Yes, I will invest in the person

H

NO

Not at all

Thats means she sabi native doctor house well well

Patented:
Iliteracy is relatively easy to cure with a little effort. However human character is very very very difficult to change

U get Sense pass those mumu joo

The peace of mind means, he is readily corrected and read to learn

Yes

I will pay a teacher to teach her how to read and write.

People underestimate the importance of Peace Of Mind a lot.

Zee0007:
I was having a conversation with a friend and he said, " he cannot marry someone who doesn't know how to read or write.

Can you?

What is your own stand on this? Let's start with you. Better still put the question as it is, let us know that you are confused between marrying someone who cannot read nor write but gives you peace of mind and another who can read and write but doesn't give you peace of mind.
If the case is about a discussion you had with someone, how come you know the person gives peace of mind?

No woman is perfect. I noticed that where people lag behind, they make in other areas.

Unfortunately, I cannot stand lady who cannot read and write. What will she teach my kids when I am not there?

CheapHomes1:


Manage in what way?

I don't wanna go into much details, but someone who doesn't know how to read or write obviously can't speak English, and as a literate and someone who aspires to voyage round the world, I will need a partner who can as well quantify my personalities, tutor the kids when I'm away and offcourse represent my business entities in my absent...

I won't want to shoulder the responsibilities and burdens of financing an adult on something she missed long long time ago, not furthering her studies due to unforeseen setbacks is one thing, but not knowing how to read and write lets say at age 23-28 is another different ball game entirely...There are ladies who possesses the both aforementioned qualities to pick from, I can never settle for less in terms of marriage, that is if I even decide to get married.

Zee0007:
I was having a conversation with a friend and he said, " he cannot marry someone who doesn't know how to read or write.

Can you?

Every lady that can't read or write should be able to offer peace of mind. She would certainly want to bring something to the table.

H

So when did literacy becomes a yardstick for choosing wives?
Love should be the standard, if a woman truly loves you. It doesn't matter if she is literate or not the marriage will be Peace and will stand the test of time

What is the need of read and without peace of mind?

DaniWhizbang:
Fair enough. It's his or her choice. Personally, I can't and will never do such

But you can Bleep such? If you lie, Ogun and Amadioha dey ur back!

Exactly what I want. Wetin all this girls wey sabi read and write dey use man eyes see pass person oo

That one na wahala...it will tell on your children. Except she's ready to go for learning

Zee0007:
I was having a conversation with a friend and he said, " he cannot marry someone who doesn't know how to read or write.

Can you?

This 21st century?
Nah i don't think that's a kind of union i would love to go into.
I might try to consider her, if only she's willing and dedicated to learn on the long run.

Zee0007:
I was having a conversation with a friend and he said, " he cannot marry someone who doesn't know how to read or write.

Can you?

Yes i can o......................Also he should be focused and ensure he is capable of taking care of me and our kids too. Finish.

Who read & write epp,me dat cnt read nor write in chinese,but i dey bomb dem steady nkor?....

So long she gat a handiwork,not lazy,neat nd able to takia of our kids with giving me peace of mind....,i don marry her,still marry her again,then do anoda marry with her,before we go plan for the marriage cuz i go first marry her, wed her,before i marriage her,read & write kor,talk & answa noni.

Chnbanc:
I gat you by the balls!! that was why you rushed to defend and cover up ya lapses. You just proved that to get phone number from you no hard!! And you a random girl for random men Yet you come on nairaland And be bashing men and forming woke feminist!! Breeze don blow!! And we don see fowl yansh!

See wetin you and your fellow man Dey yarn this early morning

Yes ,been married for 8 years now and I thought her everything she knows now and I’m proud of her

VictorUSA:
How can someone who cannot read and write give you peace of mind in this 21st century?

Simple question..

Read and write or peace of mind, chose.

So you think all the government official wives can read and write? your joking.
You never go closed to any of them i guess.

Hmmm

There is no peace of mind when the necessary things are not done.

Beautiful and not been able to read is the greatest let down.

U think u will have rest of mind until a letter is sent to her to attend to on your behalf.

I can always teach her with love


You see peace of mind is the best thing that can happen to a man

With peace of mind you go just dey fresh, dey fat with big round neck and belly

Your hustle go dey get blessings


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Zee0007:
I was having a conversation with a friend and he said, " he cannot marry someone who doesn't know how to read or write.

Can you?

But the person can speak your local language so what's the issue ? It Is only Africans who embraced foreign gods and language and culture hook,line and sinker . Colonialism really destroyed our mental capabilities.

skales67:
Capital Yes

Just like someone said, it's easy to cure illiteracy but it's hard to cure bad character.