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| How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by UYEMDO35(m): 9:16pm On Sep 19, 2022 |
Hello guys~ my best friend and I live together in the same neighborhood. I introduce him to were I was working at the moment because he was seriously in need of a job... Though! He had a job he was doing but the money they are paying him is just token, so when he came for an interview today. He passed the prescription test that was given to him, and he was made the assistant Boss and I have been working there for long without been given dis offer. Being his first time of working with us he has started giving out policy in which I don't like, he's trying to change the system for us making it unbearable for us to cope. And to crown it all, his salary his x2 higher than mine and we both have same qualification. So am thinking of going to my Boss to lunch complain maybe to ask him to renew my contract. What do you all think about my step.... Should I still go on with it? 18 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by sirjoggy(m): 9:28pm On Sep 19, 2022 |
Bruh calm down this life is turn by turn your turn go soon reach 320 Likes 17 Shares |
| Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by Awesomeking: 11:32pm On Sep 19, 2022 |
UYEMDO35:you are going through envy and jealousy but because you dont have a bad mind, you dont know it yet..simply use the law of the ftc...turn by turn..as he be your boss,do as he says..u seff senior another person for the same company...one day u sef go be boss.. 280 Likes 20 Shares |
| Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by johnmartus(m): 11:46pm On Sep 19, 2022 |
The man in question is dead already wicked soul everywhere. You better desist from this attitude. 8 Likes |
| Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by LalastiklaIa(m): 12:53am On Sep 20, 2022 |
johnmartus: How do you mean? Who's dead? 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by Zanzibar1: 1:23am On Sep 20, 2022 |
I will suggest you go with the flow. Your friends job description is now different from yours. I won't say you shouldn't walk up to your boss to review your contract/salary. It's a good move, but don't let it sound like it's because of the new staff that was employed ( your friend) Whatever policies your friend churns out, let it sit well with you... He is just doing his job 122 Likes |
| Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by aylive02(m): 2:27am On Sep 20, 2022 |
Gba fun oga eh. Gbeje fori! We spend the money together 11 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by bigdammyj: 4:25am On Sep 20, 2022 |
UYEMDO35: 1. He came for interview 2. He passed the interview 3. He got the job as, assistance boss 4. He is changing the policy 5. Earning x2 of your salary with same qualifications as yours. All, in one day? 154 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by falcon01: 6:16am On Sep 20, 2022 |
Wel I don't know how I would feel cause I'm always the Boss!! I put so much effort when no body is looking so I would look great when everybody's looking! As for you op, don't hate just focus on your own succes and follow your boss sunce he sabi pass you. 14 Likes |
| Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by Alitair(m): 6:52am On Sep 20, 2022 |
Just chill. Do not let that spoil your friendship. You are colleagues during work hours and best friends after work so whatever happens at work should stay at work. You should rather be thinking of how to persuade your new assistant boss to put in a good word for you so you will be promoted too. No go dey hate my padi 47 Likes |
| Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by beautyhd: 7:04am On Sep 20, 2022 |
It’s not going to be easy given the fact that your friend has already started making some changes that’s unfavorable to you and others. I had similar issues which I shared here, I’ll never help a friend get an appointment where I’m working, if it’s elsewhere I’ll do that. If possible let him know how the changes made is affecting you and hear his response and observe his reaction 19 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by BigDawsNet: 8:40am On Sep 20, 2022 |
UYEMDO35: Love him Respect him Go-ahead with his order And I can promise you, he will protect you in that company and also work with other management to secure you a promotion in the future... If u fight him... you are obviously preparing your termination letter with ur hands Goodluck bro 68 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by Xxx123xxx(m): 9:04am On Sep 20, 2022 |
UYEMDO35:. But if he was someone unknown you won't do all this, You are clearing hating and beefing him, It hurts to see him frog leap you in such a short period with almost the same qualification. I understand the anger you no be Jesus. 2 Likes |
| Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by Baronthecelebri: 9:32am On Sep 20, 2022 |
Don't invite your friends to where you're working 8 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by Erums(m): 10:45am On Sep 20, 2022 |
people want you to be better but not better than them ... 32 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by AKWATGOLD1(m): 1:30pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
Guy, such step shows that you bad belle against your friend instead rejoice with him without any hatred because when your will come, it will be like a dream before your eyes. UYEMDO35: 2 Likes |
| Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by WonderManly(m): 1:33pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
Hain! 1 Like
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| Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by verybadmouth(m): 1:33pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
If he's your real nigga. He will act seriously and professional at work but behind, you'll both laff and smile away the work wahala. You sef work diligently. 25 Likes |
| Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by eedimo(m): 1:34pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
He is not your friend; if he is, you won't type this Rubish. Jealousy kills Envy kills 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by Franzinni: 1:34pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
First ask your friend to tell you what his arrangement with your boss is... You never can tell your friend might be giving your boss yansh on the side. Or maybe you all are grossly and irredeemably dense with the work and your only value is to receive orders like foot soldiers. Joro Jara joro. Or maybe ... Let me ass googoo. |
| Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by Abizz: 1:35pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
In all honesty, this is pure envy, the stage after this is witchery. What if the newly employed guy was someone you had no prior knowledge of? Would you still table your complaints? Calm down and work on yourself (skills, certifications et all) instead. 7 Likes |
| Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by SensualMan: 1:35pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
Congratulations to the President-elect, His Excellency, President Peter Obi and his Vice senator Yusuf Datti Baba on their resounding victory at the polls. 12 Likes |
| Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by mbahdi(m): 1:35pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
Ok |
| Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by chakula: 1:35pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
I can work with him as a boss when we are outside our friendship can stand firm. |
| Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by Wintertime: 1:35pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
You did no wrong bringing your friend into the job Arena, as it is being written don't bite the finger that fed you , so as the case of your friend. He shouldn't bite your finger. Friends grows , your friend has grown in money structure now earning more than you. Not bad but you self wants to level up also. Not tomorrow your friend drives latest Lexus and you are still trekking makes no sense Just use the knowledge of knowing him as your friend to level up . And put it to him to help you secure a better position so you can earn more also.. As for you, use this opportunity to push up to a better position.. Don't disrespect him in the office, no matter the hard feelings. Play the game of office respect. Outside the office he his what he his to you.. And If he must help anybody be promoted, it must be you. Use your opportunity wisely. He his your friend it is an advantage Imagine it was someone's else friend whom got the job and got promoted, that fellow will hardly make excuses for you. Just level up so you earn well . And use your opportunity wisely 5 Likes |
| Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by TempUser: 1:35pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
I used to have a scenario at my previous casual job. As the second - class staff syndrome and nepotism/favoritism coupled with psychological, financial, entitlement and moral torture ensuing from that treatment at the place of work ; the ex co-worker got insult rubbed to his injury by the management redeploying his close friend who is a staff at the place of work (real staff, that's what they call it  ) to our office.The friend redeployed started undermining the casual one, condescension ensues as he would prefer letting everyone know that his bosom friend is a casual worker, and many more mockery as recruitment phases still pass the casual friend as a result of management delinquency fuelled by favoritism and nepotism. Despite all these, the casual worker has his achievements to show for his labour and remained calm. In my humble opinion, having a bosom friend as a boss in the same office is tantamount to a breeding a toxic friendship IF the friend immaturely acts like a BOSS that he was appointed to be and not a LEADER and friend - forgetting that it's a matter of time, and the die is still rolling. The bossed friend should just stay calm, be ethical and take things easy. I have spoken  4 Likes |
| Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by Faber(m): 1:35pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
Guy accept the new changes in your place of work. You have to bend to the new rules or the new rules break you through sack letter. 1 Like |
| Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by Nobody: 1:36pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
| We go chop money taayaaasss
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| Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by Nobody: 1:36pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
Be your own bozz Peter Obi for president 1 Like |
| Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by Juicethekid: 1:36pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
bigdammyj:swrs, some sort of shady story. 2 Likes |
| Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by flexyrule(m): 1:36pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
Witchcraft is not necessarily flying at night. Even or dear OP's behaviour translates to witchcraft. Dear OP, repent! Witchcraft would take you to hell. 1 Like |
| Re: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by GamalNasser: 1:37pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
Maybe when you know the difference between" lunch " & " launch" Dem go promote U 3 Likes |
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