Calibrator:
Deejay play me "Affliction must not rise the second time" by Justin Bieber ft Danfo Drivers.

moderatorr:
Not true, that's what divorce is for.
Any marriage can divorce any time according to the Nigerian constitution, but only 0.3% marriages in Nigeria divorce.
That is 3 in 1000 marriages in Nigeria end up in divorce, in america, it is 600 in 1,000.
In Japan, it is 2 in 1000, in China, 3 in 1000, Russia, 2 in 1000, UK 500 in 1,000 .

ehinmowo:


Where did u get this ur useless data from. I have marriage and divorce dataset in US from 1800.

TheGiftedOne:
I'll go down on my knees to do it again. I don't care what ndi apha males think.
My wife is a true definition of a "jewel of inestimable value"

Na who no get better landlord dey get heart attack for house rent. My landlord and his wife and children lives in the front apartment, but even if I finish my house today, I fit still remain here put tenant for my own.
I was only driving at a point with the above statement.


When you find gold, value and protect it

uchman:


Am surprised reading all this, I dont think I can get tired of my wife.
My wife is an eagle, whether she make up or not, her beauty is there already for all to see.
Really I dont deserve my wife because she is someone that deserves all the good things of life but on my path, I am still struggling with money.
She gave me 2 beautiful children( a boy and a girl) and she manages my resources more than me that is making them.

If I buy meat in the market, my wife will secretly share it into 2 or 3 and reserve the rest for other days meal so that I wont keep buying meat but she will make sure I have as much meat in my food as possible instead she wont eat.

God knows my heart and gave me my beautiful wife, she deserve to be in a rich man's house and not mine because she is a gold and she need to be treasured.
My wife can never talk back at me even if I accused her, she rarely engage me whenever am sad or something and she is still very young, I never knew that girls of her age will have sense like this.


Few women will act, tolerate and build a family like my Angel.
She is spotless and God will help me so that I will appreciate all she has been doing in my home.

I wont even only renew the vow but I will even give out all I have in this life, just to be seeing her everyday

pansophist:
The sad truth is that even those that will renew it will do so because exiting the marriage will be difficult due to kids, financial dependence, and loss of attractiveness. Very few marriages are made in heaven.

Lama70:
Very brilliant and thought-provoking question.

But I won't contribute. Walls have ears.

I can't fight or receive calls from my family this night again.

Good night.

Orun ayo lasun o.

posty56:
many people are unhappy with their marriage , don't let the yes on this thread or any other platform deceive you ,some men their wife have gotten fat and shapeless,some women their husband is a chronic philanderer ,some men are debt ridden because of marriage

timilehin007:
never unless with my ex FUNMILOLA...I so much misses her God knows... been 4 yrs and 3 months... i still can't get her out of my head...I'm married now wit another lady.. God have mercy on me, I'm cuz of Funmi sweet memories, I'm not giving my present wife attention, I don't show her love, I treats her like nobody... though I don't starve her, I do everything except showing her love or treating her a lady I paid for her dowry and wedded her extravagantly

Asour:


Hahahah.

Could you put estimated figures to your 'somes'
Some is vague.

TheGiftedOne:
I'll go down on my knees to do it again. I don't care what ndi apha males think.
My wife is a true definition of a "jewel of inestimable value"

Na who no get better landlord dey get heart attack for house rent. My landlord and his wife and children lives in the front apartment, but even if I finish my house today, I fit still remain here put tenant for my own.
I was only driving at a point with the above statement.


When you find gold, value and protect it

FromZeroToHero:


I didn't say it for you to believe.
People easily believe bad report than good report.

Had it been I said that marrying my wife is the greatest mistake of my life I guess you would have believed me without any iota of doubt.

Don't be a bitter soul my dear.

timilehin007:
never unless with my ex FUNMILOLA...I so much misses her God knows... been 4 yrs and 3 months... i still can't get her out of my head...I'm married now wit another lady.. God have mercy on me, I'm cuz of Funmi sweet memories, I'm not giving my present wife attention, I don't show her love, I treats her like nobody... though I don't starve her, I do everything except showing her love or treating her a lady I paid for her dowry and wedded her extravagantly

inoki247:
The thing sef suppose be like Drivers License wey dey expire once e don expire if u choose to renew fine nd if u don't feel like make everybody go rest.....

uchman:


Am surprised reading all this, I dont think I can get tired of my wife.
My wife is an eagle, whether she make up or not, her beauty is there already for all to see.
Really I dont deserve my wife because she is someone that deserves all the good things of life but on my path, I am still struggling with money.
She gave me 2 beautiful children( a boy and a girl) and she manages my resources more than me that is making them.

If I buy meat in the market, my wife will secretly share it into 2 or 3 and reserve the rest for other days meal so that I wont keep buying meat but she will make sure I have as much meat in my food as possible instead she wont eat.

God knows my heart and gave me my beautiful wife, she deserve to be in a rich man's house and not mine because she is a gold and she need to be treasured.
My wife can never talk back at me even if I accused her, she rarely engage me whenever am sad or something and she is still very young, I never knew that girls of her age will have sense like this.


Few women will act, tolerate and build a family like my Angel.
She is spotless and God will help me so that I will appreciate all she has been doing in my home.

I wont even only renew the vow but I will even give out all I have in this life, just to be seeing her everyday

meobizy:
This epistle and no mention of how long you guys have stayed married. Don’t add the courtship period to make it seem longer, say how long it has been since she wore the white gown and you wore a suit on a Saturday.

uchman:


You are not in my home to tell me what you feel about my epistle, moreover, I wrote the epistle on Nairaland.
That it is not working in your home does not mean that it's not working anywhere

1 year is enough in marriage to know who you are staying with

omooba969:


You need to rekindle what initially piqued your interest in your wife that made you decide to marry her. Without you and your wife there is no marriage, therefore both of you are like flowers that needs tendering/ watering as required. You both need each other to make your marriage work, just as you need to recondition your mind to the concept of purpose and service.

You both are in the marriage to work together and serve each other because the future is not something you walk into but something that you create.

My 2kobo.

NB: you would notice I didn't mention your ex - she's where she belongs, in your past, so there's no point to make any reference.

newcommer:


Why didn't you marry your ex?

timilehin007:

should I say I lack marital experience back then...I mean, I didn't know how to calm or look away when she exhibited her normal womanly behaviors...I would always respond and retaliate to everything...now if my wife does anything of such, I just keep calm and act like, I'm not moved...I just make my stance clear and lock up..even if she rants from dusk till dawn, I don't take her serious... she will later come back to her senses and do the needful...This was my error with my EX

newcommer:



O ma se o

timilehin007:
never unless with my ex FUNMILOLA...I so much misses her God knows... been 4 yrs and 3 months... i still can't get her out of my head...I'm married now wit another lady.. God have mercy on me, I'm cuz of Funmi sweet memories, I'm not giving my present wife attention, I don't show her love, I treats her like nobody... though I don't starve her, I do everything except showing her love or treating her a lady I paid for her dowry and wedded her extravagantly