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Re: See What A Nairalander Said That Brought Tears To My Eyes Chai! Pics by Nobody: 10:21am On Aug 24, 2022 |
redseason: Lol.. achievement for mouth. Audio investment. With all your international achievements, your wife is still running your home with 150k and you're proud to say it. Don't let me talk because you'll repatriate yourself back from that your audio diaspora. Even Factory worker go claim diaspora. 8 Likes |
Re: See What A Nairalander Said That Brought Tears To My Eyes Chai! Pics by pocohantas(f): 10:21am On Aug 24, 2022 |
Ulunne777: Very true. I was about saying this. There is a reason it didn’t fly. Mothers tried it and dumped it. |
Re: See What A Nairalander Said That Brought Tears To My Eyes Chai! Pics by worried222: 10:22am On Aug 24, 2022 |
TheLordofHost:I once had same opinion about her... |
Re: See What A Nairalander Said That Brought Tears To My Eyes Chai! Pics by Nobody: 10:31am On Aug 24, 2022 |
Bunnybee: I wonder! 1 Like |
Re: See What A Nairalander Said That Brought Tears To My Eyes Chai! Pics by Nobody: 10:36am On Aug 24, 2022 |
TheLordofHost: You see now? Why mocking her for sharing her sincere thoughts? You men are a bunch of embittered entities riddled with complex issues. You're feeling intimidated now you see a woman who planned well before taking up a responsibility you men are not willing to wait and plan well for. All you said, e remain for your body. It doesn't stop her from giving her baby the desired life she has planned for her. 10 Likes |
Re: See What A Nairalander Said That Brought Tears To My Eyes Chai! Pics by TheLordofHost: 10:46am On Aug 24, 2022 |
Blessedmercy8: Abeggi, why would I be intimidated by a hoe? She is giving her baby good life with a sprinkle of STDs 5 Likes |
Re: See What A Nairalander Said That Brought Tears To My Eyes Chai! Pics by descarado: 10:51am On Aug 24, 2022 |
When life offer you lemon, make lemonade out of it. Who said babies can't have healthy growth without baby diapers and milk? Baby napkins are still in the market. Unless you want to brag ( we know how to brag anyway) your baby wore this or drank that. In few years time, who remembers all that? And babies can start solid food early. Alternatively, make puree out of your solids and feed them. Infact, these days, even blenders come with baby puree containers cos we are encouraged to start feeding babies cooked food than all these formulas as early as possible. Companies gat to make money at people's vulnerability and show off. Some of the comments up there are sickening already. As you want the best for your new child, make sure to foot or share the bill. After all its equality era. If you are not ready to shoulder part of the cost, please don't get married. Period. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: See What A Nairalander Said That Brought Tears To My Eyes Chai! Pics by Nobody: 10:58am On Aug 24, 2022 |
TheLordofHost: Tufia unu! Bad mouth no go wound una for this forum. Abeg, leave her. By the way, I don't remember her telling you she's not married. 2 Likes |
Re: See What A Nairalander Said That Brought Tears To My Eyes Chai! Pics by Nobody: 11:07am On Aug 24, 2022 |
descarado: And the solids you're going to introduce, is it not money you're going to use in buying it? Even the napkins, do they come cheap? Ok let's say it's a one off thing with the napkins, school fees nko? I hear una. 4 Likes |
Re: See What A Nairalander Said That Brought Tears To My Eyes Chai! Pics by Nobody: 11:25am On Aug 24, 2022 |
Mercychen don't you get tired? 1 Like |
Re: See What A Nairalander Said That Brought Tears To My Eyes Chai! Pics by Nobody: 11:27am On Aug 24, 2022 |
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Re: See What A Nairalander Said That Brought Tears To My Eyes Chai! Pics by Nobody: 11:30am On Aug 24, 2022 |
Blessedmercy8: There is nothing funny about the countless senseless threads you open and I am not laughing with you. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: See What A Nairalander Said That Brought Tears To My Eyes Chai! Pics by Nobody: 11:44am On Aug 24, 2022 |
Melap: I know you're not laughing with me that's why I'm sticking out my tongue at you, make e pain!!! You Wella. Okay , let me give you the one you understand. ** Ntoooorrr **. Leave me alone! I'm not using your data or space to create threads. 1 Like
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Re: See What A Nairalander Said That Brought Tears To My Eyes Chai! Pics by kaboninc(m): 1:04pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
Mehn, we just make it seem like life is really really expensive. Like living is that expensive and that anyone who is not rich should just die. Just a little bit of my life, I have survived on 45k salary taking care of 7 mouths, supporting half of house rents and other bills. We did not die. It was hell but we did not die and of course you work harder and smarter to make sure you earn better. If you can't afford to give your toddler the most expensive food, please give them pap and other corn meal or low cost food. More than 90% of us were fed with it. And when you have more, you give your kids too as you can afford. No need to spend more than you can afford and more than you earn. I know couples whose combined salaries is not up to 100k and they are living. Maybe not as much as they would love to have but they find happiness and I'm really happy about them. 7 Likes |
Re: See What A Nairalander Said That Brought Tears To My Eyes Chai! Pics by descarado: 1:06pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
Blessedmercy8:Don't you eat? Do you go hungry? Now read my post again. Napkins are cheaper. Waaaay cheaper. We should come down from our high horses and cut our coat according to our sizes. It's not competition. Well, it is in nigeria. Mums size you up by what brand of baby food you give your child and how many the child use in a month. I always say, make sure you share the bill or foot it entirely yourself after all, you make money or are you idle and still demanding for first class baby food?. As long as you breastfed, your child don't need other milk later on. Make puree for your child from anything you have around you and gradually introduce solid. If you believe making baby puree from what you eat everyday is costly, don't give birth. Work and make money so you can feed extra mouth. Oh, I am a mother, just want to let us know that. If you want to know things you can puree or cook and mash for baby, check online or ask. There is no harm in asking and you will get some amazing answers 2 Likes |
Re: See What A Nairalander Said That Brought Tears To My Eyes Chai! Pics by dat9jaguy(m): 1:10pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
Blessedmercy8: Let's say you marry a rich man and his finances dwindles years into the marriage? Quit the marriage or adjust to the realities of life? Life is not 1+1=2. Whatever situation you find yourself in adjust accordingly, while always striving for the best. 3 Likes
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Re: See What A Nairalander Said That Brought Tears To My Eyes Chai! Pics by emorse(m): 1:10pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
Blessedmercy8:I've followed silently since the first thread and I tried to see things strictly from your perspective. Maybe I could learn a thing or two. But you see, you are missing the whole idea of what marriage is. Let me try to explain. Marriage is like a covalent bond between two atoms. Each atom is unstable on its own but when they combine their resources, they achieve stability as a pair. If you're not a scientist,then you should understand the next example better. Marriage is like garri and soup. Each is incomplete on its own but together, they make a good meal. Now, I totally agree with you when you say the intending couple must plan their finances before delving into marriage. However, putting a figure on it is sooooo wrong. There are a whole lot of people out there who earn way less than 100k but still find a way to live a decent life. I grew up as one of the "rich kids" in my area but years later after my old man passed and I found out from his documents what he earned while we were growing up, I felt remorseful. I saw reasons why some things were the way they were. A man who earns 100k is a big man in today's Nigeria. If he finds a lady who is ready to design a home around that figure (preferably their collective income) with him, there's nothing stopping them. Highest, instead of disposable diapers, they'll settle for reusable ones (as an example). Take note. Many of these so called necessities were nonexistent while we were growing up and we didn't die. So find a responsible man, design your home around both your incomes and work towards better days. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: See What A Nairalander Said That Brought Tears To My Eyes Chai! Pics by emorse(m): 1:21pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
Bunnybee:Two quick questions please. 1. Does it have to be Aptamil milk? 2. Did you take Aptamil milk at age three? If your answer to either or both of these questions is no, then there are alternatives which may cost less and Aptamil is simply your choice. 6 Likes |
Re: See What A Nairalander Said That Brought Tears To My Eyes Chai! Pics by Nobody: 1:27pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
descarado: Wow.. I had always thought you're a man. Ok, ma'am. Noted. Thanks. |
Re: See What A Nairalander Said That Brought Tears To My Eyes Chai! Pics by Nobody: 1:30pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
emorse: Ok. Well spoken. Thanks. 1 Like |
Re: See What A Nairalander Said That Brought Tears To My Eyes Chai! Pics by Saintinoo(m): 1:51pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
VeeVeeMyLuv: Most of these girls you people are quoting are girls in their early 20s who are still flexing around with big boys, you will not get any knowledge arguing with them as there mind is made up. When they reach 35, jobless without a husband, 50k will be enough for a family of 10 to them. 10 Likes |
Re: See What A Nairalander Said That Brought Tears To My Eyes Chai! Pics by Helpout12345: 1:52pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
Blessedmercy8: What is your problem this lady? Everyone is telling you the truth, you are just being adamant with this your mentality. Continue to wait until you are 60 years old. I hope you tell that your boyfriend all these you are spilling online so that the man can see your kind of mind in 3D and take a walk from you. Because you are not ready for marriage 5 Likes |
Re: See What A Nairalander Said That Brought Tears To My Eyes Chai! Pics by Saintinoo(m): 1:53pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
madridguy: You dey mind them? if you check very well, they hardly feed well in there house. 1 Like |
Re: See What A Nairalander Said That Brought Tears To My Eyes Chai! Pics by Saintinoo(m): 1:58pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
Rubbiish: Haaaaa oga easy on her abeg, no be her fault, she probably is used to following big boys who only use her and later marry a responsibile woman. 4 Likes |
Re: See What A Nairalander Said That Brought Tears To My Eyes Chai! Pics by Saintinoo(m): 2:01pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
Bunnybee: My sister son is same age with your daughter, and guess What, they are just managing but I bet you that boy is so healthy and smart than your fair can ever be. 90 percent of Nigerians have less than 1 million in their bank accounts, everyday people keep her married and giving birth to healthy children... Mindset matters, mindset. 4 Likes |
Re: See What A Nairalander Said That Brought Tears To My Eyes Chai! Pics by lilioj: 2:21pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
But poster what are you on about? You have since concluded you can't marry a man earning below 100k so drop it! But I'll tell you you're quite myopic, I know someone who got married to a man with a very good income, unfortunately months into the marriage he lost his job and it took them about 2 years before things could stabilize. So what will you advise her do? To leave the marriage? Do what works for you and let everyone be, you even went to the extent of screen grabbing someone's post, to prove what? At least he has started his life and family and by God's grace better days are ahead. 1 Like |
Re: See What A Nairalander Said That Brought Tears To My Eyes Chai! Pics by Runningwater(m): 2:35pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
VeeVeeMyLuv: 1 Like |
Re: See What A Nairalander Said That Brought Tears To My Eyes Chai! Pics by Ulunne777(f): 2:43pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
emorse: Na she wan buy am.not encouraging poverty I have seen mothers giving their babies normal family milk,soya beans at healthcentres during immunisations. My boy,sma gold etc are there |
Re: See What A Nairalander Said That Brought Tears To My Eyes Chai! Pics by cococandy(f): 2:52pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
Ulunne777: Oh really? Wow. I Guess it’s not practical unless the person is using a dryer. Good to know. Thanks for sharing |
Re: See What A Nairalander Said That Brought Tears To My Eyes Chai! Pics by Karleb(m): 3:00pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
Pampers isn't even so expensive, but if you remove pampers money from N100k, you might eat your food without fish. People deliberately going into poverty and bringing in innocent child to partake in it. If I were God, I will not forgive both man and his wife. 6 Likes |
Re: See What A Nairalander Said That Brought Tears To My Eyes Chai! Pics by Karleb(m): 3:03pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
kaboninc: Bros, hardship don master you. I hope you get financially free soon. 3 Likes |
Re: See What A Nairalander Said That Brought Tears To My Eyes Chai! Pics by OvertheTop(m): 3:08pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
Blessedmercy8: Why are you so focused of what he is Earning Can You not Plan to Add to the Home finances with your own income which you claim is more than 150k? I thought you said your are Already 41 Yrs old.... If You are looking for the man that will Provide 100% for you at this your Age, YOU MIGHT CLOCK 50 o Ok o 1 Like |
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