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Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by BATified2023: 1:31pm On Sep 15, 2022
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Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by TheFacelessMan: 1:33pm On Sep 15, 2022
Reminds me of the last episode of House Of Dragon.

How the young Queen was just stomaching the King with sores and crawcraw all over his body. He was screwing her while she lay like a corpse. undecided

NEVER marry someone who tolerates or "manages" you. Applies both ways.

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Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by Boyooosa(m): 1:34pm On Sep 15, 2022
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Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by Tunjibalogun: 1:34pm On Sep 15, 2022
MrBrownJay1:
here is some simple clued why a woman could refuse to have sex with a man she loves clue:
- she is on her period
- she is not feeling well
- she isnt in the mood
- she has some worries/stress etc in her life at that moment
- you aint approaching her right (sexually)
- you stink/smell etc


...but most importantly, why would a man force his loving wife to have sex is she isnt in the mood?!?!? shouldnt you 1st figure out whats going by communicating with your partner?!
The question is why will she choose not to have sex when the above you stated are not there, this is the area the OP is writing about. cheesy

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Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by Shalommy: 1:35pm On Sep 15, 2022
Chaii.. So, men don't have anything to offer in a relationship than SEX? Look at them!.. Tueeeeehhh

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Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by SugarGirl44(f): 1:35pm On Sep 15, 2022
odinson1:
The simple reason is, she doesn't love you bro. She married you only because she had no other option at the time. Know this that a woman will break all rules, raise hell if she has to, to have sex with a man she likes. If she's constantly giving you excuses for an extended period of time, or making demands before she allows you in, it means you're sexually unattractive to her bro, she settled for you.

Women will come on this thread now and give nonsense excuses about her being tired, depressed etc but for how long can one be consistently tired that she only has sex with her husband once in 3 months?

Why are you men just so blind to reality? Damn! You'll jus rush into marriage because of love without making sure the person you're marrying isn't settling for you. You'll give her a comfortable live in the marriage, she'll deny you sex and you'll come to Nairaland to ask for advice.

Women will tell you to continue treating her right, talk things out with her etc. But it never works, trust me. If your wife settled for you, she'll deny you sex and use it to control you. When she needs a new handbag that is very expensive, she'll deny you sex and wait for you to buy it for her first before she allows you in.

Then she repeats the process for another demand and so on and so forth. Is that how you want to live the rest of your life as a man? Begging and paying your WIFE for sex. I'm tired of you men really, y'all lack balls and that is why women use Sex to control you.

I can't help but agree with you.
As women, when we love a man truly, we don't ever want to reject anything he says.
We bend our rules to satisfy the men we love.
Even in more serious matters, let alone sex which is fun.

That's just the simple truth, any woman who says otherwise is not being true to herself.

Men need to know this, she might love you in the beginning, but along the line the love faded away due to you hurting her repeatedly or because of other factors.

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Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by Humblesam(m): 1:38pm On Sep 15, 2022
odinson1:
The simple reason is, she doesn't love you bro. She married you only because she had no other option at the time. Know this that a woman will break all rules, raise hell if she has to, to have sex with a man she likes. If she's constantly giving you excuses for an extended period of time, or making demands before she allows you in, it means you're sexually unattractive to her bro, she settled for you.

Women will come on this thread now and give nonsense excuses about her being tired, depressed etc but for how long can one be consistently tired that she only has sex with her husband once in 3 months?

Why are you men just so blind to reality? Damn! You'll jus rush into marriage because of love without making sure the person you're marrying isn't settling for you. You'll give her a comfortable live in the marriage, she'll deny you sex and you'll come to Nairaland to ask for advice.

Women will tell you to continue treating her right, talk things out with her etc. But it never works, trust me. If your wife settled for you, she'll deny you sex and use it to control you. When she needs a new handbag that is very expensive, she'll deny you sex and wait for you to buy it for her first before she allows you in.

Then she repeats the process for another demand and so on and so forth. Is that how you want to live the rest of your life as a man? Begging and paying your WIFE for sex. I'm tired of you men really, y'all lack balls and that is why women use Sex to control you.

OP calm down now..
Why you come dey vex for everyone like say you want fight everybody, your blood too hot.
Abeg take it easy, I can feel ur frustration on this very matter.
We don take note.

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Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by BATified2023: 1:39pm On Sep 15, 2022
Blessedmercy8:
Not true. A woman can love you and not be in the mood. The problem with you men is that you are so highly insensitive and all you care about is you yourself and you especially when it comes to sex. It's like a woman should not have a say over her own body just to please you.

If a woman is not in the mood and you keep complaining and forcing yourself on her, she'll begin to dislike you. Me I will just hate you. Let me not even mince words here.

Men should learn to exert their energy in more productive things than always whining about sex all the time.

Love has nothing to do with mood. You can love and not be in the mood. Besides, the woman's body is flesh, not iron that you'll be pounding all the time and she won't get tired. Abeg, make una carry that una iron bender body park well. Biko!

Everytime sex sex.
see ehn

Na guys wey no get sense dey get issue with woman as regard sex matter

Once I demand sex from u n u give me stories I will not argue with u,I will even play with u buy u whatever u want n still form love for u then na to just low key go satisfy myself outside then we come back together happy again

I no dey drag anything with anybody,if u like tell me u are tired for 100 years I will not argue na to just go satisfy myself n avoid irrelevant stories then we are happy together again

If u meet a man like me na u go tire cos na u go even dey ask for sex,since u feel u fit use me do shakara na to just lock up dey smile but I go dey enjoy myself steady

Na mumu dey fight woman cos of sex

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Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by Emman08: 1:39pm On Sep 15, 2022
Use sex to control who? Have a self-service and move on with your business grin

Sex is overrated

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Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by apolonius(m): 1:43pm On Sep 15, 2022
There is one of many other reasons why women deny men sex: general health.

Giving our diet, lifestyle and, sometimes, genetics, many Nigerian women over 34 years old have high blood pressure. Some BP medications affect the libido and sexual appetite in these women. This is just as some BP medications can affect the sexual drive and performance of men too.

Otherwise, denying your wife or husband sex in the absence of health issues and menstruation is a marital crime!

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Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by Tunjibalogun: 1:46pm On Sep 15, 2022
MrBrownJay1:


bro, there is something called COMMUNICATION, and if a wife doesnt want to get close to her husband during 3 months, then she should have a VALID REASON for it. the husband should simply ask her for an explanation, and if she aint got one then get rid of her.
You just don't want to believe that woman can have fault lol, you definitely don't believe that it could be due to the fact that he disgusts her. Wonderful grin grin

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Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by GUNITGuy: 1:46pm On Sep 15, 2022
Deny her attention and never be a Sex-needy man
Your respect and dignity as a man exceeds any sex


Most women married to rich successful men don't try those shits with them

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Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by Drsheddy(m): 1:48pm On Sep 15, 2022
dmg1:
I've seen the cries of some men about their wives denying them their conjugal right, I just laughed and marveled at the same time.. how can a man being the head of the family belittle himself by begging his own wife for sex grin grin ... This can never happen in my house, the moment I notice your defective behavior towards me, I'll immediately activate my 'I don't mode'. And at this point whatever you wear/do cannot attract attention...

I'll now be seeing you as a friend (just friends without feelings attached), if kids are involved I'll give you money to prepare meals and other things that will make life comfortable for my kids, and you'll not enter my room stay on your own while I stay on my own,,

And as for sex, I'm not really a fan of much sex but if I need sex, being a man always with plan b, there are so many young beautiful damsels available to do justice to that....

If I notice you're cheating, that's the day you return back to your parents house (no forgiveness), remember I didn't deny you sex, you have to finish what you ignited...
Brothers/men never be at the mercy of your spouse, else you're finished....

Na MAN you be bro

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Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by charlesdinho7(m): 1:48pm On Sep 15, 2022
what still annoys me is that why would a woman reject her husband's sexual request? like is she crazy? i want to fvck my wife and she is saying no, say her papa na him go de fvck her? the day my wife will deny me sex, that is the day i will start cheating on her with a lady 5 times more sexier than her

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Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by Nobody: 1:50pm On Sep 15, 2022
BATified2023:
see ehn

Na guys wey no get sense dey get issue with woman as regard sex matter

Once I demand sex from u n u give me stories I will not argue with u,I will even play with u buy u whatever u want n still form love for u then na to just low key go satisfy myself outside then we come back together happy again

I no dey drag anything with anybody,if u like tell me u are tired for 100 years I will not argue na to just go satisfy myself n avoid irrelevant stories then we are happy together again

If u meet a man like me na u go tire cos na u go even dey ask for sex,since u feel u fit use me do shakara na to just lock up dey smile but I go dey enjoy myself steady

Na mumu dey fight woman cos of sex

Story!

Who's exposing himself to disease? Not you? Your toror.

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Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by BATified2023: 1:54pm On Sep 15, 2022
Blessedmercy8:


Story!

Who's exposing himself to disease? Not you? Your toror.
I use protection always so that’s no big deal but I will never fight anyone for what I can always get d alternative

The way I will lock up on sex matter even u will begin to wonder if I have been castrated

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Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by Savedday: 1:55pm On Sep 15, 2022
9ja girls don't love and dey will never love.

They are nothing but useless. All of them...

Know this and know peace

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Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by Nobody: 1:55pm On Sep 15, 2022
some women can't handle sex due to pain from scare from child birth ,rape and unsatisfied sex from their husbands e.g ED and premature release. That is why communication is key , if husband is not satisfying his wife, his wife should let him know.Even a two minute man can perform better wink, there are herbs, diet modification , exercise that even turn a 20 second sex to 30 minutes sex. If wife is experience pain during sex due to vaginal dryness or traumatic child birth ,hormonal imbalance, or rape, her husband should be aware and the wife can seek treatment. A man should seek what Mrs what in sex and Mrs should seek what her husband want and they can learn and adapt. The other reasons are flimcy excuse

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Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by fserpent: 1:55pm On Sep 15, 2022
MonsieurX:
While there are elements of truth in what the OP wrote, I disagree with the idea that lack of sex in a marriage means that your wife doesn't love you.

A man must understand his woman well enough, such that sex isn't forced, it just happens. If you pay attention to your wife's emotional needs, talk to her & establish mutual understanding, romance wouldn't be lacking in the home. You have to know how to turn each other on.

Some men believe that working and getting home to tell their wives "honey, spread your legs" is what marriage is about, no! A woman will go the extra mile to please her husband if both of them have a good emotional bond, after all, sexual urge isn't limited to men alone.

Let's stop passing our limited views to others please. It's too much on social media nowadays.
You are a foolish person... You sound intelligent but you are a foolish person. The man will go to work strategize on how money will come back home and how to build a happy home and legacy and while at that he will also have to crack his head on how to please the woman at home doing nothing... The question you should ask yourself is, is the woman a dumb figure head that brings no form of romance but drama to the relationship. Na simps like you na him this women they prey on top. You will come back from work after all the stress them you will start dealing with another drama at home. The woman won't try to make you happy it's now your job to start making her happy again. You see why I vex Way You are a fo0lish person.

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Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by EndRape2(f): 1:55pm On Sep 15, 2022
You are amumu for writting rubbish you know nothing about
A woman do not deny sex because she does not love her man, a woman deny sex because she is not treated well by her man, a woman can love you, and married you, but once you start misbehavibg, like cheating on her, beating her, not treating her well selfish to her needs, no care about her vision, placing your side chics above her, all these characters are things that kills a woman sexual drive towards a man.


Stop typing rubbish when you know little about women, if you maltreat your wife, her sexual feelings towards you will die complete ly , reason a stranger that treats her well and show her love outside, can take her to bed.


So get lost.
quote author=odinson1 post=116674753]The simple reason is, she doesn't love you bro. She married you only because she had no other option at the time. Know this that a woman will break all rules, raise hell if she has to, to have sex with a man she likes. If she's constantly giving you excuses for an extended period of time, or making demands before she allows you in, it means you're sexually unattractive to her bro, she settled for you.

Women will come on this thread now and give nonsense excuses about her being tired, depressed etc but for how long can one be consistently tired that she only has sex with her husband once in 3 months?

Why are you men just so blind to reality? Damn! You'll jus rush into marriage because of love without making sure the person you're marrying isn't settling for you. You'll give her a comfortable live in the marriage, she'll deny you sex and you'll come to Nairaland to ask for advice.

Women will tell you to continue treating her right, talk things out with her etc. But it never works, trust me. If your wife settled for you, she'll deny you sex and use it to control you. When she needs a new handbag that is very expensive, she'll deny you sex and wait for you to buy it for her first before she allows you in.

Then she repeats the process for another demand and so on and so forth. Is that how you want to live the rest of your life as a man? Begging and paying your WIFE for sex. I'm tired of you men really, y'all lack balls and that is why women use Sex to control you.[/quote]

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Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by Sayelabola(m): 1:56pm On Sep 15, 2022
Carcholce:
This is why it’s good to marry two wives. Both wives cannot be acting like witch at the same time. They will always be at competition to kill you with sex.

I wish I could afford to buy you a plate of dog-peppersoup; you nailed it man...

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Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by bjdon: 1:57pm On Sep 15, 2022
Your wife is to be loved, respected and taken care of. She's the mother of your kids and that should be her main focus as well as taking care of the house.

Your side chick is to be bleeped hard as regular as possible!

You want to have a happy married life? Make sure you have sexy side chick! grin

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Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by Manson1(m): 1:57pm On Sep 15, 2022
dmg1:
I've seen the cries of some men about their wives denying them their conjugal right, I just laughed and marveled at the same time.. how can a man being the head of the family belittle himself by begging his own wife for sex grin grin ... This can never happen in my house, the moment I notice your defective behavior towards me, I'll immediately activate my 'I don't mode'. And at this point whatever you wear/do cannot attract attention...

I'll now be seeing you as a friend (just friends without feelings attached), if kids are involved I'll give you money to prepare meals and other things that will make life comfortable for my kids, and you'll not enter my room stay on your own while I stay on my own,,

And as for sex, I'm not really a fan of much sex but if I need sex, being a man always with plan b, there are so many young beautiful damsels available to do justice to that....

If I notice you're cheating, that's the day you return back to your parents house (no forgiveness), remember I didn't deny you sex, you have to finish what you ignited...
Brothers/men never be at the mercy of your spouse, else you're finished....

Now, here's a real man talking that knows his worth and place in his family...

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Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by nedekid: 1:57pm On Sep 15, 2022
dmg1:
I've seen the cries of some men about their wives denying them their conjugal right, I just laughed and marveled at the same time.. how can a man being the head of the family belittle himself by begging his own wife for sex grin grin ... This can never happen in my house, the moment I notice your defective behavior towards me, I'll immediately activate my 'I don't mode'. And at this point whatever you wear/do cannot attract attention...

I'll now be seeing you as a friend (just friends without feelings attached), if kids are involved I'll give you money to prepare meals and other things that will make life comfortable for my kids, and you'll not enter my room stay on your own while I stay on my own,,

And as for sex, I'm not really a fan of much sex but if I need sex, being a man always with plan b, there are so many young beautiful damsels available to do justice to that....

If I notice you're cheating, that's the day you return back to your parents house (no forgiveness), remember I didn't deny you sex, you have to finish what you ignited...
Brothers/men never be at the mercy of your spouse, else you're finished....

Are you even married?

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Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by Nobody: 1:57pm On Sep 15, 2022
BATified2023:
I use protection always so that’s no big deal but I will never fight anyone for what I can always get d alternative

The way I will lock up on sex matter even u will begin to wonder if I have been castrated

Na mouth you get. No be you men again?? grin

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Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by Nobody: 1:59pm On Sep 15, 2022
fserpent:
You are a foolish person... You sound intelligent but you are a foolish person. The man will go to work strategize on how money will come back home and how to build a happy home and legacy and while at that he will also have to crack his head on how to please the woman at home doing nothing... The question you should ask yourself is, is the woman a dumb figure head that brings no form of romance but drama to the relationship. Na simps like you na him this women they prey on top. You will come back from work after all the stress them you will start dealing with another drama at home. The woman won't try to make you happy it's now your job to start making her happy again. You see why I vex Way You are a fo0lish person.

You have a mental issue, you just don't know. Was my post directed at you or am I the cause of your frustration in life?

You need urgent psychiatric help because you're not normal at all.

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Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by EmmyDJourno: 1:59pm On Sep 15, 2022
This can be true, but if she is not getting it outside she would always come to you
Konji has nothing to do with love or attraction, it has to do with who is around her when it comes, and the first option would be to give it to you, her husband if you dey do well as a guy hygiene and swag wise

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Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by ikevictor: 2:00pm On Sep 15, 2022
Shalommy:
Chaii.. So, men don't have anything to offer in a relationship than SEX? Look at them!.. Tueeeeehhh

Lol...you're apparently reading the texts upside down!

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Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by richie240: 2:01pm On Sep 15, 2022
odinson1:
The simple reason is, she doesn't love you bro. She married you only because she had no other option at the time. Know this that a woman will break all rules, raise hell if she has to, to have sex with a man she likes. If she's constantly giving you excuses for an extended period of time, or making demands before she allows you in, it means you're sexually unattractive to her bro, she settled for you.

Women will come on this thread now and give nonsense excuses about her being tired, depressed etc but for how long can one be consistently tired that she only has sex with her husband once in 3 months?

Why are you men just so blind to reality? Damn! You'll jus rush into marriage because of love without making sure the person you're marrying isn't settling for you. You'll give her a comfortable live in the marriage, she'll deny you sex and you'll come to Nairaland to ask for advice.

Women will tell you to continue treating her right, talk things out with her etc. But it never works, trust me. If your wife settled for you, she'll deny you sex and use it to control you. When she needs a new handbag that is very expensive, she'll deny you sex and wait for you to buy it for her first before she allows you in.

Then she repeats the process for another demand and so on and so forth. Is that how you want to live the rest of your life as a man? Begging and paying your WIFE for sex. I'm tired of you men really, y'all lack balls and that is why women use Sex to control you.
I'm not a Muslim o, neither yesterday, today or tmr, but when it comes to d issue of marriage they have it all covered!

1. They marry their women at young ages. By 15yrs, a female is biologically ready for childbearing. It's d delay due to western education that makes women get to their twenties b4 getting ready to settle down.
The more a woman is exposed to 'life' outside marriage, the more unmarriageable she bcums. But if u marry her at a young age, especially in her teens, you'll be able to mould her and mentor her but if instagram, tiktok, zee world, peer pressure and most importantly women empowerment (aka feminism) gets to her mind b4 u do,.. ..... then sorry o.

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Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by EmmyDJourno: 2:02pm On Sep 15, 2022
bjdon:
Your wife is to be loved, respected and taken care of. She's the mother of your kids and that should be her main focus as well as taking care of the house.

Your side chick is to be bleeped hard as regular as possible!

You want to have a happy married life? Make sure you have sexy side chick! grin

I don’t want to have side chick when I marry, but most married men have said this is the only way to have a happy home…..God Abeggoo cheesy
Re: Married Men, This Is Why Your Wives Are Denying You Sex by fserpent: 2:02pm On Sep 15, 2022
MonsieurX:


You have a mental issue, you just don't know. If this is how you reply or talk to people then an animal is better than you... That foolishness is who you are, you just don't know it, idiot.
Oh... Well I said you are foolish because saying you are foolish is a better way to stop you from spreading your simp poison on other men. Your comment alone is more dangerous than the fool I called you, you know why? Because your comment could lead good men to their grave. So fool, try to understand that a man's life is already hard from childhood, anyman that takes a woman under his care should not be tied down with useless drama and baggages that could lead him into depression and thus unfit for his role as a caretaker and caregiver. Calling you a fool is the smallest thing I could do to stop your simp poison.

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