TinubuThief:

Don't marry any holosho wey her body count don pass 3
Most of these nonsense and demotivational speakers are confused and frustrated retired holosho that cannot keep their man

NONSENSE

InfinityFabric:

Guy, NO HYMEN NO DEAL.
VIRGIN or back to the streets.

pansophist:
Attaching morality to social status is wrong. There are poor/rich loyal people, as well as poor/rich unfaithful people.

Me think that any man that ditched a lady that was there for him in his unripen stage just because she is not posh enough is an idiot. And should not complains when the karashikas of the world deals with him.

Reasonable guys are mostly after women that was there before they made it big, simply because her virtue have been tested, trusted, and have stood the test of time. Think of Tuface, P square etc.

Lots of my friends abroad usually travel home to marry girls they were dating before leaving Nigeria. They simply do not trust women that they met at the ripped stage of their life. And as a man, I can tell you this is how the male mind works.

If you see a man committing to a woman he met at the ripe stage of his life, she probably also have her own life together. She doesn't needs him for survival. So he is convinced that she loves him for him. Anything apart from this hardly happens.

If a lady broke up with a man that she struggled with, it is wrong to interprete it only through the angle of status. That he left her because he is rich.

She might have hold him down as the last option she shops around, cheat on him, and as usual, billings and had attitude. But one thing I can always count on women is their natural ability to portray themselves as victims.

Perhaps I can admit that the worse a smart man will do is to just hang around with other women out there, but the loyal one, has his heart and commitment guaranteed. He might fork the one outside, have fun with them, but will never wife them.

Don't forget that these successful men experienced the pains, rejections and invisibility these women ditch to them when they were building up. So he knows a good woman when he finds one, and won't mistake attractive body outside to the jewel he has inside.

So perhaps, if there are men that ditch good women when they became wealthy, they are the minority. And as usual, the tiny minority are used to judge all men.

Same way some foolish women judge society as patriarchal just because few men exist on top, meanwhile, the majority of men exist under, that everyday of their life is nothing but agony.

The idea that because a lady struggled with a man suddenly makes her virtuous is nonsense. And what do lady mean by this struggle with a man?

As I see it, two broke people were dating each other, but somehow for some weird reason, the lady sees herself as struggling with him. In other words, she has no responsibility towards herself to be financially sufficient.

So When the guy become wealthy and don't want to deal with such lady for valid reasons, he becomes a bad person. Mind you, she probably bills him everytime during dating, but because he lack female options due to his status, he endured.

And this are usually what happens when women make this statement of struggling with a man. Of course I'm not discounting the genuine cases of bad men (eg like the narration of romanoff above, but it's not black and white. There are lots of nuances in every story.

TinubuThief:

Don't marry any holosho wey her body count don pass 3
Most of these nonsense and demotivational speakers are confused and frustrated retired holosho that cannot keep their man

NONSENSE

Romanoff:


Thing is a lot of men will still cheat on their wife after they become rich with women their broke status could not allow them get.

Imagine a broke guy becoming a billionaire and now wants to date Kim Kardashian when he has a wife at home who struggled with him.

That's what happens with many of these our actresses. They are being financed by people's husbands. Women who struggled with their husband to become Rich.

The stats are not good. A man's loyalty is tested when he becomes rich. The humble man you know when he was broke could become a monster when e get money.

Some women even pray for their husband to become broke again after he became a monster because of money.

Bayonet40:
Nairalanders, what's your take on this?
Just saw it on Facebook.

Technicaly this means 99.9% of nairaland guys hav no hope for future since they always broke or begging for moiney to buy bread n egg.....truth is always bitter..i lie? SMH .(no oofencse)

pansophist:


I addressed your point at 8th paragraph, but this is not the rule. Take it easy with your generalisation here. To repeat, a man may slay outside, but generally will never leave the one back home.

It can be argued that women even cheat more, but do it less in marriage not because of virtue but perhaps, consequences and loss of attractiveness. Obeidence and submission are not the same.

How about such woman to pray that her husband stop cheating? Isn't it the definition of bad belle, to wish for the downfall of others? Now tell me, is such woman a good wife?

Let's turn the table around. If a man prays that her career wife loose her job and become sick, is that a good man in your eyes? Or what is good for chichi is not good for chukwudi? Let's be guarded please.

Romanoff:


Thing is a lot of men will still cheat on their wife after they become rich with women their broke status could not allow them get.

Imagine a broke guy becoming a billionaire and now wants to date Kim Kardashian when he has a wife at home who struggled with him.

That's what happens with many of these our actresses. They are being financed by people's husbands. Women who struggled with their husband to become Rich.

The stats are not good. A man's loyalty is tested when he becomes rich. The humble man you know when he was broke could become a monster when e get money.

Some women even pray for their husband to become broke again after he became a monster because of money.

The stats are not good. A man's loyalty is tested when he becomes rich. The humble man you know when he was broke could become a monster when e get money.

InfinityFabric:

1. It's because these women are living in Disney Fantasy Land, believing in all sorts of nonsense. Only women are built to want one man, men want as many women as we can get.
2. These men are low on confidence and that's why they can't tell a woman upfront that they'll have other women.


That's why women love the cunt regardless, he's a cunt - rich or poor.

DaddyCK:



Technicaly this means 99.9% of nairaland guys hav no hope for future since they always broke or begging for moiney to buy bread n egg.....truth is always bitter..i lie? SMH .(no oofencse)

Romanoff:


So women these days already know what you put up there, that's why they are refusing to build with a broke man.

CaveAdullam:
1. The mating strategy of men and women is asymmetry. Men want to date/fvck many different women regardless of their status. Women want to fvck the best man that has high status.

2. Women aiming for men at the zenith is both an evolutionary and biological imperative to provide for her and her offspring and protect them from danger.

3. On the norm, women don't struggle with men from bottom to top. The women that do are the exceptions. If it happens in poor African nations and black communities, you just need to check her level of sexual purity.

Using Nigeria as an example: she has the second highest rate of paternity fraud. So, Nigerian women pretend to love a man at the bottom while committing acts of depravity behind him.

4. Women don't date low. A woman with a poor broke man is a woman from a poor background. Since hypergamy - women date higher, and the broke man out of the abundance of his heart still helps the broke woman.

Simply put, she is poorer than the poor man/husband/fiance/boyfriend. They even pretend most of the time, using their current mate as a wedge to hold them till a better mate arrives.

5. Men can stay with women of low, poor backgrounds and statuses. You just need to observe the rate of wedding ceremonies worldwide and see that men can settle for any woman, whether she is good or bad. Provided she has a pvssy.

6. Men believe that their sacrifices will change a woman from bad to good - a foolish gamble. Women need men to be good to them and have high status to remain in the relationship. Women don't care about the past or future, their minds are always for the present.

7. Women that tarry long with a man from bottom to top are outliers. They are not common. Bad or good economy, men are providers. The fact that these rare women hold the baton doesn't mean they are happy about it as they are going against their female nature. She's doing it because she believes the man has potential and in a short time will take charge.

8. Why do these women stay that long because of their level of investment: children or sexual.
The children are half her genetic line and must protect them. The sex is mindblowing. The drama and emotion he rises in her are thrilling.

9. The women that stay from bottom to top with no stain on their record will be cherished by their husbands. Status and money will lead her husband astray but she will never be denied love and care. The problem is that she wants the man for herself alone.

10. The gamble on her side is not a negative sum game, she still got from him what she would have received had it been she dated a man with high status from the beginning. It is a delayed win, but a win anyway.

11. This is not to excuse men for infidelity. Man and woman must not take their hands from their marriage vows. Except where the situation becomes toxic on one or both ends.

12. Women are men's motivation for greatness. Because sex can't happen unless women agree. And the men that have sex are men that high in the pyramid.

The problem with men here is that they sacrifice their sweat and blood for women who don't worth their time and commitment. Women who are seductive, materialistic, and manipulative.

13. Even at that men don't need women to build with them. Every man must level up the pyramid because it increases his level of power, control, influence, and safety in the pyramidal society.

14. We have had men too who got jilted by their lovers. Men who gave their all to women but still got betrayed.

This is where her post gets biased. Men still cater to their wives despite their philandering. But a man who houses a promiscuous woman cheats himself. He pays for the services of others while getting nothing in return.

15. The term "friend zone" is peculiar to the male domain. The term "simp" is peculiar to the male domain. Gold diggers is a term used for women that manipulate men off their money.

This should tell everyone that it is men that are being betrayed in terms of love and romance and not women even though there are women who have suffered at the hands of a few narcissistic and tyrannical men.

16. A woman that rode from bottom to top with a man acted as a motivator or activation energy because the work was done by the man. She may provide some material benefits though. Yet, it cannot be compared with that of men who literally provide the material and immaterial benefits for women and still get betrayed in the end.

Men suffer more than women in heartbreak and are the highest. Because they sacrifice much and have much to lose.

17. It is only a foolish high-status man that will allow women to perform their manipulative act of theatre called romance unchecked and unquestioned. So, women who want men already at the top must know that their only power over such men is their foolishness.

18. But you want a man already at the top right? Will you still care if he cheats and call you old, fat, dirty, b!tch? Will you consider his maltreatment evil? Do you think you have any point of defense or leverage when he accused you of being a gold digger?

Dear woman, hope you can now see the picture well. And the difference between riding from bottom to top and just perching on a shaky peak?

19. It is a gamble which will benefit you anyway. But the last card is do you care about honor and virtue? Do you care about solid evidence?

You don't have any form of defense against the man at the top compared to the one you rode with from the bottom. The probability that you will enjoy the latter despite his flaws is way higher than that of the former.

Anyways, it depends on your strength of discernment and patience to know the man that has good potential, is masculine, intelligent, kind, wise, and courageous to achieve his dream, and has compassion and love for you as you both ride to the top.

The ball is in her court.

Thanks.

Cc. Daddy Pansophist.

thebosstrevor1:


Sorry sir, this a lot of trash

CaveAdullam:


I don't mind if this comment is coming from a person with a 2-digit IQ less than the length of the menstrual cycle.

You are welcome. Have your seat.

thebosstrevor1:


I am so suprised that you think you wrote something intelligent.

I don't know who you are but you must be retaarded if you think you made sense