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Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Pay Your Bills Until Marriage by Solofresh2: 10:59am On Sep 07, 2022
Hello ladies, this is for you

Would you date such guy

Or do you think it is proper for your boyfriend to pay your bills before marriage

Lalasticlala, Mynd44,mukina12

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Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Pay Your Bills Until Marriage by Nobody: 11:01am On Sep 07, 2022
grin grin

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Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Pay Your Bills Until Marriage by Solofresh2: 11:05am On Sep 07, 2022
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Pay Your Bills Until Marriage by BirtherOfKings(f): 11:09am On Sep 07, 2022
Solofresh2:
Hello ladies, this is for you

Would you date such guy

Or do you think it is proper for your boyfriend to pay your bills before marriage

Lalasticlala, Mynd44

I will gladly NOT marry him...if my man is not generous with me, how will he make heaven and show he loves me .Jesus so loved that he gave his life..if u don't have, it's understandable but u can't have and be stingy, haba..I shld be d one showing your wealth .wen people see me, they will praise God and u grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Pay Your Bills Until Marriage by Nobody: 11:14am On Sep 07, 2022
BirtherOfKings:


I will gladly NOT marry him...if my man is not generous with me, how will he make heaven and show he loves me .Jesus so loved that he gave his life..if u don't have, it's understandable but u can't have and be stingy, haba..I shld be d one showing your wealth .wen people see me, they will praise God and u grin grin grin grin grin


Ekwensu grin...you want boyfriend to give you wife privilege when you're not his wife...its wrong oo grin

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Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Pay Your Bills Until Marriage by Duchessree(f): 11:15am On Sep 07, 2022
grin grin i see what you did there grin grin

NO, i can't marry a stingy man o grin tongue tongue

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Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Pay Your Bills Until Marriage by Highman56: 11:24am On Sep 07, 2022
BirtherOfKings:


I will gladly NOT marry him...if my man is not generous with me, how will he make heaven and show he loves me .Jesus so loved that he gave his life..if u don't have, it's understandable but u can't have and be stingy, haba..I shld be d one showing your wealth .wen people see me, they will praise God and u grin grin grin grin grin
mumu go and make ur money

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Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Pay Your Bills Until Marriage by Solofresh2: 11:29am On Sep 07, 2022
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Duchessree:
grin grin i see what you did there grin grin
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Pay Your Bills Until Marriage by peter8535: 11:30am On Sep 07, 2022
Hmmm
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Pay Your Bills Until Marriage by BirtherOfKings(f): 11:30am On Sep 07, 2022
Rayban25:



Ekwensu grin...you want boyfriend to give you wife privilege when you're not his wife...its wrong oo grin
if I catch u, grin grin grin grin he is my baby and. Am his baby..it's our biz..treat ur woman d way u like
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Pay Your Bills Until Marriage by crackhaus: 11:31am On Sep 07, 2022
This must be a response to that other topic on FP. cheesy

Naturally, I would expect that any woman who prefers to date a man who won't ask her for sex MUST also not expect him to pay her bills or offer financial assistance to her.

But don't lose your breath Solofresh2... you see these Eve children dem? They want it all o.

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Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Pay Your Bills Until Marriage by BirtherOfKings(f): 11:45am On Sep 07, 2022
Highman56:
mumu go and make ur money
goat go and pay ur debts..
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Pay Your Bills Until Marriage by Jammey6551(m): 11:51am On Sep 07, 2022
cool cool



... blessed is he that giveth, for he shall receive. How do want me to give you something (money) without receiving (sex) and you want me to be blessed. Tueh all girl are useless.
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Pay Your Bills Until Marriage by imagrg(m): 12:00pm On Sep 07, 2022
I dash you a bottle of Star for saying this, you deserve it.
You have just hit the head on the nail! grin
ABI nor be so dem they talk am?
But wait oh,
What about you? Na only kpekus you go dey generous with?
BirtherOfKings:


I will gladly NOT marry him...if my man is not generous with me, how will he make heaven and show he loves me .Jesus so loved that he gave his life..if u don't have, it's understandable but u can't have and be stingy, haba..I shld be d one showing your wealth .wen people see me, they will praise God and u grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Pay Your Bills Until Marriage by Streetmovement(m): 12:08pm On Sep 07, 2022
BirtherOfKings:


I will gladly NOT marry him...if my man is not generous with me, how will he make heaven and show he loves me .Jesus so loved that he gave his life..if u don't have, it's understandable but u can't have and be stingy, haba..I shld be d one showing your wealth .wen people see me, they will praise God and u grin grin grin grin grin


Wotoporiously cool Speaking

Like you said "You can't have and be stingy" I hope you will not be stingy with your puna when the time comes...

Afterall he's not stingy with his money cool
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Pay Your Bills Until Marriage by virginprincess(f): 12:10pm On Sep 07, 2022
No,i can't date a stingy man grin grin cheesy.
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Pay Your Bills Until Marriage by Nobody: 12:16pm On Sep 07, 2022
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Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Pay Your Bills Until Marriage by Fahvvy: 12:33pm On Sep 07, 2022
The biggest mistake any man can make is to take responsibility for a girlfriend in the name of love and only an irresponsible girl would expect a man who she is dating to pay her bills undecided...

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Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Pay Your Bills Until Marriage by advanceDNA: 12:41pm On Sep 07, 2022
Counter thread.....

This thread will be full of double standard they will gladly accept with their full chest

What is it with nigerian women and money... ??

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Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Pay Your Bills Until Marriage by paulolee(m): 12:45pm On Sep 07, 2022
Nairalanders eeh
Because one thread ask if girsl go allow no sex before marriage
This one na no bills before marriage..
It simply means de we de exchange Billings for sex, fire boy even talk am say all of us na ashawo

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Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Pay Your Bills Until Marriage by advanceDNA: 12:46pm On Sep 07, 2022
Fahvvy:
The biggest mistake any man can make is to take responsibility for a girlfriend in the name of love and only an irresponsible girl would expect a man who she is dating to pay her bills undecided...

Irresposnsible.? Nigerian women will gladly own the title of irresponsibility if it means they will get plenty money from a man they just met yesterday.... you will hear "did i force him, its just ordinary gift"

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Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Pay Your Bills Until Marriage by Fahvvy: 12:54pm On Sep 07, 2022
advanceDNA:


Irresposnsible.? Nigerian women will gladly own the title of irresponsibility if it means they will get plenty money from a man they just met yesterday.... you will hear "did i force him, its just ordinary gift"

I agree with you...
Most Nigerian girls are just irresponsible lowlife beggars...
Infact they can be anything for the right amount...

This is exactly why men should be smarter...
Never spend on a girlfriend what you can't afford to lose...

If you must spend, let it be of your own volition and let it be the crumbs that falls off your table...

That's because once another man who has more money to throw around comes their way, they'll jump ship and say "what did you even do for me sef" undecided...

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Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Pay Your Bills Until Marriage by Smoketight007: 1:13pm On Sep 07, 2022
Q: ladies will you date a man that doesn't demand sex before marriage?

A: Yes, Where can I find such a man, of course, that's the kind of man i pray for everyday.

Same ladies

Will you marry a man that won't pay your bills till marriage

A, God forbid, I won't marry a stingy man, how can he prove that he loves me without gifting or paying my bills

Nigerian girls confuse set of people

Na only collect them wan dy collect but nor ready to give

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Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Pay Your Bills Until Marriage by Kobicove(m): 1:17pm On Sep 07, 2022
Why should a man bear all the expenses of a lady who is not his wife?

Some of these ladies should learn to stop being leeches angry

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Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Pay Your Bills Until Marriage by MadarasBlade(m): 1:17pm On Sep 07, 2022
Smoketight007:
Q: ladies will you date a man that doesn't demand sex before marriage?

A: Yes, Where can I find such a man, of course, that's the kind of man i pray for everyday.

Same ladies

Will you marry a man that won't pay your bills till marriage


A, God forbid, I won't marry a stingy man, how can he prove that he loves me without gifting or paying my bills

Nigerian girls confuse set of people

Na only collect them wan dy collect but nor ready to give

Very confused set of people.
Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Pay Your Bills Until Marriage by MadarasBlade(m): 1:19pm On Sep 07, 2022
Persephone1:
NO

NO again

Given the fact that Nigerian Men express love by giving gifts, taking on financial responsibilities. You are literally asking if i would marry a man who doesn't love me? Hell No!

Given which facts? Don't speak for every Nigerian man.

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Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Pay Your Bills Until Marriage by mespusinglez(m): 1:28pm On Sep 07, 2022
THOSE DAUGHTERS OF EVE WON'T LIKE THIS ONE

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Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Pay Your Bills Until Marriage by MasterJayJay: 1:37pm On Sep 07, 2022
virginprincess:
No,i can't date a stingy man grin grin cheesy.

Duchessree:
grin grin i see what you did there grin grin

NO, i can't marry a stingy man o grin tongue tongue

Prudent is not being stingy.

A boyfriend is not obligated to perform the role of a husband. Paying the bills is one of those roles he's not obligated to do.

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Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Pay Your Bills Until Marriage by Sammy101111(m): 1:39pm On Sep 07, 2022
Tell them na Op
But you want a man that won’t touch you till wedding ole thief

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Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Pay Your Bills Until Marriage by Nobody: 2:27pm On Sep 07, 2022
No way!

Argue with your keypads tongue.

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Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Pay Your Bills Until Marriage by MasterJayJay: 3:04pm On Sep 07, 2022
From the few responses, I can now see why most ladies keep falling for the bait (money) and get used and dumped.

You say a boyfriend is stingy because he doesn't pay your bills. It is actually your father that is stingy. If your father is performing the role of a father by taking care of you, you won't be looking for a boyfriend to pay your bills.

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Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Pay Your Bills Until Marriage by anochuko01(m): 3:22pm On Sep 07, 2022
I hope y'all ladies understand the difference between paying bills and spending to express love. There's a difference between bills and getting you gifts.

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