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He's earning a 100k and wants to settle down. Can you as a lady earning a little above him agree to marry him?

Is it advisable to enter into marriage with such income considering the situation of the economy?

It's not advisable my dear! 100k is way too small. Haba!!

God forbid!! I reject it IJN!!

Jennyclay:
It's not advisable my dear! 100k is way too small? Haba!!

You!!
How much u dey make?

Jennyclay:
It's not advisable my dear! 100k is way too small. Haba!!

So you won't agree to marry such a man?

Ok.

fman:
You!!
How much u dey make?

u took d words out of my gutter.i spit fire like Eminem

Blessedmercy8:
So you won't agree to marry such a man?

Ok.

No, I can't marry someone who earns 100k per month. Why must you enter a marriage to suffer? Can 100k afford you a good house, buy your hair and makeups? Have you even thought of raising children who should be fed, clothed and sent to good schools? Can 100k work these things out? No!

Reject that poor man and his meagre 100k; a better man will locate you. All you have to do is believe and wait for the right man to come.

Blessedmercy8:
He's earning a 100k and wants to settle down. Can you as a lady earning a little above him agree to marry him?

Is it advisable to enter into marriage with such income considering the situation of the economy?

You even see man wey dey make 100k
For this APC regime and u dey complain..
With the situation of things in Nigeria,
Oya leave him
U go mad as many girls go dive him!!
Even [color=#ff4500]@jennyclay[/color] that just commented rubbish above me
Go follow rush am!

I'm guessing you are not earning a kobo and you are only hoping to leech off him to death hence the worry. Well truthfully it isn't advisable since you won't be bringing any financial substance to the home.

My condolences to the guy in advance though.

Mercychen must you bring everything to this site. Can you not make one decision on your own without nairaland.

Jennyclay:
No, I can't marry someone who earns 100k per month. Why must you enter a marriage to suffer? Can 100k afford you a good house, buy your hair and makeups? Have you even thought of raising children who should be fed, clothed and sent to good schools? Can 100k work these things out? No!

Reject that poor man and his meagre 100k; a better man will locate you. All you have to do is believe and wait for the right man to come.

Who be this one?

Jennyclay:
No, I can't marry someone who earns 100k per month. What of your friends who are married to millionaires and driving their own cars - are they not human beings like you? Why must you enter a marriage to suffer? Can 100k afford you a good house, buy your hair and makeups? Have you even thought of raising children who should be fed, clothed and sent to good schools? Can 100k work these things out? No!

Reject that poor man and his meagre 100k; a better man will locate you. All you have to do is believe and wait for the right man to come.

These are exactly my fears cos once somebody enters the next thing is to start having children. With such income coupled with other expenses, I dey fear o.

Tokskob2008:
I'm guessing you are not earning a kobo and you are only hoping to leech off him to death hence the worry. Well truthfully it isn't advisable since you won't be bringing any financial substance to the home.

My condolences to the me in advance though.

I send that condolences back to you the sender in Jesus name.

Amen.

Abfinest007:
u took d words out of my gutter.i spit fire like Eminem

[color=#ff4500]double zero 7[/color] I no understand!!
Put me tru

The question on my mind is how many Nigerians between ages 25-40 earn 100k monthly

Jennyclay:
No, I can't marry someone who earns 100k per month. Why must you enter a marriage to suffer? Can 100k afford you a good house, buy your hair and makeups? Have you even thought of raising children who should be fed, clothed and sent to good schools? Can 100k work these things out? No!

Reject that poor man and his meagre 100k; a better man will locate you. All you have to do is believe and wait for the right man to come.

[color=#ff4500]werrin dey worry u.
From all u said
It signifies that you are a broke girl and have nothing to offer than to[/color]
[color=#ff4500]depend on his 100k salary. I pray everyday never to jam your type for marriage.[/color]
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No doubt money is very key to sustaining a marriage. Infact it's one of the key ingredients that can help grease love. The lack of money can make love go sour...lol...

Having said that, marriage has an ultimate aim which is for companionship. As far as both of you have the drive to succeed and are not lazy and can cut you cloth according to your size then the amount may just be inconsequential.

If the man earns 100k, he has the qualities you like and is focused then you can start with that. Just ensure he has common sense and listens to advise. It doesn't matter if as a lady you earn higher than him. You guys should have plans and execute them together. Just encourage him by supporting him financially. Just assist him but let him be the one to take care of the major bills.

Plan around the money you earn. Don't live above your means. There are pragmatic means you can adopt to cut cost. Forget the pressure around, most of what you see are illusions. Just focus on your happiness.

I wish you best of luck.

Blessedmercy8:
He's earning a 100k and wants to settle down. Can you as a lady earning a little above him agree to marry him?

Is it advisable to enter into marriage with such income considering the situation of the economy?

Well many people here on nairaland will tell you No but the truth is that so many couples are on that level and they are living fine. Just mind the way you procreate

GenderMix:
No doubt money is very key to sustaining a marriage. Infact it's one of the key ingredients that can help grease love. The lack of money can make love go sour...lol...

Having said that, marriage has an ultimate aim which is for companionship. As far as both of you have the drive to succeed and are not lazy and can cut you cloth according to your size then the amount may just be inconsequential.

If the man earns 100k, he has the qualities you like and is focused then you can start with that. Just ensure he has common sense and listens to advise. It doesn't matter if as a lady you earn higher than him. You guys should have plans and execute them together. Just encourage him by supporting him financially. Just assist him but let him be the one to take care of the major bills.

Plan around the money you earn. Don't live above your means. There are pragmatic means you can adopt to cut cost. Forget the pressure around, most of what you see are illusions. Just focus on your happiness.

I wish you best of luck.

Ok. Thanks and God bless you Sir.

GenderMix:
No doubt money is very key to sustaining a marriage. Infact it's one of the key ingredients that can help grease love. The lack of money can make love go sour...lol...

Having said that, marriage has an ultimate aim which is for companionship. As far as both of you have the drive to succeed and are not lazy and can cut you cloth according to your size then the amount may just be inconsequential.

If the man earns 100k, he has the qualities you like and is focused then you can start with that. Just ensure he has common sense and listens to advise. It doesn't matter if as a lady you earn higher than him. You guys should have plans and execute them together. Just encourage him by supporting him financially. Just assist him but let him be the one to take care of the major bills.

Plan around the money you earn. Don't live above your means. There are pragmatic means you can adopt to cut cost. Forget the pressure around, most of what you see are illusions. Just focus on your happiness.

I wish you best of luck.

U r blessed beyond measures

olasaad:
Well many people here on nairaland will tell you No but the truth is that so many couples are on that level and they are leaving fine. Just mind the way you procreate

Hmm.. you think so??

I'm just scared of bills and All that childcare expenses.

Wouldn't it be nice if you have a 100k or more job too so that you can both have at least 200k entering your home at the end of the month?


Lol.....Its just funny how unacomplished, broke people tag others unworthy of them when they are not even worth half of who they look down upon the end of the month

U women should become more hardworking...
and stop making hardworking people feel like they are nothing

stop blaming the economy for your failed state of mind.... if you indeed love someone and care about that person, then you wouldnt mind how much they are earning (IF THEY WERE OK TO DATE and BE ENGAGED TO FOR GOD KNOWS HOW LONG)

their income is irrelevant to what you guys have, whether they earn 50k or 500k

Blessedmercy8:
Hmm.. you think so??

I'm just scared of bills and All that childcare expenses.

I know so.The most important is your hubby commitment in the marriage. I mean if he is not stingy and your own ability to manage what is on ground. And about the childcare expenses believe me when you get to the bridge you will cross it.

olasaad:
I know so.The most important is your hubby commitment in the marriage. I mean if he is not stingy and your own ability to manage what is on ground. And about the childcare expenses believe me when you get to the bridge you will cross it.

Amen.
Thanks dearie.

Yes you can but do not have children immediately.

The 100k is not the issue because things can change anytime.

The issue there is if he's the right one for you. If two of you are committed to make things work then it will work.. after all you do earn something too.

Anyways you have the final say on this matter so do what will make you happy

Blessedmercy8:
He's earning a 100k and wants to settle down. Can you as a lady earning a little above him agree to marry him?

Is it advisable to enter into marriage with such income considering the situation of the economy?

In the ancient times when farming was the main occupation and bountiful harvest weren't guaranteed every year, how did they marry?
It is better you take insurance policy against his pay level before marrying him then.

garriAndsugar:
The 100k is not the issue because things can change anytime.

The issue there is if he's the right one for you. If two of you are committed to make things work then it will work.. after all you do earn something too.

Anyways you have the final say on this matter so do what will make you happy

What 100k could buy 3 years ago needs 200k now. How about that. The poster should put trust in God and not in transient money.

tensazangetsu20:
Yes you can but do not have children immediately.

Hmm.. he's 40 and I'm already 41.
When are we now going to start having children if we still delay?

RepoMan007:
What 100k could buy 3 years ago needs 200k now. How about that. The poster should put trust in God and not in transient money.

Exactly my point.

garriAndsugar:
The 100k is not the issue because things can change anytime.

The issue there is if he's the right one for you. If two of you are committed to make things work then it will work.. after all you do earn something too.

Anyways you have the final say on this matter so do what will make you happy

Ok.

Blessedmercy8:
Hmm.. he's 40 and I'm already 41.
When are we now going to start having children if we still delay?



Exactly my point.



Ok.

You guys are in your 40s nna men.

GenderMix:
No doubt money is very key to sustaining a marriage. Infact it's one of the key ingredients that can help grease love. The lack of money can make love go sour...lol...

Having said that, marriage has an ultimate aim which is for companionship. As far as both of you have the drive to succeed and are not lazy and can cut you cloth according to your size then the amount may just be inconsequential.

If the man earns 100k, he has the qualities you like and is focused then you can start with that. Just ensure he has common sense and listens to advise. It doesn't matter if as a lady you earn higher than him. You guys should have plans and execute them together. Just encourage him by supporting him financially. Just assist him but let him be the one to take care of the major bills.

Plan around the money you earn. Don't live above your means. There are pragmatic means you can adopt to cut cost. Forget the pressure around, most of what you see are illusions. Just focus on your happiness.

I wish you best of luck.

OP, this is the advise you need. And ignore that teenager up there.

tensazangetsu20:
You guys are in your 40s nna men.

We are not old abeg.

He still looks hot and I'm still popping, Biko. .