immanuelsize:
Which type of help are you talking about? You didn't make a clear point!

Freestainworld:
He visited you to eat what he wanted to eat, if he doesn't want to repeat the same food again na by force?

Yusufisraelj:
Hmmm, there are lots of blind spots in your story.

1. What was the general consensus upon which the relationship was built, was it for marriage or fun?

2. What's his reason for you not coming over?

3. Are both of you working in these different locations? And to what extent is the flexibility of seeing each other?

Sammy101111:
Cold shoulder how I don’t understand what you mean does he not allow you to come and do you know he’s house . Make sure you both are not meeting in hotels my sister the relationship is going to be wake he should be able to amore you

TPGoddess:
I voiced out my anger and he made me feel like my emotions aren't valid. I have been looking at everything he has done to annoy me and I am starting to second guess.

I need your help on this one. Am I overreacting to the whole situation?

superCleanworks:
my guy gave her COLD SHOULDER instead of COLD STONE.

TPGoddess:


1) we both said we should see how it goes, that marriage might not be end goal.

2) I guess I didn't explain it well, when I told him I want to come over, he send address via googlr map and basically was like your on your own. Even he didn't want to send the address at first and I was like when you wanted to come over, I immediately send address and made notices so that my work won't overlap and he will be waiting for me. I wanted to feel assured that yes okay he is planning for me to come because I don't know road and he didn't.

3) We are two different states.

TPGoddess:


Okay, I meant I say I'm starting to second guess the relationship. This was like an eye opener to me, I don't know if I should break up or continue?

judatech:
Breakfast cooking

TPGoddess:


1) we both said we should see how it goes, that marriage might not be end goal.

2) I guess I didn't explain it well, when I told him I want to come over, he send address via googlr map and basically was like your on your own. Even he didn't want to send the address at first and I was like when you wanted to come over, I immediately send address and made notices so that my work won't overlap and he will be waiting for me. I wanted to feel assured that yes okay he is planning for me to come because I don't know road and he didn't.

3) We are two different states.

Czathedemigod:

Sorry,how old are you pls and the guy in question?! Cos from what i'm seeing hmmn...

TPGoddess:


I'm 22 and he is 27 years old.

Czathedemigod:

Smh so typical,i feel the guy is only out to exploit you tbh.You're not a virgin yea & hopefully you didn't loose that to him too..whatever you do jst be sure you watch out for yourself first,i do knw exactly how u feel.

TPGoddess:


Hmm alright, thank you. I felt hurt really that if I am going to go out of my comfort zone to meet you at least be enthusiastic. I mean, he is familiar with my side because he has an aunt living in my state but I don't know shit about his state.

TPGoddess:
Hi! I am back with another topic.

Okay, my boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 months plus and for the most part it has been terrific. We chat, videocall and do what most couples do.

The only main issue I see is that the entirety of our relationship has been long distance. I was completely aware and consented to it, but now I am having second thoughts on the relationship as a whole.

-- Side Track--
In between being in my first relationship and having high expectations of my man, I have this ideology that as a couple we should treat each other equally. Let me explain, if I go out my way for you, I expect the same. I always thought it would make sense that way.
--Side Track --

Anyways, we made time to meet and he agreed on coming over first. When he came over, I made sure I wasn't an inconvenience to him. However when, I want to come over, he gives me the cold shoulder.

I voiced out my anger and he made me feel like my emotions aren't valid. I have been looking at everything he has done to annoy me and I am starting to second guess.

I need your help on this one. Am I overreacting to the whole situation?

advanceDNA:


There was no issue when he wanted to visit you at your place and shine your congo... but wahala started when u want to go to his place .....lol


madam....u dont need advance rocket science to decipher you are dealing with a married man or a fvck boy that doesnt even have a hkuse to receive you... take the redpill and be objective in your thinking

TPGoddess:



We are not meeting at hotels.

TPGoddess:


Hmm alright, thank you. I felt hurt really that if I am going to go out of my comfort zone to meet you at least be enthusiastic. I mean, he is familiar with my side because he has an aunt living in my state but I don't know shit about his state.

TPGoddess:



2) I guess I didn't explain it well, when I told him I want to come over, he send address via googlr map and basically was like your on your own. Even he didn't want to send the address at first and I was like when you wanted to come over, I immediately send address and made notices so that my work won't overlap and he will be waiting for me. I wanted to feel assured that yes okay he is planning for me to come because I don't know road and he didn't.

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TPGoddess:
Hi! I am back with another topic.

Okay, my boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 months plus and for the most part it has been terrific. We chat, videocall and do what most couples do.

The only main issue I see is that the entirety of our relationship has been long distance. I was completely aware and consented to it, but now I am having second thoughts on the relationship as a whole.

-- Side Track--
In between being in my first relationship and having high expectations of my man, I have this ideology that as a couple we should treat each other equally. Let me explain, if I go out my way for you, I expect the same. I always thought it would make sense that way.
--Side Track --

Anyways, we made time to meet and he agreed on coming over first. When he came over, I made sure I wasn't an inconvenience to him. However when, I want to come over, he gives me the cold shoulder.

I voiced out my anger and he made me feel like my emotions aren't valid. I have been looking at everything he has done to annoy me and I am starting to second guess.

I need your help on this one. Am I overreacting to the whole situation?