Resuscitate:

Chairman let me give you a little advice: whenever you offend someone and the issue is something serious that could be used to nail you, don't ever apologize by sms or through any medium that allows storage of your apology because should the person decide not to let go, he/she can use your stored apology against you in the court of law. Just saying!

Exactly what I learnt in 2015 from my friend and the thing saved my ass in 2017 that I most did the same thing OP just did.
My own issue is that I housed a homeless girl in my apartment. As a bachelor and the girl need help on where she will lay her head for a while till see a good house to relocate to. She is my close female friend then, no mutual feeling though. She had misunderstanding with her cousin sis and the sister sent her parking from the house.
I accepted the offer to house her, but after few weeks of both of us living together like blood brother and sister bad thing entered my head.
One fateful morning as she was taking her bath to rush to work. I banged into the bathroom without her consest, she told me to stop and go away. Omoh her curvy body and big ass and round boob I saw made me think of taking advantage of the help I rendered to her.
Fast forward to Saturday of that same week. Mumu me have the urge to straff and tried to force my way on her but she refused crying and telling me not to rape her. She told me she is still a virgin and I should'nt think of deflowering her because of the shelter I gave to her.
She cried bitterly with pitiful words for me to take her the way we are before and remove the bad idea I have for her. I obeyed and let her go and pleaded with her to forgive me for my wrong.

In less than 2 weeks after that incidence she got her own apartment and left for good. But one funny thing happened in 2019, she wanted to use the rape saga to hold me down. She told her friends how I tried to rape her when she was homeless, and those her friends advised her to take the issue to the right authority. Luckily to me, she doesn't have any evidence to use and hold me down. Cus the drama that happened between me and her in 2017 were done offline, none of it where recorded nor discussed on phone call nor SMS/WhatsApp.

I learnt my lesson in a hard way. Since then I respect the authority of a woman when it comes to sex and never will I take advantage of them.
Say no to rape.

Zonefree:
Don't blame your actions on innocent alcohol. Your inability to control your gbola led to that not alcohol.

If talk say you remove 5k from that 9k you sent to her for food, and get yourself a paid kpekus, all these nonsense for no happen.

Learn not to revolve your life around one pussyy.

Innocent alcohol. I DIED LAUGHING LOL

Perez99:



Abeg, I'm not a rapist. I try to avoid any crime that would tag me a rapist or a Murderer.

That name can destroy someone destiny, life ambition & career.

I'm a good guy. I'm not a rapist and I was under the influence of alcohol by my actions.

Stop defending nonsense. Are you the first to drink?

folks4luv:

A lot of guys on Nairaland need mental help. Their stupidity and wilful ignorance could make a person sick to the stomach. I really hope they are not a mirror of the world outside the Internet

It is the main reason I don't respond to dms or hardly ever.

I cannot stand the mentality. Some of these guys cannot take no for an answer yet will not do anything to improve their personality or mentality. I think I am even tired of Nigerian men in general.

A female is not your birthright. She has choices to make as well.

My sister, I will never appreciate a man who does not know how to treat a woman right.

grandstar:


Why are some of you so unforgiving?

He realized what he was about to do was wrong and stopped himself. He even apologized to the girl. Let's show some empathy. It's not a time to be self righteous.

Lets try and be like our father in heaven (Read Psalms 103:8-14, Proverbs 28:13, Matthew 71-4)

Give this advice to your sister(s).

saphiere:
You are a rapist. I believe this is not your first time or first girl.

You lots keep proving me right when I say that all men are either rapists or potential rapists.

Stfu and you girls are all hoes

Ofemmanu1:


I dared the Op to drop the bitch digit and see if I no scatter her pvssy within one week.
She go dey beg join sef.

Those pvssyass-bitches doesn't want a weak man.

The Op is weak, he's has given away his powers to a stupid kpekus.

guy abeg you too dey make mouth. You think na all girls mumu or cheap ba?

If e sure for you i go drop my babe noba make me bet on top. You no go see kiss collect

Deal?

vastolord4:
Irrespective of age, I believe everyone understands sex drive can be triggered by intoxication (highness), thoughts and sight both in male Nd female.. the fact that you did that was wrong but not to the extent of her quitting the relationship.. she by herself should understand what alcohol does except you're a wild guy that refused to type other of your "forkups".. if this was your 1st major forkup, I don't see any reason in ending the relationship.. next time, use your 9th sense by reading body languages even if you're the "most high"

keep encouraging rape

Oga you give girl 9k for jolof rice ? The girl go use 5k and pocket 4k. Nawao. No beg am. she go come by herself if she no see who give her 9k to cook jolof rice.

folks4luv:
Most girls will look past an attempted rape? Y'all talk like a pro about wha you know nothing about. Eisshhhh

u can say it in public, u hate rape but in reality, many stories abound to suggest otherwise, nobody should take girls words for it, they say things and mean d other, go and ask a newly married woman she would say she would rather die than cheat on her husband, 2wks into d marriage, they av sent troves of nudes to their ex bfs, even when they were pregnant, abi, u avant heard rape victims confess they enjoyed d act and even go to d extent of looking for the abuser?

AishaDant:


It is the main reason I don't respond to dms or hardly ever.

I cannot stand the mentality. Some of these guys cannot take no for an answer yet will not do anything to improve their personality or mentality. I think I am even tired of Nigerian men in general.

A female is not your birthright. She has choices to make as well.

My sister, I will never appreciate a man who does not know how to treat a woman right.

Who stopped you from marrying your same tribesmen na the fulanis just get the fvck out no dey over do

UyaiIncomparabl:

Thanks.

Don't mind him he's lying

Spherica177:
guy abeg you too dey make mouth. You think na all girls mumu or cheap ba?

If e sure for you i go drop my babe noba make me bet on top. You no go see kiss collect

Deal?

No one mind the werey him think sey na every girl him fit control

Miravik900:



Who stopped you from marrying your same tribesmen na the fulanis just get the fvck out no dey over do

A typical Nigerian man responding because he is guilty of everything I complained about.

I said what I said. *catwalks away*

Perez99:
Happy new month y'all. I'll go straight to the point. Pls I need your advise.

Yesterday evening (6:10pm) when I came back from work, a friend of mine who live down the street invited me over to his birthday party. So I quickly freshened up and I went for the party.

There was enough drinks (alcohol), smoke and goat meat pepper soup. Although I don't smoke. I only drink and it's occasionally.

After taking few green bottles, I know I would be very hungry later, so I pleaded with my girlfriend to help me prepare jollof rice and meat, that I'm at a friend's party. I sent her 9k to prepare the food.

As at 8:45pm she called me she's already at my house with the food. So I left the party and headed home to open the door in order not to keep her waiting. Her house isn't far, it's just #100 Keke or bike down to my place

She sat on the couch playing game on her phone, I don't understand what came over me, I was under the influence of alcohol. Omoh! Alcohol na bastard.

The next thing I did, I started kissing her which she responded, she knew I was drunk, she could smell alcohol all over me, then she persuaded me to go eat my food before it's get cold and go take my bath.

Before I knew it I pushed her on the couch to lie down while I unzip my trouser, she said I should stop that she's not in the mood, I didn't listen to her, she crossed her legs so tight while struggling with me that I should stop that she's on her period yet I didn't listen to her.

I was forcing & trying to open her legs while she crossed her legs so tight struggling with me. I was almost gaining access Until she said "Peter do you realize you're about to rape me? Please stop"

Omoh! The word rape reset my head, the highness cleared off my eyes immediately. Honestly I didn't even know what I was doing. I knelt down and I begin to apologize to her.

She stood up and left immediately. I called to apologize but she didn't pick my calls. This morning she texted me saying "I thought I was safe whenever I'm with you. You scared me so much that I don't know if I could continue this relationship"

This girl is a beautiful, caring and nice girl and our relationship is just 5 months. I really love this girl. I don't want to lose her. She always give me good sex but I don't understand what happened yesterday. Infact I quit alcohol from now henceforth. Shayo na bastard. Please how do I apologize to her.

This is total nonsense.

How can you be that drunk and yet you remember all the sordid details?

The bottom line is you should visit her and try to mend things with her.Convince her of your sincere repentance.

Perez99:
Happy new month y'all. I'll go straight to the point. Pls I need your advise.
This girl is a beautiful, caring and nice girl and our relationship is just 5 months. I really love this girl. I don't want to lose her. She always give me good sex but I don't understand what happened yesterday. Infact I quit alcohol from now henceforth. Shayo na bastard. Please how do I apologize to her.

You bleeped up!!!You shouldn't have apologize
And this is the main reason every guy must learn to masturbate,cause if you don't,women will try to control and manipulate you with their vaginas...
The moment she mentioned rape,you should have left her on the sofa,go to your bathroom and masturbate.Then when you're done,you come out of the bathroom and send her away....She would have been the 1 begging you for sex by now,please learn to play the game of manipulation with you babe and also masturbate when required!!!

AishaDant:


A typical Nigerian man responding because he is guilty of everything I complained about.

I said what I said. *catwalks away*

Werey

Perez99:
Happy new month y'all. I'll go straight to the point. Pls I need your advise.

Yesterday evening (6:10pm) when I came back from work, a friend of mine who live down the street invited me over to his birthday party. So I quickly freshened up and I went for the party.

There was enough drinks (alcohol), smoke and goat meat pepper soup. Although I don't smoke. I only drink and it's occasionally.

After taking few green bottles, I know I would be very hungry later, so I pleaded with my girlfriend to help me prepare jollof rice and meat, that I'm at a friend's party. I sent her 9k to prepare the food.

As at 8:45pm she called me she's already at my house with the food. So I left the party and headed home to open the door in order not to keep her waiting. Her house isn't far, it's just #100 Keke or bike down to my place

She sat on the couch playing game on her phone, I don't understand what came over me, I was under the influence of alcohol. Omoh! Alcohol na bastard.

The next thing I did, I started kissing her which she responded, she knew I was drunk, she could smell alcohol all over me, then she persuaded me to go eat my food before it's get cold and go take my bath.

Before I knew it I pushed her on the couch to lie down while I unzip my trouser, she said I should stop that she's not in the mood, I didn't listen to her, she crossed her legs so tight while struggling with me that I should stop that she's on her period yet I didn't listen to her.

I was forcing & trying to open her legs while she crossed her legs so tight struggling with me. I was almost gaining access Until she said "Peter do you realize you're about to rape me? Please stop"

Omoh! The word rape reset my head, the highness cleared off my eyes immediately. Honestly I didn't even know what I was doing. I knelt down and I begin to apologize to her.

She stood up and left immediately. I called to apologize but she didn't pick my calls. This morning she texted me saying "I thought I was safe whenever I'm with you. You scared me so much that I don't know if I could continue this relationship"

This girl is a beautiful, caring and nice girl and our relationship is just 5 months. I really love this girl. I don't want to lose her. She always give me good sex but I don't understand what happened yesterday. Infact I quit alcohol from now henceforth. Shayo na bastard. Please how do I apologize to her.

I no go lie, she is right. She isn’t safe with you. You have rapist tendencies. Go for rehabilitation sir.

Oduduwa707:


So apparently, mention don become personal property? Useless thing.

Ewu
Na you I follow talk?
Why can't you just mind your business?
The person I mentioned sef never reply, na you wey I know no where you take come from dey reply.
Be like you don enter market before abi?
Yes, I will personalize the mention, oya kill yourself.
He..goat.

AishaDant:



Exactly!

Hmm

noble2faith:


It shall not be well with you and the 27 fools that liked your comment.

If to sey the girl wan deal with am, she for go report am for police station. Even if the op crawl like snake to beg her, it worths it.

Ahh guy, why you dey swear nau. I like the comment oo,

Heathrow44:



she has gotten a good reason to dump u, she has been looking for one reason to dump u and yh she has seen one, No girl that really likes u would dump d relationship on such trivial issue, Infact apart from use of force, she should even find it appealing, shows a whole lot of aggression that's typical with males, and it goes to show u av ability to fight for wat u want, most girls would look past ur act and even grow to admire u for it, dont call her or text her, keep calm if she takes u seriously she would come around

The guy needs to listen to Bobby rio.

ukaface:

Ewu
Na you I follow talk?
Why can't you just mind your business?
The person I mentioned sef never reply, na you wey I know no where you take come from dey reply.
Be like you don enter market before abi?
Yes, I will personalize the mention, oya kill yourself.
He..goat.

Useless thing feeling cool. Pako werey!

Oduduwa707:


Broomstick no qualify as woman, abeg.

Feel sorry for dat curve-less, bony body of yours!

This is body shaming. Not nice at all.

Hollybratt:
Don't mind him he's lying

Lol. Thanks, still.

Haynnie:

What if she has encountered such trauma in the past that made her act like that?
You can’t blame her. The society has made women think one sided so is left for her to deduce that op wanted to rape her, yes a close act of rape because there was force and no consent. So she’s right to think that way.

The girlfriend knows he wasn't himself but drunk it is a different case all together.

Never you blame yourself for any actions because people will see you as stupid. Better be polite in your submissions.

Lol. Saying all these shows you are very ignorant on rape and what it does to the body and the mind. No need engaging with you cause you can't get it

Heathrow44:



u can say it in public, u hate rape but in reality, many stories abound to suggest otherwise, nobody should take girls words for it, they say things and mean d other, go and ask a newly married woman she would say she would rather die than cheat on her husband, 2wks into d marriage, they av sent troves of nudes to their ex bfs, even when they were pregnant, abi, u avant heard rape victims confess they enjoyed d act and even go to d extent of looking for the abuser?

Oduduwa707:


Useless thing feeling cool. Pako werey!

fool
So what's bad being pako?
Sense is far from you o.

Perez99:
Bro, I'm a bachelor. She bought meat, rice and other jollof rice ingredients with the 9k

Na still the rice I chop this morning as breakfast before I go work.

Well, I don quit alcohol now, I'm a changed man.

Omo u get money to waste oh.
9k for rice and Ingredients
If am to eat with that amount outside in Accra in a top restaurant na 5 days that money go finish. Why didn't you buy your food outside since you want to eat.
You were desperate to ___ your girlfriend that very day.

Zonefree:
Don't blame your actions on innocent alcohol. Your inability to control your gbola led to that not alcohol.

If talk say you remove 5k from that 9k you sent to her for food, and get yourself a paid kpekus, all these nonsense for no happen.

Learn not to revolve your life around one pussyy.

guy u are bad i like this