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Helpout12345:
This is also true. Example if you are a source of the stress or worries, like you serially cheat and she catches you. She can deny you sex for months even though she still loves you.

Fahvvy:
I've always said it and I will say it again...

"If your wife denies you sex consistently for a period of time without a very valid reason, go outside asap"...

There's absolutely no need staying faithful to a woman who weaponizes a man's primary need (sex) as a weapon against him ...

dmg1:
I've seen the cries of some men about their wives denying them their conjugal right, I just laughed and marveled at the same time.. how can a man being the head of the family belittle himself by begging his own wife for sex ... This can never happen in my house, the moment I notice your defective behavior towards me, I'll immediately activate my 'I don't mode'. And at this point whatever you wear/do cannot attract attention...

I'll now be seeing you as a friend (just friends without feelings attached), if kids are involved I'll give you money to prepare meals and other things that will make life comfortable for my kids, and you'll not enter my room stay on your own while I stay on my own,,

And as for sex, I'm not really a fan of much sex but if I need sex, being a man always with plan b, there are so many young beautiful damsels available to do justice to that....

If I notice you're cheating, that's the day you return back to your parents house (no forgiveness), remember I didn't deny you sex, you have to finish what you ignited...
Brothers/men never be at the mercy of your spouse, else you're finished....

wunmi590:


Nah man wey dey force him wife split bill or no dey take care of him house responsibility him wife go dey deny se everytime

MonsieurX:
While there are elements of truth in what the OP wrote, I disagree with the idea that lack of sex in a marriage means that your wife doesn't love you.

A man must understand his woman well enough, such that sex isn't forced, it just happens. If you pay attention to your wife's emotional needs, talk to her & establish mutual understanding, romance wouldn't be lacking in the home. You have to know how to turn each other on.

Some men believe that working and getting home to tell their wives "honey, spread your legs" is what marriage is about, no! A woman will go the extra mile to please her husband if both of them have a good emotional bond, after all, sexual urge isn't limited to men alone.

Let's stop passing our limited views to others please. It's too much on social media nowadays.

EmmyDJourno:
I don’t want to have side chick when I marry, but most married men have said this is the only way to have a happy home…..God Abeggoo

MonsieurX:
At last, someone with maturity and emotional intelligence. All these people forming Aba made Andrew Tate on Nairaland, they think marriage is kept by muscles and ego...

Women are emotional creatures. If you understand a woman and you play your cards right, them go too mumu for you.

Majesty33:
God bless you so much bro for opening the eyes of many men to the truth. I am currently having an affair with one and she only give me sex when i hang out with her and also give her money but at a time i stop begging for it and i gave her gap and i am currently sorting myself elsehwere. As we speak, havent touched or even asked her for it for a long time and she is begining to feel so so bad. I was thinking of marrying her but when i realised she has that character, i just adjust .

Majesty33:
My brother, many women are out there just begging for men that will sex them staedily and one person will use it to do shakara.

Jephyard:
Bro at the bold sentence, you have been lied to and also you dont understand how women body work. No woman that have had sex can stay without sex in a month. I repeat no woman can stay without sex within a month except the dick is not readily available highest Nah masturbation. I am stating fact. Before or after their period they are highest at their mood and looking for mate to sleep with. They won't come out tell you this cause they dont want to be seen as being loose or something. Another info women have more sex than men and enjoy sex than men. What men has is initial gra gra.

odinson1:
The simple reason is, she doesn't love you bro. She married you only because she had no other option at the time. Know this that a woman will break all rules, raise hell if she has to, to have sex with a man she likes. If she's constantly giving you excuses for an extended period of time, or making demands before she allows you in, it means you're sexually unattractive to her bro, she settled for

you.

Women will come on this thread now and give nonsense excuses about her being tired, depressed etc but for how long can one be consistently tired that she only has sex with her husband once in 3 months?

Why are you men just so blind to reality? Damn! You'll jus rush into marriage because of love without making sure the person you're marrying isn't settling for you. You'll give her a comfortable live in the marriage, she'll deny you sex and you'll come to Nairaland to ask for advice.

Women will tell you to continue treating her right, talk things out with her etc. But it never works, trust me. If your wife settled for you, she'll deny you sex and use it to control you. When she needs a new handbag that is very expensive, she'll deny you sex and wait for you to buy it for her first before she allows you in.

Then she repeats the process for another demand and so on and so forth. Is that how you want to live the rest of your life as a man? Begging and paying your WIFE for sex. I'm tired of you men really, y'all lack balls and that is why women use Sex to control you.

odinson1:
The simple reason is, she doesn't love you bro. She married you only because she had no other option at the time. Know this that a woman will break all rules, raise hell if she has to, to have sex with a man she likes. If she's constantly giving you excuses for an extended period of time, or making demands before she allows you in, it means you're sexually unattractive to her bro, she settled for

you.

Women will come on this thread now and give nonsense excuses about her being tired, depressed etc but for how long can one be consistently tired that she only has sex with her husband once in 3 months?

Why are you men just so blind to reality? Damn! You'll jus rush into marriage because of love without making sure the person you're marrying isn't settling for you. You'll give her a comfortable live in the marriage, she'll deny you sex and you'll come to Nairaland to ask for advice.

Women will tell you to continue treating her right, talk things out with her etc. But it never works, trust me. If your wife settled for you, she'll deny you sex and use it to control you. When she needs a new handbag that is very expensive, she'll deny you sex and wait for you to buy it for her first before she allows you in.

Then she repeats the process for another demand and so on and so forth. Is that how you want to live the rest of your life as a man? Begging and paying your WIFE for sex. I'm tired of you men really, y'all lack balls and that is why women use Sex to control you.

odinson1:
You didn't see where i mentioned CONSISTENT on my post?
If a woman consistently tells you that she isn't in the mood every time you ask,doesn't common sense tell you that the woman isn't sexually attracted to you?
But I expected a reply like this though, women and flimsy excuses
So you'll deny your husband of sex for months because you're not in the mood? How can you not be in the mood even once a month?

And Don't try to shame men for Wanting to have sex with the woman THEY LEGALLY MARRIED AND PROVIDE FOR.
You're being deceptive here like women don't like sex just as much as men. When there are hoes on the streets with hundreds of body counts. When a woman gets married to a man she doesn't like,it means she settled for him,and him she settled for him, he'll disgust her Sexually. So she denies the man sex every damn time and comes up with flimsy excuses like not in the mood,tired,period etc
Bull****! Nothing can excuse denying your husband sex CONSISTENTLY For months.

Before you argue, keyword is CONSISTENTLY.

odinson1:
The simple reason is, she doesn't love you bro. She married you only because she had no other option at the time. Know this that a woman will break all rules, raise hell if she has to, to have sex with a man she likes. If she's constantly giving you excuses for an extended period of time, or making demands before she allows you in, it means you're sexually unattractive to her bro, she settled for you.

Women will come on this thread now and give nonsense excuses about her being tired, depressed etc but for how long can one be consistently tired that she only has sex with her husband once in 3 months?

Why are you men just so blind to reality? Damn! You'll jus rush into marriage because of love without making sure the person you're marrying isn't settling for you. You'll give her a comfortable live in the marriage, she'll deny you sex and you'll come to Nairaland to ask for advice.

Women will tell you to continue treating her right, talk things out with her etc. But it never works, trust me. If your wife settled for you, she'll deny you sex and use it to control you. When she needs a new handbag that is very expensive, she'll deny you sex and wait for you to buy it for her first before she allows you in.

Then she repeats the process for another demand and so on and so forth. Is that how you want to live the rest of your life as a man? Begging and paying your WIFE for sex. I'm tired of you men really, y'all lack balls and that is why women use Sex to control you.

odinson1:
The simple reason is, she doesn't love you bro. She married you only because she had no other option at the time. Know this that a woman will break all rules, raise hell if she has to, to have sex with a man she likes. If she's constantly giving you excuses for an extended period of time, or making demands before she allows you in, it means you're sexually unattractive to her bro, she settled for you.

Women will come on this thread now and give nonsense excuses about her being tired, depressed etc but for how long can one be consistently tired that she only has sex with her husband once in 3 months?

Why are you men just so blind to reality? Damn! You'll jus rush into marriage because of love without making sure the person you're marrying isn't settling for you. You'll give her a comfortable live in the marriage, she'll deny you sex and you'll come to Nairaland to ask for advice.

Women will tell you to continue treating her right, talk things out with her etc. But it never works, trust me. If your wife settled for you, she'll deny you sex and use it to control you. When she needs a new handbag that is very expensive, she'll deny you sex and wait for you to buy it for her first before she allows you in.

Then she repeats the process for another demand and so on and so forth. Is that how you want to live the rest of your life as a man? Begging and paying your WIFE for sex. I'm tired of you men really, y'all lack balls and that is why women use Sex to control you.

SugarGirl44:
I can't help but agree with you.
As women, when we love a man truly, we don't ever want to reject anything he says.
We bend our rules to satisfy the men we love.
Even in more serious matters, let alone sex which is fun.

That's just the simple truth, any woman who says otherwise is not being true to herself.

Men need to know this, she might love you in the beginning, but along the line the love faded away due to you hurting her repeatedly or because of other factors.

Towma:
This is why Africa is underdeveloped.
African men are too obsessed with sex, look at the anger and hatred in their posts just because of the idea of wives denying them sex.
Saying all sorts of emotional outbursts ;
Oh, if she denies me sex two times I will send her packing, If she denies me sex I must start sleeping around, if she denies me sex I will ignore her and marry second wife, nyen nyen nyen nyen nyen.
Noise makers.

Continue making noise, your wives will continue denying you sex, do your worst naa.

Oyenike01:
But not everywoman sees sex as fun. Not all women enjoys sex, what if he is married to a woman that's tolerating sex. The post and the comments has left me in shock.

Helpout12345:
Not in all cases though. In some cases, that might be true. In others, it might not be true.

Another reason can be that the man is not doing a good job on her. Trust me women love good sex. If oga is a 2 minutes man that don't know where to touch at the right time and how to do the work. After sometimes, the wife will not see any enjoyment in the sex with him.

meobizy:
I stopped reading at the bolded. Divorce is an option.

The truth is; familiarity brings monotony. What is there to explore in lands I know every nook and cranny? If he knows how to make you laugh, cry, giddy with excitement and make you beg for intimacy, there is nothing to conquer. Many African traditions have this covered by allowing men sleep with other’s wives. Happy men lead to happy communities ready to back each other in times of war. Women follow — anything men come up with, they obey to the last letter.

In these modern times, a partner should hit the gym and learn tips on how to look his/her best. If the other half isn’t willing to do the same, they can get dumped by the wayside. Cases of cheating would reduce immensely if both partners groomed no different from their single days. The painful realization is — no matter how good one looks and continues to appear — a partner will still read the person in and out then get tired. Humans are insatiably greedy fellows.

Coinwarrior:
never generally conclude because some women like my wife would even be removing my hand if I want to be cuddling her ,infact she would face the other side of the bed and back me.what about that?

Citizen10:
When you grow older, you will realize that marriage is not all about sex. You will realize that there will come a time when your wife's unclothedness will almost mean nothing to you or when your unclothedness will not mean anything to her. You will, in that moment, realize that there is a TIME FOR EVERYTHING......

odinson1:
The simple reason is, she doesn't love you bro. She married you only because she had no other option at the time. Know this that a woman will break all rules, raise hell if she has to, to have sex with a man she likes. If she's constantly giving you excuses for an extended period of time, or making demands before she allows you in, it means you're sexually unattractive to her bro, she settled for you.

Women will come on this thread now and give nonsense excuses about her being tired, depressed etc but for how long can one be consistently tired that she only has sex with her husband once in 3 months?

Why are you men just so blind to reality? Damn! You'll jus rush into marriage because of love without making sure the person you're marrying isn't settling for you. You'll give her a comfortable live in the marriage, she'll deny you sex and you'll come to Nairaland to ask for advice.

Women will tell you to continue treating her right, talk things out with her etc. But it never works, trust me. If your wife settled for you, she'll deny you sex and use it to control you. When she needs a new handbag that is very expensive, she'll deny you sex and wait for you to buy it for her first before she allows you in.

Then she repeats the process for another demand and so on and so forth. Is that how you want to live the rest of your life as a man? Begging and paying your WIFE for sex. I'm tired of you men really, y'all lack balls and that is why women use Sex to control you.

Coinwarrior:
my wife may not give sex throughout a month and she is not cheating or taking dick anywhere she just has very low sex drive

BabaAgba79:
You cant pay ur wife for sex but but can pay Oloso for much sex! Were ni e. Don't you knw ur wife is ur Oloso? And are u not tired of her c**t already? To spice it up, pay her regularly! Honestly u will appreciate it wen u invest much money into it! And u will not be tired! This is what I do to mine. I am simply her Simp!

Coinwarrior:
pls adjust o.mine was giving me sex effortless b4 I married her immediately I married her I have not being enjoying her sex like those times I have not married her

Aklee4994:
you Dey call me your boyfriend why I still Dey pay for sex every night..Na wife be this matter he be like say you don smoke cigars

HonestJOE:
To be honest, all the man needs to do is to have a side chick. Don't border pressing too hard. Enjoy yourself outside bro...