The ideal age difference between a man and his wife should be between 10-20yrs.
When you are 50 she is 40 or
When you are 60 she is 40.
When you are 70 she is 60 or
When you are 70 she is 50.

We all know women age faster than men, don't marry women in your age bracket they will be looking like your mum in the next 10 years.

Also, save your future children the pain of caring for 2 old sick parents at the same time.

Abi,common sense should tell men that!

the ideal age is whatever each person decides... whether 2/3 years or 40years difference.
to each their own miserable life!

shortgun:
The ideal age difference between a man and his wife should be between 10-20yrs.
When you are 50 she is 40 or
When you are 60 she is 40.
When you are 70 she is 60 or
When you are 70 she is 50.

We all know women age faster than men, don't marry women in your age bracket they will be looking like your mum in the next 10 years.

Also, save your future children the pain of caring for 2 old sick parents at the same time.

What makes you think women old faster than men

What is responsible for old age
Is it child bearing, hustling or life struggles

Men marry women younger their age basically because of respect for them because they know women can be naughty at times when they want to over react

Look around you, you will still see older couples but there husband is already older than their wives

In Africa what makes people old is suffering and bad health

frozen70:

What makes you think women old faster than men

What is responsible for old age
Is it child bearing, hustling or life struggles

Men marry women younger their age basically because of respect for them because they know women can be naughty at times when they want to over react

Look around you, you will still see older couples but there husband is already older than their wives

In Africa what makes people old is suffering and bad health

You have a point.
But his point is better.

Bluezy13:


You have a point.
But his point is better.

OK Naw
His Point is to marry a younger woman to take a look care of him as they get old

What guarantee does he have

Anyway which ever way is a choice for whomever

frozen70:


OK Naw
His Point is to marry a younger woman to take a look care of him as they get old

Technically, yes.

What guarantee does he have

Time will tell.

Anyway which ever way is a choice for whomever

Of course.

By the way, good morning.

Bluezy13:

Technically, yes.


Time will tell.


Of course.

By the way, good morning.

Good morning my dear and have a good weekend

shortgun:
The ideal age difference between a man and his wife should be between 10-20yrs.
When you are 50 she is 40 or
When you are 60 she is 40.
When you are 70 she is 60 or
When you are 70 she is 50.

We all know women age faster than men, don't marry women in your age bracket they will be looking like your mum in the next 10 years.

Also, save your future children the pain of caring for 2 old sick parents at the same time.

The only reason why women age faster than men is because of childbearing and stress due to housechores.
My agemates and people younger ones that have gotten married and have kids now look older than I am. You will think they are my big sis or aunty. I was surprised to see the major changes in my bestie's body all within a space of few years, just because child bearing and child raising
Marrying a younger person will not slow down this process especially if you still subject her to the hard life. It will only give you the opportunity to age simultaneously with her.
If you treat your woman right, get her all the help and resources she needs. Give her good foods and peace of mind. This will slow down the aging process.
You will hardly see wives of wealthy and comfortable age so fastly, except they are subjected to the hard life.

frozen70:

What makes you think women old faster than men

What is responsible for old age
Is it child bearing, hustling or life struggles

Men marry women younger their age basically because of respect for them because they know women can be naughty at times when they want to over react

Look around you, you will still see older couples but there husband is already older than their wives

In Africa what makes people old is suffering and bad health

What's the downside for a man to get married to a woman who's 10 or 20 yrs younger than him? What are the disadvantages?
I didn't see any in your post

akinade28:

The only reason why women age faster than men is because of childbearing and stress due to housechores.
My agemates and people younger ones that have gotten married and have kids now look older than I am. You will think they are my big sis or aunty. I was surprised to see the major changes in my bestie's body all within a space of few years, just because child bearing and child raising
Marrying a younger person will not slow down this process especially if you still subject her to the hard life. It will only give you the opportunity to age simultaneously with her.
If you treat your woman right, get her all the help and resources she needs. Give her good foods and peace of mind. This will slow down the aging process.
You will hardly see wives of wealthy and comfortable age so fastly, except they are subjected to the hard life.

Child bearing is a natural process and house chores is a physical activity.. I don't see how any of these should adversely affect a woman or make her age faster than how her natural clock ticks.

Wives of "wealthy" people who are in the same age bracket with their husbands will also look older than their husbands....I can give you numerous examples.

A man has nothing to lose getting married to a woman who's 10 or 20 yrs younger.
That's my post in summary.

Wait I am 27 you mean I can get married to girl of 20 years isn't that a child abuse

frozen70:

What makes you think women old faster than men

What is responsible for old age
Is it child bearing, hustling or life struggles

Men marry women younger their age basically because of respect for them because they know women can be naughty at times when they want to over react

Look around you, you will still see older couples but there husband is already older than their wives

In Africa what makes people old is suffering and bad health

Go back to the psychiatrist where you escaped

shortgun:

Child bearing is a natural process and house chores is a physical activity.. I don't see how any of these should adversely affect a woman or make her age faster than how her natural clock ticks.

Wives of "wealthy" people who are in the same age bracket with their husbands will also look older than their husbands....I can give you numerous examples.

A man has nothing to lose getting married to a woman who's 10 or 20 yrs younger.
That's my post in summary.

No one is saying child bearing is not a natural process or housechores isn't physical activity, I am saying the childbearing process and multiple domestic stress changes a woman's body hence making her age faster.
If you like marry a woman 50 years younger than you are, once you start subjecting her to too much stress without good food and rest, she starts ageing faster.
You will also understand my comment when:
1) you start carrying pregnancy and giving birth to children
2) when you have your own work cut out for you and still have to meet the domestic needs of 2-5 extra people

Age here doesn't matter, what matters is a woman that will give you peace. U keep on saying d woman will get older than the man, shey d man no fit old again abi, him go be Methuselah. Marrying a younger woman doesn't guarantee a successful marriage.

Olachase:
Wait I am 27 you mean I can get married to girl of 20 years isn't that a child abuse

When you clock 70 she will be 63...does that sound like child abuse?

Are you talking about first wife or subsequent wives?

frozen70:


Since you escaped out from Psychiatric hospital, you changed your moniker to changedman, have you forgotten that madness is inborn in you

ChangedMan1999:




Go back to the psychiatrist where you escaped

Since you escaped from Psychiatric hospital, you changed your name to changedman, have you forgotten that madness is inherit in you

shortgun:

When you clock 70 she will be 63...does that sound like child abuse?

see how you run help me fast forward my destiny, I cut cap for you

shortgun:

What's the downside for a man to get married to a woman who's 10 or 20 yrs younger than him? What are the disadvantages?
I didn't see any in your post

Well we are not debating about the merits and demerits

If a man chooses to marry a woman he is old with such age difference, there is nothing wrong with that if it's his choice

But certainly they don't belong to same age category so whatever he comes across in her, he will shoulder it

He doest want any woman to challenge him but he will definitely be challenged in so many ways, so far na woman

akinade28:

No one is saying child bearing is not a natural process or housechores isn't physical activity, I am saying the childbearing process and multiple domestic stress changes a woman's body hence making her age faster.
If you like marry a woman 50 years younger than you are, once you start subjecting her to too much stress without good food and rest, she starts ageing faster.
You will also understand my comment when:
1) you start carrying pregnancy and giving birth to children
2) when you have your own work cut out for you and still have to meet the domestic needs of 2-5 extra people

You are beginning to sound like a misandrist.
I don't need to be a woman to understand your point.
Commonsense is not enough?
BTW, men suffer more in marriages than women but that's not what this post is about.

frozen70:

What makes you think women old faster than men

What is responsible for old age
Is it child bearing, hustling or life struggles

Men marry women younger their age basically because of respect for them because they know women can be naughty at times when they want to over react

Look around you, you will still see older couples but there husband is already older than their wives

In Africa what makes people old is suffering and bad health

Female biological clock ticks faster than male

fman:



Female biological clock ticks faster than male

But biological clock isn't the issue here
Men too experience theirs and they feel bad when they can't get it right, that's their own biological clock

I hope you understand

Olachase:
Wait I am 27 you mean I can get married to girl of 20 years isn't that a child abuse

Omgoodness, I can so relate to this! I'm 27 as well, and don't think I have any friend below the age of 23. Below that, it seems more like younger brother/ sister situation because there's likely a difference in current life stage.

I don't have a max age though because beyond the college/ unserious post grad stage, we are probably a lot more similar, especially before having kids.

However, I do have to admit there's nothing legally wrong with it. It just seems a bit icky to me

fman:



Female biological clock ticks faster than male

Yeah, but not everyone wants kids, or wants biological kids

frozen70:


OK Naw
His Point is to marry a younger woman to take a look care of him as they get old

What guarantee does he have

Anyway which ever way is a choice for whomever

PAIN lol



Jesus is the ONLY way ❤️

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Since my mother and father escaped from Psychiatric hospital, they
changed their name to lunatic couple

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No wonder, deal with it

shortgun:

You are beginning to sound like a misandrist.
I don't need to be a woman to understand your point.
Commonsense is not enough?
BTW, men suffer more in marriages than women but that's not what this post is about.

I'm not sounding like a misandrist, I only replied you in your own words. Nobody is talking about whether men or women suffer more in marriage. I only gave you reasons why women age faster than men and the things you should watch out for. But you are trying to downplay the reasons, making them infinitesimal to suit your own narrative.

I stand with you on this, 100%.

akinade28:

No one is saying child bearing is not a natural process or housechores isn't physical activity, I am saying the childbearing process and multiple domestic stress changes a woman's body hence making her age faster.
If you like marry a woman 50 years younger than you are, once you start subjecting her to too much stress without good food and rest, she starts ageing faster.
You will also understand my comment when:
1) you start carrying pregnancy and giving birth to children
2) when you have your own work cut out for you and still have to meet the domestic needs of 2-5 extra people

Oya coman marry me.