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Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by Advancedman(m): 12:23pm On Sep 30, 2022
ObamaMessi:
Do you think it's ok for parents to share same
bed room with their kids?

I was shocked to my bone marrow when a little girl of eight was telling me of what happens between her parents at night simply because she share the same room with them.

I can't explain but I can assure parents that sharing the same bed room with their kids is not too good.

Carry your yeye shock comot here.
Na today you dey hear that kain thing,
Who no know say na poverty and slight irresponsibility dey make parent share room with bikin
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by Popesuccess(m): 12:24pm On Sep 30, 2022
ObamaMessi:
Do you think it's ok for parents to share same
bed room with their kids?

I was shocked to my bone marrow when a little girl of eight was telling me of what happens between her parents at night simply because she share the same room with them.

I can't explain but I can assure parents that sharing the same bed room with their kids is not too good.
Is not about what is Good or bad. Nobody will want to live in room whether single, married, with kids or on kids. Majority of Nigerians are poor, they are only living how they can afford. Unless we will say they should not have children. That been sad, parent in these situation should find a way to their thing without knowing or seeing.
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by adeoba2008(m): 12:25pm On Sep 30, 2022
Some even have eight in a room separated by Cotton material.
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by princewarri1985: 12:25pm On Sep 30, 2022
MufasaLion:


Yes, I've seen a year old child. Such child can have his/her personal room and a baby monitor with camera can be installed in such room.

Millions of people do this always!
you are not speaking like a real african, because a real african 1 year old will not agree to that settings, even 2 years old too. Or you non want make una sleep in peace that night be that and them non go tell you before you go re adjust! Pikin don cry for your ear before for night??
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by obowunmi(m): 12:25pm On Sep 30, 2022
ObamaMessi:
Do you think it's ok for parents to share same
bed room with their kids?

I was shocked to my bone marrow when a little girl of eight was telling me of what happens between her parents at night simply because she share the same room with them.

I can't explain but I can assure parents that sharing the same bed room with their kids is not too good.


She has seen her parents knacking…. and they proud fully knack in front of her.
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by NEIGHBOUR(m): 12:25pm On Sep 30, 2022
...and what were you discussing with the child that led to the revelation?
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by Directorflexx: 12:27pm On Sep 30, 2022
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Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by Popesuccess(m): 12:28pm On Sep 30, 2022
Karen2024:
As soon as my child is a year old, to his or her room.
That is what everybody wants, but most cannt afford it

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Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by Popesuccess(m): 12:30pm On Sep 30, 2022
MufasaLion:
It's wrong for kids to be in same room with the parents.
Is not abou wrong or right, is what most people afford.
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by Princebest(m): 12:31pm On Sep 30, 2022
fkj950ax:


The question is what kind of conversation are you having with an eight ( 8 ) year old girl that you got so much lurid details from her?
Are you the child's doctor, teacher, nurse or what? Even at that age, children should have conversation with their parents present with any health professional.
If you are a extended family member of the child, you shouldn't even have such conversation with her, and you share it online with strangers. The person with the problem is not her parents or even the child. Look in the mirror and see the person who needs HELP



Question of life, lol. I would ask the same question too.

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Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by princewarri1985: 12:32pm On Sep 30, 2022
ObamaMessi:
Do you think it's ok for parents to share same
bed room with their kids?

I was shocked to my bone marrow when a little girl of eight was telling me of what happens between her parents at night simply because she share the same room with them.

I can't explain but I can assure parents that sharing the same bed room with their kids is not too good.
with all due respect, but couples who live in one room apartment should be denied the right of procreation, because they are very fertile and you see them producing children like rat and you go see children dey come out from house in the morning and them non dey finish.
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by Olayetan(m): 12:32pm On Sep 30, 2022
MufasaLion:


That's not evil. That's the proper way of doing things.

That's not proper way leaving a year old baby all alone in a room...
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by Lionnation: 12:36pm On Sep 30, 2022
8year old is not a baby please, in the guiness book of record the youngest mother was 8. At 11 most female children have started mensurating, the gap between 8 andbs 11 is just 2years
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by Crystaladenike(f): 12:36pm On Sep 30, 2022
Hmmmm
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by NozinoGroup: 12:40pm On Sep 30, 2022
ObamaMessi:
Do you think it's ok for parents to share same
bed room with their kids?

I was shocked to my bone marrow when a little girl of eight was telling me of what happens between her parents at night simply because she share the same room with them.

I can't explain but I can assure parents that sharing the same bed room with their kids is not too good.



What is a grown man discussing with an 8 year old girl ? What lead to the topic?
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by modsfucker: 12:42pm On Sep 30, 2022
MufasaLion:


Yes, I've seen a year old child. Such child can have his/her personal room and a baby monitor with camera can be installed in such room.

Millions of people do this always!

Guy rest that argument abeg, a one year old child needs breast in his mouth every few minutes of the night, except if you're talking about lazy parenting of nowadays.

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Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by luluosas(m): 12:44pm On Sep 30, 2022
Thought the experience would be discussed
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by BigCowHornn: 12:45pm On Sep 30, 2022
MufasaLion:


They should focus on having a better apartment instead of breeding like rodents in a studio apartment.


I couldn't help but smile when i read this.
Got to Ajegule slums in Lagos. You will see a family of 10 all living in one room. And just when you think there is no other space 2 or 3 relatives will show up and pack in there.
It's everywhere that why it's so crowed in that area. It hard to see a family living in more than one room down there no matter how many they are. Some of the families have been living there for generations too.

I kid you not.
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by Shadysen: 12:48pm On Sep 30, 2022
MufasaLion:


Yes, I've seen a year old child. Such child can have his/her personal room and a baby monitor with camera can be installed in such room.

Millions of people do this always!
and you will stay awake to monitor the camera right?
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by slimmoney(m): 12:51pm On Sep 30, 2022
how many families get money to rent manageable 1 bedroom apartment not to talk of 2 bedrooms with cctv camera to monitor their children? abeg na Nigeria we dey and all fingers can never be equal no matter how u hustle.
MufasaLion:


Yes, I've seen a year old child. Such child can have his/her personal room and a baby monitor with camera can be installed in such room.

Millions of people do this always!
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by Greystone: 12:54pm On Sep 30, 2022
MufasaLion:


They should focus on having a better apartment instead of breeding like rodents in a studio apartment.

Exactly.
The fertility rate among poor people is alarming.
No money to afford the basic necessities of life but they will just be knacking themselves continuously and churning out children.
Then their children can’t go to good schools, end up with menial jobs, some get pregnant or get girls pregnant, some go into criminal activities/ prostitution and the poverty cycle continues to the next generation.

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Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by Freshgrace4life(f): 12:55pm On Sep 30, 2022
Na poverty cause am , na so one girl dey tell her friend say every night her papa go dey pound her mama , when I hear am I no wetin the girl dey talk .

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Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by khadaffi(m): 12:55pm On Sep 30, 2022
Mindlog:


Co-sleeping was a topic in my Masters' class in Clinical Child Psychology and the focus was helping children to transition into "owning" their own rooms and achieving sleep independence. When your children go visit relatives and have to sleep over, how do they cope?.

I don't care what you read in your Masters programme, marriage is practical and no amount of formal education can cover the challenges you are likely to face. When they visit relatives which they do always, they cope well. Except the relative in question is not a parent and personally I would not allow my kids stay over with someone who is not a parent.

I'm older than my youngest brother by about 16 years and with what he experienced staying alone in his room, I actually vowed not to allow such nonsense repeat itself in the family. It happened that my brother was given birth through CS and immediately after delivery the doctor informed my Mum he didn't cry early enough and that at the age of sixteen he might have some complication in his health. As early as 2 years I witnessed him fainting but I didn't know this was frequent when he sleeps. Because we didn't detect on time this frequent seizure that only occur while he sleeps led to schizophrenia at 16. because of this
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by Emeka71(m): 1:05pm On Sep 30, 2022
You try.
Karen2024:
As soon as my child is a year old, to his or her room.
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by WhiteRuler: 1:06pm On Sep 30, 2022
Michelle70:
hahaha.

No wonder u said people are poor cos they dont want to work for comfort.

I could see ur level of enlightenment.

If you check that person well, he might be more broke than even a church rat
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by emapeteum(m): 1:08pm On Sep 30, 2022
ITbomb:
Do you think it is their choice to stay in a one bedroom apartment?
I love your response
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by crazygod(m): 1:09pm On Sep 30, 2022
MufasaLion:


That's not evil. That's the proper way of doing things.
Do you have kids?
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by Jackipapa: 1:10pm On Sep 30, 2022
I am not understanding, kindly be more elaborate. so many things to see at night!
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by riches4me(m): 1:11pm On Sep 30, 2022
MufasaLion:


Yes, I've seen a year old child. Such child can have his/her personal room and a baby monitor with camera can be installed in such room.

Millions of people do this always!

Too many Hollywood movies man
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by Fearyourcreator: 1:11pm On Sep 30, 2022
general111:
it is not every hardworking person that is comfortable my brother.Being Hard working, does not mean you will be successful..
Poverty is the root cause of discomfort.
Don't be surprised the mother of that child's wardrobe is filled with expensive owambe clothes... And them like spending so much on party... My neighbour here Sef built a room and a parlour self contain ... They got like 5 children... Dem spend on party pass anything
Re: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by Trill1(m): 1:12pm On Sep 30, 2022
May God bless us all.

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