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Re: How To Know You Are Dating Yourself by freddie009(m): 8:07am On Aug 25, 2022
Blessedmercy8:
I wonder at the people that go about engaging someone in a relationship when they know theyre not interested in that person. Isn't that madness?

I never see that person that will try it with me.

If I'm courting you and you blank me more than three hours a day, even if it's for genuine reason, I'll send you a painful and unbelievable text and end it. No time to waste.

You see the bolded except you are a daughter to a politician, you just wasted that 2 minutes of your time typing it. Guys don't really give a damn anymore.

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Re: How To Know You Are Dating Yourself by MrPADDY(m): 8:08am On Aug 25, 2022
Lesson learned
Re: How To Know You Are Dating Yourself by Manson1(m): 8:08am On Aug 25, 2022
H0didon:
Seems you don't even know women grin. They can hide, pretend do anything as long as it makes them do what they wanna do without notice.
Once you find a Nigerian woman that is transparent, gives you peace of mind, respect and gives you her time, she supports and make you her priority and she come get fear of God. Nobody needs to tell you to keep her.

Sex, Cooking skills and other minor things can be easily learnt but you see those virtues i mentioned up, that's the key gee.


As our Ancestors would say "A virtues woman is transparent in nature".

You see that fear of God? That one is most important. Cos once she has the fear of God all other things go just follow easily

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Re: How To Know You Are Dating Yourself by Nobody: 8:08am On Aug 25, 2022
Boogyman557:
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Sorry,I clicked 'report' mistakenly while scrolling but I quickly 'backed' it. I just want to be sure you weren't banned embarassed

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Re: How To Know You Are Dating Yourself by Bmaster(m): 8:09am On Aug 25, 2022
...and it pays to be yourself,love yourself,be alone or if you're to date,date yourself unless otherwise you are not in Nigeria.The idea of carrying another person's problem on top the ones you are battling with already has to stop.if we are to mentally sound,then otherwise,you'll be driven crazy in no distant time.



Wait oooh, what have I been saying sef ?
Re: How To Know You Are Dating Yourself by SocialJustice: 8:11am On Aug 25, 2022
H0didon:
Seems you don't even know women grin. They can hide, pretend do anything as long as it makes them do what they wanna do without notice.
Once you find a Nigerian woman that is transparent, gives you peace of mind, respect and gives you her time, she supports and make you her priority and she come get fear of God. Nobody needs to tell you to keep her.

Sex, Cooking skills and other minor things can be easily learnt but you see those virtues i mentioned up, that's the key gee.


As our Ancestors would say "A virtues woman is transparent in nature".
Them dey even fake fear of God now.

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Re: How To Know You Are Dating Yourself by Bmaster(m): 8:12am On Aug 25, 2022
Blessedmercy8:
I wonder at the people that go about engaging someone in a relationship when they know theyre not interested in that person. Isn't that madness?

I never see that person that will try it with me.

If I'm courting you and you blank me more than three hours a day, even if it's for genuine reason, I'll send you a painful and unbelievable text and end it. No time to waste.
shocked
Re: How To Know You Are Dating Yourself by Nobody: 8:14am On Aug 25, 2022
jeromestarks:

If you're a virgin ( if you're intact) then you deserve this kinda attention. But if you have been used (damaged and contaminated with another man's sperm) , then you should be happy a man even collected your number and called once in a month.

The fact that someone isn't a virgin doesn't make the lady less of a human than someone who is. It's infinitesimal compared to what marriage entails.

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Re: How To Know You Are Dating Yourself by Rosaline5000: 8:15am On Aug 25, 2022
youngstrow:

was your mother a virgin before getting married to your pap?
Dont mind the idiot, at first when I start seeing his posts everywhere talking about "Virgins" I thought it will be some accomplished guy that have seen life and know what he wants.
Lol only for me to check his old posts and sorry to say but he is a 32 years old man who is broke and jobless, with no ambition whatever and could never get a woman, so he spent his time been so bitter online and think maybe if he gets a 17 old girl or a very young virgin he can manipulate her to like him because the girl could probably not have experience in life.
But looking as how he keeps posting in all threads I feel he is not going to find such a gullible "virgin" girl cry and he will keep been pathetic forever.
Just ignore him dear, that guy is just a sad sad little man

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Re: How To Know You Are Dating Yourself by LadysLuvSlyfoxx: 8:17am On Aug 25, 2022
jeromestarks:
Once she's not a virgin, then her heart will always be with the man who disvirgined her.
If you marry a who who has been fvcked by another man, you married yourself because the moment her ex shows up, she will fvck him again and one of your children may not be yours.

If you're dating a girl you didn't disvirgin, you're dating yourself because her heart is still with the man who disvirgined her even if she lied about it. Some girls still keep contact with the man who disvirgined them, others stalk their main ex on social media waiting for when he will hit a major fit to chat him up.

If a girl did not give you her best days (when she's a virgin), you shouldn't pay to keep her worst (when she has lost her virginity - glory to another man).
How will you pay huge money, do wedding celebration, take care of her siblings and relatives just to have what another man fvcked wit just eggs and indomie?
No be foolishness be that?

[/b]Finally, fvck any girl you want but for the peace of your home and the betterment of your children, Marry a virgin[b].

The fact that you said this with no sense of irony shows just how senseless you are.

If all men live by this creed, will there be any virgins left? It’s funny how some men want to live recklessly but expect women to be pious as if they are not humans too lol.

Baba Men are the head of society. As they behave, so does the rest of society behave, Including women and children. We will not have responsible women until we start having responsible men.

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Re: How To Know You Are Dating Yourself by Nobody: 8:17am On Aug 25, 2022
Athemisia:

Me self I tire oh... Sometimes you two may need some space and time off if not ur relationship will be too boring.

If you two need some space,it must be communicated. You shouldn't just assume the other person knows. Not everyone is a mind reader

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Re: How To Know You Are Dating Yourself by Solofresh2: 8:17am On Aug 25, 2022
MrPower:
When you hear people use the word "you are dating yourself" its simply means that your partner in off your hook and you are dating yourself. That is to say your breakfast is almost ready, asin na small time remain before them serve you. So how do you know your breakfast is around the corner. Your partner will always do the following

1) always too busy that he or she doesn't have your time. Paraventure they finally call, the conversation will be so dry, straight to the point, etc .... .

2). Break in communication: if the person claims to be your joy giver can go a day or two without bordering to hear from you, my dear you are dating yourself.

3) if they are always online late night without chatting you up. Some time you tried to call on WhatsApp and you see "on another call"

4). When they start doing my bestee my bestee while you are just there. My dear be vigilant oh make bestee no do you small thing o.

Make i stop here. I know say some people get other opinion or counter opinion.
Well, I think your number 2 reason does not really apply in every breakfast situation.Although when a relationship starts, you and your partner could be so fond of yourselves.When your partner travels in to a long journey to see her loved relatives, she not calling you for a day or two doesn't mean you are dating yourself because she might be over comfortable there or probably on a very busy adventure.
To add to the list of people dating themselves, is when you are in a very long distance relationship.Like, you are dating someone you rarely met or see all the time.forget it you are dating yourself

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Re: How To Know You Are Dating Yourself by obailala(m): 8:18am On Aug 25, 2022
jeromestarks:
Once she's not a virgin, then her heart will always be with the man who disvirgined her.
If you marry a who who has been fvcked by another man, you married yourself because the moment her ex shows up, she will fvck him again and one of your children may not be yours.

If you're dating a girl you didn't disvirgin, you're dating yourself because her heart is still with the man who disvirgined her even if she lied about it. Some girls still keep contact with the man who disvirgined them, others stalk their main ex on social media waiting for when he will hit a major fit to chat him up.

If a girl did not give you her best days (when she's a virgin), you shouldn't pay to keep her worst (when she has lost her virginity - glory to another man).
How will you pay huge money, do wedding celebration, take care of her siblings and relatives just to have what another man fvcked wit just eggs and indomie?
No be foolishness be that?

Finally, fvck any girl you want but for the peace of your home and the betterment of your children, Marry a virgin.
Your opening sentence = Juvenile ideology

No comments on the rest of what you wrote.

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Re: How To Know You Are Dating Yourself by We4all: 8:19am On Aug 25, 2022
jeromestarks:
Once she's not a virgin, then her heart will always be with the man who disvirgined her.
If you marry a who who has been fvcked by another man, you married yourself because the moment her ex shows up, she will fvck him again and one of your children may not be yours.

If you're dating a girl you didn't disvirgin, you're dating yourself because her heart is still with the man who disvirgined her even if she lied about it. Some girls still keep contact with the man who disvirgined them, others stalk their main ex on social media waiting for when he will hit a major fit to chat him up.

If a girl did not give you her best days (when she's a virgin), you shouldn't pay to keep her worst (when she has lost her virginity - glory to another man).
How will you pay huge money, do wedding celebration, take care of her siblings and relatives just to have what another man fvcked wit just eggs and indomie?
No be foolishness be that?

Finally, fvck any girl you want but for the peace of your home and the betterment of your children, Marry a virgin.

Don’t ask for what you can’t afford to give. Are you a virgin?
Re: How To Know You Are Dating Yourself by Honchoslim16(m): 8:19am On Aug 25, 2022
Rosaline5000:

Dont mind the idiot, at first when I start seeing his posts everywhere talking about "Virgins" I thought it will be some accomplished guy that have seen life and know what he wants.
Lol only for me to check his old posts and sorry to say but he is a 32 years old man who is broke and jobless, with no ambition whatever and could never get a woman, so he spent his time been so bitter online and think maybe if he gets a 17 old girl or a very young virgin he can manipulate her to like him because the girl could probably not have experience in life.
But looking as how he keeps posting in all threads I feel he is not going to find such a gullible "virgin" girl cry and he will keep been pathetic forever.
Just ignore him dear, that guy is just a sad sad little man
Lol
Take it easy
Re: How To Know You Are Dating Yourself by Softmirror: 8:20am On Aug 25, 2022
jeromestarks:
Once she's not a virgin, then her heart will always be with the man who disvirgined her.
If you marry a who who has been fvcked by another man, you married yourself because the moment her ex shows up, she will fvck him again and one of your children may not be yours.

If you're dating a girl you didn't disvirgin, you're dating yourself because her heart is still with the man who disvirgined her even if she lied about it. Some girls still keep contact with the man who disvirgined them, others stalk their main ex on social media waiting for when he will hit a major fit to chat him up.

If a girl did not give you her best days (when she's a virgin), you shouldn't pay to keep her worst (when she has lost her virginity - glory to another man).
How will you pay huge money, do wedding celebration, take care of her siblings and relatives just to have what another man fvcked wit just eggs and indomie?
No be foolishness be that?

Finally, fvck any girl you want but for the peace of your home and the betterment of your children, Marry a virgin.

WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO SAY ABOUT LADIES WHO GOT MARRIED AS VIRGINS BUT YET CHEATED ON THEIR HUSBANDS. THEIR REASON BEING THAT, THEY WERE ONLY CURIOUS TO SAMPLE HOW ANOTHER PEN!S FEELS LIKE. AN INTENT OF BEING TIRED OF EATING ONLY CASSAVA. MAKE I TASTE AGBADO TOO.

MY SECOND QUESTION. HOW DO YOU KNOW A VIRGIN WHO WON'T BE SEXUALLY ADVENTUROUS AFTER MARRIAGE?

HOW DO YOU EVEN KNOW IF SHE IS A VIRGIN?

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Re: How To Know You Are Dating Yourself by detectivejones: 8:21am On Aug 25, 2022
jeromestarks:

Those things you mentioned only come to them when they're very old and when they're done wh0ring.

Find a young virgin woman who is ready to learn and teach her. Most times, virgins response to how you treat them. Hold her and never let her go.
If a wh0ring girl wants to go, don't stop her. But if a virgin woman wants to go , don't let her go.
Hope you know some of your so called virgins recieve it from the back to remain intact and some even use virgina tightening cream. Pray you don't meet a small geh that will scam you.

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Re: How To Know You Are Dating Yourself by harmony75: 8:22am On Aug 25, 2022
jeromestarks:
Once she's not a virgin, then her heart will always be with the man who disvirgined her.
If you marry a who who has been fvcked by another man, you married yourself because the moment her ex shows up, she will fvck him again and one of your children may not be yours.

If you're dating a girl you didn't disvirgin, you're dating yourself because her heart is still with the man who disvirgined her even if she lied about it. Some girls still keep contact with the man who disvirgined them, others stalk their main ex on social media waiting for when he will hit a major fit to chat him up.

If a girl did not give you her best days (when she's a virgin), you shouldn't pay to keep her worst (when she has lost her virginity - glory to another man).
How will you pay huge money, do wedding celebration, take care of her siblings and relatives just to have what another man fvcked wit just eggs and indomie?
No be foolishness be that?

Finally, fvck any girl you want but for the peace of your home and the betterment of your children, Marry a virgin.
So sorry for person wer born this mumu here smh �‍♂️
Re: How To Know You Are Dating Yourself by LadysLuvSlyfoxx: 8:23am On Aug 25, 2022
Solofresh2:
Well, I think your number 2 reason does not really apply in every breakfast situation.Although when a relationship starts, you and your partner could be so fond of yourselves.When your partner travels in to a long journey to see her loved relatives, she not calling you for a day or two doesn't mean you are dating yourself because she might be over comfortable there or probably on a very busy adventure.
To add to the list of people dating themselves, is when you are in a very long distance relationship.Like, you are dating someone you rarely met or see all the time.forget it you are dating yourself

That’s how women think. They believe once you are dating them, they should be the center of your existence on this earth as if you don’t have work or anything else going on in your life. Once you don’t call them for a day like this; “you are cheating abi”? That’s all you will hear lol.

B!tch I’m busy. And even if I’m not, the fact I’m in a relationship with you doesn’t mean I shouldn't have my private time or I must always be in the mood for lovey-dovey stuff. I might shoot you a text just to check you’re okay. But expecting me to call you everyday and chat shit for hours won’t happen.

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Re: How To Know You Are Dating Yourself by Zetty177x: 8:25am On Aug 25, 2022
Na wa
Re: How To Know You Are Dating Yourself by Solofresh2: 8:25am On Aug 25, 2022
jeromestarks:
Once she's not a virgin, then her heart will always be with the man who disvirgined her.
If you marry a who who has been fvcked by another man, you married yourself because the moment her ex shows up, she will fvck him again and one of your children may not be yours.

If you're dating a girl you didn't disvirgin, you're dating yourself because her heart is still with the man who disvirgined her even if she lied about it. Some girls still keep contact with the man who disvirgined them, others stalk their main ex on social media waiting for when he will hit a major fit to chat him up.

If a girl did not give you her best days (when she's a virgin), you shouldn't pay to keep her worst (when she has lost her virginity - glory to another man).
How will you pay huge money, do wedding celebration, take care of her siblings and relatives just to have what another man fvcked Finally, fvck any girl you want but for the peace of your home and the betterment of your children, Marry a virgin.
Comrade this vawulence can be heavy oowit just eggs and indomie?
No be foolishness be that?

Finally, fvck any girl you want but for the peace of your home and the betterment of your children, Marry a virgin.[/quote] comrade this vawulence is heavy oo

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Re: How To Know You Are Dating Yourself by Nobody: 8:29am On Aug 25, 2022
freddie009:


You see the bolded except you are a daughter to a politician, you just wasted that 2 minutes of your time typing it. Guys don't really give a damn anymore.

Nairaland guys you mean?

The ones outside this forum give a hoot!
Re: How To Know You Are Dating Yourself by Solofresh2: 8:32am On Aug 25, 2022
LadysLuvSlyfoxx:


That’s how women think. They believe once you are dating them, they should be the center of your existence in this earth as if you don’t have work or anything else going on in your life. Once you don’t call them for a day like this; “you are cheating abi”? That’s all you will hear lol. M

B!tch I’m busy. And even if I’m not, the fact I’m in a relationship with you doesn’t mean I shouldn't have my private time or I must always be in the mood for lovey-dovey stuff. I might shoot you a text just to check you’re okay. But expecting me to call you everyday and chat shit for hours won’t happen.
Lol the funniest thing is that this type of relationships will be boring and their might not be mutual respect because you guys are too fond of each other.

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Re: How To Know You Are Dating Yourself by Brunicekid(m): 8:32am On Aug 25, 2022
jeromestarks:
Once she's not a virgin, then her heart will always be with the man who disvirgined her.
If you marry a who who has been fvcked by another man, you married yourself because the moment her ex shows up, she will fvck him again and one of your children may not be yours.

If you're dating a girl you didn't disvirgin, you're dating yourself because her heart is still with the man who disvirgined her even if she lied about it. Some girls still keep contact with the man who disvirgined them, others stalk their main ex on social media waiting for when he will hit a major fit to chat him up.

If a girl did not give you her best days (when she's a virgin), you shouldn't pay to keep her worst (when she has lost her virginity - glory to another man).
How will you pay huge money, do wedding celebration, take care of her siblings and relatives just to have what another man fvcked wit just eggs and indomie?
No be foolishness be that?

Finally, fvck any girl you want but for the peace of your home and the betterment of your children, Marry a virgin.
Bad advice. If you advise guys should do anything they want to girls, then why will you still say that they should marry a virgin? It's unclear.

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Re: How To Know You Are Dating Yourself by RPG2020(m): 8:33am On Aug 25, 2022
Any muehen we outside we move
Re: How To Know You Are Dating Yourself by Munzy14(m): 8:33am On Aug 25, 2022
H0didon:
Seems you don't even know women grin. They can hide, pretend do anything as long as it makes them do what they wanna do without notice.
Once you find a Nigerian woman that is transparent, gives you peace of mind, respect and gives you her time, she supports and make you her priority and she come get fear of God. Nobody needs to tell you to keep her.

Sex, Cooking skills and other minor things can be easily learnt but you see those virtues i mentioned up, that's the key gee.


As our Ancestors would say "A virtues woman is transparent in nature".
The openess and transparency of a woman is rare virtue...

You said it all.

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Re: How To Know You Are Dating Yourself by Josephamstrong1(m): 8:34am On Aug 25, 2022
MrPower:
When you hear people use the word "you are dating yourself" its simply means that your partner in off your hook and you are dating yourself. That is to say your breakfast is almost ready, asin na small time remain before them serve you. So how do you know your breakfast is around the corner. Your partner will always do the following

1) always too busy that he or she doesn't have your time. Paraventure they finally call, the conversation will be so dry, straight to the point, etc .... .

2). Break in communication: if the person claims to be your joy giver can go a day or two without bordering to hear from you, my dear you are dating yourself.

3) if they are always online late night without chatting you up. Some time you tried to call on WhatsApp and you see "on another call"

4). When they start doing my bestee my bestee while you are just there. My dear be vigilant oh make bestee no do you small thing o.

Make i stop here. I know say some people get other opinion or counter opinion.
Get money!
It’ll get you what you want in a woman.

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Re: How To Know You Are Dating Yourself by AlphaTaikun: 8:35am On Aug 25, 2022
jeromestarks:
Once she's not a virgin, then her heart will always be with the man who disvirgined her.
If you marry a who who has been fvcked by another man, you married yourself because the moment her ex shows up, she will fvck him again and one of your children may not be yours.

If you're dating a girl you didn't disvirgin, you're dating yourself because her heart is still with the man who disvirgined her even if she lied about it. Some girls still keep contact with the man who disvirgined them, others stalk their main ex on social media waiting for when he will hit a major fit to chat him up.

If a girl did not give you her best days (when she's a virgin), you shouldn't pay to keep her worst (when she has lost her virginity - glory to another man).
How will you pay huge money, do wedding celebration, take care of her siblings and relatives just to have what another man fvcked wit just eggs and indomie?
No be foolishness be that?

Finally, fvck any girl you want but for the peace of your home and the betterment of your children, Marry a virgin.
Lol... Imagine that.
Re: How To Know You Are Dating Yourself by Nasman387(m): 8:35am On Aug 25, 2022
Na your Papa born you
H0didon:
Seems you don't even know women grin. They can hide, pretend do anything as long as it makes them do what they wanna do without notice.
Once you find a Nigerian woman that is transparent, gives you peace of mind, respect and gives you her time, she supports and make you her priority and she come get fear of God. Nobody needs to tell you to keep her.

Sex, Cooking skills and other minor things can be easily learnt but you see those virtues i mentioned up, that's the key gee.


As our Ancestors would say "A virtues woman is transparent in nature".
Re: How To Know You Are Dating Yourself by noble71(m): 8:38am On Aug 25, 2022
Xpress24:
how much is ur rate
#250/Pi
Re: How To Know You Are Dating Yourself by Edipet(m): 8:38am On Aug 25, 2022
Fiscus105:
When she asked u for recharge card and after sending it, she can't use the recharge card to flash you not to talk of calling you, but quickly flash you when she needs card again.
this one can be found in girls between the ages of 18-23

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