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KokobySandra:
Okay, I might be wrong but did you not just open a thread that you were all at home and want to get help from the right authority? Did you not just say your mom hit her just yesterday and you had to insult your mom? Your story does not seem to follow or add up here. are you trying to clout chase? What is the reason for this thread? I’m from Akwa Ibom and I live in Abuja. Has much as I recommended you in your previous post I do not think your storyline is consistent. All the best

Always check timeline.

That initial post was made in January.

You're late to the party

Deborah200299:
We are doing great thanks . The rent, feeding and other expenses are covered by a very good samaritan

Nothing is for free

Good advise.

tunize:
Na now the story clear so probably because she didn't birth her reason for the ill treatment. The question is don't you have relative you can address this whole issues To?
Secondly do work or have a skill can you keep up with your decision of taking responsibility of yourself and your sistere assuming the good samaritan stops rendering help?
Lastly, call your mother on phone and tell her you are safe then pour out ur heart to her to start treating you sister well because she is only a product of your dad's infidel and not the problem. If she feels angry make she channel her anger go somewhere else'

Interesting....

I'm looking like a lookman

Your mom is obviously sick because no body to beat and toast around again
Ignore them nothing will happen to her

KokobySandra:
Okay, I might be wrong but did you not just open a thread that you were all at home and want to get help from the right authority? Did you not just say your mom hit her just yesterday and you had to insult your mom? Your story does not seem to follow or add up here. are you trying to clout chase? What is the reason for this thread? I’m from Akwa Ibom and I live in Abuja. Has much as I recommended you in your previous post I do not think your storyline is consistent. All the best

Go back to the other thread and check the dates it was posted and this todays own.

Deborah200299:
She hasn't been to school since July my mum did not enrolled her for this term but I am planning to enroll her soon

You are really sticking your head out for this little girl which is a very good thing and you are also willing to sacrifice your family for this little girl. I hope she grows up someday to replicate this love and care you have shown toward her. I pray it ends well for you and you need to call your mother to assure her of your safety so she will not develop a long term illness which you may not forgive yourself for as she is still your mother despite the fact that she has allowed her evil part get the better of her.
Most importantly for how long do you think this good samaritan will be willing to carry your burden? You may like someone suggested need to learn a trade or get a job to support yourself and that little girl.

KokobySandra:
Okay, I might be wrong but did you not just open a thread that you were all at home and want to get help from the right authority? Did you not just say your mom hit her just yesterday and you had to insult your mom? Your story does not seem to follow or add up here. are you trying to clout chase? What is the reason for this thread? I’m from Akwa Ibom and I live in Abuja. Has much as I recommended you in your previous post I do not think your storyline is consistent. All the best

Please check the dates of the previous post...then correct yourself....

Deborah200299:
I left home last month with my 13 years old sister due to the abuse she had endured in the hands of my mother and 2 younger brothers.

I have rented out a room in a different town, I have changed my number and deleted my Facebook account so nobody could locate me.

Yesterday, I opened a new Facebook account with a different name. I have searched for my elder brother Facebook account he posted about me being missing he has pleaded with anyone who has seen me to contact him because my mum is not in a good state.

Funny enough he has posted me alone when it is me and my younger sister who are missing so they only care about me a 23 years old woman but not a single pity about a 13 years old girl.

I am her only daughter among 4 boys she loves me more than my siblings but I have lost respect for her the day she has started abusing my innocent sister. I want my absence to teach her a lesson so she can feel the pain but I am also worrying about her what if she died, will I be able to forgive myself.

I don't know if I should contact them with a private number and tell them we are fine where we are they shouldn't bother about us. I will not disclose my current addresse to them.

Should I do it or not?


Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/6944608/want-report-mum-human-rights#109469994

Tell that your brother to delete the post that you are fine with your sister.

meobizy:
This na new format?

Hahahahha


We dey watch this new series with rapt interest mixed with enough attention....walahi...

Naija my country...

meobizy:
This na new format?

I wished NL could find and nominate a neutral and trustworthy individual to meet with this op to verify and authenticate these claims so as to help them get help...

Deborah200299:
I left home last month with my 13 years old sister due to the abuse she had endured in the hands of my mother and 2 younger brothers.

I have rented out a room in a different town, I have changed my number and deleted my Facebook account so nobody could locate me.

Yesterday, I opened a new Facebook account with a different name. I have searched for my elder brother Facebook account he posted about me being missing he has pleaded with anyone who has seen me to contact him because my mum is not in a good state.

Funny enough he has posted me alone when it is me and my younger sister who are missing so they only care about me a 23 years old woman but not a single pity about a 13 years old girl.

I am her only daughter among 4 boys she loves me more than my siblings but I have lost respect for her the day she has started abusing my innocent sister. I want my absence to teach her a lesson so she can feel the pain but I am also worrying about her what if she died, will I be able to forgive myself.

I don't know if I should contact them with a private number and tell them we are fine where we are they shouldn't bother about us. I will not disclose my current addresse to them.

Should I do it or not?


Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/6944608/want-report-mum-human-rights#109469994

What of if you and your sister die whereever you are ...how can they locate your body ? Sometimes we think straightforward without thinking backward...your action cab backfire...stop behaving like a coward...go back home and confront your problem ...let your mom know that her behaviour is affecting you and your sister..

gaby:
I wished NL could find and nominate a neutral and trustworthy individual to meet with this op to verify and authenticate these claims...

Nairalanders are scared of their own shadows. Nobody is willing to leave the safety of his/her home for anything.

ibechris:
If u must call them,pls go to a far away distance to avoid being caught through tracking. And remember not to use your current phone number.

If u want to learn more...download a book on how not to be tracked.

link pls

I dont subscribe to one sided tales and privileges.
Whatever reply u get from people here is going to uplift and justify your actions.
Make you feel motivated and on the right.
But deep down, you know theres more to it.

Family problems are best solved in the family, dont bring the public init.
Because we'd only talk, but you'd suffer the consequences, alone.

#wisdom

Deborah200299:
I left home last month with my 13 years old sister due to the abuse she had endured in the hands of my mother and 2 younger brothers.

I have rented out a room in a different town, I have changed my number and deleted my Facebook account so nobody could locate me.

Yesterday, I opened a new Facebook account with a different name. I have searched for my elder brother Facebook account he posted about me being missing he has pleaded with anyone who has seen me to contact him because my mum is not in a good state.

Funny enough he has posted me alone when it is me and my younger sister who are missing so they only care about me a 23 years old woman but not a single pity about a 13 years old girl.

I am her only daughter among 4 boys she loves me more than my siblings but I have lost respect for her the day she has started abusing my innocent sister. I want my absence to teach her a lesson so she can feel the pain but I am also worrying about her what if she died, will I be able to forgive myself.

I don't know if I should contact them with a private number and tell them we are fine where we are they shouldn't bother about us. I will not disclose my current addresse to them.

Should I do it or not?


Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/6944608/want-report-mum-human-rights#109469994

get a new SIM and a smartphone you can afford to throw away, make a video call to your brother via WhatsApp at a neutral location like an eatery, tell him why you ran away and you even noticed they didn't ask about their sister. Tell them you really miss them but it's for the best, break the Sim and the phone then go home

God bless you for this kind gesture. But you must contact your family so that they will stop worrying about your safety.

No wonder.
This is where the problem lies.
How about your dad??

Deborah200299:
She is the product of my dad infidelity.We share the same dad , different mum her bio mum is late

azraeljaheel:
And she didn't tell you to go back to your family. What was the story you told this your good samaritan. You mum is sick thanks to you and your sister(no hard feelings). I would advice you reach out to them.

This life sef. Me I am here wishing for a family someone is there running away from theirs

Okay o

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Anyways incase you are interested in shared apartment kindly send a pm

So I needed money I carry my fb account sell give one dude on this platform the guy ghost me

Now I no get food I not Facebook account again
Home is where the heart is = heaven

sorry to ask, what happened to your family?

general111:
This isnt good enough..
Everything should be covered by you.
What if the good samaritan falls sick.
You need to get a skill and get a job.

I am 100% sure that good Samaritan is a man.This same men that find it hard to help their fellow men.
Make I no talk too much sha

Deborah200299:
We are doing great thanks . The rent, feeding and other expenses are covered by a very good samaritan

very good samaritan hope no be yoruba man because it will be from frying pan to fire!

Deborah200299:
Thank you so much I will call her tommorow involving family will not help the matter because they are all supporting her including my grandmother she had witness most of the abuse and she had never for once tell her to stop abusing the child. Early this year when I reported the matter to the police they had denied everything painting me back and the police believed them. They had all ganged up against me and beat me up and I don't want the same to repeat again. I am trying to be away from her for as long as I can I hope my absence will make her a good person If she can't bear to lose me she should accept and love my sister the same way she loves my siblings and I.

Chai, you are a rare breed.

Deborah200299:
I left home last month with my 13 years old sister due to the abuse she had endured in the hands of my mother and 2 younger brothers.

I have rented out a room in a different town, I have changed my number and deleted my Facebook account so nobody could locate me.

Yesterday, I opened a new Facebook account with a different name. I have searched for my elder brother Facebook account he posted about me being missing he has pleaded with anyone who has seen me to contact him because my mum is not in a good state.

Funny enough he has posted me alone when it is me and my younger sister who are missing so they only care about me a 23 years old woman but not a single pity about a 13 years old girl.

I am her only daughter among 4 boys she loves me more than my siblings but I have lost respect for her the day she has started abusing my innocent sister. I want my absence to teach her a lesson so she can feel the pain but I am also worrying about her what if she died, will I be able to forgive myself.

I don't know if I should contact them with a private number and tell them we are fine where we are they shouldn't bother about us. I will not disclose my current addresse to them.

Should I do it or not?


Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/6944608/want-report-mum-human-rights#109469994

May God bless you for the bold step of relocating with your step sister. But to be sincere you can't afford to take care of the two of you in this economy. Go to any human rights office and get help.

[quote author=Deborah200299 post=118190245]I left home last month with my 13 years old sister due to the abuse she had endured in the hands of my mother and 2 younger brothers.

I have rented out a room in a different town, I have changed my number and deleted my Facebook account so nobody could locate me.

Yesterday, I opened a new Facebook account with a different name. I have searched for my elder brother Facebook account he posted about me being missing he has pleaded with anyone who has seen me to contact him because my mum is not in a good state.

Funny enough he has posted me alone when it is me and my younger sister who are missing so they only care about me a 23 years old woman but not a single pity about a 13 years old girl.

I am her only daughter among 4 boys she loves me more than my siblings but I have lost respect for her the day she has started abusing my innocent sister. I want my absence to teach her a lesson so she can feel the pain but I am also worrying about her what if she died, will I be able to forgive myself.

I don't know if I should contact them with a private number and tell them we are fine where we are they shouldn't bother about us. I will not disclose my current addresse to them.

Should I do it or not?


Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/6944608/want-report-mum-human-rights#109469994[/quote

Honestly you have moved me to tears with this your kind natured display, it's one thing to care about someone but it's entirely a different thing altogether to take a bullet for the person. And this is exactly what you have done, seeing you making this level of sacrifice is really so touching judging from the level of selfishness the country has forced people into now. Well done my darling, God bless your kind heart and I assure you that this your rare display of kindness will never go unrewarded .God in his infinite mercy will surely pay you back several folds even in a manner you don't expect. I wish I still have a very good younger brother that I can connect you with but I sure know that God will provide you with a man that he has specifically moulded to cherish and care for you to connect to you in Jesus name.

Deborah200299:
I left home last month with my 13 years old sister due to the abuse she had endured in the hands of my mother and 2 younger brothers.

I have rented out a room in a different town, I have changed my number and deleted my Facebook account so nobody could locate me.

Yesterday, I opened a new Facebook account with a different name. I have searched for my elder brother Facebook account he posted about me being missing he has pleaded with anyone who has seen me to contact him because my mum is not in a good state.

Funny enough he has posted me alone when it is me and my younger sister who are missing so they only care about me a 23 years old woman but not a single pity about a 13 years old girl.

I am her only daughter among 4 boys she loves me more than my siblings but I have lost respect for her the day she has started abusing my innocent sister. I want my absence to teach her a lesson so she can feel the pain but I am also worrying about her what if she died, will I be able to forgive myself.

I don't know if I should contact them with a private number and tell them we are fine where we are they shouldn't bother about us. I will not disclose my current addresse to them.

Should I do it or not?


Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/6944608/want-report-mum-human-rights#109469994

All I know is that God bless u for Ur kind hrt

Deborah200299:
She is the product of my dad infidelity.We share the same dad , different mum her bio mum is late

And they say human being is different from other animals, is this not the same way a hen bully a chick that is not hers.

Deborah200299:
She is a woman

Please stop responding to this person's unruly questions, just keep up with the good work you are doing and God will richly bless you.

Pierocash:
I am very sure this good Samaritan is a boyfriend right?

Whoever it is doesn't matter. The question isn't necessary

Deborah200299:
We are doing great thanks . The rent, feeding and other expenses are covered by a very good samaritan

You mean a man abi... Be wise

azraeljaheel:
And she didn't tell you to go back to your family. What was the story you told this your good samaritan. You mum is sick thanks to you and your sister(no hard feelings). I would advice you reach out to them.

This life sef. Me I am here wishing for a family someone is there running away from theirs

Okay o

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Anyways incase you are interested in shared apartment kindly send a pm

So I needed money I carry my fb account sell give one dude on this platform the guy ghost me

Now I no get food I not Facebook account again
Home is where the heart is = heaven

Can't you read all she's passing through in her mother's house. Do you understand what emotional torture is?

KokobySandra:
Okay, I might be wrong but did you not just open a thread that you were all at home and want to get help from the right authority? Did you not just say your mom hit her just yesterday and you had to insult your mom? Your story does not seem to follow or add up here. are you trying to clout chase? What is the reason for this thread? I’m from Akwa Ibom and I live in Abuja. Has much as I recommended you in your previous post I do not think your storyline is consistent. All the best

Why don't you check the dates first before making your comments?

Deborah200299:
She is the product of my dad infidelity.We share the same dad , different mum her bio mum is late

You have a very very and an extremely good heart... The child's life matter to u... God bless you..

Like someone already mentioned, try learn a skill so at some point you can shoulder most of your responsibilities.

Call you mom with a private number and let her know clearly the reason you left the house...

God be with you both...