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Re: Why Do Couples Who Haven't Given Birth For Years Finally Gives Birth To Twins? by Mkelv0106(m): 12:19am On Aug 02, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:She was not been interrogated, it was a joyous moment. And if it were to be a court case, whoever is interrogating her, will have to be specific about the question to ask her, in that case her answers will be specific as well. But, it doesn't apply in this scenario, everybody is happy and joyous, and therefore, there was no need for specificity, she has/had every right to be vague with whatever she says. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Couples Who Haven't Given Birth For Years Finally Gives Birth To Twins? by Acidosis(m): 12:26am On Aug 02, 2022 |
ImaIma1: So much anger over unnecessary issue. It's like getting mad because a young graduate appreciates his father and mother instead of his lecturers/teachers who taught and imparted the knowledge. Who doesn't know that to gain knowledge and excel, you have to be educated? Who no wan go school, make e siddon dey wait for online testimony. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Couples Who Haven't Given Birth For Years Finally Gives Birth To Twins? by Kobojunkie: 1:05am On Aug 02, 2022 |
Mkelv0106:1. I said nothing of interrogations, mind you! Simply trying to point out that testifying or giving an account of events as suggested in scripture, is akin to being called to give a testimony or an account before a judge. 2. Again, I said nothing about an interrogation, only that if she was called to give testimony of the same birth before a judge, you can be certain she would have near no reservations indicating IVF(or another method) it was from. So my question is why the same level of honesty cannot and should not be expected when she gives her testimony supposedly before God? 3. Being happy and joyous when giving testimony is all good, but it shouldn't. in any manner, take away from the quality of the testimony to be given, should it? 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Couples Who Haven't Given Birth For Years Finally Gives Birth To Twins? by Magnoliaa(f): 1:53am On Aug 02, 2022 |
Acidosis: It's on you if you chose not to understand what I am saying. I have said what I said. You can keep the personal assumptions and digs solo. ✌. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Couples Who Haven't Given Birth For Years Finally Gives Birth To Twins? by ImaIma1(f): 6:43am On Aug 02, 2022 |
Mkelv0106: Explaining this to people on this forum will be a very tall task, and those that won't get it, won't get it. Somehow they always want to remove the God factor from IVF. They expect people to state it in their testimonies like it is not another process of conceiving. That's why I asked in my earlier comment if they should also be stating if it was a particular sexual position they did or their frequency of sex. Because I know a couple who were placed on some medication by a doctor and told how and the frequency of sex. Should they also state it at the alter. Is it the doctors that make the babies stay in the womb till term and come out healthy? Also, the fact that some others have failed shows that it is not absolute. But most times, it is people that have a problem with the Christian faith or those with questionable Christian values that usually try to remove God from IVF babies. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Couples Who Haven't Given Birth For Years Finally Gives Birth To Twins? by ImaIma1(f): 6:58am On Aug 02, 2022 |
Acidosis: They are disguising . They want to learn about fertility methods from the testimony. A couple in my church shared their journey during last month's Thanksgiving. It was a 10min long video testimony. They had triplets after 9yes of marriage. They shared details including that they did IVF after it failed once. That's because they were sharing their whole journey. It's a choice to go into details or not. It doesn't mean that they would hide the information if someone walked up to them for advice. I don't know what the fuss is on this forum. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Couples Who Haven't Given Birth For Years Finally Gives Birth To Twins? by Acidosis(m): 7:12am On Aug 02, 2022 |
ImaIma1: Absolutely. For many new parents, the journey did not start and end with IVF so I don't understand the logic of the counter arguments. So many have visited over 20 hospitals, many consultants, herbal clinics, etc. Many have had miscarriages, surgeries, many have taken long-term medications to improve their fertility. Along the line, some have had failed ivfs, iuis, etc. So if eventually, one IVF becomes successful, I don't understand the need to give glory to IVF. It's a journey and giving glory to just one attempt won't exactly capture the truth . Nobody has all the answers. The drugs taken, the instructions adhered to in the past, the food taken, have all contributed. IVF needs a lot more to work. It takes drugs (the most important), it takes faith, commitment from the couple, adherence to instructions, it takes serious emotional and financial investments, it takes the woman's body! That someone decides to thank God for a 20 year journey is the last thing any sane mind should worry about. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Couples Who Haven't Given Birth For Years Finally Gives Birth To Twins? by Mkelv0106(m): 7:20am On Aug 02, 2022 |
ImaIma1:I couldn't agree more with your last paragraph 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Couples Who Haven't Given Birth For Years Finally Gives Birth To Twins? by ImaIma1(f): 7:32am On Aug 02, 2022 |
Acidosis: I totally agree. Instead of them to rejoice with the couple for their babies, they choose to make the process their problem. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Couples Who Haven't Given Birth For Years Finally Gives Birth To Twins? by Mkelv0106(m): 7:32am On Aug 02, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Bcus, before giving testimony in the presence of a Judge in the court of law, she most have taken a oath with the Bible to say nothing but the truth and tell all. But in this case, like I said, she has every right to be vague, not everybody in the congregation is even willing to seat through the story if she start telling it. Or haven't you seen someone that did an operation, maybe for appendicitis, and still come for Thanksgiving to give God praise and thanks for saving him/her. I don't see why this case shud be different. So, someone that survive an accident, just bcus they put on their seatbelt, shud thank science, and if they give their testimony and don't say it was bcus of their seatbelt they didn't go through the windscreen, but God alone delivered them, I guess that makes them hypocrite too. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Couples Who Haven't Given Birth For Years Finally Gives Birth To Twins? by CountVersailles(f): 7:32am On Aug 02, 2022 |
Make two of una dey suck each other’s ti.ts there, exchanging crappy nonsense. It doesn’t hide from the fact that your reasoning is defective. But of course, even after seeing all the good arguments, you’ll still prefer to wallow in pathetic ignorance. Na so… |
Re: Why Do Couples Who Haven't Given Birth For Years Finally Gives Birth To Twins? by Acidosis(m): 8:19am On Aug 02, 2022 |
Mkelv0106: You're arguing with the most confused bible "scholar" on this forum. Comparing a person's choice of testimony or thanksgiving in Church with court proceedings?? I'm just wondering, who is the judge or prosecutor on the IVF matter? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Couples Who Haven't Given Birth For Years Finally Gives Birth To Twins? by Acidosis(m): 8:27am On Aug 02, 2022 |
CountVersailles: Grow up, my dear. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Couples Who Haven't Given Birth For Years Finally Gives Birth To Twins? by Maryejemen(f): 8:36am On Aug 02, 2022 |
Ask God He will tell you |
Re: Why Do Couples Who Haven't Given Birth For Years Finally Gives Birth To Twins? by Biglittlelois(f): 9:43am On Aug 02, 2022 |
Acidosis: Sounds personal 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Couples Who Haven't Given Birth For Years Finally Gives Birth To Twins? by Acidosis(m): 9:58am On Aug 02, 2022 |
Biglittlelois: Lol. Not really. I don't know her but it's quite easy to "unmask" people's thoughts online. The op is a good case in point. He started the thread with the "intention" to learn. That wasn't exactly true. Along the line, he forgot his script when he tried to mock parents who did IVF. There's always an ill conceived motive when people come up with this type of thread. The whole intention is to belittle a person's achievement or happiness, especially when they can't find that happiness or fulfilment in their own lives. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Couples Who Haven't Given Birth For Years Finally Gives Birth To Twins? by Biglittlelois(f): 10:04am On Aug 02, 2022 |
Acidosis: I get your point. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Couples Who Haven't Given Birth For Years Finally Gives Birth To Twins? by Acidosis(m): 10:07am On Aug 02, 2022 |
Re: Why Do Couples Who Haven't Given Birth For Years Finally Gives Birth To Twins? by NoToPile: 11:10am On Aug 02, 2022 |
Acidosis: Exactly, why would anybody be bothered that they didn't say it was IVF. People even still do Thanksgiving for conceiving naturally after one month, few months of marriage not to even talk of years. The pregnancy process itself its a miracle if you ask me, all conditions might be favorable and pregnancy might not occur( whether through sex , IVF, IUI whatever) The problem is they have issues with the fact that the testifiers are attributing the glory to God, we really can't help that thinking. They should leave the people with their Thanksgiving abeg. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Couples Who Haven't Given Birth For Years Finally Gives Birth To Twins? by NoToPile: 11:11am On Aug 02, 2022 |
ImaIma1: You are right. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Couples Who Haven't Given Birth For Years Finally Gives Birth To Twins? by Kobojunkie: 12:43pm On Aug 02, 2022 |
Mkelv0106:1. So you don't even know that when you go before God every day you do so because you are under an oath to speak truth always? It never occurred to you before now that the Christian life is an oath - a Covenant/Contract/Agreement/ Bond - you take before God that you will always speak honestly before Him and men for all your days? Imagine a one who claims to believe in God suggesting it is ok to be vague when you testify before God, but not before men.... Wow. No wonder anything goes in your churche, right? . 2. Again.... Wow! |
Re: Why Do Couples Who Haven't Given Birth For Years Finally Gives Birth To Twins? by Acidosis(m): 12:51pm On Aug 02, 2022 |
NoToPile: Exactly. "The pregnancy process is a miracle." |
Re: Why Do Couples Who Haven't Given Birth For Years Finally Gives Birth To Twins? by Mkelv0106(m): 1:07pm On Aug 02, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:First of, the couple is thanking God for safe delivery and blessing them with the babies/baby, they're not thanking God for IVF. I don't see the reason they'll come and tell the congregation how they conceived the baby, they don't own that to the congregation. |
Re: Why Do Couples Who Haven't Given Birth For Years Finally Gives Birth To Twins? by Kobojunkie: 1:16pm On Aug 02, 2022 |
Mkelv0106:Stop and think before you continue abeg! This is about how you lot supposedly present yourselves before God Himself conveniently cloaked in dishonesty. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Couples Who Haven't Given Birth For Years Finally Gives Birth To Twins? by Mkelv0106(m): 4:17pm On Aug 02, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Nobody is been dishonest. You people are the one looking for dishonesty, where there is non |
Re: Why Do Couples Who Haven't Given Birth For Years Finally Gives Birth To Twins? by ImaIma1(f): 10:09pm On Aug 02, 2022 |
Mkelv0106: The prayer should go like this: "God I thank you for the children you didn't bless me with. It was IVF I did, in case you didn't know..." As if God was unaware and was not a part of the process from the beginning. People.are funny here o. |
Re: Why Do Couples Who Haven't Given Birth For Years Finally Gives Birth To Twins? by Mkelv0106(m): 10:27pm On Aug 02, 2022 |
ImaIma1:Lol . I swear |
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