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DanieleLorenzo:
His girlfriend I believe won't be woke enough to think of such.
Still a good advice though. Her friends fit put am for her body.

Don't assume o, humans are sometimes very unpredictable - mostly d ones you think you know too well. In such a situation or a situation that can be used to nail someone, don't ever apologize with any medium that can be used to store ur apology for future reference. Let everything be verbal and face to face.

Romanoff:
I pray my generation of mothers raise our sons to be better.

I cannot help for blame mothers too....

Fastest way to ruin your life is through rape you better run far away if you don't have self control

mysticwarrior:
Tell her you did it under the influence of alcohol and it will never happen again.

Bullsheet!

Alcohol only takes the shackles off the real you. So alcohol didn't do this. Op did.

Perez99:
Abeg, I'm not a rapist. I try to avoid any crime that would tag me a rapist or a Murderer.

That name can destroy someone destiny, life ambition & career.

I'm a good guy. I'm not a rapist and I was under the influence of alcohol by my actions.

Alcohol does not make you do anything. Instead it releases the lock on the gate that is holding the real you back. What you did was from what is stored up inside of you .

Perez99:
Happy new month y'all. I'll go straight to the point. Pls I need your advise.

Yesterday evening (6:10pm) when I came back from work, a friend of mine who live down the street invited me over to his birthday party. So I quickly freshened up and I went for the party.

There was enough drinks (alcohol), smoke and goat meat pepper soup. Although I don't smoke. I only drink and it's occasionally.

After taking few green bottles, I know I would be very hungry later, so I pleaded with my girlfriend to help me prepare jollof rice and meat, that I'm at a friend's party. I sent her 9k to prepare the food.

As at 8:45pm she called me she's already at my house with the food. So I left the party and headed home to open the door in order not to keep her waiting. Her house isn't far, it's just #100 Keke or bike down to my place

She sat on the couch playing game on her phone, I don't understand what came over me, I was under the influence of alcohol. Omoh! Alcohol na bastard.

The next thing I did, I started kissing her which she responded, she knew I was drunk, she could smell alcohol all over me, then she persuaded me to go eat my food before it's get cold and go take my bath.

Before I knew it I pushed her on the couch to lie down while I unzip my trouser, she said I should stop that she's not in the mood, I didn't listen to her, she crossed her legs so tight while struggling with me that I should stop that she's on her period yet I didn't listen to her.

I was forcing & trying to open her legs while she crossed her legs so tight struggling with me. I was almost gaining access Until she said "Peter do you realize you're about to rape me? Please stop"

Omoh! The word rape reset my head, the highness cleared off my eyes immediately. Honestly I didn't even know what I was doing. I knelt down and I begin to apologize to her.

She stood up and left immediately. I called to apologize but she didn't pick my calls. This morning she texted me saying "I thought I was safe whenever I'm with you. You scared me so much that I don't know if I could continue this relationship"

This girl is a beautiful, caring and nice girl and our relationship is just 5 months. I really love this girl. I don't want to lose her. She always give me good sex but I don't understand what happened yesterday. Infact I quit alcohol from now henceforth. Shayo na bastard. Please how do I apologize to her.

If you want us to help you, retract your statement about innocent alcohol. Yeye boi

One thing I've come to realise is that if Nigeria becomes a better and more disciplined country, 80% of Nigerians won't be able to survive it.
If you think I'm joking, look at the sick comments by men on the first 2 pages of the thread.

The girl don dey find opportunity to throway your greasy ass. You be mumu. Begging bitch wey you dey Bleep already onto rape. Ray wetin? She wasn't really into you to begin with.

Mufakirnaqdiun:
She say she no want you still dey force am,be like prison dey hungry you.
You know say na this Kain small act dey make men go prison,2sec she don pin you down with rape case.
We should stop trying to take advantage of a lady regardless of the relationship status.

Call her,and ask for a Meetup if she no gree then go her house go apologise.No make anybody tell you anything,you f up.

I the chuk prick inside babe wey the sleep .

Na the prick the wake am up


If she no want, na BDSM go settle am.
I am entitled to my babes kpekus anytime

Alcohol Na BASTARD

MADAFAKA!! Everybody shift make i stone am.

So Nigeria women still do not in the mood? Okay oooo

Zonefree:
Don't blame your actions on innocent alcohol. Your inability to control your gbola led to that not alcohol.

If talk say you remove 5k from that 9k you sent to her for food, and get yourself a paid kpekus, all these nonsense for no happen.

Learn not to revolve your life around one pussyy.

9k to cook one pot of jellof....a girlfriend!
Well, no comment

Every nigerian man is a potential rapist.

If you can even think of raping your girlfriend,that means no woman is safe with you.

If she decides to charge you to court for attempted rape,will you blame it on alcohol?

Zonefree:
Don't blame your actions on innocent alcohol. Your inability to control your gbola led to that not alcohol.

If talk say you remove 5k from that 9k you sent to her for food, and get yourself a paid kpekus, all these nonsense for no happen.

Learn not to revolve your life around one pussyy.

Save ur girl d stress of steady fu*k and get urself a paid olosho to satisfy ur gbola wenever u get high

Many men on Nairaland are seriously demented and have mental issues. Seun is also complicit by not banning stupid monikers. The mods are complicit by always pushing stupid posts to the front page.

As for the rape apologists defending the guys, may God deal with y'all.

Perez99:
Abeg, I'm not a rapist. I try to avoid any crime that would tag me a rapist or a Murderer.

That name can destroy someone destiny, life ambition & career.

I'm a good guy. I'm not a rapist and I was under the influence of alcohol by my actions.

Says the guy who just posted online about almost raping his gf.

Apologise to her, stay off the alcohol, and start reading about consent. You can't change the past but you can be better for the future.

Mufakirnaqdiun:
She say she no want you still dey force am,be like prison dey hungry you.
You know say na this Kain small act dey make men go prison,2sec she don pin you down with rape case.
We should stop trying to take advantage of a lady regardless of the relationship status.

Call her,and ask for a Meetup if she no gree then go her house go apologise.No make anybody tell you anything,you f up.

D guy really fu*k up…girls are different; na why I like my girl…she be always ready

nawaooo a rapist is capable of murdering his or her prey na ...... She should run for her life

Perez99:
Happy new month y'all. I'll go straight to the point. Pls I need your advise.

Yesterday evening (6:10pm) when I came back from work, a friend of mine who live down the street invited me over to his birthday party. So I quickly freshened up and I went for the party.

There was enough drinks (alcohol), smoke and goat meat pepper soup. Although I don't smoke. I only drink and it's occasionally.

After taking few green bottles, I know I would be very hungry later, so I pleaded with my girlfriend to help me prepare jollof rice and meat, that I'm at a friend's party. I sent her 9k to prepare the food.

As at 8:45pm she called me she's already at my house with the food. So I left the party and headed home to open the door in order not to keep her waiting. Her house isn't far, it's just #100 Keke or bike down to my place

She sat on the couch playing game on her phone, I don't understand what came over me, I was under the influence of alcohol. Omoh! Alcohol na bastard.

The next thing I did, I started kissing her which she responded, she knew I was drunk, she could smell alcohol all over me, then she persuaded me to go eat my food before it's get cold and go take my bath.

Before I knew it I pushed her on the couch to lie down while I unzip my trouser, she said I should stop that she's not in the mood, I didn't listen to her, she crossed her legs so tight while struggling with me that I should stop that she's on her period yet I didn't listen to her.

I was forcing & trying to open her legs while she crossed her legs so tight struggling with me. I was almost gaining access Until she said "Peter do you realize you're about to rape me? Please stop"

Omoh! The word rape reset my head, the highness cleared off my eyes immediately. Honestly I didn't even know what I was doing. I knelt down and I begin to apologize to her.

She stood up and left immediately. I called to apologize but she didn't pick my calls. This morning she texted me saying "I thought I was safe whenever I'm with you. You scared me so much that I don't know if I could continue this relationship"

This girl is a beautiful, caring and nice girl and our relationship is just 5 months. I really love this girl. I don't want to lose her. She always give me good sex but I don't understand what happened yesterday. Infact I quit alcohol from now henceforth. Shayo na bastard. Please how do I apologize to her.

If u had drank responsibly...May be who knows, it could have helped u.

Onyiiobi7735:
Keep calling her till she answers.If you know her residence,try going there,but of course you should know. Persist in calling her, also send text messages.She will definitely turn around.
The poor girl is terrified, judging from what she told you when you almost raped her.
The bottom line is you should visit her and try to mend things with her.Convince her of your sincere repentance.

How u sure say d guy don repent…him go still drink alcohol

I don't know for other people but for me, I don't misbehave when I take alkohol. Rather IAM more careful when I am drunk. For you to stop when she mentioned rape. You were in your right senses. Keep pleading with her for forgiveness.

Perez99:
Happy new month y'all. I'll go straight to the point. Pls I need your advise.

Yesterday evening (6:10pm) when I came back from work, a friend of mine who live down the street invited me over to his birthday party. So I quickly freshened up and I went for the party.

There was enough drinks (alcohol), smoke and goat meat pepper soup. Although I don't smoke. I only drink and it's occasionally.

After taking few green bottles, I know I would be very hungry later, so I pleaded with my girlfriend to help me prepare jollof rice and meat, that I'm at a friend's party. I sent her 9k to prepare the food.

As at 8:45pm she called me she's already at my house with the food. So I left the party and headed home to open the door in order not to keep her waiting. Her house isn't far, it's just #100 Keke or bike down to my place

She sat on the couch playing game on her phone, I don't understand what came over me, I was under the influence of alcohol. Omoh! Alcohol na bastard.

The next thing I did, I started kissing her which she responded, she knew I was drunk, she could smell alcohol all over me, then she persuaded me to go eat my food before it's get cold and go take my bath.

Before I knew it I pushed her on the couch to lie down while I unzip my trouser, she said I should stop that she's not in the mood, I didn't listen to her, she crossed her legs so tight while struggling with me that I should stop that she's on her period yet I didn't listen to her.

I was forcing & trying to open her legs while she crossed her legs so tight struggling with me. I was almost gaining access Until she said "Peter do you realize you're about to rape me? Please stop"

Omoh! The word rape reset my head, the highness cleared off my eyes immediately. Honestly I didn't even know what I was doing. I knelt down and I begin to apologize to her.

She stood up and left immediately. I called to apologize but she didn't pick my calls. This morning she texted me saying "I thought I was safe whenever I'm with you. You scared me so much that I don't know if I could continue this relationship"

This girl is a beautiful, caring and nice girl and our relationship is just 5 months. I really love this girl. I don't want to lose her. She always give me good sex but I don't understand what happened yesterday. Infact I quit alcohol from now henceforth. Shayo na bastard. Please how do I apologize to her.

Zonefree:
Don't blame your actions on innocent alcohol. Your inability to control your gbola led to that not alcohol.

If talk say you remove 5k from that 9k you sent to her for food, and get yourself a paid kpekus, all these nonsense for no happen.

Learn not to revolve your life around one pussyy.

You have a point. Op has a weak resolve. A man with firm control over his mind will never resort to rape or murder even under the influence of alcohol or weed
I can't say for other drugs like Colorado etc

Perez99:
Abeg, I'm not a rapist. I try to avoid any crime that would tag me a rapist or a Murderer.

That name can destroy someone destiny, life ambition & career.

I'm a good guy. I'm not a rapist and I was under the influence of alcohol by my actions.

No be say u be rapist…na attempted rapist u don be 4 now

Sometimes it baffles me when people call their Sin partners (Boyfriend & Girlfriend) good, caring and God fearing.

Sinners are their own worst enemies.

Opp repent and give your life to Christ!

There are alot of mentally ill, individuals on this forum.

Are you sure she is your girlfriend? I mean real girlfriend?

adubam:
Sometimes it baffles me when people call their Sin partners (Boyfriend & Girlfriend) good, caring and God fearing.

Sinners are their own worst enemies.

Opp repent and give your life to Christ!

Man of God abi na mummy Go u be

Perez99:
So I shouldn't have apologized for my wrong actions? Do you even understand the word simp?

Oga you're a SIMP man!

As the girl no gree, what stopped you from looking for a girl outside to bang? When girls full everywhere waiting for guys that will bang them.

unnecessarily apology to a girl is irrelevant, you give away your power. It makes you look weak, insecure and less in command.

Kneeling down portrays you're a pussy ass nigga.


When last did you kneel for your mother?

Perez99:
Happy new month y'all. I'll go straight to the point. Pls I need your advise.

Yesterday evening (6:10pm) when I came back from work, a friend of mine who live down the street invited me over to his birthday party. So I quickly freshened up and I went for the party.

There was enough drinks (alcohol), smoke and goat meat pepper soup. Although I don't smoke. I only drink and it's occasionally.

After taking few green bottles, I know I would be very hungry later, so I pleaded with my girlfriend to help me prepare jollof rice and meat, that I'm at a friend's party. I sent her 9k to prepare the food.

As at 8:45pm she called me she's already at my house with the food. So I left the party and headed home to open the door in order not to keep her waiting. Her house isn't far, it's just #100 Keke or bike down to my place

She sat on the couch playing game on her phone, I don't understand what came over me, I was under the influence of alcohol. Omoh! Alcohol na bastard.

The next thing I did, I started kissing her which she responded, she knew I was drunk, she could smell alcohol all over me, then she persuaded me to go eat my food before it's get cold and go take my bath.

Before I knew it I pushed her on the couch to lie down while I unzip my trouser, she said I should stop that she's not in the mood, I didn't listen to her, she crossed her legs so tight while struggling with me that I should stop that she's on her period yet I didn't listen to her.

I was forcing & trying to open her legs while she crossed her legs so tight struggling with me. I was almost gaining access Until she said "Peter do you realize you're about to rape me? Please stop"

Omoh! The word rape reset my head, the highness cleared off my eyes immediately. Honestly I didn't even know what I was doing. I knelt down and I begin to apologize to her.

She stood up and left immediately. I called to apologize but she didn't pick my calls. This morning she texted me saying "I thought I was safe whenever I'm with you. You scared me so much that I don't know if I could continue this relationship"

This girl is a beautiful, caring and nice girl and our relationship is just 5 months. I really love this girl. I don't want to lose her. She always give me good sex but I don't understand what happened yesterday. Infact I quit alcohol from now henceforth. Shayo na bastard. Please how do I apologize to her.

You messed up by kneeling down and overly apologising.
A simple sorry would do.
Do not pester her.
Leave her alone. If she is really into yiuv, she'd come around. If she you continue pestering and begging her, you are degrading your self before her. The ebed result will be that she will not come back to you, and even if she does it'll be for a very short while. And she'll manipulate you to no end.

Relax and allow her to come around.

If you are a simp you would not be able to do this anyways.

The girl know fully that u be 1 minute man but with the alcohol you took you can last for 30 minutes.
The girl doesn’t love you, she’s only after your money. Run from the girl

Useless rapist.. this has nothing to do with shayo,bastard idiot.. I just hate this guy I swear

Perez99:
Happy new month y'all. I'll go straight to the point. Pls I need your advise.

Yesterday evening (6:10pm) when I came back from work, a friend of mine who live down the street invited me over to his birthday party. So I quickly freshened up and I went for the party.

There was enough drinks (alcohol), smoke and goat meat pepper soup. Although I don't smoke. I only drink and it's occasionally.

After taking few green bottles, I know I would be very hungry later, so I pleaded with my girlfriend to help me prepare jollof rice and meat, that I'm at a friend's party. I sent her 9k to prepare the food.

As at 8:45pm she called me she's already at my house with the food. So I left the party and headed home to open the door in order not to keep her waiting. Her house isn't far, it's just #100 Keke or bike down to my place

She sat on the couch playing game on her phone, I don't understand what came over me, I was under the influence of alcohol. Omoh! Alcohol na bastard.

The next thing I did, I started kissing her which she responded, she knew I was drunk, she could smell alcohol all over me, then she persuaded me to go eat my food before it's get cold and go take my bath.

Before I knew it I pushed her on the couch to lie down while I unzip my trouser, she said I should stop that she's not in the mood, I didn't listen to her, she crossed her legs so tight while struggling with me that I should stop that she's on her period yet I didn't listen to her.

I was forcing & trying to open her legs while she crossed her legs so tight struggling with me. I was almost gaining access Until she said "Peter do you realize you're about to rape me? Please stop"

Omoh! The word rape reset my head, the highness cleared off my eyes immediately. Honestly I didn't even know what I was doing. I knelt down and I begin to apologize to her.

She stood up and left immediately. I called to apologize but she didn't pick my calls. This morning she texted me saying "I thought I was safe whenever I'm with you. You scared me so much that I don't know if I could continue this relationship"

This girl is a beautiful, caring and nice girl and our relationship is just 5 months. I really love this girl. I don't want to lose her. She always give me good sex but I don't understand what happened yesterday. Infact I quit alcohol from now henceforth. Shayo na bastard. Please how do I apologize to her.