₦airaland Forum

Upgrade the kind of girls you date.

I can relate with your feelings bro.your problem stem from the fact that you get easily emotionally attached to any lady you are dating. But unfortunately, todays women are no longer wired that way. You need to reorient your approach towards women you are with. I used to feel that way too until I was remodeled by my wife’s cheating escapades which were being revealed after she left. Thank God I no kill her if I had found out while we were together.

Moniya4Real:
I can relate with your feelings bro.your problem stem from the fact that you get easily emotionally attached to any lady you are dating. But unfortunately, todays women are no longer wired that way. You need to reorient your approach towards women you are with. I used to feel that way too until I was remodeled by my wife’s cheating escapades which were being revealed after she left. Thank God I no kill her if I had found out while we were together.

You're right.,.

It's actually beyond my immediate personal control right now. I had responsible parents who brought us up in a godly religious way. I was involved in all church activities- choir, youth for Christ, and children teaching in my teenage, until sometime in 2018 when am no longer active in Sunday school teaching in Redeemed church due to the nature of my job.
That religious background made me stayed away from ladies not until 24 before I was deflowered by one lady.
Since then, I began to learn act of relationships in a hard way when my First girlfriend started cheating on me despite providing everything materially. She got pregnant under my roof and conceive with the man to move some of my properties away in early 2021. Since then, I detest this dislikes for ladies.

#Sobbing

Lamanii22:
Hmmmm… how was your childhood like? Was your father violent? Or it’s just a nature rat that grew with you? You need deliverance from the spirit of jealousy…

Exactly my challenge. I got attached emotionally easily and later they hurt me. In that mood I beat a hell out of them

Moniya4Real:
I can relate with your feelings bro.your problem stem from the fact that you get easily emotionally attached to any lady you are dating. But unfortunately, todays women are no longer wired that way. You need to reorient your approach towards women you are with. I used to feel that way too until I was remodeled by my wife’s cheating escapades which were being revealed after she left. Thank God I no kill her if I had found out while we were together.

1phone:
Exactly my challenge. I got attached emotionally easily and later they hurt me. In that mood I beat a hell out of them

Try to kill ur emotions bro....I easily get attached to girls easily....try to be hard,kill ur emotions,infact take them as ur fellow man .. nothing special about them apart from pvssy..

Oga you be fool oo
Beating won't change the fact that your girlfriend no like you.
Go and try does sales girls.they can be loyal

1phone:
I will be 38! by February. Too much jealousy won't let me have a stable relationship. Upon discovering and confirming that my girlfriend is cheating on me, I break their phones with a serious beating and the relationship ended.

How long should I continue with this? I am not happy that at my age no child, and no stable relationship. I leave alone with a well-pay job here in Lagos.

I nearly killed somebody's daughter early this year all in the name of anger which comes from jealousy. How can I handle this, at a point, I began to think it was no longer ordinary. I need help brethren

see a therapist

Sofialuv:
not all Lagos girls

omo!!! The face though¿¿¿¿

U need to go back to God

jeromestarks:
Yeah. Old and unmarriageable once like you are exempted.

No
That's too much ooo

We don't know who's who now...
Depression everywhere....

No go talk wetin go make her go commit oo

Starz825:
No
That's too much ooo

We don't know who's who now...
Depression everywhere....

No go talk wetin go make her go commit oo

Omo, you right o.
To the babe, you be fine girl o. Na joke I dey joke.

Seek therapy

AfroKnight:
Two things wrong with you.

First is your uncontrollable anger. Don’t let it rule you.

Second is you like dating hookup girls.

Place more value on yourself. Some girls are just meant for one-night-stand and nothing more. No dey date hookup girl. Respect yourself.

.

Omo in Lagos now to meet a non hookup girl is a work on it own because they re very rare now . If you have one hold her tight.

Jealousy is normal. You just need to know you don't react to everything.
Trust me you'll forget quicker when you don't react.
Your emotions are just tricking you.

.

The way u guys think everything in africa is ordinary makes me laugh,, spirit wife is disturbing dx one. Believe it or leave it.. go and fast and pray for deliverance.

You're MADDD!

High voltage,high tension . I dey ve x. Abeg wetin be the name of the movie wey dstv epic show yesterday wey dem day carry 47,dey do cultist for inside campus.

Helper1000:
The way u guys think everything in africa is ordinary makes me laugh,, spirit wife is disturbing dx one. Believe it or leave it.. go and fast and pray for deliverance.

true talk

A Spirit wife is responsible for unecessary breakup in relationship

Op, listen, even, if u marry today, the marriage will not last.

Something just makes u, unecessarily angry, that is the problem

Try and look inward and seek elderly council/advice

Cooleeey:
true talk

A Spirit wife is responsible for unecessary breakup in relationship

Op, listen, even, if u marry today, the marriage will not last.

Something just makes u, unecessarily angry, that is the problem

Try and look inward and seek elderly council/advice

that's it bro..

Hmmm
You need prayer
if you think/ feel that the girls you're dating are the one responsible for ur situation @38 bruh you need prayer.
Let some people be deceiving u... Come back @40 and tell us what's going on

Good.

Eltunechi:
Omo I see hell o....plus the soul tie,it's been 6months+ we parted ways,but I keep fvcking her in my dreams almost every day...... anytime I see her look alike on the road, I'll start crying....I cry even wen I'm in public....ion know anyone that can help me break this soul tie....

The mumu girl has moved on with another guy.

Like cry for real?

AfroKnight:
Two things wrong with you.

First is your uncontrollable anger. Don’t let it rule you.

Second is you like dating hookup girls.

Place more value on yourself. Some girls are just meant for one-night-stand and nothing more. No dey date hookup girl. Respect yourself.

OP this is very important. Stop dating hook up girls. No matter how good their attitude is on first meet up, don’t date them.

Tzar91:
Like cry for real?

Yes o......it's a long story Sha

Eltunechi:
Yes o......it's a long story Sha

pls one day you may share your story with us here

Tzar91:
pls one day you may share your story with us here

Yes o...not too good at typing Sha....

1phone:
I will be 38! by February. Too much jealousy won't let me have a stable relationship. Upon discovering and confirming that my girlfriend is cheating on me, I break their phones with a serious beating and the relationship ended.

How long should I continue with this? I am not happy that at my age no child, and no stable relationship. I leave alone with a well-pay job here in Lagos.

I nearly killed somebody's daughter early this year all in the name of anger which comes from jealousy. How can I handle this, at a point, I began to think it was no longer ordinary. I need help brethren

First of : you have pride and your ego is too high
Secondly : you sound like most times you must be correct will others are wrong.
Thirdly: you are overly protective and you see even your babe as a property you own.

Allow a bird fly then you know where it truly belongs.
First of you don't need deliverance: just read the Bible every day ... You can is the youversion Bible and pick a daily reading plan.
Secondly I know you have cash but that can't buy loyalty it can give you what's closer to that which is pretence.. so drop all of those and just freestyle who will love you won't stress you and she won't be interested in your money to love you.
But just be reading that daily scripture. Joshua 1:8 will and psalms 1 will start doing it's work all round

1phone:
I will be 38! by February. Too much jealousy won't let me have a stable relationship. Upon discovering and confirming that my girlfriend is cheating on me, I break their phones with a serious beating and the relationship ended.

How long should I continue with this? I am not happy that at my age no child, and no stable relationship. I leave alone with a well-pay job here in Lagos.

I nearly killed somebody's daughter early this year all in the name of anger which comes from jealousy. How can I handle this, at a point, I began to think it was no longer ordinary. I need help brethren

Hmmm a colleague lives like this, he barely makes significant progress relationally. Time will fail me to type. Just search for Apostle Arome Osayi teaching on how to deal with anger and ego. He's been to this place you have and came out clean.

1phone:
I will be 38! by February. Too much jealousy won't let me have a stable relationship. Upon discovering and confirming that my girlfriend is cheating on me, I break their phones with a serious beating and the relationship ended.

How long should I continue with this? I am not happy that at my age no child, and no stable relationship. I leave alone with a well-pay job here in Lagos.

I nearly killed somebody's daughter early this year all in the name of anger which comes from jealousy. How can I handle this, at a point, I began to think it was no longer ordinary. I need help brethren

By the time you spent some years in cell or jail when you kill some1,if God says you will come out oooo you go wise up

Sofialuv:
not all Lagos girls

90% of them are into hookup