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Iykenuwa:
If you see him again, it will happen a second time.


You're a h*e, dear

Madam you are a hoeeee wish your husbands finds out and throw you out. Unfaithful bitchesss

Okafor law happened to you, you should be careful because it might happen again if you get in the same situation once more..... Better forgive yourself and move on but make all efforts never to be alone with your ex again to prevent a reoccurrence

Iykenuwa:
If you see him again, it will happen a second time.


You're a h*e, dear

Stfu ... Ye without a sin should cast the first stone ... Can you ? Get out from here mf

which one thing lead to another....

jeromestarks:
I pity men who marry such a whor3 lie the op. The thing is that, she will always fvck that guy. If That night led to pregnancy, she would have pinned it on the husband.


Many families are having this same issue but the husbands don't know. Those who got married to non virgins are actually training children who aren't theirs.

If you're a man and you knew you didn't marry a virgin, I suggest you find a way to divorce her now. No matter how loyal she seems now, she will (or has) fvcked her ex and one or two of your children are not yours.

HAHAHAHA OGA CALM DOWN NA WHY YOU WANT POISON HAPPILI MARRIED PPLE MIND

It was a very costly mistake , u asked him to bring the mattress to the parlor for u yet u still slept with him there . Why didn’t u insist on one of u staying in a separate room. For me, I feel u actually told him u were coming and he had to visit same period,
It’s best u apologize to ur husband and hopefully he forgives u.
The whole thing doesn’t seem like a mere coincidence to me anyway , cheers

daylay7:
That is your opinion. Thomas generation!

He made a valid point. How do you sleep with someone in another person's living room in a house full of people without flinching.
I smell lies

Who is this hoe

daylay7
Since you seem truly repentant, confess your sin to your husband (Read Proverbs 28:13).

Anticipate any fireworks (Proverbs 27:12) and how to resolve them if they do come up. Be 100% open and truthful about what happened. If possible, you can even go for a lie detector test. That it was a one time thing and it would never, ever, ever happen again.

If he doubts his kids are his, perhaps go for a DNA test. Adultery comes at great cost (2 Samuel 11-12). Open up and get closure for both you and your husband. I wish you the best. At the end of the day, once he knows you're 100% truthful and sincere, I'm sure he'll forgive you.

Nice write up
Nollywood would happily employ you as a script writer.

USELESSS HOEE

jeromestarks:
I pray your husband finds out and send you away. You don't deserve happiness.
For this that you have done, your daughters will never have a happy home; men will treat them like shit. Men will maltreat them and some of your children will commit suicide due to how bad men treat them.

You have laid curse on your daughters. Somebody has to pay for what you have done ( in this life, nothing goes to waste), if you don't pay for it by having a broken home, your children will pay for it.

Choose which is it.

The innocent children have nothing to share in the woes that betide her.

daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.

I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).

A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. My greatest mistake!

The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.

When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.

This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....

cc: Relationship matters

You're very silly.
Do the crime, do the time
You just have to open up and have your peace or keep silent and wallowing in regret and fear.

Muster up the courage and tell him the truth, get your things ready.
You do not have conscience
Do not talk about religion or shared belief
Ask for forgiveness
God forgive you

Given the opportunity tomorrow, I know you will still fucck your ex. Ashewo kobo kobo.

Sex! Sex!! Sex!!!
What's it with this sex of a thing gaaan paapaa?
Does it mean we can no longer control our libidos again?
SHAME

daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.

I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).

A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. My greatest mistake!

The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.

When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.

This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....

cc: Relationship matters

Forgive yourself and move on. Telling him is of no use. Stop judging yourself either, you were stupid and naive. Everybody has such stupid moment. Might really not be cheating though. But move on.

addexx:
He made a valid point. How do you sleep with someone in another person's living room in a house full of people without flinching.
I smell lies

It's a movie script. She (he) wants to test her(his) writing skills. ���

You show signs of regret or remorse and it has been a long time. So it depends on your husband, if you think he will understand you, then tell him. But if he is the type that easily gets suspicious, and who holds grudges, maybe you should not, since he may never trust you and always reinforce the negative thing you did by brining it up, always.

I think you are still a good person but you were carried away, but you should have known. It past anyway.

Don't stay or meet alone in a room with someone you are intensely attracted to, keep the mind busy and focused on other things.

lesson learned

U jus wan knack na y...


Just tell ya hubby about am,, he'll be disappointed,,YEAH..
But tell him and be a lil bit eased

squarelead:
It's so heartbreaking calling someone a queen while another guy is smashing her .

omo!! I love on the island and my babe works on the island she claims to have a house on the mainland werey! Ever time she goes to the mainland on her off day, is either she is not picking or she is sleeping one excuse or the other through out the day.. Were u! Doesn't know I know its a guy she goes to see.. Omo! I'm just minding my business and knacking her and collecting money from her.. Women can't stay faithful even when there met a good guy.

It is obvious that cheating by men is completely different from cheating by women.

You gerrit...?

SisterAnn:
Op forgive yourself and move on. Your penance is to show more dedication and affection to your entire family. If your husband was strong on his suspicion, he wouldn't take ten years without confronting you. Opening up to him might destroy him emotionally and tear the family apart, if he doesn't already know for sure.

Once again, forgive yourself and move on. You didn't kill somebody and if at all..

Imagine what a woman is typing? SMH.

daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.

I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).

A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. My greatest mistake!

The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.

When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he [b]didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. [/b]But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.

This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....

cc: Relationship matters

your his a real man, the true definition of a man.

E remain to send you packing

If I was him I wouldn't have spared a day to send olosho back to the street.

if the story is true oh, cos i have my reservations, My God forgive you, Some secretes are taken to the grave.

I put it to you that, you already wished to have sex with your ex on your official assignment journey, that's why of all places it is your ex sister's place you choose to lodge. I thought when someone is married, he or she should cut ties with his or her ex by all means necessary to avoid such temptations. Now the deed is done and your conscience has been eating you up for the past ten years. But wait o, e get wetin you never tell us; where did you tell your husband you lodge that night you had sex with your ex?

daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.

I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).

A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. My greatest mistake!

The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.

When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.

This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....

cc: Relationship matters

Telling him would cost your marriage
That is the end
As your husband paid your bride price?
If yes in my place it's sacrilegious if husband konew e would die or the kids would start dying one by one
So it's in your hands
With time e would no.
So is either e forgives you if you tell him or loose your beautiful family
Mind you avoid that your ex the meaning of ex is expired is e expired

daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.

I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).

A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. My greatest mistake!

The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.

When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.

This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....

cc: Relationship matters

Fiction.


Are you gay or what? Lol. What won't one read on this forum.

SisterAnn:
Also, on the flip side, how do men even sleep beside a wife he's cheated with her friend, secretary, neighbor or even house help?

Ur type have come here again! This ur mindset is well-ignored.

daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.

I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).

A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. My greatest mistake!

The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.

When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.

This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....

cc: Relationship matters

This does not sound like a real life story

Women cannot be this useless

I disagree

What's the deal with this constant "One thing led to the other" sentence?. And once the fools use the sentence, it doesn't always end well.

MAD PEOPLE!!


YES I SAID IT!!

You are regretting what you and your ex arranged. any way, who Bleep better between your mugu and ex? you can also taste my black cobra here!

Rinoxy:
Imagine what a woman is typing? SMH.

Eat your heart out. What's good for the goose is good for the gander. Rubbish.