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I don't think money should matter in a relationship. What matters is the love a guy and a lady feels for each other. A lady shouldn't expect money from her guy and wait for him to pay for things for her. A relationship that money matters is a business and shouldn't be considered a relationship.



Victor Jalingo

Money does not matter but as senior partners in the relationship, men have to embrace a sense of responsibility.

I used to think it didnt matter until recently.
If you need money to survive daily, your relationship needs money to survive, because the people in the relationship are two humans that needs money to survive.

Money matter, money matter, money matter

Any body wey say money no matter no well.

Even you as an individual need money, talkless of relationship

Well, I don't think giving or helping each other financially is a bad thing.
But in this contemporary generation, average girls have this mentality that a guy has to pay her bills or also give her allowance since they're dating each other, that's sound odd.

I do imagine how our forefathers and mothers handle relationship in those days, entitlement to money and paying bills like it is nowadays by girls wasn't there in those time. And the relationship then was solid, truthful and full of respect.

Despite all sort of ideas and stupid concepts this generation bring into relationship, it kept collapsing leading to fail relationship and marriages.

general111:
I used to think it didnt matter until recently.
If you need money to survive daily, your relationship needs money to survive, because the people in the relationship are two humans that needs money to survive.

Who needs the money? the man or the woman? Any relationship built for financial gain is a business.

ojun50:
Money matter, money matter, money matter

Any body wey say money no matter no well.

Even you as an individual need money, talkless of relationship

So if you don't have money you won't do relationship?

Calvary247:
Money does not matter but as senior partners in the relationship, men have to embrace a sense of responsibility.

I know

VictorUSA:
So if you don't have money you won't do relationship?

Yes, but i go nack when i need am

ojun50:
Yes, but i go nack when i need am

How can you nack without money when you are not in a relationship?

VictorUSA:
How can you nack without money when you are not in a relationship?

So you must be in relationship before you nack, ok

Wow bye bye

VictorUSA:
Can you imagine?


I don't think money should matter in a relationship. What matters is the love a guy and a lady feels for each other. A lady shouldn't expect money from her guy and wait for him to pay for things for her. A relationship that money matters is a business and shouldn't be considered a relationship.



Victor Jalingo

See question wey you dey ask.

VictorUSA:
Can you imagine?


I don't think money should matter in a relationship. What matters is the love a guy and a lady feels for each other. A lady shouldn't expect money from her guy and wait for him to pay for things for her. A relationship that money matters is a business and shouldn't be considered a relationship.



Victor Jalingo

Relationship sweet when you have money

ojun50:
So you must be in relationship before you nack, ok

Wow bye bye

We were talking about whether or not money matters in a relationship.

VictorUSA:
Who needs the money? the man or the woman? Any relationship built for financial gain is a business.

they both need the money sir..
A man who is not in a relationship with a girl, is actually in a relationship with himself.it means that he will need to eat, buy himself some clothes and take care of his basic needs..
It means he is loving himself.the same rule applies to a woman...
So when a man is in a relationship with a woman, his expenses simply doubles..
U grab?

Wotoporiously speaking

Money matters because we need money to buy everything in a relationship except love, understanding, and every other thing that isn't materialistic....but the current generation see money as a sign of love in a relationship, they substitute non-material things for material things all in the name of love, In any relationship if money becomes the center of attraction then love loses it's value.

*Money is the material thing

*Love is the non-material thing

You as a human being can't survive a day without money then talk more of two humans.

Two humans in a relationship can't survive it's rainy season without genuine love, something money can never buy.

general111:
they both need the money sir..
A man who is not in a relationship with a girl, is actually in a relationship with himself.it means that he will need to eat, buy himself some clothes and take care of his basic needs..
It means he is loving himself.the same rule applies to a woman...
So when a man is in a relationship with a woman, his expenses simply doubles..
U grab?

I disagree with this opinion.

If it is a must for a guy to spend on his and without money the relationship wouldn't work then that relationship is a business.

VictorUSA:
I disagree with this opinion.

If it is a must for a guy to spend on his and without money the relationship wouldn't work then that relationship is a business.

go back and read what i wrote again and again bros..
I didnt say spending is the duty of the man alone.