I hate telling married people what to do. For me anytime my instinct suspects my girl is cheating. There's 30% chance she's cheating

Lighthouse50:
How dare a married woman chat trash with another man and claim she's playing along? women and their lustful desires sha. Bros calm down and keep observing except youre fed up of being a man and finding yeye excuse to flee resposibilities.

@quoted
That's how men are caged...being a man...rubbish

How can partners be checking each other's phones?

Wow! Your wife is a legend sha...she go fork him come fork you too? How very masculine

ibechris:




I am married and I think u need to be evaluated to know if u are sensible.

If what that man posted here is the only evidence to quit his marriage,then u the supporter must be sick in the head.
Most of u here are from terrible homes and u guys are always in good mood to see people's marriages in the same situation as yours.

When marriage issue are brought up here,it is vital to keep quiet because marrange isn't relationship that one can treat with kids gloves,therefore I urge u to always keep away from it.

Until u marry,u will know how to respect and treat women in most respectable manner.

The painful part is that when they gave birth to this fool, people gathered to eat rice and were laughing.

Klass99:


Lol and now you are just fighting with yourself. If you understood my post then you would know that while I referred to your past conduct on a different thread, this recent post was appreciated because you are sharing and there are lessons to learn. I cannot free you because I did not kidnap or imprison you na.

https://www.nairaland.com/7282749/how-drugs-ruined-cousins-life#115731912

I just don't understand why people give biased advise on this forum.

OP, this is not a good chat between a married woman and another man not related to her.

Please get more evidence on her. Don't be in a hurry to act. And don't give her any clue that you are trailing her.

Be in your best behavior while you watch her parole going forward.

From your findings, if it is true she is just flirting on chat with that man, then sit her down and let her know the implications of such behavior in a marriage .

If your findings reveal she is cheating, then follow your heart.

Stargurl20:
How can partners be checking each other's phones?

You mean boyfriend and girlfriend relationship?

Pls proceed to carry out dna test on ur kids if u have one..and pls if this is really true..don't ever take her back again .they could kill you. They've been fucking for long..maybe even before u married her

Jovialjune1:
I see no cheating here, sex doesn't happen on the phone if that's what you mean, if you want to catch her red handed, monitor and investigate her movements simple, or Op do you want to say you've never flirted or crushed on another woman as you are presently married?

See dem.. Dem don starr capping nonsense. You dont see cheating there,when d man said she should delete their chats and d woman saying shed be ready for him when he gets to benin. What oda evidence does one need apart from this,or its until he catches him giving his wife doggy before he knows wazap. O reyin di e

sisisioge:
Wow! Your wife is a legend sha...she go fork him come fork you too? How very masculine

Its no biggie. Some women fvck at least five different dvcks everyday.. And dem still dey OK. Ko bewu de

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crackhaus:
Me I'm just waiting for screenshots or transcripts of the chat... Daz all



**Modified:**
Thanks for sharing the screenshot.

Your wife is definitely cheating on you, no 'what ifs'...
Some women will stain your white sha... Tueh!


There's a silver lining to this though, and it will only make sense if you can control yourself and your emotions. Don't let this discovery phase you so much & make you act irrational.

One stellar thing about catching a woman who has cheated on you (assuming she still wants to be with you), is that all the power in the marriage/relationship is now yours.
You can literally have her eating out of your hands for the rest of her life if she's stvpid enough to still want to remain with you after being caught.

So you are not above resorting to manipulation that the rest of us? I thought you were a bigger person? Lol!

Anyway, the only way I see balance being restored is if he has an affair too. When it comes to cheating, two wrongs do make a right. Otherwise it’s just going to keep eating him up. The marriage might as well break up now and they both go their seperate ways.

Romanoff:
Her conduct over chat might be unbecoming of a married woman but you'd need more proof than just the chat.

You're within your rights to investigate and have proof.

Unless the marriage done tire you and you just dey find excuse to comot.

You dey always support evil, why?

Jovialjune1:
I see no cheating here, sex doesn't happen on the phone if that's what you mean, if you want to catch her red handed, monitor and investigate her movements simple, or Op do you want to say you've never flirted or crushed on another woman as you are presently married?

No sense, as usual.

She’s polyandrous in nature , didn’t you notice that before marrying her?

Zonefree:

You dey always support evil, why?

If na you, you no go want catch the person red handed?

Abi you never see where person deny chat conversation?

Romanoff:


If na you, you no go want catch the person red handed?

Abi you never see where person deny chat conversation?

So, the chat conversation evidence is not enough?

Helpout12345:


You mean boyfriend and girlfriend relationship?

Even spouses. I will never check my future hubby's phone, except he ask me too, or in a case of emergency. He should also do the same with me.

UjuJoan2:

So you are not above resorting to manipulation like the rest of us? I thought you were a bigger person? Lol!

Anyway, the only way I see balance being restored is if he has an affair too. When it comes to cheating, two wrongs do make a right. Otherwise it’s just going to keep eating him up. The marriage might as well break up now and they both go their seperate ways.

But that's not manipulation nau, more like karmic energy...

I agree with your suggestions in the second paragraph. He either has an affair or breaks up, OR my personal favourite – he does neither of your two suggestions, but accepts what has happened and holds that power over her.
Hohohohohoho...

Klass99:


Cool
Busy morning, I'll read up later.
Don't return and delete it .

Zonefree:

So, the chat conversation evidence is not enough?

You never see skillful liar first. Na why you dey talk like this.

Zonefree:

No sense, as usual.

Way-ray as usual.

etrouble:


I need to see your medical certificate of mental fitness first because I cannot be arguing with you now, only to discover later that you have been typing from the Psychiatric Hospital. From what you typed up there, I suspect that you may be typing from the Psychiatric Hospital

I too, will also demand a certificate of mental fitness from some people on this website before engaging them

ibechris:




I am married and I think u need to be evaluated to know if u are sensible.

If what that man posted here is the only evidence to quit his marriage,then u the supporter must be sick in the head.
Most of u here are from terrible homes and u guys are always in good mood to see people's marriages in the same situation as yours.

When marriage issue are brought up here,it is vital to keep quiet because marrange isn't relationship that one can treat with kids gloves,therefore I urge u to always keep away from it.

Until u marry,u will know how to respect and treat women in most respectable manner.

continue with your grammar okay? Las Las, you will experience sure too. Are you waiting for op to catch her wife giving the idiot man cowboy before you are convince?

Helpout12345:
I just don't understand why people give biased advise on this forum.

OP, this is not a good chat between a married woman and another man not related to her.

Please get more evidence on her. Don't be in a hurry to act. And don't give her any clue that you are trailing her.

Be in your best behavior while you watch her parole going forward.

From your findings[b], if it is true she is just flirting on chat with that man, then sit her down and let her know the implications of such behavior in a marriage .[/b]

If your findings reveal she is cheating, then follow your heart.

Imagine your own wife flirting with another man. Is this how you will handle the situation?

Stargurl20:

Even spouses. I will never check my future hubby's phone, except he ask me too, or in a case of emergency. He should also do the same with me.

ori e okpe

Potential future cheating wife.

silibaba:
ori e okpe

Potential future cheating wife.

No insult me o. So, because I don marry, make I no get privacy? What if my work demands that? I won't find what isn't lost to my husband's phone, and vice versa.

silibaba:


Imagine your own wife flirting with another man. Is this how you will handle the situation?

In marriage, you don't make hasty decision based on "suspicion" or "this type of evidence". The evidence here is not strong enough for a man that value his home to destroy it.

People have different perspectives to things in life based on so many reasons. His wife might see nothing wrong in phone flirting based on her perspective of life.

That is why OP needs to investigate more. If after more evidence points to cheating, he can do whatever he wants. Divorce is his personal decision then and should not be based on what strangers like us think here.

Stargurl20:

Even spouses. I will never check my future hubby's phone, except he ask me too, or in a case of emergency. He should also do the same with me.

Wait until you are married and your husband agrees to it first.

Helpout12345:


Wait until you are married and your husband agrees to it first.

Lol... He won't even have reasons to invade my phone