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BRATISLAVA:
But she doesn't want to be alone. Don't you get it? She isn't a loner by choice.

A loner by choice? What is that?,

BRATISLAVA:
What if her personality type tends to attract insincere users? Because some people are magnetized by good, loyal people who they want to use and discard.

you be confirm man I the like this kind people Daddyck why I no see you for here

iLegendd:
You're not a loner, but trying to be. People like us are the real loners. Food, Internet, and money is our only friend. Any other person or thing is a disturbance.

you too much

Kobojunkie:
I don't know you from a can of paint!

Madooo

DaddyCK:

OK..jokes apart.. when xan i re-yansh u? Date, time, location & Hotel name please??

Finally here you are don't mention whenever you wake up from your ooo I no get stress to argue

Lima98:
Madooo

Sisi eko, kindly pack the old wigs you hanged on my washing line. It has dried.

Octopusssy:
You're welcome. I hope I didn't massage your tail bone too hard? If your ass is cramping uncontrollably, then I'm sorry I have triggered a bout of sciatica. Your nyash will develop six packs

My ass is fine. But you have the hands of a man. What? Do you break fire wood sometimes?

BRATISLAVA:
Oh. That's okay. Just try to meet more people. Maybe try talking to a physical person once a month. Meet up with them, form a friendship. Just talk with them and do an activity with them. From there things will pick up.

Hmm. This will be hard. Hmm.

One thing that will take you far in this life is not to pity yourself.

Self pity will deprive you many good things of life.

Lollittaa:
My ass is fine. But you have the hands of a man. What? Do you break fire wood sometimes?

Thank goodness for your unharmed ass.

To your question, I'm flattered, thanks. Yes, I break firewood and bricks with my bare hands.

Karleb:
One thing that will take you far in this life is not to pity yourself.

Self pity will deprive you many good things of life.

Your reasoning is top-notch

Kobojunkie:
A loner by choice? What is that?,

I think you know, my cantankerous friend.

Lollittaa:
Hmm. This will be hard. Hmm.

Not that hard. One person a month.

Humans are fickle, don't expect anything from them.

SkyIvy:
Your reasoning is top-notch

Thanks fellow psychologist. I heard you still hear voices in your head.

Once I start earning steady income from freelancing,i will quit this my stupid job, get an apartment and enjoy my introversion to the fullest.

Is a friend "cutting one off" if one "cuts off" the friend first?

Kobojunkie:
If you are a loner by nature as you claim, ain't it time to embrace who you are rather than continually going out there to look for others to supposedly complete you claiming "support system"?

Learn to be happy with who you are as an individual and then people will come and go as they should while you can then remain unimpacted by it all.

No one owes anyone friendship without consequences.

One cannot be "wicked" to others and expect them to "take it". Then perhaps hide behind "I was temporarily angry".

Kobojunkie:
Stop with the pity nonsense abeg!

You came into this world alone and so it is perfectly possible to be alone and happy. You just need to learn to love yourself enough to give yourself that chance.

Nobody likes it when others are clingy. And no one owes you friendship. You need to look inwards for what it is that is missing and patch yourself up so that when people come into your life they no longer find you a shell to use and discard, but worthy of long-time friendship.

cooooooks:
Is a friend "cutting one off" if one "cuts off" the friend first?

Interesting question !

Kobojunkie:
Introversion has absolutely nothing to do with what you are dealing with. Introverts arent necessarily loners as many of us are happy with who we are. Go learn what introversion really is so you can separate it from all you seem to have it tangled up with that it ain't.

Social anxiety is a mental illness that needs resolving. Introversion has nothing to do with social anxiety.

They are actually connected mister.

Exxxgeee:
They are actually connected mister.

In what way?

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cooooooks:
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Came to laugh?

Please guys stop sending me emails.

Never!

Didn't want to disturb...

Lollittaa:

Came to laugh?

cooooooks:
Never!

Didn't want to disturb...

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