akinade28:

I'm not sounding like a misandrist, I only replied you in your own words. Nobody is talking about whether men or women suffer more in marriage. I only gave you reasons why women age faster than men and the things you should watch out for. But you are trying to downplay the reasons, making them infinitesimal to suit your own narrative.

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Your reasons are not enough.

Whether with kids or not, women age faster than men.

frozen70:


OK Naw
His Point is to marry a younger woman to take a look care of him as they get old

What guarantee does he have

Anyway which ever way is a choice for whomever

Sorry I understand your pain with the OP, this will keep alot of old olosho or you're not my class unmarried for long. Try marry early haunty so post like this won't pain you.

shortgun:
The ideal age difference between a man and his wife should be between 10-20yrs.
When you are 50 she is 40 or
When you are 60 she is 40.
When you are 70 she is 60 or
When you are 70 she is 50.

We all know women age faster than men, don't marry women in your age bracket they will be looking like your mum in the next 10 years.

Also, save your future children the pain of caring for 2 old sick parents at the same time.

Let those who have ears, hear!

Apart from getting old or taking care of old parents
Compare a 20years old girl and a boy of same age, sexual experience na very big gap . don't be deceive the older a woman the bigger the baggage .
Yea married a good woman 10years younger than you. Because e get why.
My guy she will have no past relationship experience except you or maybe one, but you can't rule out a few fling . But no go marry woman wey don abort 20 times in 4 relationship . na garbage u marry o.

I had a friend for school those days who always find joy in making a girl bleed, becos his something is big ( he's a work guy) . e get one particular girl wey em dey bleed every day ( serious bloodshed o) . the girl is married today to a simp.

Learn from people

Olachase:
Wait I am 27 you mean I can get married to girl of 20 years isn't that a child abuse

Hey bro! Am 27 my babe is 20 and we are rocking the relationship nothing like child abuse unless you look way to old looking than her


I look 24 anyway depends on your physical appearance to the lady my uncle married a Lady he is 10yrs older than and you can't tell unless you're told

Pedophile meeting.

ustanejnr:


Sorry I understand your pain with the OP, this will keep alot of old olosho or you're not my class unmarried for long. Try marry early haunty so post like this won't pain you.

How can I be pained

You are the one that feels pained not me

It's just a topic of discussion not a must do

frozen70:


Well we are not debating about the merits and demerits

If a man chooses to marry a woman he is old with such age difference, there is nothing wrong with that if it's his choice

But certainly they don't belong to same age category so whatever he comes across in her, he will shoulder it

He doest want any woman to challenge him but he will definitely be challenged in so many ways, so far na woman

A bit interested in "woman and challenging in many ways". Just stumbled upon this, and hope to understand better. Not interested in the topic actually. Thank you.

shortgun:
The ideal age difference between a man and his wife should be between 10-20yrs.
When you are 50 she is 40 or
When you are 60 she is 40.
When you are 70 she is 60 or
When you are 70 she is 50.

We all know women age faster than men, don't marry women in your age bracket they will be looking like your mum in the next 10 years.

Also, save your future children the pain of caring for 2 old sick parents at the same time.

Very correct! I am 43 and my wife is 33. We both look so young! At times, people think I am 35 while she is just 30. My parents are so. My dad 86 and mum 69. They are both healthy and fine. Pls, marry someone much younger as a man!

ustanejnr:
Apart from getting old or taking care of old parents
Compare a 20years old girl and a boy of same age, sexual experience na very big gap . don't be deceive the older a woman the bigger the baggage .
Yea married a good woman 10years younger than you. Because e get why.
My guy she will have no past relationship experience except you or maybe one, but you can't rule out a few fling . But no go marry woman wey don abort 20 times in 4 relationship . na garbage u marry o.

I had a friend for school those days who always find joy in making a girl bleed, becos his something is big ( he's a work guy) . e get one particular girl wey em dey bleed every day ( serious bloodshed o) . the girl is married today to a simp.

Learn from people

Some of you will just be talking out of point sometimes. So a girl of 20yrs cannot have 20 times abortion. Or is it all ladies in their late 20s that has bad past. There are still decent ladies out there but they are few. My guy still marries his wife as a virgin, his wife was 29 yrs when he marry her. So person wey go spoil go spoil it is not the matter of age or gender

This is one of the reasons why you hardly see classmates or childhood lovers marrying each other because most times they're age mates.

My ex girlfriend for secondary school don marry one bros wey senior me far far.

My current girlfriend go call that my ex aunty when dem meet, na so e suppose be........I can't marry my age mate.