Happy new month y'all. I'll go straight to the point. Pls I need your advise.

Yesterday evening (6:10pm) when I came back from work, a friend of mine who live down the street invited me over to his birthday party. So I quickly freshened up and I went for the party.

There was enough drinks (alcohol), smoke and goat meat pepper soup. Although I don't smoke. I only drink and it's occasionally.

After taking few green bottles, I know I would be very hungry later, so I pleaded with my girlfriend to help me prepare jollof rice and meat, that I'm at a friend's party. I sent her 9k to prepare the food.

As at 8:45pm she called me she's already at my house with the food. So I left the party and headed home to open the door in order not to keep her waiting. Her house isn't far, it's just #100 Keke or bike down to my place

She sat on the couch playing game on her phone, I don't understand what came over me, I was under the influence of alcohol. Omoh! Alcohol na bastard.

The next thing I did, I started kissing her which she responded, she knew I was drunk, she could smell alcohol all over me, then she persuaded me to go eat my food before it's get cold and go take my bath.

Before I knew it I pushed her on the couch to lie down while I unzip my trouser, she said I should stop that she's not in the mood, I didn't listen to her, she crossed her legs so tight while struggling with me that I should stop that she's on her period yet I didn't listen to her.

I was forcing & trying to open her legs while she crossed her legs so tight struggling with me. I was almost gaining access Until she said "Peter do you realize you're about to rape me? Please stop"

Omoh! The word rape reset my head, the highness cleared off my eyes immediately. Honestly I didn't even know what I was doing. I knelt down and I begin to apologize to her.

She stood up and left immediately. I called to apologize but she didn't pick my calls. This morning she texted me saying "I thought I was safe whenever I'm with you. You scared me so much that I don't know if I could continue this relationship"

This girl is a beautiful, caring and nice girl and our relationship is just 5 months. I really love this girl. I don't want to lose her. She always give me good sex but I don't understand what happened yesterday. Infact I quit alcohol from now henceforth. Shayo na bastard. Please how do I apologize to her.

Don't blame your actions on innocent alcohol. Your inability to control your gbola led to that not alcohol.

If talk say you remove 5k from that 9k you sent to her for food, and get yourself a paid kpekus, all these nonsense for no happen.

Learn not to revolve your life around one pussyy.

She say she no want you still dey force am,be like prison dey hungry you.
You know say na this Kain small act dey make men go prison,2sec she don pin you down with rape case.
We should stop trying to take advantage of a lady regardless of the relationship status.

Call her,and ask for a Meetup if she no gree then go her house go apologise.No make anybody tell you anything,you f up.

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Perez99:
Happy new month y'all. I'll go straight to the point. Pls I need your advise.

Yesterday evening (6:10pm) when I came back from work, a friend of mine who live down the street invited me over to his birthday party. So I quickly freshened up and I went for the party.

There was enough drinks (alcohol), smoke and goat meat pepper soup. Although I don't smoke. I only drink and it's occasionally.

After taking few green bottles, I know my I would be very hungry later, so I pleaded with my girlfriend to help me prepare jollof rice and meat, that I'm at a friend's party. I sent her 9k to prepare the food.

As at 8:45pm she called me she's already at my house with the food. So I left the party and headed home to open the door in order not to keep her waiting. Her house isn't far, it's just #100 Keke or bike down to my place

She sat on the couch playing game on her phone, I don't understand what came over me, I was under the influence of alcohol. Omoh! Alcohol na bastard.

The next thing I did, I started kissing her which she responded, she knew I was drunk, she could smell alcohol all over me, then she persuaded me to go eat my food before it's get cold and go take my bath.

Before I knew it I pushed her on the couch to lie down while I unzip my trouser, she said I should stop that she's not in the mood, I didn't listen to her, she crossed her legs so tight while struggling with me that I should stop that she's on her period yet I didn't listen to her.

I was forcing & trying to open her legs while she crossed her legs so tight struggling with me. I was almost gaining access Until she said Peter do you realize you're about to rape me? Please stop.

Omoh! The word rape reset my head, the highness cleared off my eyes immediately. Honestly I didn't even know what I was doing. I knelt down and I begin to apologize to her.

She stood up and left immediately. I called to apologize but she didn't pick my calls. This morning she texted me saying "I thought I was safe whenever I'm with you. You scared me so much that I don't know if I could continue this relationship"

This girl is a beautiful, caring and nice girl and our relationship is just 5 months. I really love this girl. I don't want to lose her. She always give me good sex but I don't understand what happened yesterday. Infact I quit alcohol from now henceforth. Shayo na bastard. Please how do I apologize to her.

Keep calling her till she answers.If you know her residence,try going there,but of course you should know. Persist in calling her, also send text messages.She will definitely turn around.
The poor girl is terrified, judging from what she told you when you almost raped her.
The bottom line is you should visit her and try to mend things with her.Convince her of your sincere repentance.

I pray my generation of mothers raise our sons to be better.

Romanoff:
I pray my generation of mothers raise our sons to be better.

Zonefree:
Don't blame your actions on innocent alcohol. Your inability to control your gbola led to that not alcohol.
If talk say you remove 5k from that 9k you sent to her for food, and get yourself a paid kpekus, all these nonsense for no happen.
Learn not to revolve your life around one pussyy.

Abeg, I'm not a rapist. I try to avoid any crime that would tag me a rapist or a Murderer.

That name can destroy someone destiny, life ambition & career.

I'm a good guy. I'm not a rapist and I was under the influence of alcohol by my actions.

Romanoff:
I pray my generation of mothers raise our sons to be better.

Amen , op is a menace to the society

Tell her you did it under the influence of alcohol and it will never happen again.

Werey knelt down to beg a pvssy?!

Now, your mother is disappointed.
Simps children everwhere.
Indomie has destroy the fabrics of MAN in Naija.

SMH.

Perez99:
Abeg, I'm not a rapist. I try to avoid any crime that would tag me a rapist or a Murderer.

That name can destroy someone destiny, life ambition & career.

I'm a good guy. I'm not a rapist and I was under the influence of alcohol by my actions.

Good guy!
Na em you go drink yourself to stupor so tey you wan rape pesin pikin.
Ogbeni court no go follow you hear that one oo

Perez99:



Abeg, I'm not a rapist. I try to avoid any crime that would tag me a rapist or a Murderer.

That name can destroy someone destiny, life ambition & career.

I'm a good guy. I'm not a rapist and I was under the influence of alcohol by my actions.

Yesterday was not your first time of taking alcohol, right? Do you behave that way any time you take alcohol?

If your answer to my second question is NO, then, don't blame innocent alcohol for your action.

Ofemmanu1:
Werey knelt down to beg a pvssy?!


Now, your mother is disappointed.

Simps children everwhere.

Indomie has destroy the fabrics of MAN in Naija.


SMH.

So I shouldn't have apologized for my wrong actions? Do you even understand the word simp?

Irrespective of age, I believe everyone understands sex drive can be triggered by intoxication (highness), thoughts and sight both in male Nd female.. the fact that you did that was wrong but not to the extent of her quitting the relationship.. she by herself should understand what alcohol does except you're a wild guy that refused to type other of your "forkups".. if this was your 1st major forkup, I don't see any reason in ending the relationship.. next time, use your 9th sense by reading body languages even if you're the "most high"

Perez99:



Abeg, I'm not a rapist. I try to avoid any crime that would tag me a rapist or a Murderer.

That name can destroy someone destiny, life ambition & career.

I'm a good guy. I'm not a rapist and I was under the influence of alcohol by my actions.

just cos a bittch said "Rape* and youre already in overdrive?!

Your dad is very disappointed.

Perez99:
So I shouldn't have apologized for my wrong actions? Do you even understand the word simp?

You're a SIMP for trying to monopolize the kpekus. When you tried to have your way with her and she said NO, it's expected you let her be and look for another kpekus to calm your nerves.

Begging and trying to force her will only make her feel her kpekus is gold crested.

Men should learn to diversify their hunt for kpekus.

Perez99:
So I shouldn't have apologized for my wrong actions? Do you even understand the word simp?

When you apologize unnecessarily, you give away your power.

You shouldn't have knelt down.


When last did you kneel for your mother?

Give me the girl digit let me help talk to her
I repair broken relationship......

Siofra, Jennyclay, Candidlady, Saphiere, cococandy, Romanoff and Islandlady.. Food don ready ooo. As E dey hot.

Op, these set of people are coming to drag you like tiger generator.

Perez99:
Happy new month y'all. I'll go straight to the point. Pls I need your advise.

Yesterday evening (6:10pm) when I came back from work, a friend of mine who live down the street invited me over to his birthday party. So I quickly freshened up and I went for the party.

There was enough drinks (alcohol), smoke and goat meat pepper soup. Although I don't smoke. I only drink and it's occasionally.

After taking few green bottles, I know I would be very hungry later, so I pleaded with my girlfriend to help me prepare jollof rice and meat, that I'm at a friend's party. I sent her 9k to prepare the food.

As at 8:45pm she called me she's already at my house with the food. So I left the party and headed home to open the door in order not to keep her waiting. Her house isn't far, it's just #100 Keke or bike down to my place

She sat on the couch playing game on her phone, I don't understand what came over me, I was under the influence of alcohol. Omoh! Alcohol na bastard.

The next thing I did, I started kissing her which she responded, she knew I was drunk, she could smell alcohol all over me, then she persuaded me to go eat my food before it's get cold and go take my bath.

Before I knew it I pushed her on the couch to lie down while I unzip my trouser, she said I should stop that she's not in the mood, I didn't listen to her, she crossed her legs so tight while struggling with me that I should stop that she's on her period yet I didn't listen to her.

I was forcing & trying to open her legs while she crossed her legs so tight struggling with me. I was almost gaining access Until she said "Peter do you realize you're about to rape me? Please stop"

Omoh! The word rape reset my head, the highness cleared off my eyes immediately. Honestly I didn't even know what I was doing. I knelt down and I begin to apologize to her.

She stood up and left immediately. I called to apologize but she didn't pick my calls. This morning she texted me saying "I thought I was safe whenever I'm with you. You scared me so much that I don't know if I could continue this relationship"

This girl is a beautiful, caring and nice girl and our relationship is just 5 months. I really love this girl. I don't want to lose her. She always give me good sex but I don't understand what happened yesterday. Infact I quit alcohol from now henceforth. Shayo na bastard. Please how do I apologize to her.

9000 naira to cook rice maybe nah wetin make u wan fuk her join to complete the money

Romanoff:
I pray my generation of mothers raise our sons to be better.

I wanted to send u pm to drop ur hand want to see ur face

makeway01:
9000 naira to cook rice maybe nah wetin make u wan fuk her join to complete the money

Senior man, don't reason like this.

Besides I've sent her money beyond that amount which I have never make any attempt to rape her. I no just understand wetin happen yesterday.

Bro go nd read about mason Greenwood of man utd

Perez99:
Happy new month y'all. I'll go straight to the point. Pls I need your advise.

Yesterday evening (6:10pm) when I came back from work, a friend of mine who live down the street invited me over to his birthday party. So I quickly freshened up and I went for the party.

There was enough drinks (alcohol), smoke and goat meat pepper soup. Although I don't smoke. I only drink and it's occasionally.

After taking few green bottles, I know I would be very hungry later, so I pleaded with my girlfriend to help me prepare jollof rice and meat, that I'm at a friend's party. I sent her 9k to prepare the food.

As at 8:45pm she called me she's already at my house with the food. So I left the party and headed home to open the door in order not to keep her waiting. Her house isn't far, it's just #100 Keke or bike down to my place

She sat on the couch playing game on her phone, I don't understand what came over me, I was under the influence of alcohol. Omoh! Alcohol na bastard.

The next thing I did, I started kissing her which she responded, she knew I was drunk, she could smell alcohol all over me, then she persuaded me to go eat my food before it's get cold and go take my bath.

Before I knew it I pushed her on the couch to lie down while I unzip my trouser, she said I should stop that she's not in the mood, I didn't listen to her, she crossed her legs so tight while struggling with me that I should stop that she's on her period yet I didn't listen to her.

I was forcing & trying to open her legs while she crossed her legs so tight struggling with me. I was almost gaining access Until she said "Peter do you realize you're about to rape me? Please stop"

Omoh! The word rape reset my head, the highness cleared off my eyes immediately. Honestly I didn't even know what I was doing. I knelt down and I begin to apologize to her.

She stood up and left immediately. I called to apologize but she didn't pick my calls. This morning she texted me saying "I thought I was safe whenever I'm with you. You scared me so much that I don't know if I could continue this relationship"

This girl is a beautiful, caring and nice girl and our relationship is just 5 months. I really love this girl. I don't want to lose her. She always give me good sex but I don't understand what happened yesterday. Infact I quit alcohol from now henceforth. Shayo na bastard. Please how do I apologize to her.

she has gotten a good reason to dump u, she has been looking for one reason to dump u and yh she has seen one, No girl that really likes u would dump d relationship on such trivial issue, Infact apart from use of force, she should even find it appealing, shows a whole lot of aggression that's typical with males, and it goes to show u av ability to fight for wat u want, most girls would look past ur act and even grow to admire u for it, dont call her or text her, keep calm if she takes u seriously she would come around

You bleeped up man. Serious Bleep up.

Anyways, there is nothing you can do except to apologize for your actions and hope she accepts your apology.

If she accepts your apology, never behave like that again. In fact, stay away from alcohol completely.

Heathrow44:



she has gotten a good reason to dump u, she has been looking for one reason to dump u and yh she has seen one, No girl that really likes u would dump d relationship on such trivial issue, Infact apart from use of force, she should even find it appealing, shows a whole lot of aggression that's typical with males, and it goes to show u av ability to fight for wat u want, most girls would look past ur act and even grow to admire u for it, dont call her or text her, keep calm if she takes u seriously she would come around

Are your really trying to justify rape? Wtf is wrong with you?

Perez99:
Happy new month y'all. I'll go straight to the point. Pls I need your advise.

Yesterday evening (6:10pm) when I came back from work, a friend of mine who live down the street invited me over to his birthday party. So I quickly freshened up and I went for the party.

There was enough drinks (alcohol), smoke and goat meat pepper soup. Although I don't smoke. I only drink and it's occasionally.

After taking few green bottles, I know I would be very hungry later, so I pleaded with my girlfriend to help me prepare jollof rice and meat, that I'm at a friend's party. I sent her 9k to prepare the food.

As at 8:45pm she called me she's already at my house with the food. So I left the party and headed home to open the door in order not to keep her waiting. Her house isn't far, it's just #100 Keke or bike down to my place

She sat on the couch playing game on her phone, I don't understand what came over me, I was under the influence of alcohol. Omoh! Alcohol na bastard.

The next thing I did, I started kissing her which she responded, she knew I was drunk, she could smell alcohol all over me, then she persuaded me to go eat my food before it's get cold and go take my bath.

Before I knew it I pushed her on the couch to lie down while I unzip my trouser, she said I should stop that she's not in the mood, I didn't listen to her, she crossed her legs so tight while struggling with me that I should stop that she's on her period yet I didn't listen to her.

I was forcing & trying to open her legs while she crossed her legs so tight struggling with me. I was almost gaining access Until she said "Peter do you realize you're about to rape me? Please stop"

Omoh! The word rape reset my head, the highness cleared off my eyes immediately. Honestly I didn't even know what I was doing. I knelt down and I begin to apologize to her.

She stood up and left immediately. I called to apologize but she didn't pick my calls. This morning she texted me saying "I thought I was safe whenever I'm with you. You scared me so much that I don't know if I could continue this relationship"

This girl is a beautiful, caring and nice girl and our relationship is just 5 months. I really love this girl. I don't want to lose her. She always give me good sex but I don't understand what happened yesterday. Infact I quit alcohol from now henceforth. Shayo na bastard. Please how do I apologize to her.

while Rape is bad not a fan of it,that said already learn to control yourself next time no beg her again zero up and move on better fish still dey for water stop begging women twice am sorry is enough,all this oyibo package the make women feel some shit supersonic stuff no dey beg women again if ur to do so " just say am sorry" don't start begging like ur life depends on it Taah!

Inasmuch as you fūcked up by taking more than you can handle, if your are a good guy as you claim to be all over here, your babe might (she not obligated to) understand that your were under the influence. If she no come back again, take your L in peace (it might eventually be a win). Just pray make she no cast you for street.

Las las, no de put hopes for one toto. If to say you book dickpointment with her and she refuse, you fo carry your 9k chop better still carry better hoe TDB. Now you go dey chop insults for here from people wey likely no fit talk to you face to face.

Es350:

Are your trying to justify rape? Wtf is wrong with you?

the males on this section are really toxic. Most of em are teenagers

Is there something I am missing here?

Seems everyone is blowing this out of proportion?

You have been humping this shorty like you rightly said countless times. You admit she gives you the shìt.

You were high on alcohol.

Then you wanted some. She wasn't ready for your shenanigans.

She was on her period.

Everyone else calm the fùck down.

It's not like it's a one time thingy. Guy has been on a roll.

If she weren't on her period, dude, I'd say you get another one. It's so vexing how some ladies control sex.

A road you always travelled.

I think differently here.

However, u get her back, just don't demean your arse in the process.

You already lost points bending the knee.

Sex, traditionally, is the forte of the female.

You can't even touch a woman without her permission talk less smashing.

Be circumspect dude.

DanieleLorenzo:
Inasmuch as you fūcked up by taking more than you can handle, if your are a good guy as you claim to be all over here, your babe might (she not obligated to) understand that your were under the influence. If she no come back again, take your L in peace (it might eventually be a win). Just pray make she no cast you for street.

Las las, no de put hopes for one toto. If to say you book dickpointment with her and she refuse, you fo carry your 9k chop better still carry better hoe TDB. Now you go dey chop insults for here from people wey likely no fit talk to you face to face.

I dared the Op to drop the bitch digit and see if I no scatter her pvssy within one week.
She go dey beg join sef.

Those pvssyass-bitches doesn't want a weak man.

The Op is weak, he's has given away his powers to a stupid kpekus.

Heathrow44:



she has gotten a good reason to dump u, she has been looking for one reason to dump u and yh she has seen one, No girl that really likes u would dump d relationship on such trivial issue, Infact apart from use of force, she should even find it appealing, shows a whole lot of aggression that's typical with males, and it goes to show u av ability to fight for wat u want, most girls would look past ur act and even grow to admire u for it, dont call her or text her, keep calm if she takes u seriously she would come around

What if she has encountered such trauma in the past that made her act like that?
You can’t blame her. The society has made women think one sided so is left for her to deduce that op wanted to rape her, yes a close act of rape because there was force and no consent. So she’s right to think that way.