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I Just Found Out That My Girlfriend Of Four Years Is A Chronic Cheat ... by cocoboss(m): 2:15pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
[color=#006600][/color]Good day everyone , i have been a member of this beautiful platform since 2019 hence why I’m posting this with my real account I won’t get mad about the insults or pain I would feel when I go through the comment section because my only mistake was falling in love with the wrong person. Early 2019 I met this beautiful damsel at my place of work back then I’m 26 and she would be 23 by October we became friends , from friends we became lovers and we both resigned to pursue greater opportunities in life Well I established a business for myself , and I was earning pretty well at the time and doing well for myself as the only son of my family From my little business I supported her and her brother the best way I could Recently my business collapsed because my sister was scammed at one of my branch which she handled and it affected me so much because she lost everything I worked hard for that day Life has been messy , I have been struggling since then Thank God for my loving family that has always supported me and stayed with me through depression Communication with my girl reduced drastically, at some point I felt the world was against me The relationship of four years became a mere joke as everyday the communication reduced and she instantly became unavailable, always picking up fights with me , manipulative with her words and deceitful by her actions I was heartbroken , emotionally exhausted and tired , I told my mom about it .. And she gave me a very powerful booklet to use and speak to God every night and tell him to strengthen me and expose every thing or person that has been deceiving me That night I dreamt about my said girlfriend and a friend The lord exposed them to me in that dream , when I woke up I told my mom what I saw and she smiled I noticed my girl has been avoiding me but I looked for a way to lure her to my place and that faithful day she came , I knew I wasn’t going to get the truth from her lips So I asked for her phone , first she started blabbing that I heard no right whatsoever to seize her phone even if I were the one that bought it for her After much argument and dragging of the phone , I took it and went into action while going through it my girl knelt down and started crying bitterly confessing to me that she has been dating a guy in turkey though they haven’t met but was in a romantic relationship I said ok but I still have to be sure I went ahead and searched her phone , her chats and Snapchat lo and behold I saw multiple videos of my said girlfriend and another guy doing sex video calls She was busy exposing her private parts to him And so many videos of them together on bed and their chats all along , I thought her bro was my strong ally and I needed to screenshot what I saw as an evidence to show him then move on with my life as I’m struggling at the time I went to her chat with her brother too , and my heart was broken it was clear that she told him that the guy was her preferred person Their relationship kicked off early this year and then my business was booming until recently so she has two guys she had been cheating with The guy in diaspora And the said guy that has been funding her and turned her to a sex slave That she couldn’t stay with me now , she needed someone that could marry her and I’m not that persn because my business has crumbled All this happened in the presence of my family .. I slept with her phone and dismissed her to go home She came this morning , crying and begging my mom and sisters that it was a mistake My mom told her how disappointed she was, my girl spent the whole day at my place crying and begging , talking to my sisters to beg me ..........I forwarded everything I saw to her brother that I have been supporting all this years he has been calling me to beg me But my mind is made up .. the deed has been done I have been on this forum for way too long and it has impacted me in so many ways And I will never , ever forgive a CHEAT I didn’t create this story to ask for people’s opinion if I should accept her back I just want every men out there struggling going out of their way to please women to understand that LOYALTY is very very RARE don’t waste your time , and make sure you always check your partners phone to avoid stories that touch Thank you Below is the chat of her continuous pleading and begging .. but nah , I have moved on Mynd444 front page please 21 Likes 5 Shares
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Re: I Just Found Out That My Girlfriend Of Four Years Is A Chronic Cheat ... by God1000(m): 2:17pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
The relationship wasn't built on true love, but on money and material things, that's the reason for her new behaviour and cheating since that money isn't available again Just let her go, the earlier the better This is why I laugh when ladies set ridiculous standards forgetting that something can happen tomorrow and that's when true love will prevail, but some of them aren't even ready to endure with a man when the chips are down As a lady, if you date or marry a man because of his money, what happens when that money is gone, you dump him and move to another man, that's nonsense A guy who is earning 50k today can become a millionaire tomorrow and a guy earning 200k today can become poor tomorrow due to unforeseen circumstances. Let's make the choices that we can live with. Stop looking for already made men that drive cars with fake love, help build his life, don't ruin him. A lady once posted here that she can't date a guy that doesn't own a car, she doesn't care whether such a guy is criminal or not, he must ride a big car according to her. Sorry about your situation bro, you will find another good woman. 30 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Just Found Out That My Girlfriend Of Four Years Is A Chronic Cheat ... by MrBachelor: 2:21pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
I just skimmed through. Sorry about the heartbreak. 6 Likes |
Re: I Just Found Out That My Girlfriend Of Four Years Is A Chronic Cheat ... by blazingblender(m): 2:23pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
Mehn this is so painful sincerely... Why is love so hard to find ? True love .... Is scam The only person you can love truelly is yourself .. Sometimes we don't even love our selfs 24 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Just Found Out That My Girlfriend Of Four Years Is A Chronic Cheat ... by zeuss: 2:24pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
Hard luck, you fell for the wrong women.....many women are the opposite of her....please tell the book did your mother give you to read and pray with? 13 Likes |
Re: I Just Found Out That My Girlfriend Of Four Years Is A Chronic Cheat ... by Nobody: 2:24pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
Hey yah, take heart You know some girls can be very useless 10 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Just Found Out That My Girlfriend Of Four Years Is A Chronic Cheat ... by BiafranBushBoy: 2:24pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
Wow 2 Likes |
Re: I Just Found Out That My Girlfriend Of Four Years Is A Chronic Cheat ... by cocoboss(m): 2:27pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
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Re: I Just Found Out That My Girlfriend Of Four Years Is A Chronic Cheat ... by Boogyman557: 2:29pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
Holly Gram It's a lesson for u and to all SIMple men out der.. U de SPONSOR woman and her brother, them de der dey play u for back.. Na u still buy her the phone wey she use de do XXXX chat and Bleep video with other guys.. I bin de plan to come BLAST BLAST ur left leg wit my old KALA but I thank JAH sey u don lean ur lesson and u don WISE up, just like 3 WISE men.. LITE UP my WEED in peace WTF MAN! 19 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: I Just Found Out That My Girlfriend Of Four Years Is A Chronic Cheat ... by chigoziri2403(m): 2:30pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
I know how painful it can be Psychologically you can be demoralised because of the time spent and expectations But look at the positive side, you didn't marry her,and this will save you the future trauma of diagnosing your children paternity 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Just Found Out That My Girlfriend Of Four Years Is A Chronic Cheat ... by immortalcrown(m): 2:30pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
Hmmm! What I do not understand is the essence of her apology. Has she not told her brother she prefers the other guy to you? Is she now begging to change her preference? 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Just Found Out That My Girlfriend Of Four Years Is A Chronic Cheat ... by Amb1045(m): 2:33pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
Move on bro. You need to understand how relationship works, don't put all your hope on one woman. They will always disappoint you when you list expect it. Women can't be trusted when as a man you're doing well in terms of cash flow. When money no dee them go abandon you for the next guy available. Get multiple female friends until you're ready to settle down. Only men that LOVE, women are opportunist. They move with the best option. Have that in mind then you can have peace 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Just Found Out That My Girlfriend Of Four Years Is A Chronic Cheat ... by DBestDoc(f): 2:33pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
You should block her number immediately too. Wicked people disgust me so much Tell her you’ll get her arrested any day you find her at your house. Hoping you didn’t cheat and deceive her while you were dating though ‘cause karma does its thing when we least expect. I wish you all the best in your future endeavors 5 Likes |
Re: I Just Found Out That My Girlfriend Of Four Years Is A Chronic Cheat ... by dhiqson(m): 2:37pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
cocoboss: I've gone thru your previous posts and seen that you insulted guys that told you not to do the bolded aka Redpilers according to some here Well, I've no words for you All i can say is #CUmRadeTalIban 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Just Found Out That My Girlfriend Of Four Years Is A Chronic Cheat ... by cocoboss(m): 2:39pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
I’m heartbroken, four years is no joke a woman I was planning to engage next year on our anniversary |
Re: I Just Found Out That My Girlfriend Of Four Years Is A Chronic Cheat ... by lolu2019: 2:40pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
Na women mata u carry for head. 2 Likes |
Re: I Just Found Out That My Girlfriend Of Four Years Is A Chronic Cheat ... by cocoboss(m): 2:41pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
God1000: A woman I was planning to engage by February next year on our anniversary 3 Likes |
Re: I Just Found Out That My Girlfriend Of Four Years Is A Chronic Cheat ... by Nobody: 2:41pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
If you take her back na thunder go fire you. Na the phone wey you buy for her she wan collect make she blacklist you for life 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Just Found Out That My Girlfriend Of Four Years Is A Chronic Cheat ... by Lastpharoah33: 2:42pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
I'm really speechless, Events like this makes me look at the other gender in a way. Take heart, brah. 11 Likes |
Re: I Just Found Out That My Girlfriend Of Four Years Is A Chronic Cheat ... by cumoverna: 2:45pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
Chris brown has been saying it since 1944 THESE HOES AINT LOYAL. 10 Likes |
Re: I Just Found Out That My Girlfriend Of Four Years Is A Chronic Cheat ... by cumoverna: 2:47pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
Lastpharoah33:It's not only you o, the way I look them eh, I nor know as I want take marry, I de pray to God to help me change my mentality about the female gender. And I have sisters. HA. 6 Likes |
Re: I Just Found Out That My Girlfriend Of Four Years Is A Chronic Cheat ... by Elporo(m): 2:52pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
Dude, they don't make them like our moms anymore. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Just Found Out That My Girlfriend Of Four Years Is A Chronic Cheat ... by cocoboss(m): 2:53pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
DBestDoc:Thank you 2 Likes |
Re: I Just Found Out That My Girlfriend Of Four Years Is A Chronic Cheat ... by cocoboss(m): 2:54pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
Revolution2022:My fam pleaded with me to give her the phone , if was after I gave her the phone she started texting me I have noting to lose , let her have the phone 3 Likes |
Re: I Just Found Out That My Girlfriend Of Four Years Is A Chronic Cheat ... by gaby(m): 2:55pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
Love, in the real sense of it is actually selfish but most people still don't get it. We love to satisfy a deep yearning from self and whoever is available to satisfy this yearning becomes the one we say we love. The matter dey confusing sef.... No one can love you the way you'd love yourself. Every other love is a conditional and "user" kinda love. 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Just Found Out That My Girlfriend Of Four Years Is A Chronic Cheat ... by Yohans(m): 2:56pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
Take heart bro. One thing I learnt about relationships is that "the more you raise a woman's value, the more you lower yours". 27 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: I Just Found Out That My Girlfriend Of Four Years Is A Chronic Cheat ... by Chris2863(m): 3:00pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
immortalcrown:she wants to change her preference for the moment but she will return to her game 3 Likes |
Re: I Just Found Out That My Girlfriend Of Four Years Is A Chronic Cheat ... by Sammy101111(m): 3:03pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
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Re: I Just Found Out That My Girlfriend Of Four Years Is A Chronic Cheat ... by Sammy101111(m): 3:03pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
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Re: I Just Found Out That My Girlfriend Of Four Years Is A Chronic Cheat ... by Slmgirldippussy: 3:03pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
Since I learn that art of BDSM from R.Kelly Bitches matter no dey pain me again This morning alone I don chook girl wey think say by Monday I will get her 400k loan. She said anything for you baby omo Nandini tie her hand ,blindfold her then make her suck my dick. I don Taya...bitches won kill me On Monday I know it's vawulence 16 Likes |
Re: I Just Found Out That My Girlfriend Of Four Years Is A Chronic Cheat ... by sehin79(m): 3:06pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
well you got served big time... relationship is a 2 way thing...especially in this era of GEN Z... because they are expose to alot of this. aka internet era. so if you are a man that invest in a woman without her contributing anything then you are in big trouble... because in otherwords she would looking at you paying for her services and in that case she as every right to look for the highest bidder in all situation. so learn from this and make sure you get a lady that is hard working and ambitious like yourself... don't take her back... she would not change she is only sorry for being caught not for what she did.... there good girls in Nigeria just open your eyes and make sure they have something doing...meaning working a proper business for her money that kind go appreciate you wey dey hussle. as bizness is up and down at times.. and always don't try to impress any girl with money... don't always think you have to take care of your girlfriend because if you are not there wouldn't she survive... only come in when its an emergency.... relationship is all about building a future together it is not one sided. not in this ERA... 11 Likes |
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