure she signs a prenuptial agreement.

Bro you are tight. Any man who wan chop disgrace just mistakenly carry woman go abroad you go hear am. When I was in Belgium years back Demnis my friend lost his house to his wife and they even told him 100 meter right left front back be should not near the building bro I have seen so many of these in the West. Very very unfortunate indeed.

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Re: Nigerian Man in US Whose Wife Threw Him Out His Own Home Speaks (vid) by harmargedon: 7:39pm On Jul 19, 2022
Stupid laws created by SIMPle men undecided undecided undecided undecided

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Re: Nigerian Man in US Whose Wife Threw Him Out His Own Home Speaks (vid) by KingGeorge5(m): 7:40pm On Jul 19, 2022
MrBrownJay1:


bro, a prenup wouldnt help in this issue because the problem is not the wife, it is the YEYE MUMU that she calls her husband, that is the main problem here. what man in his right man would let a woman make him sleep outside of HIS OWN HOME?!?!? in what world? what kind of stupid shiiit is that?

You need to come over...so that you can understand.

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Re: Nigerian Man in US Whose Wife Threw Him Out His Own Home Speaks (vid) by MadarasBlade(m): 7:40pm On Jul 19, 2022
Ninisun:




Na the woman buy the house dey pay for the mortgage...my mind tells me he was cheating and on top joblessness grin

How do you know this?
Re: Nigerian Man in US Whose Wife Threw Him Out His Own Home Speaks (vid) by Bobotic(m): 7:40pm On Jul 19, 2022
One of my neighbor even typing... embarassed shocked

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Re: Nigerian Man in US Whose Wife Threw Him Out His Own Home Speaks (vid) by Nobody: 7:40pm On Jul 19, 2022
I don't engage myself in husband and wife matter especially the team foreign women!

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Re: Nigerian Man in US Whose Wife Threw Him Out His Own Home Speaks (vid) by koolaid87: 7:40pm On Jul 19, 2022
sad
Re: Nigerian Man in US Whose Wife Threw Him Out His Own Home Speaks (vid) by dododawa1: 7:40pm On Jul 19, 2022
Different world
Re: Nigerian Man in US Whose Wife Threw Him Out His Own Home Speaks (vid) by Nobody: 7:42pm On Jul 19, 2022
jrusky:


Bro you are tight. Any man who wan chop disgrace just mistakenly carry woman go abroad you go hear am. When I was in Belgium years back Demnis my friend lost his house to his wife and they even told him 100 meter right left front back be should not near the building bro I have seen so many of these in the West. Very very unfortunate indeed.
Perhaps you can also tell us what Demnis your friend did to have a restriction placed on him.

Always crying wolf!

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Re: Nigerian Man in US Whose Wife Threw Him Out His Own Home Speaks (vid) by 07kjb: 7:44pm On Jul 19, 2022
My wife to be must remain in NIGERIA,not just in NIGERIA but with my mom for checks and balancing

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Re: Nigerian Man in US Whose Wife Threw Him Out His Own Home Speaks (vid) by just2endowed: 7:45pm On Jul 19, 2022
Prenup all the way
Re: Nigerian Man in US Whose Wife Threw Him Out His Own Home Speaks (vid) by ChiefAfonja: 7:46pm On Jul 19, 2022
MrBrownJay1:


bro, a prenup wouldnt help in this issue because the problem is not the wife, it is the YEYE MUMU that she calls her husband, that is the main problem here. what man in his right man would let a woman make him sleep outside of HIS OWN HOME?!?!? in what world? what kind of stupid shiiit is that?

Primitive local man

You are very uninformed

You think say na Naija them dey

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Re: Nigerian Man in US Whose Wife Threw Him Out His Own Home Speaks (vid) by kingsley989(m): 7:46pm On Jul 19, 2022
MrBrownJay1:


stop talking about what you dont know.... a man CAN/MUST resist and simply have evidence that he didnt do anything wrong. what you wrote is not only foolish, but blasphemy for US men. abeg travel a little!!! you actually believe that a woman can do what she pleases and anyone will listen to her, lol?!?!? you watch too many US series...while in the real world it doesnt work this way... if a woman lays a hand on you and/or attacks you, you have all the rights to defend yourself against her (whether you are a man or a woman).... THATS THE LAW! just make sure you do that in front of witnesses and/or cameras so that you have proof.

the problem here is that African men think they can control women abroad (like they do inAfrica), while THEY CANT! the law abroad will send
them straight to jail!
Bro I've been following your comment. Please stop arguing, you don't know what you are saying. America no be Nigeria.

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Re: Nigerian Man in US Whose Wife Threw Him Out His Own Home Speaks (vid) by EgunMogaji2: 7:47pm On Jul 19, 2022
Dshocker:


You are funny, Google the meaning of prenup.

If she had signed a prenup, then she wouldn't get a dime from their divorce.

And in America, you dare not hit your wife, because the laws of the land protects women and children more.

He acted wisely by recording his evidence and also not hitting his wife.

Lets assume you've lived in America for 20yrs and you were able to buy a house $10M, later you got married and had problems with her and you hit her, my brother you might lose 50% of your money, if not all to her and the house automatically goes to her.

This is not true.

Pre marital assets, inheritance, etc are exempt,

Also prenups are not bullet proof.

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Re: Nigerian Man in US Whose Wife Threw Him Out His Own Home Speaks (vid) by Arizonaz: 7:47pm On Jul 19, 2022
Asceleb16:
Many are mad but few are roamimg

Why will a sane man pack into a woman's house? Is that not madness

Orgasmgiver123 da? Pls kick this man's ass and let his brain reset

Did you even follow the previous trends before writing this?

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Re: Nigerian Man in US Whose Wife Threw Him Out His Own Home Speaks (vid) by jrusky(m): 7:48pm On Jul 19, 2022
Persephone1:
Perhaps you can also tell us what Demnis your friend did to have a restriction placed on him.

Always crying wolf!

The lady was dating another guy secretly that was where the fracas begun.

But you don't need to insult if you want to know something afterall I did not quoted you or talk yo you.

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Re: Nigerian Man in US Whose Wife Threw Him Out His Own Home Speaks (vid) by Ckonnet: 7:48pm On Jul 19, 2022
MrBrownJay1:


bro, a prenup wouldnt help in this issue because the problem is not the wife, it is the YEYE MUMU that she calls her husband, that is the main problem here. what man in his right man would let a woman make him sleep outside of HIS OWN HOME?!?!? in what world? what kind of stupid shiiit is that?

In naija or abroad? It's like the abroad stories sounds like fairy tales to you sha. If their are kids in the house and both are legally married, oga you go leave the house.

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Re: Nigerian Man in US Whose Wife Threw Him Out His Own Home Speaks (vid) by abbey621(m): 7:50pm On Jul 19, 2022
When you understand the laws in America and the psychology of women in general, your life becomes much more peaceful. In the USA, even if you have a prenup or whatever other nonsense document to protect yourself, see that house wey you dey pay the mortgage or wey you don finish paying or bought fully, that house na the woman get am. The reason behind this is that the woman shapes the family and 9 out of 10 times she needs a house to raise the children.

America believes men are strong and as such can survive anywhere, it also believes men have more resources and can afford to get another place. America does not expect you to be a mumu and put all your financial eggs in one basket. As a man whether your wife cheats on you, slaps you, piss on you etc, na you go still leave especially when she claims her life is in danger.

Finally and perhaps the most important of all, no matter how much you love your wife and/or your kids, NEVER EVER FORGET TO TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF! Always have an account that is untouchable by your wife, the government etc., this account could be the difference between intense depression and thanking God for life......I COME IN PEACE!

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Re: Nigerian Man in US Whose Wife Threw Him Out His Own Home Speaks (vid) by Bluffly: 7:51pm On Jul 19, 2022
Asceleb16:
Many are mad but few are roamimg

Why will a sane man pack into a woman's house? Is that not madness

Orgasmgiver123 da? Pls kick this man's ass and let his brain reset
Mumu. They built the house together. At least open your ears

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Re: Nigerian Man in US Whose Wife Threw Him Out His Own Home Speaks (vid) by Sijo01(f): 7:51pm On Jul 19, 2022
Asceleb16:
Many are mad but few are roamimg

Why will a sane man pack into a woman's house? Is that not madness

Orgasmgiver123 da? Pls kick this man's ass and let his brain reset

You didn't hear when he said they built the house together?
Re: Nigerian Man in US Whose Wife Threw Him Out His Own Home Speaks (vid) by Bar1941(m): 7:51pm On Jul 19, 2022
That is why fatal domestic violence is so common in those countries. Imagine after labouring and starving yourself to put up something like this, one greedy bitch just thought she can use the weak laws of the western countries to deprive you of all that you got.

This man must be very depressed now, I pray and hope he doesn't take the laws into his hands by killing the bitçh as we ass taking his own life, because in most situations like this, that is usually the end result.

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Re: Nigerian Man in US Whose Wife Threw Him Out His Own Home Speaks (vid) by AyeMoJuba: 7:52pm On Jul 19, 2022
Dshocker:


You are funny, Google the meaning of prenup.

If she had signed a prenup, then she wouldn't get a dime from their divorce.

And in America, you dare not hit your wife, because the laws of the land protects women and children more.

He acted wisely by recording his evidence and also not hitting his wife.

Lets assume you've lived in America for 20yrs and you were able to buy a house $10M, later you got married and had problems with her and you hit her, my brother you might lose 50% of your money, if not all to her and the house automatically goes to her.

Haaaa! What evil and devilish law is that?
God forbid!

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