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Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by aikyg(m): 3:38pm On Aug 17, 2022
Your conscience is playing games on you. Your husband could not have known. You should just keep the experience in the past where it belongs.

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Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by RedpillAnalyst: 3:38pm On Aug 17, 2022
Love is a scam.

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Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by zeenaman: 3:38pm On Aug 17, 2022
This is not only a sin to your husband, but a sin to God. I'll advise you seek forgiveness from God. Telling your husband is the same as saying good bye to your marriage, or at least a good bye to a happy home

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Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by camsyross: 3:38pm On Aug 17, 2022
Better remain silent if u love ur home and ur sanity.. but wait oo, why some people too dey mumu self? what is the sex position that ur Ex gives to u that ur husband can't give u? Walia I swear we humans are the cus of our problems.... My Ex remains my Ex.. although thunder go fire am any where when e dey...

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Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by OkoRemi2023(m): 3:39pm On Aug 17, 2022
I hope your husband is not the SIMP on the other thread?

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Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by casualobserver: 3:40pm On Aug 17, 2022
daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.

I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).

A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. undecided My greatest mistake!

The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. cry My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... cry cry cry cry cry . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.

When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.

This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....

cc: Relationship matters

No man ever trusts a woman who is unfaithful again. Even when he is unfaithful with you he won’t trust you, I.e even the ex you had an affair with can never trust you again though he won’t say so. Trust me he is thinking to himself I dodged a bullet!!!

These are your options. Neither is good but that is your cross to bear.

1) kept quiet make sure it never happens again SEvere links with your exes family and friends and hope and pray he never finds out.

2) tell him but know your marriage is over even if he says he forgives you and doesn’t leave you. You will destroy him and he will never truly forgive you. We men don’t forget!!


Always severe like last with exes. If you must maintain a relationship with their sisters etc, make sure it is at a distance, precisely for situations like this.

In relationships, sometimes the truth does more damage than concealment!!

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Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by mmyfarmsltd(m): 3:40pm On Aug 17, 2022
Disclose this secret to your God.
Lemme rephrase do not make a mistake by revealing this info to your hubby.
daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.

I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).

A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. undecided My greatest mistake!

The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. cry My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... cry cry cry cry cry . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.

When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.

This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....

cc: Relationship matters

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Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by kelvinklein219(m): 3:40pm On Aug 17, 2022
H0didon:
You didn't marry that guy cos of religious differences but for stability. You don't even love your husband but your ex undecided. You can only deceive yourself not us. You knew all these would happen. I mean, how can you goan stay at your ex sister place? sad. You think we're fools here abi?
Its your husband i pity, he allowed your ex to eat what was left for him even after taking the main share(Virginity) grin. You can never be contented. You don't deserve marriage.

If you notice lately, there's nobody that craves more for marriage than hoes and the funny thing is, they can't maintain it.



As our Ancestors would say "Only a wonderFOOL man marries a woman who still keep in touch with her ex".

a very foolish woman, even to stay in ex sister house is a taboo... Any girl that tries this one weda you don't respect your husband, immediately you got in, saw him, it was already late to go and book hotel, just see story... Hoe,

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Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by Nobody: 3:42pm On Aug 17, 2022
Confess

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Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by drlateef: 3:43pm On Aug 17, 2022
daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.

I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).

A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. undecided My greatest mistake!

The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. cry My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... cry cry cry cry cry . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.

When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.

This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....

cc: Relationship matters



Don’t tell your husband anything. He too will have secrets he had kept away from you, nobody is an Angel. But you should beg God for forgiveness and move on.

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Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by EagleSquare1(m): 3:44pm On Aug 17, 2022
daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.

I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).

A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. undecided My greatest mistake!

The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. cry My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... cry cry cry cry cry . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.

When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.

This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....

cc: Relationship matters
Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by babajero(m): 3:45pm On Aug 17, 2022
daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.

I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).

A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. undecided My greatest mistake!

The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. cry My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... cry cry cry cry cry . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.

When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.

This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....

cc: Relationship matters
one word, Ashawo.

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Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by omoyeni37: 3:45pm On Aug 17, 2022
All this fake stories on nairaland these days, smh grin grin
Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by mmyfarmsltd(m): 3:45pm On Aug 17, 2022
Calm down bro! Shes not fighting with you. she admitted her mistake and she's
publicly seeking advice whether to disclose this secret to her hubby or not.
H0didon:
You didn't marry that guy cos of religious differences but for stability. You don't even love your husband but your ex undecided. You can only deceive yourself not us. You knew all these would happen. I mean, how can you goan stay at your ex sister place? sad. You think we're fools here abi?
Its your husband i pity, he allowed your ex to eat what was left for him even after taking the main share(Virginity) grin. You can never be contented. You don't deserve marriage.

If you notice lately, there's nobody that craves more for marriage than hoes and the funny thing is, they can't maintain it.



As our Ancestors would say "Only a wonderFOOL man marries a woman who still keep in touch with her ex".

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Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by MICHEALADEX(m): 3:46pm On Aug 17, 2022
daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.

I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).

A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. undecided My greatest mistake!

The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. cry My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... cry cry cry cry cry . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.

When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.

This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....

cc: Relationship matters


10years now...

super story

Nice script.

Femi and Yeni Kuti... weldone

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Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by mmyfarmsltd(m): 3:46pm On Aug 17, 2022
Story or not my brother these things happen in real life.
omoyeni37:
All this fake stories on nairaland these days, smh grin grin

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Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by ImadeUReadThis: 3:46pm On Aug 17, 2022
daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.

I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).

A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. undecided My greatest mistake!

The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. cry My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... cry cry cry cry cry . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.

When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.

This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....

cc: Relationship matters

Marriage means nothing to you.

You will still cheat on your husband again when the slightest opportunity arises.

Why not leave the man to find his true love instead of being such a self centred selfish cun.t.

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Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by Henadih(m): 3:46pm On Aug 17, 2022
Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by OBTOREPA(m): 3:47pm On Aug 17, 2022
daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.

I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).

A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. undecided My greatest mistake!

The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. cry My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... cry cry cry cry cry . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.

When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.

This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....

cc: Relationship matters
Proverb 28:13 Says, " He that covereth his sin shall not prosper,but he that confesseth and forsakes his sin shall obtain mercy.
You have been weighed in the balance and are found wanting. Confess to your husband to free yourself from that sin and bandage of hell fire as a matter of restitution.
Mark my word, you will fill the joy after this. Remain blessed!

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Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by ATTAH012(m): 3:48pm On Aug 17, 2022
No responsible women now adays ,,, no fear of God,,, when u see,, women n snake standing closer to each other n u ar allow 2 kill 1 out of d 2,,, my dear,,,,, 1st of all kill girls of nowadays,,, B4 u kill d snake,, rubbish!
Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by Nobody: 3:49pm On Aug 17, 2022
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Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by Codes151(m): 3:49pm On Aug 17, 2022
daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.

I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).

A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. undecided My greatest mistake!

The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. cry My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... cry cry cry cry cry . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.

When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.

This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....

cc: Relationship matters
you Bleep up! What does ex mean? You r married for crying out loud. It's really bad omen

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Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by clothingonline(m): 3:49pm On Aug 17, 2022
The truth is many ladies still hoe around after marriage

I celebrate all the good women in Nigeria

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Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by bigpicture001: 3:50pm On Aug 17, 2022
Babe OP, nomater what guilt happened to u... Plz I beg u in the name of God... DONT tell your husband...

The info is useless.. it will cause so much disability.... Don't try it

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Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by Smith414: 3:50pm On Aug 17, 2022
Okay
Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by 77up(m): 3:50pm On Aug 17, 2022
You people will cook up with a story thinking the readers are stupid. What time did you get to your ex sister house that you can't book an hotel? you both slept in the sitting room and still have sex in another person's house ,not even in his house shocked , madam you are a shameless and adulterous woman , if you see him again ,you will still repeat it.

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Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by Achiever4life: 3:51pm On Aug 17, 2022
daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.

I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).

A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. undecided My greatest mistake!

The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. cry My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... cry cry cry cry cry . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.

When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.

This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....

cc: Relationship matters


If you know what is good for you, you Better delete that thought from ur head.
I dnt hv any right or whatsoever to judge you here dear, but telling ur husband about this now after so many yrs is a very bad idea.
There are some secrets we take to our graves, this is one of them.
Good luck

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Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by Codes151(m): 3:51pm On Aug 17, 2022
omonla10:
Who never fkd up hands in d air.. No hands..

My dear, keep that secret to ur grave..

U need to go with the greater good.. Telling ur husband, freeing ur mind but loosing ur family.. Or d exact opposite..
oga. This one no follow who never Bleep up hands in the air.


There r lines you don't cross.

If you kill some one you go Dey claim who never Bleep up hands in the air? Abeg.

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