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daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.

I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).

A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. My greatest mistake!

The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.

When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.

This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....

cc: Relationship matters

Kill that guilt in you and forever remain silent.

It’s better for things to remain at the stage of suspicion than for you to confirm his suspicion to him yourself.

If you were a Catholic, I’d suggest you go for confession to a priest but I guess you are not.

SisterAnn:
Op forgive yourself and move on. Your penance is to show more dedication and affection to your entire family. If your husband was strong on his suspicion, he wouldn't take ten years without confronting you. Opening up to him might destroy him emotionally and tear the family apart, if he doesn't already know for sure.

Once again, forgive yourself and move on. You didn't kill somebody and if at all..

see this whöre advising a fellow whöre

daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.

I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).

A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. My greatest mistake!

The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.

When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.

This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....

cc: Relationship matters

If you die in this condition, you no go make heaven since you said you are a Christian and make I shock you? You no sin against God but your husband.
Go and confess your sin to him and apologize to him, God will make a way for you.

It’s all in your mind. Guilty conscience wan kill you!!!

And you think your husband and friends Dnt know you re on nairaland

People can lie.

You had an arranged meeting with ur ex period.

You refused to sleep with him in the bedroom but was willing to sleep with him in the parlor?

And then when on intuition your husband called, instead of the call to bringing you back to your senses you switched the phone off.

Thank you.

Benwallt:
You can never understand or satisfy this gender walahi. Leave them unguarded for one minute, they have spread legs everywhere. Haba!

i fùcked my mom's friend this morning

daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.

I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).

A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. My greatest mistake!

The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.

When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.

This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....

cc: Relationship matters

Men are scum!

daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.

I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).

A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. My greatest mistake!

The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.

When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.

This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....

cc: Relationship matters

No matter how pleasurable sin is, it is not worth falling for. Sin is deadly and destructive as it steals your peace. The simple question is what do u stand to gain by sleeping with your ex then other than shame. Since her conscience is not settled, the solution is to open up to the husband and ask for his forgiveness.

Believe it or not, staying on Christ side brings true peace.
If your story is similar to this, accept Jesus Christ as your personal Lord and saviour and save your self from guilty conscience. Jesus saves!

Blessedmercy8:
SMH.. all these dogs in womans clothing.

This is not to make boast but as a single, the day my ex visited, though I had missed him, I didn't let him try nonsense with me again. He too was surprised and said he didn't believe I won't let him touch me knowing how I used to love him.

It wasn't because of any man but the fear of God. How much more If I was now married.

Look, make una dey fear and put God first in everything and you'll never have the mind to cheat on your spouse.

are you a virgin?

Your feelings is not about being guilty but right at the corner of your heart you still have something left for your ex. You are still mixing your ex.

I am putting it to you that if he show up, you will still do it again and again.

You broke your vow. Karma is counting.

[color=#990000][/color] If you still want to keep your family, do not tell him anything. Learn to live with it and never repeat such a silly mistake again. What you did is one of those things you don't foolishly open your mouth to tell your spouse as the case may be because the outcome might be disastrous

it be like say husband house don tire this one. you wan stay alone to continue eating ur first gbola as you wishes. abeg tell him ooo

Really?

airminem:
You need to tell your husband. Admitting to Nairaland is not the same as telling your spouse.

I dey nairaland too
And I don see am

She go regret am sha..not capping

daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.

I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).

A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. My greatest mistake!

The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.

When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.

This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....

cc: Relationship matters

place die with it. Even if hr ask deny. I u confess something like to me, ur life will never remain.

teeshet:
if i marry a virgin, how do i make her satisfy me like a nonvirgin?

You chose sexual satisfaction over your life?
Anyways, let me tell you this. You can teach her. Women are very good learners.
They can easy learn prostitution too.

dchem:
You actually sound like a lunatic. Nothing will happen to her daughters and they will marry great men and live a beautiful and happy life. You just run around with so much bile and vomiting rubbish from the gutter you have below your nose. Go and face your frustrated life dimwit.

No one can walk out of his/her story.
Time will tell.
Note: I am never wrong!

Forever remain silent dear

You kept it from your husband since 10 years ago you slept with your ex willingly not by mistake. I pity you just live by it

Hmmm, do you know what marriage means? let me help you. forsaking all others and cleaving to your spouse.

You for do am for real Esan man. By the time you lost everything including yourself and your children you will open that dirty mouth to confess fast fast.

daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.

I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).

A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. My greatest mistake!

The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.

When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.

This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....

cc: Relationship matters

Samcleffzie:
You are a fool, she only came here for and advice not curse
it's a must your give your opinion when you know you have nothing upper stairs to say idiot

Nobody loves the truth.
I only told her the truth. But don't worry, time will tell.
Nothing goes to waste. Nothing.
Everyone pays EVENTUALLY.

I know you know that I know that you went there on purpose knowing fully he'd be in his sister's house,I only pity the fact that you succeeded in dragging that young man into living with the guilt of sleeping with a married woman for the rest of his life......... simply because his dig fits into you than that of your husband........

sonofyisa:
Mr god continue with your judgement but I hope u are not guilty of any kind of sin cos your own judgement awiat you and will apply to your entire generation before and after

.
Don't worry. I have paid for my mistakes and I will be rewarded for my sacrifices.
Note that nothing is forgiven; everyone pays eventually.

Keep whorring till you are husbandless

Rinoxy:
The innocent children have nothing to share in the woes that betide her.

That's the misconception. Except the children find a way to break the curse chained to them from their mother, they will share in it.
Just like in computer world; nothing is completely deleted. So it is in this life; nothing is forgiven - everyone pays eventually (you get rewarded for your sacrifices or you get punished for your mistakes. If the reward couldn't come in your time, it will be given to your children. The same applies to the punishment).

daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.

I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).

A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. My greatest mistake!

The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.

When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.

This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....

cc: Relationship matters

Open up to your husband about your indescretion. It is better to open up now than to tarry. I was once in your shoes and I did the right thing, I asked God for forgiveness and went to my spouse and I confessed everything to her. It was not easy, but I did it.

Hmm... Replying this I don't know if it would be seen. My advice is that you take this secret to your grave and never let it happen again. Some words are better left unspoken. Good luck to you.

geladinho1:
HAHAHAHA OGA CALM DOWN NA WHY YOU WANT POISON HAPPILI MARRIED PPLE MIND

Those non virgins can't eat their cake and have it.
They will pay for their mistakes. Everyone pays eventually.
Life na choice; they made the choice not to be faithful. They will have to leave with its consequences.

I pity myself alot with what i am reading now.

may the feeling continue to eat you till eternity. >:>: wicked woman. >:>: wetin dey vex me be say, the guy na malo.