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ubunja:
you take your kids if they're yours.

HARDESTNIGGAINT:
SEE THIS FOOL

heartofcity12:
They must sexualize everything

MJBOLT:

women are sex objects after all and that's what most of them can give a man.

EvilNeedle:
Stay on your purposes.

liamjakes247:
Wish I saw this honest reality way before now a lot would have been avoided

CaveAdullam:
DAY 274, REDPILL 2022

Relationships should be more of "we" and "us"; the parties involved work consciously and deliberately on how to achieve their common goal by utilizing their strengths, merging their strengths, and rendering help when necessary and at all times.

When it becomes more of "I" or "me"; it indicates that there is no common goal, just an opportunity to leverage for personal short-term benefits.

Authority: Avoid leeches.

pansophist:
Rejection from a woman (or even anyone) should be like water on a duck's feather, you dust it off and move on. But to effectively move on, you must be a man with options, that's the catch. Rejection pains a lot when the rejecter knows you can not do better, and if you look deep inside your heart, that's exactly what is burning you. She is a prize, but the only prize you can get.

If you can easily get a woman way more attractive than her and can get her tomorrow, you won't be pained. In fact, she won't leave because your value that attracts other women will make her stay. I also guess you are young, probably in your 20s, if this is the case, then calm down and just focus on work. For men generally, the '20s are the age of rejection for the majority. In fact, there are more virgin males in their 20s than women. Men rule in their 30 and beyond, and women rule in their 20's/

Understand the game and stop having misplaced sadness. Pursue your destiny now like you die tomorrow so that in your 30s, you will be the eligible suitor's girls like your ex will be after. I confess dear brethren, it is sweet.

Victorious warriors win first and then go to war, while defeated warriors go to war first and then seek to win” ― Sun Tzu, The Art of War

Her rejection is merely a confirmation/result of your defeat status which you are probably not conscious of. Most likely because you haven't done the work to be attractive. The guy she left you for might have been you, years ago, who knows? I remember when I was in high school and the boyfriends of my female classmates will wait for them outside the school during closing hours, some come with cars, and some when you see them, they look so sophisticated.

Back then, I know say I didn't stand a chance, in fact, toasting no de mind sef because fear no gree us. The frustration on our faces then as boys, we are just expendables and have nothing of value to us except that we are 'sentient-semen'. But right now, the oppression we got back then, we are doing it to younger boys now

So my guy, calm down, life na turn by turn. Go and pay your own price, then oppress the upcoming generations of young boys. Its a rite of passage. Imagine make Ned Nwoko as he old reach, he still de oppress young men, that how good a man have it. I come in peace.

CaveAdullam:
1. Human civilization has gone through many different trends, like genetic traits, some cultures and beliefs were able to survive up to this moment while others were lost.

2. Culture either changes or gets enhanced. The mode of dressing has changed over time.

3. Mode of dressing is an important core in every tradition. Those that have not enhanced their mode of dressing are still considered backward. Cultures that still celebrate nudity or go ahead with their daily activities with half-clothedness are lesser than the ones with a good style of dressing covering their unclothedness.
Take note: I'm talking about deep rough rural areas that are still far away from the light of urban civilization.

4. Female promiscuity has always been a dialogue for ages. Cultures that don't restrict their females are always backward. And many of these cultures were found to be godless. These are rural areas I'm talking about.

5. The global North experienced prosperity because they had a fear of God + female promiscuity was minimized, hence, their mental and social energy increased for more growth and development. Monogamy is for a reason in the Western world.

But coming back today, you'll observe that as the fear of god/God declines, the female is going naked and their growth is skewing to the negative side.

6. When females are promiscuous, men will do nothing because they will want to quench their libido, thereby reducing their time for work which makes civilization postpone. Cultures that have lower female promiscuity are always rational and full of energy.

7. Promiscuity affects both men and women negatively but differently. Women suffer more because they are the emotional sex, and base everything they do on emotions. Men are not emotionally bound to sex, unlike women. Hence, women suffer the aftermath of promiscuity the most. Only those that think men and women are equal want women to be as promiscuous as men.

8. A promiscuous woman has a lower value than a promiscuous man because men are not judged based on their sexuality, unlike women. Men value women for their sexuality. And a woman who is not chaste is a bad investment for a man. He wants to believe that his woman is chaste enough to bear his kids and nurture them. If he is not aware of their sexuality, he will be a victim of paternity fraud.

9. Why is she a bad investment? Because women absorb energy. As weaker sex, wherever you lead them they go. If they have had sex with men with different behaviors and characters they absorb a bit of this men at a time, forming a large part of their nature.

10. Most of the things women know are a result of their interaction with men. A woman is a representation of the quality of the men that surrounds her. If the men around her are nonchalant, she will become like them soon and even worst.

11. Men are not valued for their sexuality but for status and power. Engaging their libido will limit their desire for status and power; men are 24/7 h0rny.

Take note: Let this misconception that women enjoy sex more than men be corrected today. For the record, men desire and enjoy sexual satisfaction more than women. Men desire more sexual duration than women. Men think and imagine sex daily and even have wet dreams more than women. The simple reason for this: is the high volume of testosterone hormone.

12. So, you see why men should also practice chastity. They can only practice chastity if women are unwilling to give sex - sex cannot happen without women's consent, ràpe is a rare exception.

There's no way a man can engage in constant sex and be productive. No way! Great men/scientists in history either abstained from women completely or for a long time. Ditto for women, however, the feminine psyche has a larger predisposition towards children and family, unlike men who just use sex as a way of relaxation from work.

13. Any culture that celebrates nudity and promiscuity is less rational and productive. They don't do well.

14. You would have thought that many Muslim nations would have been doing fine because females' promiscuousness is reduced; it's not the case because their men are allowed to engage with more than 1 woman. Refer to 12 above.

And if you observe well in these nations, the rate of violence is high because mate distribution is unequal - young men don't have women because many of the women are wives to the high-status men. Where do you hear of terrorism most? Instinctually, women are the cause.

15. At the end of the day, promiscuity doesn't favor men and women. Women suffer more because the effect takes a negative turn on their emotions and psychology. And they only discover this when they get older and are rejected by most men. Refer to 8 above.

Men on the other hand will not be productive, however, once they discover their level in the hierarchy and are at the bottom, they can make amend. But TIME is a factor that waits for no man.

16. Men are not getting married these days because females' promiscuity is without restraints and boundaries. Commitment to modern-day women is like sowing fertile seeds on rocky grounds. Women are getting more independent and arrogant, so they represent a bad mating choice. The corollary effect is that there is an increased rate of effeminate and weak men. Therefore, there can be no interlocking in love and holy matrimony.

17. To restore order, family law must be reviewed. Men must know that promiscuity limits their growth. Women must know that promiscuity truly damages them. No excuse whatsoever. Only the wise among them will survive this harsh reality.

Men should take over leadership and authority and women as convenient companions making the best use of themselves and time.

Thanks.

ubunja:
men hate it when a random woman turns them on cause for men being "on" is akin to a moment of weakness, especially since they very well know that the woman turning them on won't even sleep with them.....

but for women it's different.

women LOVE being turned on. They enjoy that state of arousal and will actively seek out a man whose presence makes their puccy wet.

A select man AKA an Alpha, goes through his day turning women on, while non select men AKA Betas go through the day being turned on by women. This means the Non Select are invisible to women cause they don't stand out and are in no way, shape or form memorable. At the end of her day a woman only remembers the men who made her puccy throb - either by how they looked (body), their smell (cologne) or how they spoke (mouthpiece) ---- all these are Within the ability of any man to perfect.

and the very fact that so many men are not willing to put in the work to be select is the very reason why being select makes you stand out and be memorable. ask yourself as a man; On any given day, from morning to evening, How many guys who go to the gym do you see on the street/mall/taxis etc? You can't count them even maybe in one hand! If they're more I can guarantee you they won't be more than 20. unless you're inside a gym or near a gym. the scarcity of select men is something along those lines. it's why women are always lamenting that there's a shortage of good men. "Good men" here is code for "SEXABLE MEN".

ubunja:
men hate it when a random woman turns them on cause for men being "on" is akin to a moment of weakness, especially since they very well know that the woman turning them on won't even sleep with them.....

but for women it's different.

women LOVE being turned on. They enjoy that state of arousal and will actively seek out a man whose presence makes their puccy wet.

A select man AKA an Alpha, goes through his day turning women on, while non select men AKA Betas go through the day being turned on by women. This means the Non Select are invisible to women cause they don't stand out and are in no way, shape or form memorable. At the end of her day a woman only remembers the men who made her puccy throb - either by how they looked (body), their smell (cologne) or how they spoke (mouthpiece) ---- all these are Within the ability of any man to perfect.

and the very fact that so many men are not willing to put in the work to be select is the very reason why being select makes you stand out and be memorable. ask yourself as a man; On any given day, from morning to evening, How many guys who go to the gym do you see on the street/mall/taxis etc? You can't count them even maybe in one hand! If they're more I can guarantee you they won't be more than 20. unless you're inside a gym or near a gym. the scarcity of select men is something along those lines. it's why women are always lamenting that there's a shortage of good men. "Good men" here is code for "SEXABLE MEN".

heartofcity12:
They must sexualize everything

Smartb0y:
From the link

Anything worthwhile in life is going to be hard. A quality woman. A great career. An useful higher education degree.

If it is easy to obtain, it is likely worthless.

Finding a quality Christian woman in our corrupt world today is going to be hard. That is what makes her worthwhile.

This means you will need a 3-pronged approach to your search: local churches; local Christian-focused charities; online. You will need to do some legwork here.

This is especially of you want/need one who is at least a 5 physically and not obese or seriously lacking in any physical beauty. Keep in mind, you can compromise that 5+ in the appearance requirement down somewhat, but remember that any relationship where the man and woman are more than 2 points apart in appearance is NOT stable and is at high risk for divorce, etc.

If you are a 7 man and you negotiate yourself down (“negotiated attraction” = danger!) to accept a 4 woman because she is a wonderful Christian person, I commend you. But you also need to know that there will be trouble, no matter what you do, especially as she ages after 30. Either other more attractive women will tempt you OR she will (eventually) become jealous of you around other women. Stay within 2 points of each other in appearance (this means both need stay fit, dress ok, hygiene, etc) and it will be stable. �

Oh yeah and take it from a man who was married in his early 20s well into his late 30s: she will age, and even the ones who age gracefully and stay in shape will lose their youthful beauty in time. That is human nature and it is Biblical concept. “Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised”. Proverbs 31:30

Just to keep it in perspective, folks. We need to keep it real and go into marriage and the courtship of a quality Christian woman with realistic expectations and eyes wide open. That is the Red Pill lifestyle: you have to keep it real and keep it honest with yourself, have realistic expectations, and expect hard work to succeed.

#copied

ubunja:
in a perfect world the man a woman loves will be the man she shows her freaky slutty side to. so that he can enjoy that part of her. but the way men are wired, this can't work. instead of enjoying it the man will be disgusted and call her names.

sorry Fefe it won't work....

chiefchief21:
Ubunja, please come and see a wife that also tried to be a side chick/slut at the same time ooo.

chiefchief21:
Ubunja, please come and see a wife that also tried to be a side chick/slut at the same time ooo.

CaveAdullam:
1. One thing I know for sure is that women neither know about their nature nor psychology. They may be behaving or talking in a particular way, but they don't have an explanation behind it.

2. Men will fvck any woman that has an unending mileage, however, for men, there's a difference between sex/sex outside and within commitment.

3. It is not only primitive and local that men don't like committing to promiscuous women, women with children, or women in a relationship but it is wired into men's psyche. It has been encoded in their psychology and only men blinded by love and romance will fail to obey.

4. The reason is that:

A. It deprives him of passing his genes, and animals that fail to pass their genes will not continue to exist in the genetic pool in successive generations. Dating a woman that has 1 or more kids will make him focus on kids not his, helping another man prepare and safeguard his genes for successive generations.

B. It reduces the resources that he would have used to cater for his kids except he is wealthy.

C. Women are loyal to the men that DEFLOWER THEM and also the men they FIRST REPRODUCE FOR regardless of whether the men are dead or alive, rich or poor.

He will never gain her full attention and loyalty. Committing to such women is a 50/50 game when it comes to loyalty, honesty, truthfulness, and faithfulness - virtues that women even struggle with as per their nature. Men desire virgin women as wives for a reason.

D. The kids may bring him trouble as they grow old, especially in cases where parental guidance is not effective and efficient.

E. The father of the kids may come back for them, which means, he has wasted his years and resources, depriving himself and his genes.

F. Or, the woman goes back to her ex-partner. Refer to C above.

G. Firstborns are like gods in the hearts of parents. A man must not let his firstborn be a second, third... child of a woman. Doing so deprives his firstborn of that first maternal nurturing and love.

5. Men being selective about women is not a primitive behavior but a biological and evolutionary mechanism when it comes to the mating game.

6. Men will fvck any woman, but will only look for the best woman to commit to. If women think that they are equal to men, and decide to fvck any man that comes their way like prostitutés they will never find any man that will commit. Same way women will corral around high-status rich and powerful men and get disgusted by low-poor broke men.

7. Men can be promiscuous and still wants to date or marry a chaste woman. Refer to 6 above.

I. Women can be promiscuous but will never get a man to commit to them.

II. Poor men want chaste women. Women don't mind committing to a wealthy philanderer.

III. Poor women will never date poor men. But men don't mind whether a woman is rich or poor. As per the mating game, men date low; women date high.

IV. The rich man will get the best woman. The rich woman will prefer to stay alone or desire to date men richer than her. Refer to III above.

V. The poor woman has a higher chance of getting a mate. The poor man chances is ultra slim.

For the record: Women are the gatekeepers of sex, sex cannot happen without women's consent. Rápe is a rare exception. So, a woman must know the quality of the man she's dealing with because as far as reproduction and nurturing are concerned, she bears an expensive risk. Men should also know how to guard their resources and commitment and seek only the best women.

Welcome to the human mating game.