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plantainbender:
You don't need any advise, you need a brain-resetting slap.

PS: Has she always been like that?


1. If you were thinking of marriage with her, una no go last.

2. Stay away from toxic "-ships", especially as e don dey involve violence and tearing of shirts.

3. There's a factor/force urging her to be foolish i.e she's taken a lot of advise from her new colleagues and friends.

4. No pursue am, ASUU would be over soon, then make a decision. Selah!

PerfectStranger:
Chop and pass to someone else, u say No u wan privatized am. You no know say love get expiring date.

Toreddo3679:
Actually things have been like that since day one, I thought she was going to change up on till this moment.

So I should continue to put up with her behaviours till ASUU calls off? Who knows when they will even call off

plantainbender:
Whatever you do, don't ignore red flags, no matter how little or inconsequential.

You have to finish what you started. If you send her out, will you stop her from going to the work you got 4 her? That's why I said ignore - na patience wey get expiry date.

plantainbender:
Whatever you do, don't ignore red flags, no matter how little or inconsequential.

You have to finish what you started. If you send her out, will you stop her from going to the work you got 4 her? That's why I said ignore - na patience wey get expiry date.

Toreddo3679:
Thanks manh.. I appreciate this, this one don teach me lesson

Jflex07:
No just try Marry this girl, thank God say she even stayed with you for you to know her true character.. You never marry her she dey misbehave, imagine when you come marry her put for house.. But on a serious note note, you show so much weakness for her to treat you like this. You fall hand I swear.

Toreddo3679:
My guy, I know I really really showed so much weakness I must confess, and now thing the pain me enter chest. Imagine her telling me she'll continue being like that till ASUU decides to call off

Jflex07:
What effrontery!! In your own house? Let her know that you are in charge, try to admonish her and let her know that if she doesn't change for the better, she's leaving your house.. For God's sake your sanity should be priotised over any toxic relationship... Stop showing weakness further!

Toreddo3679:
Alright bro, exactly what I'll do henceforth. Babe don see me finish naim make, I blame myself though, I gave her the chance right from day 1.

Toreddo3679:
Hey folks, not to waste time I'd have to jump straight to the issue. I really need an advice. My girlfriend has been staying with me since the start of the ASUU strike, before they embarked on the strike, I suggested that instead of going to stay ideal at home, she comes by my place in abuja. I helped get get a job in town which she doe's Mondays through Saturday's, she gets her off days on a Sunday. Issue now is, ever since she came, its been problems upon problems. At a point i started thinking of sending her out of my apartment but a friend of mine suggested that I don't do such, now at any disagreement, she holds my cloths and sometimes tear them, rains insult on me. This last one that happened was she leaving plates unwashed in the kitchen, which got me angry and I asked her to wash them before leaving for work, she paid deaf ears to me, then I stopped her and told her she won't go to work unless she do the washing, she said I should respect myself and get out of the way for her to pass. I stood my ground she then went back and sat down watching movie, when I went and switched off the TV, that was wen she started insulting me and started crying that I was treating her like trash, out of pity I allowed her leave for work, but left those plates in the kitchen till she got back and washed them, and since that day till now, she has stopped talking to me saying until ASUU calls off she'll continue to put up nonchalant behaviours. I really need ideas on how to handle this guys .

Toreddo3679:
Hey folks, not to waste time I'd have to jump straight to the issue. I really need an advice. My girlfriend has been staying with me since the start of the ASUU strike, before they embarked on the strike, I suggested that instead of going to stay ideal at home, she comes by my place in abuja. I helped get get a job in town which she doe's Mondays through Saturday's, she gets her off days on a Sunday. Issue now is, ever since she came, its been problems upon problems. At a point i started thinking of sending her out of my apartment but a friend of mine suggested that I don't do such, now at any disagreement, she holds my cloths and sometimes tear them, rains insult on me. This last one that happened was she leaving plates unwashed in the kitchen, which got me angry and I asked her to wash them before leaving for work, she paid deaf ears to me, then I stopped her and told her she won't go to work unless she do the washing, she said I should respect myself and get out of the way for her to pass. I stood my ground she then went back and sat down watching movie, when I went and switched off the TV, that was wen she started insulting me and started crying that I was treating her like trash, out of pity I allowed her leave for work, but left those plates in the kitchen till she got back and washed them, and since that day till now, she has stopped talking to me saying until ASUU calls off she'll continue to put up nonchalant behaviours. I really need ideas on how to handle this guys .

BigYash:
The truth of the matter is You no get sense. If you marry such girl,you're dead man. Just run now as e still dey hot..

Toreddo3679:
I actually thought she was going to change perhaps as time goes on, but it's obvious that's not going to happen. Now my mumu don do.