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What's The Right Thing To Do In My Current Dilemma? by SPAMBOX7: 6:46pm On Sep 01, 2022
OK honestly I been dating two girls at once. The first one is like the main chick cos she comes more often than the second.. Besides she's been there for me since day one but as you know na, men will always be men.

So this evening as we were together (side chick and I) the main chick came around unannounced and caught me with the second one. Though she didn't catch us having sex but since we together in the same room everywhere don bust already be that naw.

Right now second (side chick) has cried and left. Main chick is still here crying her eyes out. She even saw the tissue we used in the toilet cos the side chick didn't flush it before she cameangry

Now main chick has called my sister and all my friends and informed them. Meanwhile side chick has blocked me everywhere. My sister and one of my guy dey road dey come like this

It's crazy and I don't know what to do for the first time ever, hence I'm here seeking help in case there's any way for me to maneuver this situation. I will really appreciate
Re: What's The Right Thing To Do In My Current Dilemma? by Nobody: 6:49pm On Sep 01, 2022
You are so cheap,lol.
Re: What's The Right Thing To Do In My Current Dilemma? by wis3(m): 6:49pm On Sep 01, 2022
Decide who you really want to be with and trying working it out with em.
Re: What's The Right Thing To Do In My Current Dilemma? by Boogyman557: 6:53pm On Sep 01, 2022
Holly Gram cool I bin 1 LOCATE u wit my old KALA but I de ASHAWOO house now...

LITE UP my WEED in peace

WTF MAN!

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Re: What's The Right Thing To Do In My Current Dilemma? by detectivejones: 6:59pm On Sep 01, 2022
You should have thought of this before decieving two girls into trusting you. You know who you like and want to be with make your choice and stop acting like a child.
Re: What's The Right Thing To Do In My Current Dilemma? by Nonexisting1: 7:04pm On Sep 01, 2022
Call a roundtable and bare everything there. Both main chick and sidechick should know and take their places or bounce. Man is free to have two multiple partners. Tell each of them to swear if she hasn't fuccked another dick since dating you. What you're doing is not a taboo my friend, stop crying.

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Re: What's The Right Thing To Do In My Current Dilemma? by SPAMBOX7: 7:12pm On Sep 01, 2022
Nonexisting1:
Call a roundtable and bare everything there. Both main chick and sidechick should know and take their places or bounce. Man is free to have two multiple partners. Tell each of them to swear if she hasn't fuccked another dick since dating you. What you're doing is not a taboo my friend, stop crying.
Thanks Comrade. I really needed this
Re: What's The Right Thing To Do In My Current Dilemma? by PerfectStranger(m): 7:17pm On Sep 01, 2022
Someone up there said you should call both of them for a round table meeting lol.
E don pass ASUU meeting grin

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Re: What's The Right Thing To Do In My Current Dilemma? by Stallionhorse: 7:29pm On Sep 01, 2022
What's the meaning of man will always be man?? Stop spoiling the image of Good men like me who stick to one woman through thick and thin.. Face your fears as a man since man will always be man..

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Re: What's The Right Thing To Do In My Current Dilemma? by superCleanworks(m): 8:18pm On Sep 01, 2022
SPAMBOX7:
OK honestly I been dating two girls at once.
hence I'm here seeking help in case there's any way for me to maneuver this situation. I will really appreciate

guy if i give you advice you will not take it.

what is your sister coming to your house for? over this? your worst mistake will be to grant them audience. what good will it do? They are only coming over to tell you how you messed up and force you to start begging so the babe will rub your face on the floor.

instead you should tell all of them to give you space to clear your head. let everywhere calm down. allow your main babe some space for her to cry. na human being she be.
Shun two of them and start dating money. One or both of them will come back and fight for you if you have money. But because your money is too short that is why both of them japa. No one fought for you. One even blocked you on the phone.

Na man you be oh. What has happened has happened. learn from it & wake up.

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Re: What's The Right Thing To Do In My Current Dilemma? by Omuuvwie(m): 8:26pm On Sep 01, 2022
Even though you have Bleep up, still choose the first girl, she have shown some maturity, atleast she want the issue resolve that is why she called your sister. Last last love na scam

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Re: What's The Right Thing To Do In My Current Dilemma? by blinking001(m): 10:11pm On Sep 01, 2022
In all you do never apologise to your main chick. Tell her you were bored that she wasn't giving you enough attention reason you had to step out. Works like magic

As for your sidechick, don't bother establishing contact with her until after 1 week then you can go to her house and tell her you've ended things with your main chick because of the love you feel for her. (Ensure you're seriously frowning when you make that statement). Tell her it's up to her if she still wants you two to be together. Excuse her and politely take your leave. She'll come around trust me.


Ensure you establish frame in your relationship with women. A woman shouldn't visit your residence without your approval.

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Re: What's The Right Thing To Do In My Current Dilemma? by blinking001(m): 10:15pm On Sep 01, 2022
Omuuvwie:
Even though you have Bleep up, still choose the first girl, she have shown some maturity, atleast she want the issue resolve that is why she called your sister. Last last love na scam
She had to involve his sister in the mix so she doesn't lose her slave to another slave master. She activated her first financial lever. Nothing special. Fact that she called his sister doesnt necessarily translate to her having genuine love for him ( op)
Re: What's The Right Thing To Do In My Current Dilemma? by OriOko88(m): 11:42pm On Sep 01, 2022
cool

You no be real OG..just forming wetin u no reach. U know u have a stable girl wey dey come ur place steady and fit showup anytime..but u go loose guard carry side chick enter house, still con relax with her on top bed. Which street OG dey carry side chick come home when the main chick is nearby. Why not b using hotel or friend's house for ur side chick. Well street don run you and u don learn d hard way,cos you've definitely lost the side chick. Don't even go look for her,shes gone forever. Your only hope nw is ur main chuck..Mk u find means appeal to her with ur padis.. If she forgives you find,if not lick ur loss and move on. It will serve as a lesson to u.
Re: What's The Right Thing To Do In My Current Dilemma? by iTearHerToto: 7:14am On Sep 02, 2022
OriOko88:
cool

You no be real OG..just forming wetin u no reach. U know u have a stable girl wey dey come ur place steady and fit showup anytime..but u go loose guard carry side chick enter house, still con relax with her on top bed. Which street OG dey carry side chick come home when the main chick is nearby. Why not b using hotel or friend's house for ur side chick. Well street don run you and u don learn d hard way,cos you've definitely lost the side chick. Don't even go look for her,shes gone forever. Your only hope nw is ur main chuck..Mk u find means appeal to her with ur padis.. If she forgives you find,if not lick ur loss and move on. It will serve as a lesson to u.
Why ask him to appeal to some hoes?
What happens to him trashing the two hoes and recruiting new hoes?
Cos they are too many hoes in the market nowadays waiting for buyers
Re: What's The Right Thing To Do In My Current Dilemma? by Hacks4dummies: 7:49am On Sep 02, 2022
SPAMBOX7:
OK honestly I been dating two girls at once. The first one is like the main chick cos she comes more often than the second.. Besides she's been there for me since day one but as you know na, men will always be men.

So this evening as we were together (side chick and I) the main chick came around unannounced and caught me with the second one. Though she didn't catch us having sex but since we together in the same room everywhere don bust already be that naw.

Right now second (side chick) has cried and left. Main chick is still here crying her eyes out. She even saw the tissue we used in the toilet cos the side chick didn't flush it before she cameangry

Now main chick has called my sister and all my friends and informed them. Meanwhile side chick has blocked me everywhere. My sister and one of my guy dey road dey come like this

It's crazy and I don't know what to do for the first time ever, hence I'm here seeking help in case there's any way for me to maneuver this situation. I will really appreciate
I suppose curse you o. smiley Its you and your ilk who go around making women think all men are the same. Imagine! Now that you've scarred those poor women, wetin you gain?

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Re: What's The Right Thing To Do In My Current Dilemma? by kelspinall(m): 9:20am On Sep 02, 2022
ya prob Carry am we no dey
Re: What's The Right Thing To Do In My Current Dilemma? by emmyluizzz: 11:17am On Sep 02, 2022
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Re: What's The Right Thing To Do In My Current Dilemma? by okoroemeka(m): 11:25am On Sep 02, 2022
SPAMBOX7:
OK honestly I been dating two girls at once. The first one is like the main chick cos she comes more often than the second.. Besides she's been there for me since day one but as you know na, men will always be men.

So this evening as we were together (side chick and I) the main chick came around unannounced and caught me with the second one. Though she didn't catch us having sex but since we together in the same room everywhere don bust already be that naw.

Right now second (side chick) has cried and left. Main chick is still here crying her eyes out. She even saw the tissue we used in the toilet cos the side chick didn't flush it before she cameangry

Now main chick has called my sister and all my friends and informed them. Meanwhile side chick has blocked me everywhere. My sister and one of my guy dey road dey come like this

It's crazy and I don't know what to do for the first time ever, hence I'm here seeking help in case there's any way for me to maneuver this situation. I will really appreciate
why worry yourself ,the side chick had already taken the decision for you by blocking you,you have already nacked her so move on to the main chick that is ready to mend the relationship,but be ready to beg and say it is the devil that possessed you,she will forgive you but you will be under an elctron microscope,pls don't be caught again,remember the only real crime is getting caught.

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Re: What's The Right Thing To Do In My Current Dilemma? by Medianna(f): 11:36am On Sep 02, 2022
I cannot fit laugh for this matter.
Re: What's The Right Thing To Do In My Current Dilemma? by emmanuelbrown26: 12:14pm On Sep 02, 2022
blinking001:

She had to involve his sister in the mix so she doesn't lose her slave to another slave master. She activated her first financial lever. Nothing special. Fact that she called his sister doesnt necessarily translate to her having genuine love for him ( op)
Op still bi small boy, why did she come without ur notice?
Na like dis nonsense dey carry start, she doesn't hv any right to come to ur house uninformed, that's where chick pass her boundary.
And u being a small boy, u allowed her to call sister and friends unto say u kill person or what? Op whatever u hv with any delilah all be a man enough (even though u are a boy)
Sometimes I feel ashamed of sharing dis generation with all these small boys.

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Re: What's The Right Thing To Do In My Current Dilemma? by blinking001(m): 1:40pm On Sep 02, 2022
emmanuelbrown26:

Op still bi small boy, why did she come without ur notice?
Na like dis nonsense dey carry start, she doesn't hv any right to come to ur house uninformed, that's where chick pass her boundary.
And u being a small boy, u allowed her to call sister and friends unto say u kill person or what? Op whatever u hv with any delilah all be a man enough (even though u are a boy)
Sometimes I feel ashamed of sharing dis generation with all these small boys.
This generation of males are really lost. They've lost their way. Some don't know how to act like men.

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