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Re: Why You Experience Heartbreaks by AllDModsAreMaad: 5:24pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
Kayceenaz: Read and understand before replying bro. I said in the past(during school days, NYSC days, my days as an employee and so) that was when I had time for relationship, not now. When I had enough time to spare for that(relationship matter), I never carried romance on my head(I handled it with wisdom), not to talk of now that I have little or no time for relationship and by extension romance. I gt your point and advice but I think I am on the right path with respect to your topic(post), I never got carried away with relationship right from time. Yes, I love sometimes(at some points in life) but I am always at alert and gallant all times, when you have the orientation that most human relationships are laid on "beneficial" foundation except immediate family(blood) relationships, you won't be carried away or hit a hard knock by life w.r.t relationship heartbreak/breakfast. That's the reason before a girl say it or present such to me, I am already ahead, leaving her behind. May be that is why some of them do feel I never loved them from the beginning, they wonder why I am ahead of their actions. Modified: I don't know you are the OP. You have a good point/view about life and relationship anyway. 5 Likes |
Re: Why You Experience Heartbreaks by Tgb1: 5:26pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
Oh |
Re: Why You Experience Heartbreaks by bepositive11: 5:36pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
Kayceenaz: You don't get my point. It goes deeper than purpose. Anyway, good luck. |
Re: Why You Experience Heartbreaks by MrRemedyAlagbo(m): 6:18pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
Kayceenaz:well done for the epistle 1 Like |
Re: Why You Experience Heartbreaks by Fash20: 6:20pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
Totally agree with OP. I tried love once and I regretted when she left I felt the void. If I had a life purpose then, I wouldn't have felt anything 2 Likes |
Re: Why You Experience Heartbreaks by Kayceenaz(m): 6:25pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
MrRemedyAlagbo:Thank you. I'm open to share this insight and more in person across Nigeria. |
Re: Why You Experience Heartbreaks by Kayceenaz(m): 6:27pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
Fash20:Exactly. Your purpose always keeps you emotionally healthy. 1 Like |
Re: Why You Experience Heartbreaks by Karlifate: 6:38pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
Kayceenaz: Good write-up, OP. In summary: purpose over pussy, for men. purpose over pënis, for women. |
Re: Why You Experience Heartbreaks by Karlifate: 6:47pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
bepositive11: You're simply paraphrasing what the OP typed. When you align with your purpose, you'll discover more about yourself. In essence, the pursuit of purpose leads to in-depth self discovery. 1 Like |
Re: Why You Experience Heartbreaks by bepositive11: 6:49pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
Karlifate: Self discovery comes first. |
Re: Why You Experience Heartbreaks by Karlifate: 6:50pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
YoungLionken: Will Smith ain't poor 1 Like |
Re: Why You Experience Heartbreaks by Karlifate: 6:51pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
bepositive11: Keyword: in-depth. 1 Like |
Re: Why You Experience Heartbreaks by bepositive11: 6:55pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
Karlifate: You don't understand what I'm saying, but nevermind. The level of self discovery I'm talking about is not something that you can achieve through pursuing your purpose, but nevermind. You don't understand. |
Re: Why You Experience Heartbreaks by Kayceenaz(m): 6:56pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
bepositive11:Finding purpose is self-discovery. |
Re: Why You Experience Heartbreaks by Kayceenaz(m): 6:58pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
Karlifate:Exactly. I said so, too. We are on the same page. |
Re: Why You Experience Heartbreaks by bepositive11: 6:59pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
Kayceenaz: What I'm talking about is not something I can type out and explain to you. It's very complicated. Self discovery goes beyond purpose. Anyway, nevermind. Have a good day. |
Re: Why You Experience Heartbreaks by Josephkabila12: 7:02pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
Since Francisca leave me dat year when we dey yr 1 no relationship dey break my heart again. Na me cause am weh she leave me because I too serious for school matter dat year |
Re: Why You Experience Heartbreaks by Kayceenaz(m): 7:16pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
Josephkabila12:You made your choice and chose excellently. 1 Like |
Re: Why You Experience Heartbreaks by Munzy14(m): 7:53pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
Relationships are cute and romantic. But, make sure you don't lose focus on your purpose in life..Keep developing yourself, humans can disappoint you at any point in time. But a developed self will keep achieving till the end. Again, be you male or female, add value to yourself and to whom you are in love with. It is cute when we all have something doing. NO MATTER HOW SMALL. You expose yourself to heartbreak when you don't have anything doing...You make it easier for the other partner to play with your emotions. To my guys, chase the money..Every woman want to be comfortable even your mother your 3 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Why You Experience Heartbreaks by Maxxim: 7:55pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
Kobojunkiee:Fax |
Re: Why You Experience Heartbreaks by Karlifate: 8:01pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
Allisgud: It's usually about the 'investment' and not really about the girl in question. Money, time and attention are all forms of investment. The more you give these in a romantic relationship, the more your heart yearns for the romantic relationship. 1 Like |
Re: Why You Experience Heartbreaks by DonroxyII: 8:33pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
concho:I say Dem no too Dey Chop Breakfast ... No Pour Venom on Me Bro |
Re: Why You Experience Heartbreaks by Kayceenaz(m): 9:41pm On Sep 20, 2022 |
Allisgud:A purposeful man invests in himself first, always and much, not on a lady that isn't his wife. Even in marriage, the romantic union must not displace purpose. Purpose always comes first. |
Re: Why You Experience Heartbreaks by Daslenan: 2:34am On Sep 21, 2022 |
What does it mean to eat breakfast in this context? |
Re: Why You Experience Heartbreaks by Allisgud: 7:03am On Sep 21, 2022 |
Kayceenaz:true, though from girlfriend lead to wife u don't just meet a girl today and she become a wife the next day, tru those process u are dating something go dey commot for ur hand na,abi u never hear news say wife serve husband heartbreak |
Re: Why You Experience Heartbreaks by Kayceenaz(m): 8:58am On Sep 21, 2022 |
Daslenan:Experience romantic heartbreak or disappointment. 1 Like |
Re: Why You Experience Heartbreaks by SPAMBOX7: 10:18am On Sep 21, 2022 |
Kobojunkiee:Leave am. Hardened men don't to about announcing for all I know |
Re: Why You Experience Heartbreaks by headbasher96(m): 9:05am On Sep 22, 2022 |
Traplord09:eve is the mother of yahoo boys na scammer eve be |
Re: Why You Experience Heartbreaks by TheMaharajah: 9:04am On Sep 23, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Well, I don't do relationship and romance. I am into serious real world relation with be that a sister, a brother, mother or father, a friend or even a pet. I demand strong loyalty, mutual understanding, believing in me and having my back, seeing it through 2ru thick and thin. This is my own understanding of love and unfortunately even the so called mother's love can't see to these. Once e bad reach one side every body go desert you. The only one that remains in these trying times is what I consider true love which in most cases is only myself. So you see what I mean. It's a joke you can do it for fun but nothing too serious to the extent of being heartbroken. Modified: Women don't like hearing men finding not much use for their wares. |
Re: Why You Experience Heartbreaks by Kobojunkie: 1:29pm On Sep 23, 2022 |
TheMaharajah:So, I see that you make this demands of others but do you however give to others exactly the same kind of love you demand from them or are you all about "me" and not about others ? Do you like hearing that women don't have much use for your wares then? |
Re: Why You Experience Heartbreaks by TheMaharajah: 9:33pm On Sep 23, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: I've never known a man more kind, loyal and compassionate as myself. I can't prove that to you but people who knows me know how simple a soul I am but in a world of wolves you have to act like a wolf. Once I consider someone a worthy friend I do my best to do by that person. I stand only for what is what. It hurts to know that (expecially from the mouth of lesbians) but I don't get bitter about it. |
Re: Why You Experience Heartbreaks by Kayceenaz(m): 9:47am On Sep 30, 2022 |
TheMaharajah:True. Always put yourself, directly proportional to your purpose, first in romance. |
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