I've been married to my wife for over 5years now but honestly I'm really tired of alot of her attitudes, strong head, rebellion, disrespect, and others. I don't know how to end the marriage peacefully due to the relationship i have with her family and also i'm somehow scared of her uncontrollable anger which might force her to wanna harm me. Sometimes i will want to take action(s) not minding the relationship between i have with her family but PITY is what hinders me most often because we have 3 kids together. But lately i just thought of getting a second wife so that if she isn't okay with it, she can go on her own. I'm not really financially buoyant the way you might begin to think or imagine but I'm contented with the little i have since i can feed another mouth (second wife).

What do you think guys? Please I need advice, no insult please.

the best way to handle a stubborn wife is by getting married to another woman. marry the second woman without your wife knowing about it. just bring her in and see how pained your wife will be

Wives are married @ husband risk.

3 wives is ideal.. 2 won't be enough

I'm contented with the little i have since i can feed another mouth (second wife).

With this, you have my full support, go ahead and marry a second wife and shame the devil.

Tell your first wife that your second wife is your first lady in the house.

@Rtk5,

Don’t let anyone discourage you bro, go ahead with your plan of marrying a second woman.

I will marry more than one woman when the time is right.

However be strategic in your in your thinking

Rtk5:
I've been married to my wife for over 5years now but honestly I'm really tired of alot of her attitudes, strong head, rebellion, disrespect, and others. I don't know how to end the marriage peacefully due to the relationship i have with her family and also i'm somehow scared of her uncontrollable anger which might force her to wanna harm me. Sometimes i will want to take action(s) not minding the relationship between i have with her family but PITY is what hinders me most often because we have 3 kids together. But lately i just thought of getting a second wife so that if she isn't okay with it, she can go on her own. I'm not really financially buoyant the way you might begin to think or imagine but I'm contented with the little i have since i can feed another mouth (second wife).

What do you think guys? Please I need advice, no insult please.

Where cat sleep, rat go night hin tail. Wetin e dey finnnnnnnd!!?

Easy bro. Women can be funny at times... I tell u for real that marrying a second wife will do more harm than good in the marriage... Don't listen to those asking u opt. In for a second wife

These are few points to try

See give her less attention infact reduce it to 0% women likes attention and when u don't give them they'll come around themselves...

Don't eat her food as you can always get take out from the restaurant.... This one dey pain dem wella as she'll be forced to ask what the matter is and make amends...

Stand your ground as a man. Let ur yes be yes and no be no.... No give woman body see finish

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See them urging a broke man to take in a second wife.



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If you can date 2 or more ladies when you was a bachelor what's stopping you from marrying 2 or more to enjoy your life to the fullest. Society? Or what people will say?
Lmfao

You can marry Magnoliaa or Blessedmercy8
They are single mothers
Magnoliaa you can see am searching for a husband for you
I have no bad intention

Rtk5:
I've been married to my wife for over 5years now but honestly I'm really tired of alot of her attitudes, strong head, rebellion, disrespect, and others. I don't know how to end the marriage peacefully due to the relationship i have with her family and also i'm somehow scared of her uncontrollable anger which might force her to wanna harm me. Sometimes i will want to take action(s) not minding the relationship between i have with her family but PITY is what hinders me most often because we have 3 kids together. But lately i just thought of getting a second wife so that if she isn't okay with it, she can go on her own. I'm not really financially buoyant the way you might begin to think or imagine but I'm contented with the little i have since i can feed another mouth (second wife).

What do you think guys? Please I need advice, no insult please.

Sit your wife down. And talk to her. Let her know her wrong doings. Don't sugarcoat ur words.
Her reaction or actions after ur discussion would determine if u should get a new wife.

But do trust me, you might not get that peace of mind from ur 2nd wife oooooo.

a second wife will only but triple your problems...trust me on this...seek divorce first if you are done with the first wife...TWO WOMEN WILL ONLY BUT COMPLICATE YOUR LIFE...good luck to your though...those saying talk to your wife or sit her down and talk...do you think he hasn't spoken to her?...this marriage thing sef...


TO ANYONE GOING INTO MARRIAGE...IF YOU CAN'T RESPECT, LOVE AND APPRECIATE YOUR PARTNER,THEN FORGET ABOUT GETTING MARRIED...no be marriage classes for church go teach people how to Respect and appreciate o...

Pells:
You can marry Magnoliaa or Blessedmercy8
They are single mothers
Magnoliaa you can see am searching for a husband for you
I have no bad intention

Your daughters will be single mothers in Jesus name.

Don't mention me in your rubbish again.

I think you are on the right path. Show more attention to your new woman and no one will tell her that she has lost her chances.

The end goal will be to flush her out. Do everything to achieve this.

Wait wait are you my colleagues? This your situation is very similar to my colleague's own. The only difference is that he has 2 kids while you have 3 kids. He is equally having the same issues with his wife and already planning to marry a 2nd wife.

As i told him, when it comes to matters like this, follow your heart bro! If two will bring peace go ahead. But they two wives have to stay apart oo far apart sef very very important. This is for your sanity sake.

Op, you would have just taken your time to find and marry a virgin than that woman that has opened legs for different men many times.
She's subconsciously comparing you with the guys she has dated that's why she's misbehaving (even in marriage because now, she can't easily fvck them again and it pains her). No wonder she disrespects you now.

Shame on you for marrying a woman you didn't not disvirgin.


On your submission of marrying a second wife, I support you 100%. Go ahead.
You deserve happiness. Don't let one your wife frustrate you.

Na marry you marry, no be death sentence you sign.

Manson1:
Easy bro. Women can be funny at times... I tell u for real that marrying a second wife will do more harm than good in the marriage... Don't listen to those asking u opt. In for a second wife

These are few points to try

See give her less attention infact reduce it to 0% women likes attention and when u don't give them they'll come around themselves...

Don't eat her food as you can always get take out from the restaurant.... This one dey pain dem wella as she'll be forced to ask what the matter is and make amends...

Stand your ground as a man. Let ur yes be yes and no be no.... No give woman body see finish

Oh please. Shut up! Just shut the fvck up abeg.

jeromestarks:


Oh please. Shut up! Just shut the fvck up abeg.

Omo..

Manson1:
Easy bro. Women can be funny at times... I tell u for real that marrying a second wife will do more harm than good in the marriage... Don't listen to those asking u opt. In for a second wife

These are few points to try

See give her less attention infact reduce it to 0% women likes attention and when u don't give them they'll come around themselves...

Don't eat her food as you can always get take out from the restaurant.... This one dey pain dem wella as she'll be forced to ask what the matter is and make amends...

Stand your ground as a man. Let ur yes be yes and no be no.... No give woman body see finish

Person dy tell u he can’t do shit, u dy tell am make e stand em ground. Which ground em wn stand?
Ground per say em na man of d house abi wertin.
Person wer dy fear to take action towards em wife bad character, due to one stupid family ties wer em get with em wife ppl.

Omo @op, if u can’t divorce the her ( base on weak man wer u be), then strap her off that wife title and bring in a new wife.
If u no wn new wife, start to dy fvk outside.

lilvicky68:

Omo..

Imagine the guy saying the op should not eat the food he use his money to buy.
Like what kinda reasoning is that?

marlow1962:

Person dy tell u he can’t do shit, u dy tell am make e stand em ground. Which ground em wn stand?
Ground per say em na man of d house abi wertin.
Person wer dy fear to take action towards em wife bad character, due to one stupid family ties wer em get with em wife ppl.

Omo @op, if u can’t divorce the her ( base on weak man wer u be), then strap her off that wife title and bring in a new wife.
If u no wn new wife, start to dy fvk outside.

Abi o.
I no know waitin enter @Mason1 head.
He even suggested that the op should avoid eating the food he used his money to buy.
The think shock me. The guy daft ahswear.

Omo...


Let's assume you now marry another woman and later realize her own is worse than your 1st wife, what will you do, marry another again?...


I wouldn't say you should get another wife but getting a side chic that's understanding is better so emotions won't be attached to the relationship....

If you get another wife, that one will also want to have kid and responsibility keeps going up while your earnings remain the same...

jeromestarks:

Imagine the guy saying the op should not eat the food he use his money to buy.
Like what kinda reasoning is that?

Lol maybe that's what works for him

men thread them man ... Em, check my profile if you need help with your thesis, personal statement, statement of purpose, dissertation, or assignment.

Manson1:
Easy bro.
These are few points to try

See give her less attention infact reduce it to 0% women likes attention and when u don't give them they'll come around themselves...

Don't eat her food as you can always get take out from the restaurant.... This one dey pain dem wella as she'll be forced to ask what the matter is and make amends...

He shouldn’t eat food he buys with his money? If i sound you…

Op I corroborate with my fellow guys here, if you got the money to feed another mouth, then go ahead.

Wonderful

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jeromestarks:


Abi o.
I no know waitin enter @Mason1 head.
He even suggested that the op should avoid eating the food he used his money to buy.
The think shock me. The guy daft ahswear.

U dy mind dat guy

Seems her family is good , you do not want to offend them that is why you are hesitant in divorcing her but let me tell you, the day you marry a second wife, to your first wife , you stop being anything to her and with her volatility, your life is not safe, so if you have exhausted all avenues for your wife to come to order, divorce her and get a new wife.....do not marry a second wife when your first wife is a volatile soul, your life would just be pathetic.

My dad married 4 wives and few years later but now he seems happy without any.