I got my girlfriend pregnant I accepted the responsibility I am not financially buoyant I am not doing anything for now my parents have assisted us with the little they could it wasn't sufficient because my girlfriend was sick after delivering my parents have tried until all the money was finished my dad said he have to contact her father to tell him about her daughter health problem because if anything happens without her father knowledge he can arrest us my dad contacted him he sent his brothers to pick her alone without the baby it is 3 weeks ago my parents are pleading with her father to please come collect the baby she is crying a lot she refuse to drink my boy milk and she is getting sick they said they will assit her with whatever they can but he refused we have tried everything to calm the baby and it is not working we are scared to loose her we don't know what to do again I know he hate me so much but he cant punish the innocent baby for my mistakes the man is here please beg him for me to have mercy on the innocent baby who needs her mother

I got my girlfriend pregnant I accepted the responsibility I am not financially buoyant I am not doing anything for now

The bolded is what I find really hard to understand about some boys


A broke foolish guy with a sharp dick will only bring misery to himself and those around him.


Now the poor girl is traumatized and sick while your parents are struggling to feed and carter for you and the baby .


Let the sick girl rest and be taken care of in her father's house since your family is incapable of taking care of her.



Leave the girl's father alone to concentrate on nursing his daughter back to health and on her feet.

Babies without mothers survive. Your mother is alive let her take care of the baby.

That baby and your parents need money.


Get your lazy bum up and hit the streets !

Carry the baby go drop for their house that man foolish

Terminator0x0:
I got my girlfriend pregnant I accepted the responsibility I am not financially buoyant I am not doing anything for now my parents have assisted us with the little they could it wasn't sufficient because my girlfriend was sick after delivering my parents have tried until all the money was finished my dad said he have to contact her father to tell him about her daughter health problem because if anything happens without her father knowledge he can arrest us my dad contacted him he sent his brothers to pick her alone without the baby it is 3 weeks ago my parents are pleading with her father to please come collect the baby she is crying a lot she refuse to drink my boy milk and she is getting sick they said they will assit her with whatever they can but he refused we have tried everything to calm the baby and it is not working we are scared to loose her we don't know what to do again I know he hate me so much but he cant punish the innocent baby for my mistakes the man is here please beg him for me to have mercy on the innocent baby who needs her mother

Mr. Terminator, go and hustle for money and stop disturbing us. You deserve what the father is doing to you and your baby; albeit it's bad.

SeniorMan715:
Carry the baby go drop for their house that man foolish

He said he will arrest anyone who will put feet in his house my parents said I shouldn't go there

MufasaLion:
Mr. Terminator, go and hustle for money and stop disturbing us. You deserve what the father is doing to you and your baby; albeit it's bad.

I am seeking for job I deserve it but the baby doesn't deserve she doesn't know anything

doggedfighter:
Oh !


You are the said broke guy with sharp dick a father here talked about ?



Though your story is somehow inconsistent with what the man wrote here.


I don't think the said girl has grown up brothers.





Could this be from Joro to Joro !

Her father brothers that came to pick her up

Terminator0x0:


Her father brothers that came to pick her up

Okay , I see

Terminator0x0:


I am seeking for job I deserve it but the baby doesn't deserve she doesn't know anything

Doesn't the mother of the child have a mother that can intercede?

MufasaLion:


Doesn't the mother of the child have a mother that can intercede?

Her mother is late she have a stepmother who separated with her father

Terminator0x0:


He said he will arrest anyone who will put feet in his house my parents said I shouldn't go there

How old is the baby?

Terminator0x0:


He said he will arrest anyone who will put feet in his house my parents said I shouldn't go there

Then let your mom take charge of the welfare of the baby in your house. The baby will survive. There are millions of kids with no mother right after their birth.

Terminator0x0:



Her mother is late she have a stepmother who separated with her father

Then let your mom take charge of the welfare of the baby in your house. The baby will survive. There are millions of kids with no mother right after their birth.

Helpout12345:


How old is the baby?

She will clock 6 months on the 30th

Don't allow that baby to die, how can he separate barely a month baby from her mother, take the baby to his house let him arrest you, so the police can Come into the matter let see how he will defend himself child abuse, and human right offense,

Terminator0x0:


He said he will arrest anyone who will put feet in his house my parents said I shouldn't go there

Terminator0x0:


She will clock 6 months on the 30th

What off your own mom?

doggedfighter:

I got my girlfriend pregnant I accepted the responsibility I am not financially buoyant I am not doing anything for now

The bolded is what I find really hard to understand about some boys


A broke foolish guy with a sharp dick will only bring misery to himself and those around him.


Now the poor girl is traumatized and sick while your parents are struggling to feed and carter for you, the baby .


.

I agree the boy is meant to be tongue-lashed as you did. But you seem to put all the blames on the young boy alone.

What about the mumu young girl also that cannot close her yansh? She should be clapped for?

SeniorMan715:
Carry the baby go drop for their house that man foolish

You will never understand until you are in the man's shoes.

Helpout12345:


I agree the boy is meant to be tongue-lashed as you did. But you seem to put all the blames on the young boy alone.

What about the mumu young girl also that cannot close her yansh? She should be clapped for?

We always blame girls on yansh closing.

How much is condom ?


We should start training our boys to know the kind of homes they come from .

doggedfighter:





How much is condom ?


We should start training our boys to know the kind of homes they come from .

And what should we do for our girls ?

Both the boy and the girl messed up in this case. Both brought headaches to their families. Both should be blamed.

And we should train both our boys and girls to stay away from sex until they are grown up to face the consequences.

MufasaLion:


Then let your mom take charge of the welfare of the baby in your house. The baby will survive. There are millions of kids with no mother right after their birth.

My mum is trying her best but the baby is not cooperating she don't want milk or foods she want breast milk

Okay but the man has brought the matter here before you and nairalanders have contributed on the matter.

SeniorMan715:
Don't allow that baby to die, how can he separate barely a month baby from her mother, take the baby to his house let him arrest you, so the police can Come into the matter let see how he will defend himself child abuse, and human right offense,

I wish I could go there with the baby to kneel down and beg him to accept her but my dad refused he said

Every man have his supreme.

doggedfighter:

You will never understand until you are in the man's shoes.

olasaad:
Okay but the man has brought the matter here before you and nairalanders have contributed in the matter

Yes I know it was my sister that showed me the post most people have advise him to take both of them but he only took the mother and left the baby he said she is my responsibility my family and I should raise her

If the mother is sick, she'll be unable to breastfeed, so formula is the only option.

If the baby isn't taking "my boy" formula, try NAN or Lactogen. They are also affordable.

The girls father just wants his daughter to get well and he also cannot deal with a sick daughter and a baby.

Your family has to take the baby to a pediatrician to explain what's going on so the pediatrician can advise and recommend a formula for you guys.

When we are shouting that you people should avoid premarital sex, you'd open your gutter mouths to insult people telling you nothing but the truth.

See where e done end so.

An unemployed boy sowing his seed irresponsibly.

Romanoff:
If the mother is sick, she'll be unable to breastfeed, so formula is the only option.

If the baby isn't taking "my boy" formula, try NAN or Lactogen. They are also affordable.

The girls father just wants his daughter to get well and he also cannot deal with a sick daughter and a baby.

Your family has to take the baby to a pediatrician to explain what's going on so the pediatrician can advise and recommend a formula for you guys.

When we are shouting that you people should avoid premarital sex, you'd open your gutter mouths to insult people telling you nothing but the truth.

See where e done end so.

An unemployed boy sowing his seed irresponsibly.

She is not sick anymore she told me on phone she spend 2 days at the hospital it was lack of vitamin d that made her sick the doctor have prescribed medication for her she is at home we were talking on the phone she was telling me she misses the baby that I have to tell my parents to keep begging her dad to accept the baby suddenly I can't speak with her anymore her number is not working I think her dad have seize her phone or he change her number

give her ogbono soup and semo

Terminator0x0:


My mum is trying her best but the baby is not cooperating she don't want milk or foods she want breast milk

See, there's nothing online strangers will tell your girlfriend father that will make him take the child with his daughter.

Your girlfriend is currently sick and undergoing treatment herself. Let your mother continue to take care of the baby for now. The baby will be fine. With time, she will get used to baby formula. Try different baby formulae for her age to see the one she will eventually like. I know your mother can handle this part.

Though I don't agree with your girlfriend father to separate baby and mother at this age of the baby but I want to give him the benefit of doubt that he just wants to concentrate on the medical treatment of his daughter for now.

You and your family should hang in there, take care of the baby for now until your girlfriend is medically okay. Then approach her father again.

If after your girlfriend is medically okay, and the baby is still young, you can involve the welfare system.

Op you ought to be arrested and thrown in prison

When elders are advising young boys of nowadays to keep their third leg in one place and young girls to close their yansh, you people will not hear.

See where you land yourself and both families now?