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I told my girlfriend to be productive with her time, she called me few days later, that after searching for a job she was unable to secure any good one.
Asked her how about learning a craft? she said she talked to her dad about it instead, he shouted on her to go and meet her boyfriend to give her money to go and learn a skill.

Lol, this got me thinking,

Is it the responsibility of the parent or the boyfriend/ girlfriend to acquaint their wards with a means of livelihood?

My gee no dull ya sef oo coz you go suffer for doing that !! Its going to choke you later

Getting your girlfriend money to start something will be bad if the idea came from the dad.

It means the dad has abdicated from his responsibility.

The thing is: what's her character like?

You better put her in a family way if not you might be empowering another man's wife and creating an ingrate in the process.

To avoid, sad tales in the future, abort this relationship.

A very irresponsible father.

5yrs later she’ll tell you “ did I force you”. You’ll learn the hard way.

MrBachelor:
A very irresponsible father.

chope knockle

Which kind father be that.

boyfwend:
I told my girlfriend to be productive with her time, she called me few days later, that after searching for a job she was unable to secure any good one.
Asked her how about learning a craft? she said she talked to her dad about it instead, he shouted on her to go and meet her boyfriend to give her money to go and learn a skill.

Lol, this got me thinking,

Is it the responsibility of the parent or the boyfriend/ girlfriend to acquaint their wards with a means of livelihood?

you should have replied to her:" tell your fada that it aint a BF's job to do that, it is PARENTS DUTY as you (BF) are only here for free toto and fun. remind the fada that, until you marry the babe, you shouldnt invest any dime on her

thats what bride price is for, aka to recoup the money the parent invested in raising and providing her with skills that she could use in marriage. imagine paying for this babe's skills for her to later go marry someone and benefit their family....kai!

dont worry urself
the money would be deducted from the bride price
see it as as investment

boyfwend:
I told my girlfriend to be productive with her time, she called me few days later, that after searching for a job she was unable to secure any good one.
Asked her how about learning a craft? she said she talked to her dad about it instead, he shouted on her to go and meet her boyfriend to give her money to go and learn a skill.

Lol, this got me thinking,

Is it the responsibility of the parent or the boyfriend/ girlfriend to acquaint their wards with a means of livelihood?

Since you are digging hole meant for husband, I think you should endeavor to carry few of responsibilities of husband nah

Oya! Them wan share the Bill 50-50 no cheating

drmuchin:
dont worry urself
the money would be deducted from the bride price
see it as as investment

And if she later marry someone else?

PerfectStranger:
And if she later marry someone else?

BREAKFAST

Tell the papa make he die ist b4 you fit take im responsibility

Nah your girlfriend carry that scope come op. I will call her a smart one

I put it to you that her father didn't say anything, neither did she ask her Father about any craft...That word came straight from the covens of manipulation which is likely to work on you, if not now, in weeks to come...

If you like, go on and Simp for her, she will come back home one day to inform you that she met one amazing guy and the rest will be history...

PS: As for me, I can't advice any nigga on how to spend their money, I can only give you akonuche...

Chris2863:
Nah your girlfriend carry that scope come op. I will call her a smart one

Op no just smart

OP,OP,OP ,. How many times did I call you?
You can give her money to learn work since it is not mine
I will advise you follow your heart don't be a KPEKUS MAN, Think with your head not with your J.K,OP BE CAREFUL AND WISE.

MY OPINION NO SHADES