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Re: Should Keeping Virginity Still Be Preached Concerning Christian Marriages? by eyinjuege: 12:10pm On Jul 24, 2022
Fornication, adultery, murder, lies , greed, gluttony etc are all things that are preached against.
It doesn't mean people won't do it.
Just be eeafy to face the consequences of your vices be it imprisonment for lies/deception/ fraud, divorce/ for adultery, living with your conscience for Fornication etc.
Because your conscience can't deal with fornication / lies doesn't mean mine can't though. So it's kind of subjective
Re: Should Keeping Virginity Still Be Preached Concerning Christian Marriages? by eyinjuege: 12:12pm On Jul 24, 2022
Truvelisback:
Virginity is the HARDEST Thing any woman can keep.

Its the easiest thing men can surely keep, isn't it?

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Re: Should Keeping Virginity Still Be Preached Concerning Christian Marriages? by Decent09(m): 12:17pm On Jul 24, 2022
MuslimIgbo:
Every girl should marry as a virgin


The value and pride of a woman is based on her SEXUAL PURITY.

Nowadays, some of your average "good girl" girlfriends have at least 5 - 25 BODYCOUNT, but when you ask them, they will tell you that their bodycount is just 1 or 2.
1 = their first boyfriend long time ago who tricked, raped or force himself on them and,
2 = their second boyfriend who dumped or cheated on them... Blablabla

NO SENSIBLE MAN WANTS TO BE WITH A WOMAN THAT MANY MEN HAVE BEEN WITH.

GOLD AND DIAMOND ARE ONLY PRECIOUS BECAUSE THEY ARE:
EXPENSIVE
HARD TO FIND
AND NOT EVERYONE CAN AFFORD IT.

Your Words are Gold my Friend
Re: Should Keeping Virginity Still Be Preached Concerning Christian Marriages? by Truvelisback(m): 12:19pm On Jul 24, 2022
eyinjuege:


Its the easiest thing men can surely keep, isn't it?
In a gathering, it's easier to spot more virgin men than women.
Re: Should Keeping Virginity Still Be Preached Concerning Christian Marriages? by Iamstickzbaba(m): 12:22pm On Jul 24, 2022
It should be preached because it is what the scripture says but i don't think this generation and the ones to come was included in that thought o..
Re: Should Keeping Virginity Still Be Preached Concerning Christian Marriages? by Sleekfingers: 12:25pm On Jul 24, 2022
cutecommend:
We have many Christian sisters and Christian brothers who are not virgins, some are awesome people. You might even see a decent-looking and committed Christian sister, and when you confirm, she is not a virgin. Should virginity still be preached or should we just go by love and move on?

Again, does not being a virgin have side effect in marriage?




Penis and virgin are not for decorations. Once you are matured Bleep anything fuckable
Re: Should Keeping Virginity Still Be Preached Concerning Christian Marriages? by JonJozzy: 12:32pm On Jul 24, 2022
Southernigbo:
Any church preaching on the maintenance of virginity b4 marriage will lose members and money. Most church leaders are even afraid of preaching against fornication, adultery and ritual money

You are the only one bold enough to say the real Koko of the issue.
Re: Should Keeping Virginity Still Be Preached Concerning Christian Marriages? by Ayiba0911: 12:38pm On Jul 24, 2022
Ibkhaleel:
BIG BROTHER NIGERIA SEASON 7 OF
IMMORALITY.
Housemates are Christians. It's normal
for the female ones to expose their
breast to the world and also to have sex
live on TV while family members
watches at home. Regrettably Christian
Association of Nigeria (CAN) is not
worried about this trend of immorality,
but they're worried about bishops that
attended Sen. Bola Tinubu's event.
Did the BBN mates inform you that they are representatives of Christ or a Church in that Babylon of a show? You think anyone with a foreign name apart from Arabian names are Christians?

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Re: Should Keeping Virginity Still Be Preached Concerning Christian Marriages? by Nyascobar1414: 12:40pm On Jul 24, 2022
Truvelisback:
In a gathering, it's easier to spot more virgin men than women.

Word!
Re: Should Keeping Virginity Still Be Preached Concerning Christian Marriages? by Nyascobar1414: 12:41pm On Jul 24, 2022
Its only a simp and a man with no worth that will pay a bride price for a non virgin..

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Re: Should Keeping Virginity Still Be Preached Concerning Christian Marriages? by Khalid72(m): 12:42pm On Jul 24, 2022
[quote author=jmoore post=115032973]
To mock virgins, you would hear statements like this "Who Virginity Epp?"

Virginity is beneficial to oneself and the society at large.

1: Messiah: Jesus Christ came into the world through a virgin. Virginity was part of the criteria for a 'vessel' that would bring Jesus into this world. You don't expect God to come through a body that has fornicated with 1,000 people, aborted battalions etc.

2: No STDs:Who are those transmitting STDs with reckless abandon? Your guess is as good as mine. If you abstain, you have no business with STDs.

3: Unwanted pregnancy: If you had abstained, you won't have been pregnant. You are pregnant, you called your boyfriend to inform him, he flees. You are on your own. Carry your headache alone.

4: Abortion: Sex results to pregnancy, and when the pregnancy is not needed, they kill the baby in the womb. Some people that abort when single, may even abort when married. The habit of abortion can continue in marriage.

u ar rite bro

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Re: Should Keeping Virginity Still Be Preached Concerning Christian Marriages? by DavidHarry(m): 12:43pm On Jul 24, 2022
Okay. Virginity should still be preached as the Bible is a big advocate against pre-marital sex - fornication. Especially for women because whom a faithful woman decides to give her body to, must be someone she utmostly respects and is ready to be devoted to. You can now imagine if she had given herself to 1 or 2 other men before she met "the right man". It questions her faithfulness and loyalty in the union. Nowadays women see 10 body counts as nothing. The baby mama trends. It's quite disheartening.

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Re: Should Keeping Virginity Still Be Preached Concerning Christian Marriages? by DavidHarry(m): 12:49pm On Jul 24, 2022
DavidHarry:
Okay. Virginity should still be preached as the Bible is a big advocate against pre-marital sex - fornication. Especially for women because whom a faithful woman decides to give her body to, must be someone she utmostly respects and is ready to be devoted to. You can now imagine if she had given herself to 1 or 2 other men before she met "the right man". It questions her faithfulness and loyalty in the union. Nowadays women see 10 body counts as nothing. The baby mama trends. It's quite disheartening.

For the guys, stay away from premital sex. Why? Because the Bible says so. Final. However don't dull yourself- because you're not getting sex doesn't mean you shouldn't look responsible or attractive enough to women. Women like men that are attractive to other women. But Set boundaries and still maintain your shape and dignity. If you're tempted much and you do commit- Never cede a child you're not prepared to provide a family for. So you must be ready to marry the woman whom you impregnate. That's why you must be very careful in that aspect. But avoid fornication, I've found out that it's possible to live without sex. Semen retention etc. Makes you sharper sef

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Re: Should Keeping Virginity Still Be Preached Concerning Christian Marriages? by Khalid72(m): 12:52pm On Jul 24, 2022
Thank God am still a virgin by the grace i will hold for 8 more years following my plans, if they work out.

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Re: Should Keeping Virginity Still Be Preached Concerning Christian Marriages? by NaBanga: 12:56pm On Jul 24, 2022
People in the Bible were getting married at 14 and 15. That is the age of puberty. Practicing virginity until your 20s, 30s and 40s does not align with modern society, which is my most people are failing. It has also led to some men and women being "weird" when they finally enter a marriage and early broken marriage. However it is not a sin to keep yourself a virgin and can also lead to prevention of STDs and unwanted pregnancy.

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Re: Should Keeping Virginity Still Be Preached Concerning Christian Marriages? by TotalRunter: 12:59pm On Jul 24, 2022
MuslimIgbo:
Absolutely

A girl who isn't a virgin does not deserve FULL BRIDE PRICE!

Most parents these days are very careless and irresponsible, especially mothers.

They ALWAYS know what the girls are up to but just decide to look away.

> A girl that's not working will be using expensive phones, clothes and jewelry and parents won't bother to query her...

> Children will be bringing expensive and strange things home and SENSELESS parents won't query them.
Sometimes, you can't even blame the wayward children (some of them are real BASTARDS) because their parents are even worse.
Fathers have "girlfriends"
Mothers have "manfriends"....



Anyway,
BRIDE PRICE SHOULD BE PAID BASED ON BODYCOUNT.

ACTUAL BRIDE PRICE SHOULD BE DIVIDED BE THE NUMBER OF BODYCOUNT.

E.G,
If your pride price is 100,000 and your bodycount is 10,
YOUR PARENTS SHOULD BE PAID 100,000/10 = 10,000.


Waiting for oloshos to disagree.

Only the girl? What of the useless boy that disvirgined her, should his worthless dowry be collected by the parents of the current girl he wants to marry? Where is your brain?
Re: Should Keeping Virginity Still Be Preached Concerning Christian Marriages? by Dtruthspeaker: 1:00pm On Jul 24, 2022
cutecommend:
We have many Christian sisters and Christian brothers who are not virgins, some are awesome people. You might even see a decent-looking and committed Christian sister, and when you confirm, she is not a virgin. Should virginity still be preached or should we just go by love and move on?

Again, does not being a virgin have side effect in marriage?



Yes! God blesses the couple and He dwells with them..

But if you are evil, even if you are a virgin, NOTHING FOR YOU!

Actually, NO BLESSING FOR YOU.
Re: Should Keeping Virginity Still Be Preached Concerning Christian Marriages? by Etuagievin(m): 1:04pm On Jul 24, 2022
mumumugu:
Virginity is outdated
.
How, why?
Re: Should Keeping Virginity Still Be Preached Concerning Christian Marriages? by GhostWisperer: 1:05pm On Jul 24, 2022
By all means. What a stupid question.
Re: Should Keeping Virginity Still Be Preached Concerning Christian Marriages? by VenumX: 1:14pm On Jul 24, 2022
Chastity is the word.
Re: Should Keeping Virginity Still Be Preached Concerning Christian Marriages? by RussellRutherfo: 1:15pm On Jul 24, 2022
Ibkhaleel:
BIG BROTHER NIGERIA SEASON 7 OF
IMMORALITY.
Housemates are Christians. It's normal
for the female ones to expose their
breast to the world and also to have sex
live on TV while family members
watches at home. Regrettably Christian
Association of Nigeria (CAN) is not
worried about this trend of immorality,
but they're worried about bishops that
attended Sen. Bola Tinubu's event.

You mean Kaaba worshipping, Kaaba shaped vulva kissing, illiterate schizophrenic 6year old child abusing prophet MuhamMad following "Christians" like this below

Re: Should Keeping Virginity Still Be Preached Concerning Christian Marriages? by dragunov: 1:17pm On Jul 24, 2022
Ibkhaleel:
Islam preaches tolerance and peace thats the reason why we allow you minorities to ooen ur gutter mouth here nd insult Muslims....your people prefer to stay with Muslims than with your evil, cultist xtians...


Paradise is a place for maximum enjoyment if you did well here on earth....but because of dumbness you take d pleasures of paradise as a joke....i can quote you references in your own fabricated bible to disgrace you on that...


Camel urine (CU) is the prototype of urotherapy and possesses more beneficial effects than other animal urine It consists of various chemical constituents that contribute to its anticancer, antiplatelet, gastroprotective and hepatoprotective effects.

You are a shameless xtian

It's only God that can redeem you. You have become hopelessly lost. Your hatred for xtianity has become a Cancer to you. We know you are a terrorist. We know that if given the opportunity, you will not hesitate to blow people up. To you, anybody who doesn't believe in your religion is a Xtian automatically. What a narrow minded mook you are. 90% of the debauchery in this world are practised by Muslims. But they have perfected the art of either hiding it or incorporating it as a ruling in their religion. ''Religion of Peace ' indeed. Hypocrites! Despite all the problems they are causing everywhere, they still insist on the opposite. Is that not madness? Insanity propagators!
Re: Should Keeping Virginity Still Be Preached Concerning Christian Marriages? by VenumX: 1:18pm On Jul 24, 2022
DavidHarry:
Okay. Virginity should still be preached as the Bible is a big advocate against pre-marital sex - fornication. Especially for women because whom a faithful woman decides to give her body to, must be someone she utmostly respects and is ready to be devoted to. You can now imagine if she had given herself to 1 or 2 other men before she met "the right man". It questions her faithfulness and loyalty in the union. Nowadays women see 10 body counts as nothing. The baby mama trends. It's quite disheartening.

Especially for both men and women. The requirement is for both gender.

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Re: Should Keeping Virginity Still Be Preached Concerning Christian Marriages? by dragunov: 1:20pm On Jul 24, 2022
Ibkhaleel:
You Christians really do make a joke of
yourselves, do Christians realy think that if they insult Islam that will go well with us? Are they so naive to believe that attacking Islam is not attacking a Muslim? So if someone insults your
father and mother, you wouldn't get insulted? Common stop being such arrogant liar, this is one of the worst things I find in a Christian, they come with smiles and compliments, yet they insult the something to which you hold so dear. Now I am not saying that you don't have a right to insult or critique Islam, no I do not say
that. But the Christians are in a problem here, they claim that it is their religion which teaches them to do that, therefore we have a big problem here, and this problem is that their own religion is a
cult and an evil liar! How can a God tell you to love someone yet insult everything he believes in? That does not make sense.

And your religion breeds psychopaths. How can a god tell people to terrorize others?
Re: Should Keeping Virginity Still Be Preached Concerning Christian Marriages? by PharmacyStore: 1:24pm On Jul 24, 2022
Fornication is a sin
Re: Should Keeping Virginity Still Be Preached Concerning Christian Marriages? by Johnlegacy57: 1:28pm On Jul 24, 2022
In those days men marry virgins because they usually marry their wives before they(wife) clock 20. Same still applies in our generation. If you want to marry a virgin forget about girls that are 22 years upward.
You have at least 55% chance of finding virgin among girls between 18-21years.
Among girls above 21 the chances are below 40% and drops as they age increases.

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Re: Should Keeping Virginity Still Be Preached Concerning Christian Marriages? by TotalRunter: 1:33pm On Jul 24, 2022
MuslimIgbo:

Ask your mother

Of course i know mine, you clearly don't know yours or she's worthless like the way you think of women
Re: Should Keeping Virginity Still Be Preached Concerning Christian Marriages? by VenumX: 1:34pm On Jul 24, 2022
MeghaneMorgane:


It is a lie. I have an anty who was a virgin when she got married. Her husband disvirgined her. But can you believe that within one year of marriage, the guy got another lady pregnant ?
My aunt was heart broken and she told my parents. (My parents are like her parents too). The man has left her to pay all the bills herself even though they both earn. The only bill he takes care of is the house rent. She takes care of everything else including school fees of the kids. Her experience in marriage for 7 years now has just been God’s grace sustaining them.

Being a virgin doesn’t guarantee that your husband will respect you eternally. We can only pray and hope for the best. For information, I’m a virgin but I’m doing it for myself and God not because I want any man to respect me eternally.

Exactly, that's what people don't get. It's not about the man who may turn out to be a dog or getting respect from a useless hypocritical society. It's about obeying God's word. That's all.

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Re: Should Keeping Virginity Still Be Preached Concerning Christian Marriages? by wambosamuel1980: 1:44pm On Jul 24, 2022
Let love lead first.
Re: Should Keeping Virginity Still Be Preached Concerning Christian Marriages? by Unclesamo(m): 1:45pm On Jul 24, 2022
SlyfoxxjReturns:
The way some Nigerian men cherish this virginity of a thing usually reminds me how primitive and ignorant we still are in this part of the world.

Now is it a bad thing for a woman to be a virgin till marriage? Absolutely not. As a man there is still something special and cute about knowing your wife kept herself all for you, but does a woman being a virgin automatically mean she will be a good wife, partner and mother? Absolutely not as well. In this regard character and compatibility is ALL that matters. Many virgin couples end up getting divorced due to incompatibility and many non-virgin couples go on to have blissful and successful marriages because they focused on the right criteria’s when picking their partners. In todays society it’s a bit unreasonable to expect anybody above the age of 21 to still be a virgin anyway, so why not just focus on the important things instead?

As regards to churches, that’s a different story. Most regions believe sex outside of marriage is a sin so they are just doing what’s expected of them by preaching against it. Although I think Nigerian preachers for whatever reason focus too much on it and sometimes go about it the wrong way. It should never be done in a way that makes a woman feel irredeemable or unmarriageable just because she’s not a virgin. I don’t think God considers fornication to be the most egregious sin of mankind or that he spends all his time thinking about who is sleeping with who as you may be led to believe If you go to some Nigerian churches.

There is no evidence in the Bible of God condemning a woman for losing her virginity but there is plenty evidence of Jesus being kind and friendly to prostitutes. So fornication should absolutely be discouraged by churches but not condemned or dwelled upon the way many do in this country.

And you did not ask yourself why Jesus Christ never came through a prostitute.

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