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What Is It That Makes Heartbreaks So Painful To You? by Bobmaintain: 10:26am On Dec 15, 2020 |
Hello Fam. Please, I'm trying to gather enough information about the emotional and psychological makeup of individuals based on their own perception of events that have occurred in their lives. Now, I picked one aspect of this matter - heartbreaks. I believe that most people in the world have experienced this at one point in their lives or another...Either in a relationship (like being dumped), business deal (like being cheated), family decision (like being excluded in a Will), etc. I see heartbreaks taking a lot of emotional and psycho-biological toll on both teenagers and adults (especially those you think are big enough and have the well-withal to come off it easily, and I ask why? I have seen people sink into depression, commit suicide and even murder due to heartbreaks. We see all these things around us and we either condemn, berate, chastise, encourage or sympathize with the victims going through such. Now to you as an individual, what is it that really made a heartbreak so painful to you that it weighed you down? Please lend me a piece of your mind. I don't mind a sneak peek into your thoughts and what you've been through in live...Please share with me...(((smiles))) Thank you! Please Lalasticlala, Dominique, Mynd44, this post is for educational and research purposes, thus I will highly appreciate if it gets a slot at the front page for wider views and opinions. Thank you once more! 1 Like
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Re: What Is It That Makes Heartbreaks So Painful To You? by Olaideolayemi(m): 11:09am On Dec 15, 2020 |
Initially, they are many to me.Trust,betrayal and love...This is the most painful part to me.If I trust you and love you and you betrayal me..it pain me a lot that I can go depression... That is y,I don't believed in love,I use other parameters to guard myself in case of break up... 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Is It That Makes Heartbreaks So Painful To You? by Bobmaintain: 12:55pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Olaideolayemi: Wow....Betrayal of trust...Could you be kind enough to share with me one remarkable instance in your life that was characterized by this betrayal of trust? Also I would love to hear some of the parameters you've now adopted to guard your heart. 1 Like |
Re: What Is It That Makes Heartbreaks So Painful To You? by Nobody: 1:02pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
I get heartbreaks when I can't find my weed 3 Likes |
Re: What Is It That Makes Heartbreaks So Painful To You? by Bobmaintain: 2:13pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
PopSmoke: Lol...that means you're emotionally and psychologically attached to your weed. |
Re: What Is It That Makes Heartbreaks So Painful To You? by Shortyy(f): 2:43pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
The problem isn't the heartbreak, the problem is the flashbacks. 10 Likes |
Re: What Is It That Makes Heartbreaks So Painful To You? by Liposure: 2:48pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Happy moments. Wish you could turn back the hands of time |
Re: What Is It That Makes Heartbreaks So Painful To You? by Bobmaintain: 2:58pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Shortyy: Hmm...we can always forgive, but we can hardly forget coz every single thing, no matter how minute, is ingrained in our memory. Anyway, how do you handle the flashbacks when they come? What's your coping mechanism? 2 Likes |
Re: What Is It That Makes Heartbreaks So Painful To You? by Bobmaintain: 3:01pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Liposure: How fast have you been able to forget the happy moments? You can use any real story of an event that has happened to you to explain this if you wish. |
Re: What Is It That Makes Heartbreaks So Painful To You? by Shortyy(f): 3:01pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Bobmaintain: By getting my mind busy. Thinking about all the great things I want to achieve in life. By so doing, whatever that's troubling my mind will be bygone. 5 Likes |
Re: What Is It That Makes Heartbreaks So Painful To You? by walter11590: 3:07pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
I get heartbreaks when I can't find my weed 1 Like |
Re: What Is It That Makes Heartbreaks So Painful To You? by Bobmaintain: 3:07pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Shortyy: Is there any particular go-to thing that you use in keeping your mind busy when (a) heartbreak(s) occur(s)? |
Re: What Is It That Makes Heartbreaks So Painful To You? by Shortyy(f): 4:00pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Bobmaintain: I just told you. Thinking about things I need to achieve |
Re: What Is It That Makes Heartbreaks So Painful To You? by gameboy727(m): 4:01pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Memories. |
Re: What Is It That Makes Heartbreaks So Painful To You? by Nobody: 4:12pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
na only if the pussy was odour free e go pain me Sha.. coz these days u hardly see a fresh kpekus to knack 1 Like |
Re: What Is It That Makes Heartbreaks So Painful To You? by Bobmaintain: 4:12pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Shortyy: Alright ma'am. Thanks for your contribution so far. |
Re: What Is It That Makes Heartbreaks So Painful To You? by Bobmaintain: 4:16pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
gameboy727: What type of memory pains you the most....The good or the bad? Or both? |
Re: What Is It That Makes Heartbreaks So Painful To You? by gameboy727(m): 8:47pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Bobmaintain: To be honest, both. |
Re: What Is It That Makes Heartbreaks So Painful To You? by helinues: 8:52pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Trust, betrayal, unfaithful, Lies But those are the things that will make one to be more stronger after learning from the bitter side of it. Bottom line, do not allow external factors to determine your happiness E.g Love, Friendship, Money |
Re: What Is It That Makes Heartbreaks So Painful To You? by Cooldude90: 9:04pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
The flashbacks will just keep creeping into my vision.... The person leaves but the memories won't. ItsSOhardTOmoveON 1 Like |
Re: What Is It That Makes Heartbreaks So Painful To You? by Bobmaintain: 9:22pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
helinues: Your Last paragraph...You know it's very difficult to really not let external factors determine our happiness, considering the fact that we are a product of the interaction between our environment and genetics....Nature x Nurture. |
Re: What Is It That Makes Heartbreaks So Painful To You? by Bobmaintain: 9:26pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Cooldude90: Hmm...you're the second person mentioning flashbacks...and also memories. How long do you think these memories could stay before being overcome? Or they can't be overcome? |
Re: What Is It That Makes Heartbreaks So Painful To You? by Nobody: 9:44pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Having too many expectations concerning the relationship 2 Likes |
Re: What Is It That Makes Heartbreaks So Painful To You? by helinues: 9:57pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Bobmaintain: Difficult but with practice |
Re: What Is It That Makes Heartbreaks So Painful To You? by prince2pac(m): 10:01pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
here to learn so, never being in a relationship before
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Re: What Is It That Makes Heartbreaks So Painful To You? by ReluctantAdult(m): 10:07pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
When you can control your emotions, you become immune to heartbreaks. I can attach to and detach from people at will. No hard feelings, nothing personal 3 Likes |
Re: What Is It That Makes Heartbreaks So Painful To You? by Bobmaintain: 12:26am On Dec 16, 2020 |
ReluctantAdult: How do you really get to control your emotions? I do you detach from people so easily? I need practical steps. |
Re: What Is It That Makes Heartbreaks So Painful To You? by Bobmaintain: 12:27am On Dec 16, 2020 |
prince2pac: Lol...please sit down, relax and enjoy the ride! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Is It That Makes Heartbreaks So Painful To You? by Bobmaintain: 12:32am On Dec 16, 2020 |
Maryjane001: Please permit me to probe in a little, and this time a bit personal....What expectations did you have in your last remarkable relationship that got dashed to the extent that the pains were so unbearable? |
Re: What Is It That Makes Heartbreaks So Painful To You? by tobechi74: 2:08am On Dec 16, 2020 |
Arsenal FC don cut your bet before? That is worse than heart break 1 Like |
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