₦airaland Forum

ubunja:
yes boss!

it will always be men's weakness to make their woman their everything.
Women themselves know how to break their needs and spread them over many guys, so when they lose their main guy they only suffer a little. A woman will have one guy for money, another for sex, another for comfort, another for life advice, etc. If she breaks up with her BF she's not losing sex, she's not losing money, she's not losing life advice-- just love. Hence she can bounce back faster and feels less of a heartbreak.

But men.... When a man gets a GF he drops everything for her, and makes her his everything: sex? GF.
advice? GF
Comfort? GF
Love? GF
Best friend? GF
Next of Kin? GF

In the event of a breakup,, when the man loses his GF, he loses EVERYTHING. He loses his best friend, his advisor, his sex partner, his comforter--- all in one go. Hence men suffer breakups harder than women. They allow the GF too much monopoly in all parts of their life. And this really needs to change.

Men better learn to spread their needs over many people and stop putting everything on their woman. Many men can't even maintain any relationship with a female once they get a GF,, no matter what role that female played, she's dropped as soon as the man has a GF. Its a loser move.

Don't center everything around your woman for sure.

Hope your weekend is going nicely man.

CaveAdullam:
1. It is an evolutionary instinct. The egg is expensive and sperm is cheap. Recent data still have it that men engage in dangerous affairs just to secure mates. Muscular strength and risky adventures are peculiar to the male gender because they want to secure territories that correlate with having more mates.

2. Men have a slightly lower life expectancy than women. Sperm is produced in millions for a reason. This is the reason why men go extreme in attaining status so that they can take advantage of an expensive ovum because it doesn't wait for any man and will soon expire - menopause.

3. Remember: what every species cares for is survival and reproduction in the genetic pool. If you can't survive today, you will not be around in the next 100 years via your pedigree. Men are simps for a reason.

4. Evolutionary instinct which took millions of years to be ingrained inside the feminine psyche cannot be obliterated within a short window period. It will take millions of years again to undergo another rewiring. Take note: evolution by natural selection is slow, gradual, and only takes place when a species is threatened. If women are comfortable in this contemporary age, that instinct remains.

5. There are a lot of changes in our society today, and we do expect humans to accustom to those changes while neglecting our biological makeup. If we don't study the effects of genes on behaviors we will continue to murmur and push blames. It is not all about genetic code and make up, but it is the king at the top of the ladder. Environmental influences cannot be left behind. Both are allies.

6. What we see in our contemporary age makes the feminine nature expresses itself unrelenting.

A. Woke culture has emasculated men. And women are not after these men but masculine men.

B. Marriage laws and customs cater the feminine propaganda. Women always get what they want from the government/family law.

C. In the global south, Africa to be precise, where poverty reigns and rules, women don't go for men lower than them or even at the same level as them. She doesn't because of her maternal instinct: the egg is expensive. Selling it at a cheap price will be a pain on her nerves when she discovers along the way that there are other higher bidders. This is the economics of sex. And it is while women always filter men in search of the highest bidder, however, her fertility and eggs are at risk.

D. Based on this economics of sex, men don't mind going to the extreme to secure eggs because they know that they too are at a disadvantage if they don't spread their million sperms.

E. Here lies the concept of feminine entitlement mentality, feminine hubris, and belligerence. Since both the highest and lowest bidder of eggs wants children and sex, they don't care for self-development. Same behavior of marketers when they discover that their products are in high demand in the market. Women are good business men.

7. Social media is another tool in the hands of these beautiful creatures called women. They now have leeway to scout for higher bidders on different geographical terrain within the comfort of their bedrooms.

There are 80% men at the bottom, and women will never consider them but gravitate towards the 20% of men at the top of the hierarchy. This sexual market deregulation is a result of the inequality in the economy.

If you find women around this 80% men, it is because they haven't found any higher bidder opportunity despite the economic instability. A woman always wants something higher and better than her.

8. What about the withdrawal of marriage right from traditional laws and religion to the state. These which have acted as a benchmark to checkmate women have been vitiated.

Feminine nature is amoral, but if the bulwark of morality and tradition is stripped away from her in addition to the porous economic and political, and social terrain, they cannot be expected to play calm and reasonable.

9. Women who choose to stay and build with a man from the bottom have already projected into the future and know that their man is prospective. However, at risk of her fertility which will culminate in a successful adventure if her man succeeds.

These women are outliers, they stake their odds on the national kerfuffles that prevail. These are the women who have strong patriarchy surrounding them and have developed themselves in feminity, character, modesty, kindness, humility, and respect.

These women may lose in the reproductive game (nobody can predict the future) but they will win based on personality and character - these are the kind of women men want to deal with. Unlike her inconsiderate counterpart that couldn't place a hold on her hypergamous instinct, she will lose both ends.

10. If men don't value their commitment these narcissistic women will never self-develop. These women will always win anytime or day.

11. If the economic inequality doesn't reduce to a minimum, creating a chance for men to utilize their potential, be creative, powerful, and become successful, women will be contemptuous of 80% of men. Men will simp. And women will never self-develop and still win.

Thanks.

CaveAdullam:
DAY 233, REDPILL 2022



Authority: Keep yourself safe.

Intelligentguy5:
Lol @ LifestyleTonite that’s Harvey from suits and not Gabriel.

Regarding making it before chasing girls, it’s only when you have nothing that you can find genuine love/interest. You don’t want to be the guy who is only desired because he is doing well. You would just be fulfilling someone’s mating strategy.

The richer I get, the less likely I’d deal with women. Same way, the better dressed I am, the less likely it is for me to approach women.

I guess I hate to be someone’s catch.

Reminderz:
guy...

CaveAdullam:
"Wetin happen bros...why you wan drag me and do vawulence...i neva chop abeg".

LifestyleTonite:
Hmm.

My initial post was deleted by anti-spam bot because of the way I uploaded the photos.

Anyway, I was right when I called the guy in the Suits series Gabriel Macht because that's his real name. He only starred as Harvey Spector. Now, let me see if I can recall my initial post.

It is good for a man to dress masculine. I've always been known to dress casually masculine i.e jeans, fitted shirts and boots just as seen in the photo below. I always got compliments from my boss who said I dressed like a westerner. However, I decided to up my game by getting a collection of three-piece suits. The day I wore one to the courtroom(not a lawyer), my day was awesome. First, it was a guy that called me a pastor, perhaps due to the fact that pastors love suits. As soon as I stepped into the courtroom, two women in their late 50s started staring at me. The look in their eyes told that they wished they were younger and single to nab me. I later decided to get something across the street. While trying to cross the road, a man parked his car and offered me a ride. Did the suit play a role in his decision? Let's continue. I met another guy who was seated somewhere. This guy was like, "nice suit man," with a smile of joy on his face.

Got to the office and I was the darling of the day as I got compliments from left and right. Everyone who saw me viewed me in an extraordinary way which I could tell from their gaze and comments. When my boss showed up, he was wowed that he made me stand up and told the entire hall in a loud voice that this was a good example for others to follow. Man said I looked daper and asked for when we'll go shopping for suits. He had always bugged me to take him to where I got my boots. My prestige got boosted among the ladies both married and single who had always stylishly and boldly had a thing for me. Apart from the suits looking nice, my physique, due to light workouts contributed a lot. I kind of like looked like John Wick.

So, my game now is to rock suits like Gabriel Macht and Jon Hamm in the hit series 'Suits' and 'Mad Men' respectively, and not to forget John Wick. My style henceforth is what you see in the photos below.

@Bold

You can find love whether you are broke or rich. All you have to do is look well. Most importantly, if you are attractive like the men below, love won't be difficult for you to find because ladies want a good looking man so their children will look good. That's just what they want. This enables their lineage to progress. The reason why many men are swallowing the Red Pill is because women are rejecting and not choosing them because of their looks. Ask yourself, who are the women choosing? 80 percent of women are choosing just 20 percent of men. This means the 20 percent men have varieties to choose from.

Anyway, the below is my game henceforth. However, you still need the face to match because no matter how expensive a suit is, if you put it on a frog, it will just be overcompensating.

monerozi5590:
LifeStyleTonite, i agree 100% with what you said. Looking good always gives you confidence.

ubunja:
fashion and style been missing from this thread for sure. It's true,, clothes add to your overall sex appeal.

But as with everything fashion and style, dressing up has its rules. And if you follow the rules, people who know fashion will respond positively cause they see you're a man of taste.
For example here's a fashion rule that's good to know:all leathers must match
- the leather of your wristwatch band must match the leather of your belt, the leather of your wallet, the leather of your shoes and the leather of your hat and jacket (if any). The shades may differ but the colour has to be the same, eg brown leather shoes will go with a brown leather belt and a brown wallet etc.

Bro if you're into fashion and style consider making regular contributions. Especially on suits,, shoes and headgear.

LifestyleTonite:
.... The reason why many men are swallowing the Red Pill is because women are rejecting and not choosing them because of their looks....

LifestyleTonite:
@Bold

Exactly. Guys should also share positive things going on in their life so as to encourage others to follow their path.

The thread gets boring and doesn't achieve the result of changing men's lives when it's mostly about bashing women. Guys should step up, improve their lives and see how they will move away from the complainers to the explainers.

ubunja:
for real. We can do better. At least you're now here with something different and positive.

ubunja:
for real. We can do better. At least you're now here with something different and positive.

TRADELYN:
Let me share a little.

A good fashion sense starts from your skin health.

The skin is the largest external organ of the human body.
If you want to look fresh, do the following:
1. Detoxify your body every week at least. Lemon and bitter leaf juice is enough.
2. Cut down or get rid of sugar consumption regularly.
3. Take adequate clean water.
4. Take more of nuts, legumes than carbs regularly.
5. Take cod liver oil, liver, chicken or fish from the sea (not farmed fish).
6. Sleep well every night.
7. Cut down on salt as well.
8. Eat plenty fresh greens: vegetables and fruits etc.
9. Avoid sun exposure especially from 10a to 4pm.
10. Apply egg yolk on your face or bathe with waste water used for washing raw rice.

Come back and thank me after 2 weeks.

TRADELYN:
Let me share a little.

A good fashion sense starts from your skin health.

The skin is the largest external organ of the human body.
If you want to look fresh, do the following:
1. Detoxify your body every week at least. Lemon and bitter leaf juice is enough.
2. Cut down or get rid of sugar consumption regularly.
3. Take adequate clean water.
4. Take more of nuts, legumes than carbs regularly.
5. Take cod liver oil, liver, chicken or fish from the sea (not farmed fish).
6. Sleep well every night.
7. Cut down on salt as well.
8. Eat plenty fresh greens: vegetables and fruits etc.
9. Avoid sun exposure especially from 10a to 4pm.
10. Apply egg yolk on your face or bathe with waste water used for washing raw rice.

Come back and thank me after 2 weeks.

ubunja:
you'll have to post more and break down each point in turn. For example point 1) detoxify using lemon etc, That's rather vague. Would be nice to get the the breakdown. How do you exactly mix these ingredients? Is anything boiled?what are the measurements and so on and so on.

Etc

Ballzproblemm:
black widow star Florence Pugh breaks up with her 47 years old boyfriend , I knew it was coming to this ,ever since I saw an article with a fellow hot actor William poulter ,I knew she was going to leave the man,the man that housed her when she was still an upcoming actress, relationship was moving smoothly then she landed black widow . women eh , they'll leave as soon as they level up suddenly they're to good for you .


very ruthless specie. ,as a man practice hypergamy too.

DieRich5:
Single mother telling her daughter

Really alot of girls watching this movie will likely do wat she said if dem never started it b4


Movie: first love (2022)
I download it cus of my boy in it, if u don watch "after" movie u will know the boy

Light999333:
99% of divorces initiated by women happened because the woman went up a level while in that marriage. Those who have the core ideas of the redpill ingrained in their consciousness, cannot love wholeheartedly. Even when such a man loves, he always reminds himself about the word hypergamy. The reason women hate the redpill so much is because they know that the messages of the redpill has truly truly great potentials of preventing men from empowering them. An empowered woman is a woman who can challenge your authority as a man, who can walk out of her marriage happily, who can go Bleep whoever she wants. The men who are the perfect fit for the women of our times are the Talibans. The extremist Muslims actually understand lots of things about women that the westernized men do not know about. When they deal with women, they show no mercy. The women understand the kind of men they are dealing with, and they are always on their best behaviours. In the middle east, most divorces are initiated by men, not by the women. As it should be.

CaveAdullam:
DAY 228, REDPILL 2022

If sh!t hits the fan today, how many will stay close?

This should inform you about the people you should be bothered about.

Will any woman touch you with a 5m pole?
Will any man comfort and stay close to you?

Check and analyze for these people, rather than waste your time and energy on those that matter superficially.

Authority: Be wise.

ubunja:
80/20 is in full effect. women are congregating around a few men to the exclusion of the majority. at least in the west. (see the 2 pics below) but this is nothing the red pill didn't predict. we been saying this for years. women want money from men but at the same time women have made the government their provider and have also become financially independent, so no one must be surprised men are becoming increasingly single. this is also why I've never subscribed to that "You don't need women to be a man just succeed and you're a man". nope. success without women is always a miserable existence for men cause they get lonely easy.
in all my writings I've never talked about sexual temperance and sexual control cause I've always operated from the viewpoint that most men are struggling to get sex and telling someone who's starving for puccy to deal with puccy in moderation has always been hilarious to me--- how you gonna be moderate and have self control around women when you're not getting any women to begin with?

what most men need is women, especially sex. that's what male loneliness is all about. it's also why for ages, even before that article on THE RISE OF SINGLE LONELY MEN came out, I put that display picture on my profile that explains what male loneliness is.

even before that article came out,, I knew a lot of men were lonely, that is, not getting sex. and it's funny how a lot of men don't wanna hear anything about sex and will go to great lengths to call you shallow and desperate for always talking about sex and not other nobler things like building your career etc,, but the same men, after building themselves find that women are not exactly streaming to them, and they're left lonely with all their achievements. as said article has revealed.

hypergamy declares women want someone who makes more than them,, yet the same women are screwing nobodies and getting pregnant for nobodies. how do you reconcile the two?
well hypergamy IS NOT sexual. what turns a woman on is the same regardless of a man's financial position. if a woman is turned on by muscles, she'll be turned on by muscles regardless of the guy's job status - just that if muscle guy is top achieving, a woman will deal with him PUBLICLY,,but if he's a broke failure, the woman will deal with him SECRETLY. at either state, muscle guy will get the puccy. it's why/how many times, broke men and successful men end up dealing with the same type of chicks. cause both are what turns her on.
now, Since a lot of women are putting off marriage till later, it means hypergamy is at pause till such a time women want to get serious and settle down. which also means women are thinking with their vagina until they decide to settle and have to use their brain and start being choosy and selective with whom they associate with and start having standards,

this is the door I have always preferred. deal with women on a lust level while they're thinking with their vagina, cause then they're not using their brain and are not rational. let their lust turn to love. fucc them until they catch feelings. and they start asking for more out of the situation. there's no relationship whereby a man holds the most leverage as a relationship that starts as a sex thing and a woman gets caught up in the ecstasy of the dicc that she asks for something permanent. you hold all the cards and if you're really as toxic as the best of them, that's when you'd ask for a baby. remember a baby is quickly becoming today's virginity. when no woman is no longer a virgin cause all women are hoes babies become the next best thing.

in all this talk about the Rise Of Single Lonely Men, guess who's not lacking for sex together with the usual suspects (rich men, celebs etc) ---> baby daddies. especially multiple baby daddies. women will always fucc the father of their kid. no matter what.

if men are no longer getting sex and there's no longer any sexual security for them, then making women pregnant all over doesn't seem as bad an idea. modern problems require modern solutions. I'm just saying. and please no man must come for me cause of this baby mama talk I have flue and a headache lol.

Light999333:
You see this phrase - "walking away"- it's a potent tool with which you can get anything you want from a woman. At a time, I wanted a very difficult thing from a lady, and this lady wouldn't budge. I walked away and she later agreed to it, cos she found me worthy enough to not allow an issue as major as the pains she has to go through destroy the relationship. I tried same with another, and she wouldn't do it, and we stopped talking till this day. Yup, you want a relationship, do as I say. Point is, a woman who wouldn't do what you want shouldn't be with you. As a man, put your needs, desires first. If she won't do hard things for you, let her go, delete her number from your phone, while you keep upgrading yourself. You'd definitely find a more willing woman.

But then, before you start using the walking away technique, be very sure you can are ready to truly end things if she won't give in. . Actually, some women will actually not agree to your demands, but the ones who will agree are the ones who find you worthy. Being with a woman who finds you worthy is actually one of the goals of the redpill. If you tell this woman to withdraw all her money and hand it to you, she will do just that. This kind of woman is the goal. The redpill is on a mission to end every relationship that doesn't serve you well as a man.

Light999333:
You see this phrase - "walking away"- it's a potent tool with which you can get anything you want from a woman. At a time, I wanted a very difficult thing from a lady, and this lady wouldn't budge. I walked away and she later agreed to it, cos she found me worthy enough to not allow an issue as major as the pains she has to go through destroy the relationship. I tried same with another, and she wouldn't do it, and we stopped talking till this day. Yup, you want a relationship, do as I say. Point is, a woman who wouldn't do what you want shouldn't be with you. As a man, put your needs, desires first. If she won't do hard things for you, let her go, delete her number from your phone, while you keep upgrading yourself. You'd definitely find a more willing woman.

But then, before you start using the walking away technique, be very sure you are ready to truly end things if she won't give in. . Actually, some women will actually not agree to your demands, but the ones who will agree are the ones who find you worthy. Being with a woman who finds you worthy is actually one of the goals of the redpill. If you tell this woman to withdraw all her money and hand it to you, she will do just that. This kind of woman is the goal. The redpill is on a mission to end every relationship that doesn't serve you well as a man.

ubunja:
80/20 is in full effect. women are congregating around a few men to the exclusion of the majority. at least in the west. (see the 2 pics below) but this is nothing the red pill didn't predict. we been saying this for years. women want money from men but at the same time women have made the government their provider and have also become financially independent, so no one must be surprised men are becoming increasingly single. this is also why I've never subscribed to that "You don't need women to be a man just succeed and you're a man". nope. success without women is always a miserable existence for men cause they get lonely easy.
in all my writings I've never talked about sexual temperance and sexual control cause I've always operated from the viewpoint that most men are struggling to get sex and telling someone who's starving for puccy to deal with puccy in moderation has always been hilarious to me--- how you gonna be moderate and have self control around women when you're not getting any women to begin with?

what most men need is women, especially sex. that's what male loneliness is all about. it's also why for ages, even before that article on THE RISE OF SINGLE LONELY MEN came out, I put that display picture on my profile that explains what male loneliness is.

even before that article came out,, I knew a lot of men were lonely, that is, not getting sex. and it's funny how a lot of men don't wanna hear anything about sex and will go to great lengths to call you shallow and desperate for always talking about sex and not other nobler things like building your career etc,, but the same men, after building themselves find that women are not exactly streaming to them, and they're left lonely with all their achievements. as said article has revealed.

hypergamy declares women want someone who makes more than them,, yet the same women are screwing nobodies and getting pregnant for nobodies. how do you reconcile the two?
well hypergamy IS NOT sexual. what turns a woman on is the same regardless of a man's financial position. if a woman is turned on by muscles, she'll be turned on by muscles regardless of the guy's job status - just that if muscle guy is top achieving, a woman will deal with him PUBLICLY,,but if he's a broke failure, the woman will deal with him SECRETLY. at either state, muscle guy will get the puccy. it's why/how many times, broke men and successful men end up dealing with the same type of chicks. cause both are what turns her on.
now, Since a lot of women are putting off marriage till later, it means hypergamy is at pause till such a time women want to get serious and settle down. which also means women are thinking with their vagina until they decide to settle and have to use their brain and start being choosy and selective with whom they associate with and start having standards,

this is the door I have always preferred. deal with women on a lust level while they're thinking with their vagina, cause then they're not using their brain and are not rational. let their lust turn to love. fucc them until they catch feelings. and they start asking for more out of the situation. there's no relationship whereby a man holds the most leverage as a relationship that starts as a sex thing and a woman gets caught up in the ecstasy of the dicc that she asks for something permanent. you hold all the cards and if you're really as toxic as the best of them, that's when you'd ask for a baby. remember a baby is quickly becoming today's virginity. when no woman is no longer a virgin cause all women are hoes babies become the next best thing.

in all this talk about the Rise Of Single Lonely Men, guess who's not lacking for sex together with the usual suspects (rich men, celebs etc) ---> baby daddies. especially multiple baby daddies. women will always fucc the father of their kid. no matter what.

if men are no longer getting sex and there's no longer any sexual security for them, then making women pregnant all over doesn't seem as bad an idea. modern problems require modern solutions. I'm just saying. and please no man must come for me cause of this baby mama talk I have flue and a headache lol.

dhiqson:
Ohhhhhhhh
Anytime anyOne calls my name, i just feel happy


I refer to my self as Taliban reason being that the crop of women out here, are loyal to their feelings only!
Do you know what it Means to be loyal to just your feelings (Whatever past sacrifice is done in the past is null and void, only the present and the future matters)


Such things gets to me
But as the "taliban" as i am, I don't even reason it one bit
When she's done with you, she'll ruthlessly deal with you.



Obinrin buru gan oh

#cUmRadETaliBan