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Re: Couples: If Given Opportunity, Would You Renew Your Marriage Vow After 2 Years? by Anuoluwa12345(f): 10:42pm On Jul 24, 2022
Wow .. God bless you!
TheGiftedOne:
I'll go down on my knees to do it again. I don't care what ndi apha males think.
My wife is a true definition of a "jewel of inestimable value"

Na who no get better landlord dey get heart attack for house rent. My landlord and his wife and children lives in the front apartment, but even if I finish my house today, I fit still remain here put tenant for my own.
I was only driving at a point with the above statement.


When you find gold, value and protect it

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Re: Couples: If Given Opportunity, Would You Renew Your Marriage Vow After 2 Years? by Lama70(m): 10:43pm On Jul 24, 2022
BarrElChapo:


Your answer is as clear as day grin

Wise boy like you.

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Re: Couples: If Given Opportunity, Would You Renew Your Marriage Vow After 2 Years? by harmony75: 10:49pm On Jul 24, 2022
The question is wrong if given opportunity ke? Abi if as a married couple you can marry your partner over and over every year renewing your vows? I'm the only one in that marriage? My answer is No �
Re: Couples: If Given Opportunity, Would You Renew Your Marriage Vow After 2 Years? by jojothaiv(m): 10:50pm On Jul 24, 2022
pansophist:
The sad truth is that even those that will renew it will do so because exiting the marriage will be difficult due to kids, financial dependence, and loss of attractiveness. Very few marriages are made in heaven.
At the bolden, many don't know those marriages that are made in heaven need a lot of work to keep it going, claiming or wishing for a blissful marriage is a good thing but you should be ready to also do the work and that's where are failing big time.

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Re: Couples: If Given Opportunity, Would You Renew Your Marriage Vow After 2 Years? by Originalsly: 10:56pm On Jul 24, 2022
moderatorr:


Not true, that's what divorce is for.
Any marriage can divorce any time according to the Nigerian constitution, but only 0.3% marriages in Nigeria divorce.
That is 3 in 1000 marriages in Nigeria end up in divorce, in america, it is 600 in 1,000.
In Japan, it is 2 in 1000, in China, 3 in 1000, Russia, 2 in 1000, UK 500 in 1,000 .


Men are natural predators and predators do not like staying in one place. Most men .... after two years of marriage ... if they are honest... if there is no cost or repercussions ... if somehow the children will be in good hands with no drama or trauma ... and he is free to see or have them 24/7 when he wants to .... ....... will already know who they want to replace the wife. Most men remain in marriage after two years because of costs and society. Let's look at the stats above .... Nigeria.... the least divorce rate..... the country with the greatest stigma. The two liberal countries... where people can switch their gender ..... how can divorce be stigma? They have the highest cases of divorce.... and it can be wayyyy greater if the cost and fall out were not life changing events.

After two years .... to really get a good estimate of how many men may switch.... the question is how many men after two years of marriage have at least one side chic? .... I'm almost sure 9 out of ten hands will go up.... of ten men one must be a bare faced liar.
Re: Couples: If Given Opportunity, Would You Renew Your Marriage Vow After 2 Years? by Asour: 11:00pm On Jul 24, 2022
Mogajunior:
cool

Divorce no longer carries the stigma it used to. People now go in and come out of marriage like is nothing.

Really? Based on what metric? 'stigma' as a word is a vague metric.

Divorcees are still well marked in the society.
They're pop culture AKA gossip fodder.
Re: Couples: If Given Opportunity, Would You Renew Your Marriage Vow After 2 Years? by Bestinstinct(m): 11:04pm On Jul 24, 2022
I'll renew for kids sake.
Re: Couples: If Given Opportunity, Would You Renew Your Marriage Vow After 2 Years? by Asour: 11:07pm On Jul 24, 2022
Yello1:
Some of us will wonna renew, while some can't wait to be out already

Hahahah.

Could you put estimated figures to your 'somes'
Some is vague.
Re: Couples: If Given Opportunity, Would You Renew Your Marriage Vow After 2 Years? by orlaglobal234: 11:07pm On Jul 24, 2022
My own answer to this question is absolutely capital YES because my wifeee doesn't look attractive to me again just because she was soo careless to taking good care to her body after we did our wedding, she was like i'm marry i'm no longer look for men again that's how she is doing
Re: Couples: If Given Opportunity, Would You Renew Your Marriage Vow After 2 Years? by Asour: 11:10pm On Jul 24, 2022
coolxpaul:

In the Catholic Church, renewal of marriage vows is a yearly thing. There's a day reserved for it. I think the Feast of the Holy Family in December or another day in February

Really?

Thought Vows are vows and should be taken for granted as being committed to.
Re: Couples: If Given Opportunity, Would You Renew Your Marriage Vow After 2 Years? by mekybabe1: 11:13pm On Jul 24, 2022
Nope
Re: Couples: If Given Opportunity, Would You Renew Your Marriage Vow After 2 Years? by otabaotaba: 11:20pm On Jul 24, 2022
I will not only renew mine,
I will pay the bride price again and again

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Re: Couples: If Given Opportunity, Would You Renew Your Marriage Vow After 2 Years? by Bluffly: 11:22pm On Jul 24, 2022
pansophist:
The sad truth is that even those that will renew it will do so because exiting the marriage will be difficult due to kids, financial dependence, and loss of attractiveness. Very few marriages are made in heaven.
All marriages are made from heaven if parties involve cn adhere to the tenets but most thinks it is a bed of roses rather for them to be intentional about it. If intended couples watch and pray before tying the knot and they get intentional about their decision, they can always move farther and farther together having christ as their foundation
Re: Couples: If Given Opportunity, Would You Renew Your Marriage Vow After 2 Years? by coolxpaul(m): 11:22pm On Jul 24, 2022
Kobojunkie:
What Holy family? The same which Jesus Christ said is of this world - unholy- and not of the Kingdom of God? undecided
Wetin u dey yarn?
Well, Holy Family is the family of Jesus, Mary and Joseph
Re: Couples: If Given Opportunity, Would You Renew Your Marriage Vow After 2 Years? by Kobojunkie: 11:24pm On Jul 24, 2022
coolxpaul:

Wetin u dey yarn?
Well, Holy Family is the family of Jesus, Mary and Joseph
Who told you that family was Holy abeg? You are told instead that Jesus Christ was born of God's Holy Spirit, so how did you leap from that to declaring His earthly family Holy? undecided

If Mary for example was already Holy why then did she have to become a follower of Jesus Christ submitting to and obeying His teachings and commandments much like everyone else who is a follower of Jesus Christ? undecided
Re: Couples: If Given Opportunity, Would You Renew Your Marriage Vow After 2 Years? by denjjy(m): 11:25pm On Jul 24, 2022
If given opportunity,I will renew her bride price every year...she's the most precious I've ever had

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Re: Couples: If Given Opportunity, Would You Renew Your Marriage Vow After 2 Years? by boladale123: 11:28pm On Jul 24, 2022
O yes I will,it is one of the best decisions I ever made

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Re: Couples: If Given Opportunity, Would You Renew Your Marriage Vow After 2 Years? by coolxpaul(m): 11:29pm On Jul 24, 2022
Asour:


Really?

Thought Vows are vows and should betaken for granted as being committed to [/b]
Re: Couples: If Given Opportunity, Would You Renew Your Marriage Vow After 2 Years? by coolxpaul(m): 11:32pm On Jul 24, 2022
Kobojunkie:
Who told you that family was Holy abeg? You are told instead that Jesus Christ was born of God's Holy Spirit, so how did you leap from that to declaring His earthly family Holy? undecided

If Mary for example was already Holy why then did she have to become a follower of Jesus Christ submitting to and obeying His teachings and commandments much like everyone else who is a follower of Jesus Christ? undecided

Who told you the family is not holy in the first place? How does Mary being Holy stop her from being a follower of Jesus Christ?
Re: Couples: If Given Opportunity, Would You Renew Your Marriage Vow After 2 Years? by Corto: 11:43pm On Jul 24, 2022
Never. The vow done expire
Re: Couples: If Given Opportunity, Would You Renew Your Marriage Vow After 2 Years? by Paramount01(m): 11:44pm On Jul 24, 2022
MrHighSea:
I will take the vow again.

Before you marry, fortify your finances.
make sure he/she has resources to pull together or he/she has the technical know-how to expand resources.

With this, both of you will achieve more than being single. If you uphold marital vows join, things go soft.

Good husband/wife vibes are improved with money.

You think Marriage is all about money?
Ask keecy and funk Akindele

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Re: Couples: If Given Opportunity, Would You Renew Your Marriage Vow After 2 Years? by Kobojunkie: 11:55pm On Jul 24, 2022
coolxpaul:
1. Who told you the family is not holy in the first place?
2. How does Mary being Holy stop her from being a follower of Jesus Christ?
How can a family be holy when God cursed even the family unit when He cursed marriage and man from the beginning- Genesis 3 vs 16 b? undecided

How can family be considered holy when God, Holiness Himself, Himself never declared said family so? undecided

How can a family be holy when Jesus Christ reiterated that His mother, brothers and sisters are instead those who do the will of God and not even those He shared blood with? undecided

2. Jesus Christ said He came to call sinners not the righteous. If Mary had been Holy, Jesus Christ would not have offered her salvation, the same as He offered the sinners of His time. undecided

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Re: Couples: If Given Opportunity, Would You Renew Your Marriage Vow After 2 Years? by Abujason: 12:00am On Jul 25, 2022
GeneralPula:
I think so

Hmmm!
Okay ooo!!
Re: Couples: If Given Opportunity, Would You Renew Your Marriage Vow After 2 Years? by VULCAN(m): 12:10am On Jul 25, 2022
Pls let's see some links to back up thes powerful stats
moderatorr:
Not true, that's what divorce is for.
Any marriage can divorce any time according to the Nigerian constitution, but only 0.3% marriages in Nigeria divorce.
That is 3 in 1000 marriages in Nigeria end up in divorce, in america, it is 600 in 1,000.
In Japan, it is 2 in 1000, in China, 3 in 1000, Russia, 2 in 1000, UK 500 in 1,000 .

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Re: Couples: If Given Opportunity, Would You Renew Your Marriage Vow After 2 Years? by coolxpaul(m): 12:12am On Jul 25, 2022
Kobojunkie:
How can a family be holy when God cursed even the family unit when He cursed marriage and man from the beginning- Genesis 3 vs 16 b? undecided

How can family be considered holy when God, Holiness Himself, Himself never declared said family so? undecided

How can a family be holy when Jesus Christ reiterated that His mother, brothers and sisters are instead those who do the will of God and not even those He shared blood with? undecided

2. Jesus Christ said He came to call sinners not the righteous. If Mary had been Holy, Jesus Christ would not have offered her salvation, the same as He offered the sinners of His time. undecided

1. How does your comment now makes the Holy Family less of what it is?
2. How does your comment makes the Holy Mary more or less holy?
Re: Couples: If Given Opportunity, Would You Renew Your Marriage Vow After 2 Years? by 12fruits(m): 12:19am On Jul 25, 2022
Re: Couples: If Given Opportunity, Would You Renew Your Marriage Vow After 2 Years? by Nobody: 12:20am On Jul 25, 2022
With some new clauses yes
Re: Couples: If Given Opportunity, Would You Renew Your Marriage Vow After 2 Years? by Kobojunkie: 12:28am On Jul 25, 2022
coolxpaul:
1. How does your comment now makes the Holy Family less of what it is?
2. How does your comment makes the Holy Mary more or less holy?
1. Where in scripture is it first written that the family is holy? Whose idea is it that the family be labeled holy? God's or man's? undecided

2. Where in scripture is it written of God that Mary is in fact Holy? Jesus Christ never regarded her as a holy being, so how could she be Holy? undecided
Re: Couples: If Given Opportunity, Would You Renew Your Marriage Vow After 2 Years? by linearity: 12:32am On Jul 25, 2022
In fact, the law should be changed such statutory marriage should auto expire every two years unless otherwise renewed.

Marriage is a scam, how can the same government that make our drivers license, international passport and all kind of benefits and rights to expire after certain duration not think to do the same with marriage.
Re: Couples: If Given Opportunity, Would You Renew Your Marriage Vow After 2 Years? by Vulcan24(m): 12:39am On Jul 25, 2022
Mine Marriage is broken already
I practically hate the woman I married

Big time regret
Re: Couples: If Given Opportunity, Would You Renew Your Marriage Vow After 2 Years? by meobizy(f): 12:43am On Jul 25, 2022
In my experience it's more of five years. After ten years every marriage na manage. Forget all the beautiful things couples say, they're struggling seriously. You don't live with your best friend and you get tired of them sometimes. Imagine having a living, breathing baggage always in your house. You go tire.

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