Jennyclay:
It's not advisable my dear! 100k is way too small. Haba!!

God forbid!! I reject it IJN!!

Jennyclay:
It's not advisable my dear! 100k is way too small. Haba!!

God forbid!! I reject it IJN!!

danny086:
My dear,, if the man has good plans for the future,, go ahead.... When I got married,, I was earning 50k as salary just 32 years of age....my wife believed in me,, even though she was skeptical but now,, anything she desires I give because I earn x100 of that now....
.. Be positive.

Cutehector:
enough to buy you sense.

Jennyclay:
It's not advisable my dear! 100k is way too small. Haba!!

God forbid!! I reject it IJN!!

Blessedmercy8:


Hmm.. he's 40 and I'm already 41.
When are we now going to start having children if we still delay?



Exactly my point.



Ok.

Blessedmercy8:
He's earning a 100k and wants to settle down. Can you as a lady earning a little above him agree to marry him?

Is it advisable to enter into marriage with such income considering the situation of the economy?

Jennyclay:
No, I can't marry someone who earns 100k per month. Why must you enter a marriage to suffer? Can 100k afford you a good house, buy your hair and makeups? Have you even thought of raising children who should be fed, clothed and sent to good schools? Can 100k work these things out? No!

Reject that poor man and his meagre 100k; a better man will locate you. All you have to do is believe and wait for the right man to come.

Jennyclay:
It's not advisable my dear! 100k is way too small. Haba!!

God forbid!! I reject it IJN!!

anuofGod:

People will give you bad advise until you're left out
If he's a good man from a good family and he truly loves you, marry him.

But don't marry him because you don't love him enough, if not, you won't come here to ask for opinion over his salary.
There are very few men earning up to that and above that monthly with the economy of the country.
I think what you should be bothered about if you truly love him is how you can both pull resources together to earn more, e.g invest or start up a side business.

But what do I know? Just make sure you love him enough coz nobody's time is worth wasting in this country and days when things are down a bit financially, will you love him without disrespecting him or looking for a way out.
If you can answer that sincerely, then it's up to you to make a choice.

Peace be upon you

Jennyclay:
No, I can't marry someone who earns 100k per month. Why must you enter a marriage to suffer? Can 100k afford you a good house, buy your hair and makeups? Have you even thought of raising children who should be fed, clothed and sent to good schools? Can 100k work these things out? No!

Reject that poor man and his meagre 100k; a better man will locate you. All you have to do is believe and wait for the right man to come.

Jennyclay:
No, I can't marry someone who earns 100k per month. Why must you enter a marriage to suffer? Can 100k afford you a good house, buy your hair and makeups? Have you even thought of raising children who should be fed, clothed and sent to good schools? Can 100k work these things out? No!

Reject that poor man and his meagre 100k; a better man will locate you. All you have to do is believe and wait for the right man to come.

emmanuelbrown26:

Better take d advice and leave seun alone. No wonder at that ur age, u never marry, all bcs of ur greed. U wan dangote pikin when u are not otedola pikin. Imagine 41 year old woman? Dis one dun reach menopause na, bcs menopause dey start from 38 no longer 40 and u are 41. Aunty better save money and adopt a child and forget about marriage bcs I doubt about ur fertility.

Blessedmercy8:
He's earning a 100k and wants to settle down. Can you as a lady earning a little above him agree to marry him?

Is it advisable to enter into marriage with such income considering the situation of the economy?

crackhaus:

They always believe they are a catch nau, it's one of the major psychological problems bedeviling a majority of Nigerian women today.

pansophist:


Honestly I've tried so much for a long time to determine where that mentality comes from. I think about it alot. How lots of women operate from a position of perfection, that showing up with body is contribution and valuable,

My conclusion is that its a feature of weakness, or as the bible put it, a weaker vessel. You know, empty can makes the loudest noise.

Because to be fair, I've seen few women that are hardworking and strife to bring value to the table, that think in terms of contributing not just suffocating others. It's an energy thing. All women have the ability be strong, but most choose to be weak instead and be a burden to others.

A woman that have achieved literally nothing except bad behaviours, entitlements and false sense of worth would feel she is a catch, and a hardworking man that have build himself up front scratch is not goof enough for her.

Jennyclay:
It's not advisable my dear! 100k is way too small. Haba!!

God forbid!! I reject it IJN!!

Jennyclay:
It's not advisable my dear! 100k is way too small. Haba!!

God forbid!! I reject it IJN!!

emmaodet:


Just imagine if a woman close to menopause, no more in her prime, beauty dropping drastically is still making this kind of request, just imagine how entitled, pompous, selective and arrogant she would have been in her 20’s and 30’s

Blessedmercy8:


These are exactly my fears cos once somebody enters the next thing is to start having children. With such income coupled with other expenses, I dey fear o.
Are u jobless Are u not supposed to have something found urself

emmanuelbrown26:

Thank u aunty. But mind u, menopause no get cure

Jennyclay:
It's not advisable my dear! 100k is way too small. Haba!!

God forbid!! I reject it IJN!!

Blessedmercy8:
He's earning a 100k and wants to settle down. Can you as a lady earning a little above him agree to marry him?

Is it advisable to enter into marriage with such income considering the situation of the economy?

advanceDNA:
Wouldn't it be nice if you have a 100k or more job too so that you can both have at least 200k entering your home at the end of the month?


Lol.....Its just funny how unacomplished, broke people tag others unworthy of them when they are not even worth half of who they look down upon the end of the month

U women should become more hardworking...
and stop making hardworking people feel like they are nothing

Jennyclay:
It's not advisable my dear! 100k is way too small. Haba!!

God forbid!! I reject it IJN!!

Blessedmercy8:


Hmm.. you think so??

I'm just scared of bills and All that childcare expenses.

Blessedmercy8:


Hmm.. he's 40 and I'm already 41.
When are we now going to start having children if we still delay?