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Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by xproducer: 4:10pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
BloomingDale: ---- So say you abi? Where did you learn such foolishness? We should look to the inerrant word of God for truth! "All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness: That the man of God may be perfect, thoroughly furnished unto all good works.[/b]" - 2 Timothy 3:16-17 "[b]Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman. Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband." - 1 Corinthians 7:1-2 |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Princewell2012(m): 4:11pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Jovialjune1:When she have already concluded her plans to leave why did she came to nairaland.? To do what exactly? Somebody have already told her that marriage is for better and for worst. Please don't encourage her to leave. Secondly do you know if the problem is from the man himself? What is the evidence that she will not give birth to an slowpoke too if the man is the owner of her pregnant? Happy Sunday. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by mabea: 4:11pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711:I believe the main reason you are leaving is not just that child but poverty. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by BloomingDale(f): 4:13pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
xproducer: Foolishness? If you say so. Na you sabi the Bible. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Eaglesence: 4:13pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711:. Send the child to her mum. That is what your husband should do |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nobody: 4:28pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
dawnomike: Divorce that man ASAP. The foundation of the marriage was based on deception. If you don't, you will regret 10 years down the line. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by ImaIma1(f): 4:30pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Blessedmercy8: Righteous one calm down! You sound like you are perfect in all your ways, without blemish, without faults or ability to faulter It's obvious that the man carefully hid that information for obvious reasons. Cerebral palsy is not child's play. Something that a doctor friend told me that parents are usually advised to eliminate the child at birth. When I go for immunization, I see such kids. I think only their mother or a paid staff can have that kind of strength and attention for them. A 7 month pregnant woman taking care of such a child alone is almost a death sentence. Please have some empathy. We always feel we are right and judge harshly till we are in the same situation. 4 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by mauchiz: 4:30pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
cocolacec:Who did the mum leave the child for? For another woman? Take care of the child, keep praying,she might get healed. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by onome2013: 4:38pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
What old people are seeing from where he is sitting, younger ones who climbed iroko tree cannot see it. If you have parents or your father and mother in-laws are alive inform them about the situation and they will give you the wise decision to take. Don't hurriedly leave your husband because you are already with advance pregnancy. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Kingkum: 4:42pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Everybody is neglecting that innocent child because he is disabled but god will judge all involve in worsening her condition. i would have love to offer myself for any amount to help her but i'm guy and will find it difficult to care for a girl child. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by tunnex190: 4:42pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
How is Op married 2 months ago with 7 months pregnancy? She carry belle do wedding? My one cent: find someone to take care of the child. (one village girl will still collect 10k per month salary if your husband can afford it) Stay in your marriage. Think about your own child too. It can't be all rosy. This is rough time for you but you will definitely be fine if you tell your husband what you want. Not the divorce. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nobody: 4:46pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Bobmarie: She is an abuse victim who has internalized abuse and see it as normal. @OP, get out of that deceitful marriage ASAP. 4 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by tunnex190: 4:49pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Skyview01: If you must know... Most of the marriages these years are mostly based on deception. We just know how to keep secrets more than one another. It's the ones that get leaked we know of. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by ocloud(m): 4:52pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
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Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nobody: 4:56pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
tunnex190: I respectfully disagree unless you can provide specific instances of more than 60% of marriages in Nigeria that are based on deception. Then I would be inclined to agree with you and until then, we are talking about a specific case in point here on this thread. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by EgunMogaji2: 4:57pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
eyinjuege: I learnt something new here because I thought CP occurs during early fetus development. Thanks. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by UjuJoan2: 4:59pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Nozino:. OP obviously doesn’t have a job, and the husband has to work. I’m my opinion, he can take over when he gets back from work. While he’s away, she can take care of the child. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Rajosh(m): 5:06pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
The child can't even do anything for herself and there's no money for welfare centre. What I'm about to say may sound Controversial though but I think it's the best. Euthanasia. 4 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by UjuJoan2: 5:06pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
advanceDNA: You are beating a dead horse. The child needs her mother, yes. But her mother is not emotionally ready to handle her that, especially since she is all alone with no support from the child’s father. You wouldn’t know, you’ve never been in those shoes. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by IamGreen1(f): 5:08pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Ginaz: Same here, i really pity the poor child |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nobody: 5:11pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
UjuJoan2: Please shut up you are so stupid for this. Your brain is filled with noodles. Idiot 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Mindlog: 5:12pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Eaglesence: The mother has cared for her for 7 years while the father of the child has moved on to marry and expecting another child, so she has brought the child to the father so that she also can have the opportunity to move on with her own life. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Mindlog: 5:14pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
UjuJoan2: The OP is not also emotionally ready to provide the special care the child needs 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by tibatobi: 5:17pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711:u need to be wise .. the intention of that woman is to destabilize ur marriage and that is exactly what u want to do now....let me borrow u sense...be aggressive..go and look for the mother of that child and return that child back to her aggressively... If she bring her back 10 more time return her back 100 more time...be aggressive and be proactive don't be defensive in this matter protect ur marriage.. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by advanceDNA: 5:22pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
UjuJoan2: You dont know me...but u want to assume and jump into conclusion about what kimda shoes I've been in....no wahala...i leave that with a no comment....people like you are common here.. You said the mother is emotionally not ready to handle her own kid abi.??.. But somehow...you tgat know it all expects a 7 months pregnant lady...feeling betrayed by her husband, having cramps and morning sickness, tryimg to keep her self and her baby safe....to step up and be available for the kid that needs carrying around for the slightest thing including taking a píss and shít ..yeah right...you are very correct...you sure do know how to put yourself in people's shoes Oga ade...lets dead this dialogue....we can't be on the same page... 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by PraiseHim4ever: 5:24pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
GraciousVictor: Now I understand |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nobody: 5:24pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Madam you made a good decision. Leave and let the man take care of his child 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nobody: 5:29pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
PraiseHim4ever: You understand nothing, the fool you quoted is an attention seeking dingbat springing up assumptions from his ass, believe whatever you wish, that's your problem. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 5:29pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
tibatobi: I will not do it , she didn't impregnate herself it is not like she left the child with strangers she left her at her father house. The have made her together so they should also share responsibility as a woman myself I will not blamed her because I have been with the child for a week it was hell and what about her who he rejected her because odf the child condition and has been doing alone for 7 years with no support from him ? Do you think it is easy no it isn't she deserve to rest, it is now the father turn to take over and feel what they mother has felt all those years. If taking care of the child was easy I just left the house this morning and he is been sending me plenty messages begging me to come back home. So please I have no business with the child mother and she is not my enemy. 9 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by advanceDNA: 5:32pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Melap: As in ...can you imagine what these inconsiderate lots are expecting from the poor pregnant lady...?? 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Housing(m): 5:33pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
mabea: I pray you don't have to look after a sick family member. Paralysis is a big burden on anyone. Seeing someone that his/her health conditions can never improve but only be managed is depressing. And it is more killing if you have to stay with such 24/7. I can't blame her. But it is a passing phase 3 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nobody: 5:34pm On Jul 31, 2022 |
Princewell2012: I will encourage her to leave from now till infinity cos if God forbid any of my sister's husband did this same trash as Op's husband, I will advice her to leave. You can tell your sisters and daughters to stay with a deceitful and secretive husband, no one cares The Op will not give birth to a deformed child in Jesus mighty name, she will give birth to a healthy child full of life, I proclaim your negative thoughts to you, your family, and offspring, amen. 4 Likes |
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