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Sharing Of Properties With Siblings. by Dalnadoni: 10:40am On Sep 25, 2022 |
Hello Nairalanders, I hope to get honest and open view about what to do in this situation. So i lost my mom 2yrs ago, my mom had 5 children and am the third born of my mom. But I'm the first born of my dad reason being that my mom had married to a man at her early year and had two boys for the man before divosing and later got married to my dad. Reason for the divorce was not something bad, but because the man my mom got married to earliar had three wives, and she had to leave because of rivary. After she got married to my dad, he accepted to train the two boys. Now the first two boys are married, tho am not yet married am 28. Now the issue is, my dad also died last year but unfortunatly he had no will and he had alot of properties. And because he had no will it very hard to share what he left and among who to share with. I'm the first born of my dad and i think i should be one to decide how it goes, but my mom's first born is trying to play the role. Pls what can i do because i dont want to fight him. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Sharing Of Properties With Siblings. by Jeon(f): 10:44am On Sep 25, 2022 |
You said When dad was alive he treated your half siblings equally Now that dad is no more why not continue with the equal treatment? 3 Likes |
Re: Sharing Of Properties With Siblings. by Dalnadoni: 11:13am On Sep 25, 2022 |
Jeon:Am willing to but he is making it difficult because he want to be making all the dictation on what to do, and am not feeling comfortable...My dad have no relative to help decide on what to do |
Re: Sharing Of Properties With Siblings. by RepoMan007: 11:23am On Sep 25, 2022 |
Who owns the properties? If it is the father, then let those fathered by the father take charge. If by the mom, let all her children be involved. 3 Likes |
Re: Sharing Of Properties With Siblings. by Eternitymedia88: 11:36am On Sep 25, 2022 |
Did your father formerly adopt those brothers of yours? If not.... His properties are yours entirely. You can share some TO your brothers as you deem fit out of brotherly love. They will probably not share their father's property with you if they were in your shoes. Don't mind my tone, truth is bitter to who do not value it 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sharing Of Properties With Siblings. by frozen70(f): 11:37am On Sep 25, 2022 |
Dalnadoni: This is very dicey What's your relationship with them What surname do they bears Your dad surname or their dad surname If they bear their dad surnames, then they are not going to determine how thise properties will be shared If they bear your dad surname You are supposed to take a lion share of the properties be it in cash after the sales of the properties or the best of the property, located in a very good location You need to let us know who's surname they bear Does your kins men see them as their son or not What kind of properties are you talking about You can list them for proper advice If you have females as siblings then indicate it If you have another bother then indicate Its going to be a tough decision but will be handled with wisdom 1 Like |
Re: Sharing Of Properties With Siblings. by Dalnadoni: 11:39am On Sep 25, 2022 |
RepoMan007:Noted |
Re: Sharing Of Properties With Siblings. by Dalnadoni: 12:35pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
frozen70:My two brothers bear there fathers name... My dad has landed properties and lands and momey in banks.. I have three younger bros...we are all boys 2 Likes |
Re: Sharing Of Properties With Siblings. by ManAdii: 12:47pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
Dalnadoni:Then everybody should answer their fathers name. If you know what I mean. 10 Likes |
Re: Sharing Of Properties With Siblings. by Dalnadoni: 12:57pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
ManAdii:I get you, but he want to take charge of everything saying he is the oldest..i dont want wahala because am doing well myself. 3 Likes |
Re: Sharing Of Properties With Siblings. by Blue86(m): 1:18pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
Your mom should have a say in this matter, the properties should be shared between all of you, you having the largest share of all. Your siblings following, then the half. Your dad did well by raising up children that weren't his. And I hope you are prayerful too, watching in prayers. Because this kind matter don run a girl mad before. 1 Like |
Re: Sharing Of Properties With Siblings. by mariahAngel(f): 1:40pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
Dalnadoni: What about his (their) father? Is (are) he(they) still in touch with him? How can he claim to be the "oldest" son of the man whose name he doesn't bear? Was he legally adopted by your father? Who told you the whole story about everything, your dad or mum? 1 Like |
Re: Sharing Of Properties With Siblings. by Dalnadoni: 1:49pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
Blue86:My mom too is no more. |
Re: Sharing Of Properties With Siblings. by frozen70(f): 1:50pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
Dalnadoni: That's good The property's belongs to you and your siblings Those your steps have gotten their own share while your dad was alive because he used that to train them in school 8 Likes |
Re: Sharing Of Properties With Siblings. by Blue86(m): 2:06pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
O boy, go get those assets. Dalnadoni: 1 Like |
Re: Sharing Of Properties With Siblings. by Dalnadoni: 2:08pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
mariahAngel:They are no longer in terms with there father...my dad raise them since they are 15yr, 12yr and i was around 9 or 10 then. |
Re: Sharing Of Properties With Siblings. by Dalnadoni: 2:12pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
frozen70:Thanks, but can i get a lawyer? |
Re: Sharing Of Properties With Siblings. by Dalnadoni: 2:14pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
Blue86:Thanks. But do you think i should involve a lawyer? |
Re: Sharing Of Properties With Siblings. by mariahAngel(f): 2:22pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
Dalnadoni: Well, your dad no too try shaa. He should've either legally adopted them, or left a will to avoid confusion. 3 Likes |
Re: Sharing Of Properties With Siblings. by Blue86(m): 2:23pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
Hmmm. Do you have a valid substantial claims like you being the next kin pertaining Your dad's things. And if you do, please back every thing up spiritually, in Christ Jesus. Dalnadoni: |
Re: Sharing Of Properties With Siblings. by frozen70(f): 2:24pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
Dalnadoni: I think you need to share the problem with a lawyer and seek for his advise then share your own ideas with him You can actually do that with two lawyers and weigh their ideas Then you keep the lawyer you have choosen on stand bye incase it becomes violent Then you invite the lawyer into the matter Meanwhile, are the documents with you You didn't answer where i asked if your step brothers are with your kins men father families or their own fathers family Where do they actually belong in these two families since they are married 2 Likes |
Re: Sharing Of Properties With Siblings. by Mindlog: 2:38pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
Dalnadoni: They are not heirs to your late father, you are your father's eldest son, you and your younger brothers come before them regarding anything pertaining to your late father. Get a lawyer. 6 Likes |
Re: Sharing Of Properties With Siblings. by Dalnadoni: 2:58pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
frozen70:So the thing is that my dad has a lawyer who is a family friend who has most of my dads property documents, but he is more closer to our eldest brother. What can i do about that? |
Re: Sharing Of Properties With Siblings. by frozen70(f): 3:01pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
Dalnadoni: This is one of the reasons uou have to share it with a lawyer but dont name your dad lawyer yet Uou still dodged thia question for tje 3rd time arw hour step wirh your father family's or their fathers family Its time you get more details from the head of your family only if you know that you are very close to them than they are to them |
Re: Sharing Of Properties With Siblings. by Dalnadoni: 3:04pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
mariahAngel:He never knew he would die that soon after my moms death...just a year in between. I blame for not having a will. Maybe i should have talked to him about it when he was alive. But i didnt see it coming. |
Re: Sharing Of Properties With Siblings. by Dalnadoni: 3:13pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
frozen70:They are mature now, they could still be in good rapor with there fathers people, but they are also in good rapor with my dads. I am alway my dads kin after my mom. Thanks, i will get some lawyers veiw on how to go about it. |
Re: Sharing Of Properties With Siblings. by Dalnadoni: 3:16pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
Mindlog:Okay thanks. |
Re: Sharing Of Properties With Siblings. by LilMissFavvy(f): 3:20pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
Don't allow your step brothers to come in and do the sharing, you are your father's first son, stand your ground. You should give them something no doubt, but it shouldn't be much. Call all your real siblings and speak with a lawyer if your step brothers try to cause problems. 6 Likes |
Re: Sharing Of Properties With Siblings. by Pierced(f): 3:20pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
The most important thing is find a way get those property documents from the lawyer first. What are ur father's kinsmen saying about everything? If they are not aware of the current situation on ground.......u should inform them. Then don't forget to pray. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sharing Of Properties With Siblings. by Pierced(f): 3:24pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
Dalnadoni: If u can't get the original documents from the lawyers.......then forge the documents......just know your dad signature. |
Re: Sharing Of Properties With Siblings. by Dalnadoni: 3:54pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
LilMissFavvy:Thanks, i will work on your advice. |
Re: Sharing Of Properties With Siblings. by Dalnadoni: 3:58pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
Pierced:Thanks...i will involve a lawyer to get the documents...No kinsmen to run too o |
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