[quote author=vikaosi post=116019613]

You are not immune from working, are you?

Even if you can make half of the 100k, your combined income will be 150k. It depends on location, you can survive on it.

And don't forget, there is room for growth. [/quote


See fish brain

Blessedmercy8:


I send that condolences back to you the sender in Jesus name.

Amen.

How much do you earn per month? From your comments, i observe that you are among the ladies who believe that "my own is my own" and "his own is our own."

NB: some ladies understand the current situation in Nigeria and are quietly working in their homes. Some women don't ask their men recharge card money, urgent 2/5k, God bless genuine, committed and understanding women Amen.

Jennyclay:
It's not advisable my dear! 100k is way too small. Haba!!

God forbid!! I reject it IJN!!

Craze dey follow u

How I wish the man saw this...and know the lady saying this..let him just leave her...not all people start big...but you can plan..with planing everything will be successful...jennyclad na pikin she be.. probably in her 14-17 years...she never get sense of life yet

Grillbar:
Mercychen must you bring everything to this site. Can you not make one decision on your own without nairaland.

I wonder ooooo

Are you earning more than 100k?

Blessedmercy8:
He's earning a 100k and wants to settle down. Can you as a lady earning a little above him agree to marry him?

Is it advisable to enter into marriage with such income considering the situation of the economy?

Please throw his number open. Even if he earns way below, many women are ready to propose to him not even the way round. Give give out his number please.

Blessedmercy8:


These are exactly my fears cos once somebody enters the next thing is to start having children. With such income coupled with other expenses, I dey fear o.

Just kuku remain unmarried, why bother?
You can marry someone that earns more today and will be broke later, marriage is not about selfish motives but about care,companionship and love.

HeavenVGate:

Please throw his number open. Even if he earns way below, many women are ready to propose to him not even the way round. Give give out his number please.

Come collect am now. E easy to get fine, tall and handsome man these days?

Let those your slots go and pray for their own man. .

Blessedmercy8:


These are exactly my fears cos once somebody enters the next thing is to start having children. With such income coupled with other expenses, I dey fear o.

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You be God Almighty, that decided not happen tomorrow. If you are not bring anything to the table, abeg leave the guy alone let God Almighty give am his own wife not you.

Jennyclay:
No, I can't marry someone who earns 100k per month. Why must you enter a marriage to suffer? Can 100k afford you a good house, buy your hair and makeups? Have you even thought of raising children who should be fed, clothed and sent to good schools? Can 100k work these things out? No!

Reject that poor man and his meagre 100k; a better man will locate you. All you have to do is believe and wait for the right man to come.

the luck you have is that nairaland is a faceless forum

Jennyclay:
No, I can't marry someone who earns 100k per month. Why must you enter a marriage to suffer? Can 100k afford you a good house, buy your hair and makeups? Have you even thought of raising children who should be fed, clothed and sent to good schools? Can 100k work these things out? No!

Reject that poor man and his meagre 100k; a better man will locate you. All you have to do is believe and wait for the right man to come.

poor man? is your father a millionaire?

Jennyclay:
It's not advisable my dear! 100k is way too small. Haba!!

God forbid!! I reject it IJN!!

you go stay for house tire, except your parents are very wealthy or you have a reliable source of income so as to match your expectations.

Honestly, you are just greedy and selfish about yourself.Its obvious you're are not working so the plan on how to manage money is lacking in you.Worst off,you're 41yrs old so you're indeed a burden to him.This question should sincerely go to your parents not this platform.

Blessedmercy8:
He's earning a 100k and wants to settle down. Can you as a lady earning a little above him agree to marry him?

Is it advisable to enter into marriage with such income considering the situation of the economy?

I got married earning 100k per month, two months after marriage, my earning shoot by x15... As long as he ain't lazy, marry him...

Blessedmercy8:
He's earning a 100k and wants to settle down. Can you as a lady earning a little above him agree to marry him?

Is it advisable to enter into marriage with such income considering the situation of the economy?

the question should be, is it advisable for a man with 100k to marry a broke lady?

Blessedmercy8:
He's earning a 100k and wants to settle down. Can you as a lady earning a little above him agree to marry him?

Is it advisable to enter into marriage with such income considering the situation of the economy?

wait until he starts earning 120k by which time 120k can only buy what 50k is buying now. Your hear me?

Blessedmercy8:
He's earning a 100k and wants to settle down. Can you as a lady earning a little above him agree to marry him?

Is it advisable to enter into marriage with such income considering the situation of the economy?

Thank God he made known to you what he receives as salary. Continue waiting for someone earning 400k.

Cutehector:
the question should be, is it advisable for a man with 100k to marry a broke lady?

Legelege, pack yourself one corner. Calling someone broke, how much is that your bank work paying you?

Shift!

Jennyclay:
All you have to do is believe and wait for the right man to come.

Oya naa, dey wait...how long will you wait? You're gonna wait, meanwhile that broke bro is about to make Forbes list coz he just bad for business. Go get a better business.

[quote author=GenderMix post=115857232]No doubt money is very key to sustaining a marriage. Infact it's one of the key ingredients that can help grease love. The lack of money can make love go sour...lol...

Having said that, marriage has an ultimate aim which is for companionship. As far as both of you have the drive to succeed and are not lazy and can cut you cloth according to your size then the amount may just be inconsequential.

If the man earns 100k, he has the qualities you like and is focused then you can start with that. Just ensure he has common sense and listens to advise. It doesn't matter if as a lady you earn higher than him. You guys should have plans and execute them together. Just encourage him by supporting him financially. Just assist him but let him be the one to take care of the major bills.

Plan around the money you earn. Don't live above your means. There are pragmatic means you can adopt to cut cost. Forget the pressure around, most of what you see are illusions. Just focus on your happiness.


well said

Blessedmercy8:


Come collect am now. E easy to get fine, tall and handsome man these days?

Let those your slots go and pray for their own man. .

calm down woman. You're talking to a married man with two kids, expecting the third one in months time
Don't listen to those who were saying you shouldn't, they are either men or women who want you to be like them. Is there even plenty jobs nowadays? Are men even ready to marry again? I'm 34, most of my friends way older than me, are not ready to settle down. Just check out for some qualities in him, so long he got them, then go ahead. But Listen to me, if he is a gamble ( bet9ja virtual AKA baby ) stay far away from him even if he earns 500k a month.

polimaf:
I got married earning 100k per month, two months after marriage, my earning shoot by x15... As long as he ain't lazy, marry him...

The thing is I can't really tell if he's the lazy type or not because he works in the ministry. He's a civil servant and you know how lazy their job can be. They close by two.

Jennyclay:
It's not advisable my dear! 100k is way too small. Haba!!

God forbid!! I reject it IJN!!

Girls whom are over 40 unmarried pass through 22 yrs. They made this same statement when they were 22. Now, they are just praying someone can marry them while they sponsor the weeding. Get sense ooo

I pity you..... Watch out,, you will old without getting married.....if you don't change your wretched mentality....

Jennyclay:
It's not advisable my dear! 100k is way too small. Haba!!

God forbid!! I reject it IJN!!

If you add your own na bad thing

Blessedmercy8:


Legelege, pack yourself one corner. Calling someone broke, how much is that your bank work paying you?

Shift!

enough to buy you sense.

Why una papa no build comapany and empires for all of una..

Better go and freeze your eggs if you want to marry a man with the perfect salary...

Helpout12345:


OP, this is the advise you need. And ignore that teenager up there.

Omo, I can't imagine that a 41-year-old woman can't think this way.

Mehn! I can't even wrap my head around the thought of this woman when she was in her late teens and early 20s. She must have thought herself to be the Queen of England.

My dear,, if the man has good plans for the future,, go ahead.... When I got married,, I was earning 50k as salary just 32 years of age....my wife believed in me,, even though she was skeptical but now,, anything she desires I give because I earn x100 of that now....
.. Be positive.

Blessedmercy8:
He's earning a 100k and wants to settle down. Can you as a lady earning a little above him agree to marry him?

Is it advisable to enter into marriage with such income considering the situation of the economy?