| Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by shedy03(m): 6:24pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
Rexymania:
Nobody is above mistake You call this mistake! Let's say Getting disvirgined by the ex b4 OP got married was a mistake, but sleeping with the ex while married and with a child was deliberate. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by EZENDIZUOGU(m): 6:24pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
Just ask God for forgiveness and move on. Men are generally jealous , kill the idea of confessing to your husband, unless you are tied of that marriage because your husband will always use it against you anytime there is misunderstanding between you both. my 10k advice  2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by jaxxy(m): 6:28pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
MatrixCircle:
Never ever try this advice or else your village people are on your tract.... Well he knows so what is she going to do?? He pushing her to tell the truth and isn't treating her like he used too. That's why she's complaining. 1 Like |
| Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by RichAbujaGuy: 6:31pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
If true try to be an excellent wife going forward and don't repeat this sin again if you have a good husband. Remember they say the flesh is weak so try to be strong from now on.  2 Likes 1 Share 
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| Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by phemy36(m): 6:34pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.
I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).
A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day.  My greatest mistake!
The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other.  My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.
When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.
This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....
cc: Relationship matters See why I do advice my gender to flee from every appearance of Nigerian female. They must be avoided by all means |
| Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by sleemomymy: 6:36pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
This bridge is a bridge you should not cross. Now that you have crossed it, it is good you don't remember crossing it. Life goes on sis. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by Danniedpastor(m): 6:36pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
squarelead:
It's so heartbreaking calling someone a queen while another guy is smashing her .
Lol Wahalar |
| Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by Stargurl20(f): 6:40pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
Whatever decision you make, remember that men hardly forgive infidelity, even though they cheat most, and the reason for that still baffles me. I will suggest you seek God's forgiveness and never repeat such again. 2 Likes |
| Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by Shedrill(m): 6:44pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
Op abeg getat |
| Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by Yoighaman(m): 6:46pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.
I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).
A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. My greatest mistake!
The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.
When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.
This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....
cc: Relationship matters As a *HOE, you should know better; shut your mouth, close your legs and live with the guilt. An HOElosho shouldn't be asking this kind of question. |
| Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by Danniedpastor(m): 6:47pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
drlateef:
Don’t tell your husband anything. He too will have secrets he had kept away from you, nobody is an Angel. But you should beg God for forgiveness and move on. Keep quiet. There are men whose closets are clean. Advise her to keep her secret without trying to discredit her husband (whom you know nothing about) 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by iamrealdeji(m): 6:48pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.
I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).
A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. My greatest mistake!
The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.
When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.
This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....
cc: Relationship matters That's why we say guys should always go for virgins and not girls that have been used before. If you marry a non virgin,its going to affect both of you because you would never trust her and that's when love starts fading. It would affect your female children because they would know their mother never married a virgin and she can't tell them not to have premarital sex. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by sheDD(m): 6:48pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
squarelead:
It's so heartbreaking calling someone a queen while another guy is smashing her .
women are bad investment You go hell and forth to make happy Only for another guy to smash her with less effort . |
| Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by Tzar(m): 6:49pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
1. Are you saying your ex’s sister as a fellow woman deliberately brought you to the slaughter? She accepted to host you with your ex present in the same house without informing you while still on your way to her house  ?? 2. Never tell your husband you cheated on him unless you are ready for drastic change in your marriage or divorce. 3. How could you have taken the risk when you saw your ex in his sister’s house. You can use a cab hailing service to get you to the nearest hotel. Or insist you should be driven by your host to the hotel. As a fellow woman she should understand. 4. Can you swear that you haven’t cheated on your hubby again with another man or woman in the last 10years? daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.
I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).
A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. My greatest mistake!
The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.
When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.
This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....
cc: Relationship matters |
| Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by Adext4sure(m): 6:49pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
I have a question please.
How many rounds una go? |
| Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by Ademoore07(m): 6:55pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
Ayomidejoseph:
The truth is, its you feeling guity and unable to forgive yourself. Your husband certainlly knows nothing, so its you who's changed. Some relationship are spiritual ooo. If a part of u is about to cheat, u will know. A friend of me once said that whenever he wanna cheat, his wife will call immediately and he will suspend the act. He always think maybe it was a setup. Honestly, the lady wasn't fettish. They are just too compatible. 1 Like |
| Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by Rexymania(m): 6:55pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
I dey whine the idiotic foolish woman shedy03:
You call this mistake!
Let's say Getting disvirgined by the ex b4 OP got married was a mistake, but sleeping with the ex while married and with a child was deliberate. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by lilyheaven: 6:57pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
abfelicity91:
The best fact ever. "You will always tell more lies to others to hide one simple truth"
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Look at the story, a married woman with kid don't have any other option than to go pass the night at her ex's sister's apartment and her ex was also there to pass the night too. Shey this story clear?
She won't say she went to meet her ex because she think to say she dey wise.
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Even after your husband paid for your overused pussy, you still no appreciate am. Some people don't deserve marriage at all See how you just took time to insult a woman that doesn’t EXIST!  |
| Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by sweetTai(m): 6:57pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
You mean your soon to be ex-husband?? You went and slept over in your ex-bf sister's house, and what are odds your ex-bf was there? Oloshi ni e! |
| Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by Ademoore07(m): 6:57pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
sheDD:
women are bad investment
You go hell and forth to make happy
Only for another guy to smash her with less effort . |
| Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by Ademoore07(m): 6:58pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
sheDD:
women are bad investment
You go hell and forth to make happy
Only for another guy to smash her with less effort . Honestly, i once experience this. |
| Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by benazir(m): 7:00pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
Erase it out of your mind .what happen in the closet stay in the closet..don't ever say it. 1 Like |
| Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by Munzy14(m): 7:00pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
airminem:
You need to tell your husband. Admitting to Nairaland is not the same as telling your spouse. Two things are involved the moment she opens her mouth to reveal.. Marriage will end Instantly or gradually...The man will boldly carry babes and she won't sat pim!. Ladies always deceiving themselves with religion..What is wrong with marrying the Muslim guy she connects with in all the necessary areas? Now her Christian hubby has the little ego left of him snatched by same lady he thought is his Queen  Let her live with it for the rest...If the hubby die tomorrow but God forbid o  , she go dey travel to knack her authentic love.. The hubby knows...Some chill guys are are clairvoyant like that..The moment a babe dey love begins to mess, the will get the spiritual instinct...That was why the hubby called at that hour..Some have the premonition as blessing. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by xtycool: 7:02pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.
I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).
A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. My greatest mistake!
The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.
When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.
This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....
cc: Relationship matters Nobody is above mistake, don't let it happen again. Do not tell your husband ,he will hate you for life, men don't forgive that kind thing o. Keep it to urself .keep ur mind off it, is part of ur past. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by Pinkyposh(f): 7:10pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
Russi:
Service
Trying to believe this fake story where strangers sleep together in the living room of a house full of kids and a smart sister who runs the house.
This smart ex-bf sister asks you to sleep in same room with your ex?
You must've had no plans to do anything else but fx.
As in I don't understand What stops her from lodging in a hotel and respect herself Must she be in touch with her ex or his siblings Let ex's be ex and move on 2 Likes |
| Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by Noblex2011(m): 7:12pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
Olosho.....
Ashawo... |
| Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by VirileNelly2420: 7:16pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.
I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).
A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. My greatest mistake!
The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.
When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.
This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....
cc: Relationship matters My dear, it's just ur conscience prickling u. Ur husband barely thinks same way. I'm among d few da believe da SOME LIES ARE BETTER TOLD. I don't think it's any easy for a husband to just forgive a wife da cheated. Plz let it slide. But den, desist from such act. Sincerely do. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by Basiliun: 7:18pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
You just petended as if it was a mistate, but from your narratves one could judge that you acted intentional |
| Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by Rinoxy: 7:24pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
SisterAnn:
While you are the limpy cock vomiting after eating trash. What a misfit to ur gender u are. |
| Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by VirileNelly2420: 7:27pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
endsarrrs:
Codes? No babe! Cheating is the symptoms of a bad relationship. No one cheat on a person they love okay I beg to disagree... Sex isn't love. Sex can just happen... 1 Like |
| Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by aimalohi: 7:28pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
Some of the women in this our generation ehhh … na God go help us oo… u r a terrible person, u hv conceived it in ur mind and that was y it happened. In d first place was ur husband aware that u were going to ur x- sister’ place to spend d night? Am very sure he did not. Secondly see how shameless and dirty u r to even sleep on d same bed with him in the parlour and even slept with him there in the parlour…. Haba Daz too bad |
| Re: I Slept With My Ex And I Think My Husband Knows by dontrulee: 7:28pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
SisterAnn:
But I just told you I avoided him completely the last time we saw. I had outgrown him. That makes you a cool lady, clap for yourself. 1 Like |
