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Side chick don't give u headache

Side chick goes EXTRA MILES to support you and treat you like a KING cos she understood the fact that she's in competition with the main chick

SIRG120:
Let me elaborate this for Clear understanding....The fact is, most men struggle with maintaining monogamous relationships..... It takes a whole lot of discipline and self control to remain faithful as a man...... Do you really think the cheating ends with just one side chick?.... Of course not..... With one side chick lies other side chicks..... When they get tired of the so called side chick they move onto the next one and this keeps going on and on....... It's more like a Path of irredeemable return........ Take it or leave it, every man has got that dirty side in them, it's just that the few good ones that are faithful suppress their dirty side....... If am to be logical here, the slogan that " Men are Polygamous in nature" is not fallacious ( Though am not in any way supporting Cheating) But it's a Psychological fact that can never be erased.... That's where nature takes Place......... But Nuture encompasses environmental factors, Proper upbringing , Sound Orientation and Personal decision..... This is where discipline and self-control comes in and that's the only thing that can stop a man from cheating in a monogamous relationship.......You can never forcefully Please a Chronic cheat, even if you're Angelina Jolie or Juliana Roberts...... The best you can do is to skillfully make them emotionally, Mentally and sexually connected to you...... That way respect comes in and when he begins to have respect for what you both share he gradually begins to call himself to order in his vulnerable moments...... With time he stops cheating completely..... At this point, there won't be any need for him to have side chicks and there won't be any need for this Question you asked...............To my fellow men out there that believe and Practice monogamy...... There's absolutely no need for side chicks...... Find that one woman that is very loyal to you and ensure you're faithful to each other........." If you can't be faithful to a loyal Partner then you have no business with monogamy".

Nigerian female should be avoided by all means

The sweet thing about men that cheat, is that women are also cheat and are beating them in the cheating game, that's why we have more divorces than ever before these days, so pls keep it up since self discipline is a taboo to some humans

And yes variety is the spice of life and very sweet, so humans will keep experiencing sweet varieties till the end of time

phemy36:
Nigerian female should be avoided by all means

If your father had avoided your mother by all means, your comment would have made sense.

Abeg after this post, someone should make a post asking why women have side gbolas.


Actually, no need for another post. I think this post and the responses on this post also speaks for why women cheat. Asides the fact that women are polygamous in nature and cannot help but cheat, they also get to increase thier riches.

I think men cannot do much about thier cheating partner. They should just try to connect emotionally and mentally to the cheating woman and at the woman's vulnerable moment (after a couple of years when old age has set in), she may start to respect the relationship you both share and change.

This OP and the commenters said the whole truth. Stolen meat aka big side gbolas is very sweet. Variety is indeed the spice of life. The side niggas know how to give different styles. Some lift you up and ferk you on the wall and some give good head while some know how to give good missionary and doggy style. Side niggas goes the extra mile to impress the wife with seks and gifts.

I am coming, I have more to write but my side dciik is calling me.

She offers different styles

Vyzz:



Addictional pussy

...abi . additional sweet London

Reasons for side chick cannot be over emphasis, thought is not advisable but it calms your nerves and reduces high blood pressure and depression.

SpecialAdviser:
Polygamy in itself does not stop man from having a side chick. If not, all the numerous Alhajis in Abuja would have no need having multiple girlfriends over there. Go to Abuja and confirm how polygamous men still chase after side chicks.

In reality, what can keep men away from side chicks can be highlited below

1. Self Discipline
2. Non nagging wife
3. A constantly clean wife.
4. A wife that cooks good food.
5. A man that do not have many friends
6. A family that go vacation and spice up
7. Self Discipline
8. Self Discipline
9. Self Discipline
10. Self Discipline

You are wrong. Any man can still cheat regardless of all you listed above. Once we see any attractive women we begin to imagine things even if they aren't within our reach.

Na this thread i wan take find my husband

emerged01:
Nothing! But you cant ignore the important of spare tire.

Woman don because spare tire to you o

For me,I maintain my lane,I dont need side chicks,based on personal decision.

AfroKnight:
She’s offers side attraction

Don’t worry, you can’t understand.

Even Me too I can’t understand.

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WatchYourSix:
Main chicks or wife are usually complacent...they feel they own you..they don't do extra to impress....

But u see those side chicks.... yeeeeeeeeee

You mean you go the extra mile to please the side chicks right?

posty56:
bullshit,who love help lol, anyways multiple women are just sweet , especially exotic women

Factos

olab059:
This is actually very true. Over the years, I used to have one girl... I would over love her, and she would eventually start taking me for granted. I decided to have two women in my life, now everything is so smooth, and sweet...sweet balance. They both know themselves, so I'm not really cheating on anyone. It is always sweet to see how one treats you better when she sees you giving the other one more attention. Mehn! It's so powerful.

At least for once, think about why the both of them are still with you...
Because of your money... So don't ever allow it finish o, else you'll see other side of both of them

My main babe have the best puna I have ever been in but she doesn't give head, while my sides suck and knack with reckless abandon but my main is more feminine and subtle in her ways.

Stephen2324:
I want to know something, what does a side chick offer that a main chick can't?

In one word:

S - porn - taneity

Easy. U can't turn your main chick to Kelly divine or Lisa Ann. But with a side chick she can perform the wonders aformentioned can provide.

Actually 2 b sincerely honest in my humble opinion without being sentimental nd of course offending any1 who thinks opposite from my point of view and without hiding any thought in my mind and without lies 2 d actual truth with a clean heart expressing what has been embedded inside me for a very long time. So today by gathering every courage I Just want 2 say dat I Feel that I Think dat





I HAVE NOTHING TO SAY

Distraction.

Na dirty water dey quench fire pass, simple!

SIRG120:
Let me elaborate this for Clear understanding....The fact is, most men struggle with maintaining monogamous relationships..... It takes a whole lot of discipline and self control to remain faithful as a man...... Do you really think the cheating ends with just one side chick?.... Of course not..... With one side chick lies other side chicks..... When they get tired of the so called side chick they move onto the next one and this keeps going on and on....... It's more like a Path of irredeemable return........ Take it or leave it, every man has got that dirty side in them, it's just that the few good ones that are faithful suppress their dirty side....... If am to be logical here, the slogan that " Men are Polygamous in nature" is not fallacious ( Though am not in any way supporting Cheating) But it's a Psychological fact that can never be erased.... That's where nature takes Place......... But Nuture encompasses environmental factors, Proper upbringing , Sound Orientation and Personal decision..... This is where discipline and self-control comes in and that's the only thing that can stop a man from cheating in a monogamous relationship.......You can never forcefully Please a Chronic cheat, even if you're Angelina Jolie or Juliana Roberts...... The best you can do is to skillfully make them emotionally, Mentally and sexually connected to you...... That way respect comes in and when he begins to have respect for what you both share he gradually begins to call himself to order in his vulnerable moments...... With time he stops cheating completely..... At this point, there won't be any need for him to have side chicks and there won't be any need for this Question you asked...............To my fellow men out there that believe and Practice monogamy...... There's absolutely no need for side chicks...... Find that one woman that is very loyal to you and ensure you're faithful to each other........." If you can't be faithful to a loyal Partner then you have no business with monogamy".

man, a monogamous man is heading for serious heart break.. Take it ot leave it

Unconditional Bleep

SpecialAdviser:
Polygamy in itself does not stop man from having a side chick. If not, all the numerous Alhajis in Abuja would have no need having multiple girlfriends over there. Go to Abuja and confirm how polygamous men still chase after side chicks.

In reality, what can keep men away from side chicks can be highlited below

1. Self Discipline
2. Non nagging wife
3. A constantly clean wife.
4. A wife that cooks good food.
5. A man that do not have many friends
6. A family that go vacation and spice up
7. Self Discipline
8. Self Discipline
9. Self Discipline
10. Self Discipline

Well said but since I was born and now I'm getting old, the guy I know who follows women the highest has no friends.

Always staying quiet on his own, if you see him talking any serious thing with any guy, he ain't talking about anything serious other than how to track a babe or where to met women.

Rn he's chatting me on messenger and it's about women, so I disagree with that very point.

What is chick? Abeg if you go marry, kuku marry and stop these nonsense

Life is short

Stephen2324:
I want to know something, what does a side chick offer that a main chick can't?

chick are not prototypes and therefore vary in what they offer.

vincentjk:
Well said but since I was born and now I'm getting old, the guy I know who follows women the highest has no friends.

Always staying quiet on his own, if you see him talking any serious thing with any guy, he ain't talking about anything serious other than how to track a babe or where to met women.

Rn he's chatting me on messenger and it's about women, so I disagree with that very point.

Well I was referring to a married man. A married man keeps many friends and always go to bar to drink with them will most likely cheat.

essentialone:
Please explain the diseases that a side chick can have that a main fowl cannot have.

If u have a decent main"fowl" as u say then u dont have that problem