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Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by Nobody: 5:02pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
OvertheTop: I guess you are not married then. 1 Like |
Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by JordanMichael(m): 5:09pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
Comrade Carcholce: |
Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by Midas01: 5:15pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
This is true. Nothing to add. But men also are at fault here. You left the girlfriend of your youth that probably loved you to wife another and even enticed her with money. Well, can't eat your cake and have it. 4 Likes |
Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by lovchalice(f): 5:36pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
When the man is stingy to his wife Most men also settled for women they don't love and be treating her anyhow odinson1: 5 Likes |
Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by Triangles1(m): 5:40pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
odinson1: You even have time explaining to her. You really exposed them with their nagging nose |
Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by MadarasBlade(m): 5:43pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
Slurity: I swear, there are other productive things to do really. 2 Likes |
Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by Jephyard(m): 6:02pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
MrBrownJay1: Control what! I think you should hang around women more and understand them. Them no dey control any shit. Men got more control than women. My ex almost messed my head while I follow the rule honestly, she was taking the D behind my back and finally got married to her sugar daddy. She was so holy and all that, when I told my friends they were shocked. A man can go without sex for months than women. I am a classic example of such simp way back then. No married/single woman can stay without sex for a month without show. No let anybody lie to you it biological as long she get her central flow. I can make excuse for pregnancy, infection, illness, multilation (castrated woman), Stress from work, raising kids and house chore sometimes religious rite like during fasting and co. Anything outside that Nah story. 1 Like |
Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by blaise26abj(m): 6:03pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
odinson1: Before I say anything I want to ask you this question . Are you a married man ? |
Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by Atolu01: 6:12pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
The ones that had sex with you and your kind, how did you look at them and treat them? Entitled feeling self absorbed self centered entities. Enjoy the women you deserve. Funny society. What does if a woman likes you she will always want to have sex with you even mean. Is it about ONLY YOU? Useless entitled feeling rapists. 1 Like |
Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:12pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
Jephyard: bro, a woman who doesnt respect you as a man is a different issue entirely. your ex was a broke aass undercover wh0re who just used you as stepping stone until she found someone richer to be with. you cant possibly compare her with decent women who may (or not) want to have sex with their husband. ultimately, you should rejoice that the low life dirty wh0re (you called your "gf" is out of your life and, somehow take part of the blame for not seeing through her charade. again, women interact with us men differently, and as much as sex is important to us all...we menfocus on sex from the get go, while for women it aint a necessity for them (to get close to someone). 2 Likes |
Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by blaise26abj(m): 6:21pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
In the absence of any response , I will say this .When you marry ,even the ones that were having sex like bunnies from dating into marriage, frequency of sex will ultimately reduce . Secret or dating sex is different from marriage sex . While dating , sex is usually about prowess , skills and the quantity . In marriage it should gradually turn into quality and Mastering each other’s bodies . So one smashing can last a week or more . many guys are so used to smashing Ashawos who have no right to orgasm and they transfer that behaviour to their wives without bothering to learn . Imagine for one second that women have the ability to cum before men . Men for don run finish from marriages . Now a lot of things can contribute to little sex in marriage . Lack of love, breaking of trust, domestic violence/abuse , Child birth , economic situation , stress , low libido on both sides , health , living conditions etc . So you are partly right because it’s one of many reasons . 3 Likes |
Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by richie240: 6:46pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
Carcholce:Though I don't blv in polygamy, but you have said d truth. I can't fault ur assertion in any guise. To buttress ur point, if u want to be happy, choose one of two: marry more than one wife, or -for those of us who for religious beliefs do not subscribe to polygamy, it's better to remain unmarried! 1 Like |
Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by richie240: 7:08pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
odinson1:Brah, too much sense wee nor kee u! #copied and understood! |
Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by AkuOlisa: 7:11pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
[color=#006600][/color] MrBrownJay1: There's no explanation a woman will give that will justify her denying her husband sex for months and months with no end not when she is not critically sick. Even a depressed woman will try to have sex if not for anything, at least for the intimacy. Secondly you must be a novice if you believe a woman especially a married woman will open up and tell her husband that she is no longer sexually attracted to him anymore. Especially when she knew she married him simply because he was the only one available and willing to marry her at when they got married. The best you will get out of her is that she is depressed as a result of child bearing which in most cases is a big fat manipulative lie most married women use to justify why they are no longer sexually attracted to their husbands. I bet you that woman that is not in a mode to have sex with her husband, is 100% ready to have sex with a total stranger as long as she will not be caught, exposed and judged by society... Lastly it's quiet unfortunate that we still have large percentage of men who still think and believe that women are innocent and inexperience in the sexual and manipulative games. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by Mabco: 7:37pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
Carcholce: If all the conditions are met, that is just the right thing |
Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by richie240: 8:10pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
Blessedmercy8: When last did anyone have d 'mood'to wake up and go to work? We don't have the mood to wake up from our cosy bed and go to work yet we still do. You know why? It's bcus there are dire consequences for such actions: It's either: (1) you receive no pay 2) you are laid off. So what do you and I do, we tuck-in dt 'mood' under our mattress and off we go to work contrary to how we feel. Why don't we say, "ah-ahn, my boss shd understand that I am not in the mood to come to work 4 days in a week"? Yet we expect our spouses to understand that we are not in d mood for our conjugal duties for months, yet in those weeks/months, the 'wife's still expects d husband to do his own part of d deal as husband (putting food on d table, dropping money for her expenses etc). The thunder dt will fire dt 'mood' is already doing pressup. If a woman is not in the mood and you keep complaining and forcing yourself on her, she'll begin to dislike you. Me I will just hate you. Let me not even mince words here.But she can be in d mood to Men should learn to exert their energy in more productive things than always whining about sex all the time.You forgot that 'sex' is one of the terms of engagement in d contract (aka marriage) shey? It's like a cleaner complaining that his employer shd give him a break from cleaning and that he shd stop whining about asking her to do d exact duty upon which d need to employ her arose in d first place. If she doesn't do d exact job she was employed for, who will? The maiguard? It's obvious most females don't really understand what marriage is all about. They think it's all about d ring and d 'Mrs.' title. Love has nothing to do with mood. You can love and not be in the mood. Besides, the woman's body is flesh, not iron that you'll be pounding all the time and she won't get tired. Abeg, make una carry that una iron bender body park well. Biko!See small pikin talk. Anyways over to the Simps who still think marriage na accomplishment. E nor consyn me. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by Munzy14(m): 8:25pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
Carcholce:Our ancestors enjoyed every left... Tell a genZ lady about polygamy, just know say you have activated the tiger in her. 1 Like |
Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by Munzy14(m): 8:28pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
odinson1:And it can change at any time o |
Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by lailo: 8:30pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
MonsieurX:You are right but money answereth all things bro. If u are rich and u take care of your wife's need well. She will have mood everyday . It will even be romantic to her to be a one-minute man Lack of money is what is causing all these excuses It is rich men's wives who complain of inadequate sex from their husbands and poor men who complain of sex starve by their wives. Fact |
Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by Helpout12345: 8:36pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Good summary. The OP just generalized all marriages must have same problems. 1 Like |
Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by Munzy14(m): 8:39pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
wunmi590:You never see woman wey dey foot house bills, still dey love and bleep her hubby scara.. Them plenty o. Some men aren't aware a lady you married, might still not be into you like that..Just settled with you based on available man.. Only do sex for procreation and ones in a blue moon. Frustrating. If a married wife weaponize intimacy, The man is pushed to the walls. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by Munzy14(m): 8:42pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
lailo: Rib cracking comment.. |
Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by Munzy14(m): 8:47pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
MonsieurX:People don't understand the essence of that emotional bond..Very important. If you succeed, na you go run as the man sef...Because she will build and exhibit that comfort around you. Then, you will realize what it is for a woman to be attracted and always in the mood..Even on her monthly stuffs she will find alternative to keep you together. I don't buy some excuses flying around..The summary is she is not into the man like that. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by Nobody: 8:54pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
Munzy14: At last, someone with maturity and emotional intelligence. All these people forming Aba made Andrew Tate on Nairaland, they think marriage is kept by muscles and ego... Women are emotional creatures. If you understand a woman and you play your cards right, them go too mumu for you. 1 Like |
Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by Nobody: 9:04pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
odinson1:WRONG WRONG WRONG!!! |
Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by wunmi590(m): 9:09pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
Munzy14: Nah true you talk bro |
Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by Kobojunkie: 9:20pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
TheFacelessMan:ROFLMAO |
Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by MrBrownJay1(m): 9:35pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
AkuOlisa: here is one for you:"honey, i am tired of you violently raping me every night with no care whatsoever, instead of you making sweet love to me. i am all dried up from the mishandling that i suffer in your hand and cant have sex any longer. if this is what you desire in bed, abeg go nyansh some dirty prostitutes!!!" Secondly you must be a novice if you believe a woman especially a married woman will open up and tell her husband that she is no longer sexually attracted to him anymore. Especially when she knew she married him simply because he was the only one available and willing to marry her at when they got married. if your wife cant open up to you then the problem is YOU aka the caveman who cant communicate in a decent way so that your partner can open up to you.... The best you will get out of her is that she is depressed as a result of child bearing which in most cases is a big fat manipulative lie most married women use to justify why they are no longer sexually attracted to their husbands. you do know that some women get their toto teared up and damaged during child bearing right? would you call a woman with such damaged toto a manipulative liar OR would you just force her to have sex with you because you dont believe she is damaged? I bet you that woman that is not in a mode to have sex with her husband, is 100% ready to have sex with a total stranger as long as she will not be caught, exposed and judged by society... here above is your misplaced weak ego talking....you automatically believe that if a woman dont desire to have sex with you then she must desire to have sex with someone else, lol! Lastly it's quiet unfortunate that we still have large percentage of men who still think and believe that women are innocent and inexperience in the sexual and manipulative games. no, whats unfortunate is that we do have men today who automatically believe that a woman MUST have sex with them, regardless of how this woman feels about it. i guess in your world , the minute she doesnt want sex with you, then she is automatically guilty of trying to manipulate you (because i guess your dikc is more important than her coochie). what a sad state of mind, probably from men who see a r/ship as a war between men and women, that they must win at any cost. [img]https://giffiles./765/7654.gif[/img] 1 Like |
Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by obaaderemi: 9:38pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
Carcholce:I think this is what I'll do. Maybe even 3! |
Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by AkuOlisa: 10:22pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
[color=#006600][/color] MrBrownJay1: It's either you are having difficulty understanding me or you're deliberately been emotionally petty. No where in my writing did I mention rape or anything related to that.... And the discussion was about WIFE denying their Husbands sex and not about the usual Boyfriend and girlfriend relationship. All I am saying, is that a married woman have no moral justification to withhold sex from her husband for months some even years especially when she is not critically ill or clinically depressed. Does that mean the man should force his self on his wife HELL NO. any man that is in a sexless marriage should as a matter of fact dissolve that marriage or at least look for a side chicks.... Weaklings like you should continue pacifying, begging, bribing and convincing your wife's to have sex with you. 2 Likes |
Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:39pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
AkuOlisa: i can picture you beating your chest when writing the above.... the reason some women cant go nowhere with their husbands is because of men like you who pretend they dont understand anything, and believe life should be THEIR WAY or no way whatsoever. keep thinking with your small brain... 1 Like |
Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by juman(m): 11:50pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
Man can marry more women. |
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