Save1soul:
This is a girl I have never cheated on for the 3 years we have dated, I respect and tell her virtually everything I do, all my plans, and she knows that I love her alone. She knows that she is the only girl I am seeing and I have promised to marry her, she also know that I am working towards marrying her.

Save1soul:
Nairaland family, help a bro here, I had to open another account to post this, pls read till the end.

I have been dating this girl for more than 3 years, I will say that I have been experiencing hell fire in the past 1 year and 6 month. I know no one is perfect but the problem is too much.

She have some good sides every man will cherish, she appears decent and well brought up, but here are the problem.

1. She gets angry easily. This is a problem to our relationship because we can't have a normal conservation without quarrel, like we quarrel almost every 2 days.

2. Recently she talks to me disrespectful: if there is any small argument or disagreement among us, she talks to me like her jnr sister, not minding or caring how I feel.

3. Anytime we have a fight, she gives me the silent treatment for days and I end up apologizing even when she is wrong. When I remember her good side, I want to make peace and beg her.

4. Most times when we argue, I try telling her that I am a man and i won't take some things she does. This statement " I am a man" gets her provoke. She complained against me using that statement.

5. She does not want to be scolded, she doesn't want me to complain about wrongs she does, she believes with complains about her behavior, her self esteem will be affected. She confessed to me of having an ego.

In one of the arguments, she said I make her regret saying yes to me. Just last week, we had a small disagreement; I tried helping her recover something and since I was not able to do that, I told her I will still try and her response got me angry, she didn't appreciate the fact that I was trying, that got me angry.

I uploaded a female friends picture on WhatsApp and wished her happy birthday, my girlfriend screenshot the pic, sent it to me mocking me, calling me immature, saying that I am not mature, that if I post 100 female pictures, it won't disturb her.

This is a girl I have never cheated on for the 3 years we have dated, I respect and tell her virtually everything I do, all my plans, and she knows that I love her alone. She knows that she is the only girl I am seeing and I have promised to marry her, she also know that I am working towards marrying her.

Early this year, she phycologically abused me, she knew that I love her so much, so she was playing games with my emotions, today she will act like she is angry with me and not talk to me, when I beg she will calm to forgive me, tomorrow she will continue same thing, until she stopped when I got her in the game.

I will take all the insults, Nairaland family, what do I do here.

H0didon:
So far so good, i can see virtually up to 10 problems there . You're dating yourself if you don't know . With all these suffering you have gone through and you are still alive?? You're a strong wonderFOOL man.
Nevertheless, if by now you haven't received sense from the stories to the comments that you've seen here, then i must commend your folly because it is a strong one. Not even the elder's word can do anything.


Some of una just dey carry problem for una selves. Woman naturally have problem. Yes they do, but the ability to find one that gives you peace of mind is the price.

I'm tempted to say this but i gotta say it sha. You're a ......mumu man because the red flag is clear but because of kpekus your brain don surrender.



As our Ancestors would say "When you see problem and still happily embrace it, just know that your case is beyond the gods"

SavageBoy:
Are you having self esteem and insecurity issues, maybe that's why you're scared of leaving her and you possibly think you won't get another girl or what? Because I don't understand some so-called creation of God

NewSoul:
You are suffering from oneitis i.e loving and commiting to only one lady and she's taking advantage of that. The major disease of oneitis is SIMPING others include begging her for forgiveness even when she's wrong, doing everything to please her.

Op anything she says she doesn't like triple down on it. That "I am a man" that she says she doesn't like. Keep reminding her anytime she's disresctful that you are indeed a man and won't tolerate any of her disrespectful behavior and that you will continue to remind her you are a man that deserves respect and if she can't respect you show her the door. No go dey smile like mumu dey talk am o . Make sure your face is like this

The main reason these ladies take you guys for granted is that you people refuse to give them wotowoto when they misbehave. Don't be afraid that she won't come back, don't be afraid of losing her there are better women than her millions of them both in looks and character . Funny thing is she would start being careful with you and not take you for granted.

Another mistake is don't argue with her, women don't take you seriously when you argue with them. You see that silent treatment you should be the one giving it to her not the other way round . Oga man up jarey.

Save1soul:


Exactly bro, I feel I might not get another girl like her.

GoldenJAT:
So wetin be d koko now? Make we help you beg her? Discipline her? Or ginger you to leave her?

H0didon:
So far so good, i can see virtually up to 10 problems there . You're dating yourself if you don't know . With all these suffering you have gone through and you are still alive?? Op you're a strong wonderFOOL man.
Nevertheless, if by now you haven't received sense from the stories to the comments that you've seen here, then i must commend your folly because it is a strong one. Not even the elder's word can do anything.


Some of una just dey carry problem for una selves. Woman naturally have problem. Yes they do, but the ability to find one that gives you peace of mind is the price.

I'm tempted to say this but i gotta say it sha. You're a ......mumu man because the red flag is clear but because of kpekus your brain don surrender .



As our Ancestors would say "When you see problem and still happily embrace it, just know that your case is beyond the gods"

Save1soul:


Exactly bro, I feel I might not get another girl like her.

Save1soul:
Nairaland family, help a bro here, I had to open another account to post this, pls read till the end.

I have been dating this girl for more than 3 years, I will say that I have been experiencing hell fire in the past 1 year and 6 month. I know no one is perfect but the problem is too much.

She have some good sides every man will cherish, she appears decent and well brought up, but here are the problem.

1. She gets angry easily. This is a problem to our relationship because we can't have a normal conservation without quarrel, like we quarrel almost every 2 days.

2. Recently she talks to me disrespectful: if there is any small argument or disagreement among us, she talks to me like her jnr sister, not minding or caring how I feel.

3. Anytime we have a fight, she gives me the silent treatment for days and I end up apologizing even when she is wrong. When I remember her good side, I want to make peace and beg her.

4. Most times when we argue, I try telling her that I am a man and i won't take some things she does. This statement " I am a man" gets her provoke. She complained against me using that statement.

5. She does not want to be scolded, she doesn't want me to complain about wrongs she does, she believes with complains about her behavior, her self esteem will be affected. She confessed to me of having an ego.

In one of the arguments, she said I make her regret saying yes to me. Just last week, we had a small disagreement; I tried helping her recover something and since I was not able to do that, I told her I will still try and her response got me angry, she didn't appreciate the fact that I was trying, that got me angry.

I uploaded a female friends picture on WhatsApp and wished her happy birthday, my girlfriend screenshot the pic, sent it to me mocking me, calling me immature, saying that I am not mature, that if I post 100 female pictures, it won't disturb her.

This is a girl I have never cheated on for the 3 years we have dated, I respect and tell her virtually everything I do, all my plans, and she knows that I love her alone. She knows that she is the only girl I am seeing and I have promised to marry her, she also know that I am working towards marrying her.

Early this year, she phycologically abused me, she knew that I love her so much, so she was playing games with my emotions, today she will act like she is angry with me and not talk to me, when I beg she will calm to forgive me, tomorrow she will continue same thing, until she stopped when I got her in the game.

I will take all the insults, Nairaland family, what do I do here.

Save1soul:
Nairaland family, help a bro here, I had to open another account to post this, pls read till the end.

I have been dating this girl for more than 3 years, I will say that I have been experiencing hell fire in the past 1 year and 6 month. I know no one is perfect but the problem is too much.

She have some good sides every man will cherish, she appears decent and well brought up, but here are the problem.

1. She gets angry easily. This is a problem to our relationship because we can't have a normal conservation without quarrel, like we quarrel almost every 2 days.

2. Recently she talks to me disrespectful: if there is any small argument or disagreement among us, she talks to me like her jnr sister, not minding or caring how I feel.

3. Anytime we have a fight, she gives me the silent treatment for days and I end up apologizing even when she is wrong. When I remember her good side, I want to make peace and beg her.

4. Most times when we argue, I try telling her that I am a man and i won't take some things she does. This statement " I am a man" gets her provoke. She complained against me using that statement.

5. She does not want to be scolded, she doesn't want me to complain about wrongs she does, she believes with complains about her behavior, her self esteem will be affected. She confessed to me of having an ego.

In one of the arguments, she said I make her regret saying yes to me. Just last week, we had a small disagreement; I tried helping her recover something and since I was not able to do that, I told her I will still try and her response got me angry, she didn't appreciate the fact that I was trying, that got me angry.

I uploaded a female friends picture on WhatsApp and wished her happy birthday, my girlfriend screenshot the pic, sent it to me mocking me, calling me immature, saying that I am not mature, that if I post 100 female pictures, it won't disturb her.

This is a girl I have never cheated on for the 3 years we have dated, I respect and tell her virtually everything I do, all my plans, and she knows that I love her alone. She knows that she is the only girl I am seeing and I have promised to marry her, she also know that I am working towards marrying her.

Early this year, she phycologically abused me, she knew that I love her so much, so she was playing games with my emotions, today she will act like she is angry with me and not talk to me, when I beg she will calm to forgive me, tomorrow she will continue same thing, until she stopped when I got her in the game.

I will take all the insults, Nairaland family, what do I do here.