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OwnMyself:
Have been watching you clsoely for months now and have seen how you insult people in here for coming out to save men from being used..

If you know you're physically fit and one on one you could easily take down your fellow man.. kindly drop phone number... if possible your address... Would like to meet you in person.

Pukkalolo:
Greenlight is a sign that a lady is "attracted" to you. If you noticed I didn't use the word "interested"...I only used the word "attracted."

What this means is, a woman can be attracted to you but not interested in you.

Dating isn’t really much about attraction, but it’s more about interest.

We most times mix up attraction and interest. They are two separate things.

For example, let say a lady is attracted to you and doesn't mind sleeping with you, but then she heard from one of her female friends that you are the kind of guy that would sleep with a girl then tell everyone in the neighborhood about it. Guess what? She'll still be attracted to you, but she'll lose "interest" in sleeping with you. A girl being attracted to you is not enough, she also has to feel safe about showing interest you.


Another example...If a woman was attracted to you initially, but then you start acting needy and weak, she doesn't really lose attraction for you... she'll only lose interest in you. Once you stop being weak and needy, her interest for you will resurface again.

Like I said earlier, we most times mix up attraction and interest.

So here are some signs that a lady might be "attracted" to you.

* She’s laughing at the things you're saying even when they’re aren't really funny.

* She just likes being around you.

* She’s trying to create a flirty vibe with you, like teasing you or playing with you.

* She ask you any personal questions, and keep the conversation going when the conversation is dying

* She’s lightly touching you when both of you are talking.

* She’s holding your eye contact or smiles at you from distance.

* She’s glancing your way from time to time when both of you are in the same environment.

* She tells her friends about you

* She gives you her phone number


Green light for attraction is different from green light for interest. These signs I just listed may entails attraction but it doesn't mean she’s romantically interested in you... You can still get those signs from a girl that has no real interest in you.

Some girls have a flirtatious personality and they enjoy flirting with guys even when they have no interest in them, so they tends to naturally show you those signs.

A woman may be attracted to you and show you those signs, but she is not interested in you because she's happily married or engaged.

The Worse part of everything, is Some girls are looking to manipulate you and exploit you, so they show you these signs so they can deceive you.

That is why I say, don't confuse attraction for "romantic interest". They are two separate things. Signs of attraction is different from sign for interest.

Attraction signs are fleeting or can be deceiving...but interest sign is grounded. Which means it's either there or not. There are no inbetween.

The only sign that a woman is "Interested" in you is if she agrees to your desires and interest. This means, if she's interested in you, she'll allow you escalate with her.

For example, If you ask her on date and she agrees, it means she's interested; If she gives silly excuses, it means she's not interested. It doesn't matter if she's giving your all the attraction signs in the world. Take it as a sign that she's not interested and move on with your life


Please, don't make the mistake of wasting lots of time, effort and money chasing and trying to be more persistent with a woman who is giving your attraction signs but not giving you interest sign. Interest sign is all that matters.

If you start being too persistent with a woman that is consistently not agreeing to your desires and interest, you are only disrespecting yourself.

Remember, Higher respect for oneself is the ultimate goal. You can never respect yourself (and she can never respect you) If you keep being too persistent with her despite the fact that she's consistently not agreeing to your desires and interest.

SF123:
How to know if a girl is beeping green light to me ?

OwnMyself:
Have been watching you clsoely for months now and have seen how you insult people in here for coming out to save men from being used..

If you know you're physically fit and one on one you could easily take down your fellow man.. kindly drop phone number... if possible your address... Would like to meet you in person.

Nyascobar1414:
Lmaooo...

Comot dat en dirty teeth abeg...


So funny..
Lol

OwnMyself:
Have been watching you clsoely for months now and have seen how you insult people in here for coming out to save men from being used..

If you know you're physically fit and one on one you could easily take down your fellow man.. kindly drop phone number... if possible your address... Would like to meet you in person.

Tranquility2345:
You wey dey find money to cut out to Uruguay of all places. You dey find who you go kidnap to raise the money abi? You sound very desperate..

[s]Why don’t you drop your mum’s address and phone number first….I can show her how physically fit I am[/s]

Martinez39s:
I don't pity the man one bit. When one ostracizes red pill dudes instead of developing the maturity to scrutinise their take with open-mindedness, I can't pity them when they are brutally mauled by the harsh claws of female nature and life.

COOL10:
Beauty has been evicted for violent behaviour. Hallelujah

Ballzproblemm:
Islam is a religion filled with uneducated extremist ,yeah to marry woman no dey hand cause they're mostly forced against there Will their sorry not sorry , there's nothing appealing about your religion.


P.S:-if you are Muslim and redpiller better skip my comment.

tosaino95:
Ogbeni here no be BBN page

LutherSanchez:
So there's this girl that's my in-laws relation. We usually see during Xmas period and she do say that i have pride as i no dey follow her talk,so one Xmas like that,she come gimme her number. She's one of the CLITOCURRENCY Dem. So last year December she got married to a guy,as i get her number for WhatsApp,it wasn't up to a month,i started seeing some funny status updates and I was wondering like how?? No be this girl wey marry last month be this To the extent i had to ask someone close to her wetin dey xup. She told me that the husband left for Lagos and she had to stay in Aba,and I was like NEWLY MARRIED COUPLE The girl started posting their (CLITOCURRENCY)usual pictures to the extent i had to mute her and in time block her on WhatsApp. Last week she chatted me up on Facebook,and said it's been a long time no see and no chat and in my mind, I was like wetin dey worry this wan,even when you never marry i no dey follow you talk,na now wey you don marry,na e i go follow you talk? I replied her normally,she con like try dey ask whether i still get pride like before abi I don change,i told her anything you wan call am,call am. Fast forward today I went to my sister's house and she was telling me that her marriage didn't work,that her husband was a ritualist blah blah blah,so i was like even that girl sef no normal man wey dey well to do and wey get sense go wan marry that girl keep for house say the girl dey wayward,i con dey tell her say even wetin the girl been dey post after she marry sef,no be wetin married woman suppose dey post. Say na only person wey wan use am do yeye go fit marry am,say no reasonable man go fit marry that kind of girl. She con say as i take reason am no be so another man go take reason am,say after all na she say she no marry again no be the guy say he no marry her again. I just replied her like this,"YOU BE WOMAN AND YOU GO PROTECT AM TOO BECAUSE SHE BE WOMAN,EVEN WHEN YOU KNOW SAY HER CHARACTER AND BEHAVIOR DEY WAYWARD" She con dey ask me wetin i mean by that i just told her to leave the matter that am going home. I just leave her comot.


WOMAN GO ALWAYS PROTECT WOMAN AS LONG AS MAN MATTER DEY INVOLVED,KNOW THAT AND KNOW PEACE.

Tranquility2345:
You wey dey find money to cut out to Uruguay of all places. You dey find who you go kidnap to raise the money abi? You sound very desperate..

Why don’t you drop your mum’s address and phone number first….I can show her how physically fit I am

Nyascobar1414:
Women supporting women..lol

Palazee:
You don't have to react emotionally


This troll is a low life who isn't even worthy to tie your shoe in reality

He's just hiding behind the keypad and spewing trash

Just starve him of attention like we all are doing.

Have a good day

Nyascobar1414:
Women supporting women..lol

Shittaakeem:
After years of whoring, she finds a nice guy who will not judged her by her past.

Don't be that nice guy!

Nyascobar1414:
75% are nice guys.. They so willing to wife her a$$ up..

Dont Underate simps

CAPSLOCKED:
I SHOULDN'T DIGNIFY YOU WITH A RESPONSE BUT THIS IS FOR CONTEXT SAKES. MEN AND WOMEN AREN'T THE SAME. TO ANSWER YOUR FIRST QUESTION.
WHILE A 15 TO 20 YEAR OLD BOY IS BUILDING THE FOUNDATIONS OF HIS FUTURE A GIRL IN THE SAME AGE BRACKET WOULDN'T WANT TO BE BOTHERED. SHE'S OUT DOING BUSINESS WITH MUCH OLDER MEN AND "FENINISTS" AND "WOKE WOMEN" SAY SHE'S "LIVING HER BEST LIFE" WHENEVER HER MORALITY IS BROUGHT TO QUESTION. WHEN SHE'S AGEING AND DECLINING SHE GETS BORED OF LIVING HER BEST LIFE AND SUDDENLY WANTS TO GET SERIOUS WITH THE BOY WHO HAS NOW GOT HIS SHĮT TOGETHER AFTER DECADES OF HARD WORK.

DON'T ASK WHY WE ALL WANT WOMEN TO BE GOOD BECAUSE I DON'T PERSONALLY WOULDN'T BE BOTHERED IF THEY ARE GOOD OR NOT. I CARE ONLY TO HELP MEN MAKE BETTER DECISIONS AND LIVE HAPPIER HEALTHIER LIVES, AS THEY HELP ME AS WELL.
CHEERS.

Pukkalolo:
Greenlight is a sign that a lady is "attracted" to you. If you noticed I didn't use the word "interested"...I only used the word "attracted."

What this means is, a woman can be attracted to you but not interested in you.

Dating isn’t really much about attraction, but it’s more about interest.

We most times mix up attraction and interest. They are two separate things.

For example, let say a lady is attracted to you and doesn't mind sleeping with you, but then she heard from one of her female friends that you are the kind of guy that would sleep with a girl then tell everyone in the neighborhood about it. Guess what? She'll still be attracted to you, but she'll lose "interest" in sleeping with you. A girl being attracted to you is not enough, she also has to feel safe about showing interest you.


Another example...If a woman was attracted to you initially, but then you start acting needy and weak, she doesn't really lose attraction for you... she'll only lose interest in you. Once you stop being weak and needy, her interest for you will resurface again.

Like I said earlier, we most times mix up attraction and interest.

So here are some signs that a lady might be "attracted" to you.

* She’s laughing at the things you're saying even when they’re aren't really funny.

* She just likes being around you.

* She’s trying to create a flirty vibe with you, like teasing you or playing with you.

* She ask you any personal questions, and keep the conversation going when the conversation is dying

* She’s lightly touching you when both of you are talking.

* She’s holding your eye contact or smiles at you from distance.

* She’s glancing your way from time to time when both of you are in the same environment.

* She tells her friends about you

* She gives you her phone number


Green light for attraction is different from green light for interest. These signs I just listed may entails attraction but it doesn't mean she’s romantically interested in you... You can still get those signs from a girl that has no real interest in you.

Some girls have a flirtatious personality and they enjoy flirting with guys even when they have no interest in them, so they tends to naturally show you those signs.

A woman may be attracted to you and show you those signs, but she is not interested in you because she's happily married or engaged.

The Worse part of everything, is Some girls are looking to manipulate you and exploit you, so they show you these signs so they can deceive you.

That is why I say, don't confuse attraction for "romantic interest". They are two separate things. Signs of attraction is different from sign for interest.

Attraction signs are fleeting or can be deceiving...but interest sign is grounded. Which means it's either there or not. There are no inbetween.

The only sign that a woman is "Interested" in you is if she agrees to your desires and interest. This means, if she's interested in you, she'll allow you escalate with her.

For example, If you ask her on date and she agrees, it means she's interested; If she gives silly excuses, it means she's not interested. It doesn't matter if she's giving your all the attraction signs in the world. Take it as a sign that she's not interested and move on with your life


Please, don't make the mistake of wasting lots of time, effort and money chasing and trying to be more persistent with a woman who is giving your attraction signs but not giving you interest sign. Interest sign is all that matters.

If you start being too persistent with a woman that is consistently not agreeing to your desires and interest, you are only disrespecting yourself.

Remember, Higher respect for oneself is the ultimate goal. You can never respect yourself (and she can never respect you) If you keep being too persistent with her despite the fact that she's consistently not agreeing to your desires and interest.

Tranquility2345:
Guy how far with your job search and JAMB? You don pass ya WAEC? Ol boy I go advise you for the umpteenth time. Leave this redpill and woman matter and go focus on your WAEC and JAMB. A word is enough for the wise

Ps: If you need job for Uyo to raise money to collect form, dm me…

heartofcity12:
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LutherSanchez:
So there's this girl that's my in-laws relation. We usually see during Xmas period and she do say that i have pride as i no dey follow her talk,so one Xmas like that,she come gimme her number. She's one of the CLITOCURRENCY Dem. So last year December she got married to a guy,as i get her number for WhatsApp,it wasn't up to a month,i started seeing some funny status updates and I was wondering like how?? No be this girl wey marry last month be this To the extent i had to ask someone close to her wetin dey xup. She told me that the husband left for Lagos and she had to stay in Aba,and I was like NEWLY MARRIED COUPLE The girl started posting their (CLITOCURRENCY)usual pictures to the extent i had to mute her and in time block her on WhatsApp. Last week she chatted me up on Facebook,and said it's been a long time no see and no chat and in my mind, I was like wetin dey worry this wan,even when you never marry i no dey follow you talk,na now wey you don marry,na e i go follow you talk? I replied her normally,she con like try dey ask whether i still get pride like before abi I don change,i told her anything you wan call am,call am. Fast forward today I went to my sister's house and she was telling me that her marriage didn't work,that her husband was a ritualist blah blah blah,so i was like even that girl sef no normal man wey dey well to do and wey get sense go wan marry that girl keep for house say the girl dey wayward,i con dey tell her say even wetin the girl been dey post after she marry sef,no be wetin married woman suppose dey post. Say na only person wey wan use am do yeye go fit marry am,say no reasonable man go fit marry that kind of girl. She con say as i take reason am no be so another man go take reason am,say after all na she say she no marry again no be the guy say he no marry her again. I just replied her like this,"YOU BE WOMAN AND YOU GO PROTECT AM TOO BECAUSE SHE BE WOMAN,EVEN WHEN YOU KNOW SAY HER CHARACTER AND BEHAVIOR DEY WAYWARD" She con dey ask me wetin i mean by that i just told her to leave the matter that am going home. I just leave her comot.


WOMAN GO ALWAYS PROTECT WOMAN AS LONG AS MAN MATTER DEY INVOLVED,KNOW THAT AND KNOW PEACE.

COOL10:
LMAO. Now this is funny.

If you know my moniker here, you would have realised that I never derail. Everything I post here involves TRP. The girl in question is a perfect example of everything wrong with today's women and her disqualification is a victory for every man out there who has ever been a victim of emotionally abusive and physically violent girlfriends/wives.

So now you see my good friend, my comment wasn't meant for you .

Nyascobar1414:
75% are nice guys.. They so willing to wife her a$$ up..

Dont Underate simps