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| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Octopusssy(f): 10:37pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
Wizmj4real:
I don dey suspect you say you be DEEPER LIFE CHRISTIAN MEMBER
TARABA SUNDAY SERVICE WAS ABOUT JONAH AND NINIVEH You're the second person telling me this. No, I'm not a Deeper Life member. I am simply a pentecostal Christian |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 10:56pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
pansophist:
it is true. Men on average are far more ambitious than women. This is not to say that women are not hardworking, but ambitiousness is next level. How else would you explain why men earn more than women? or will you blame it on patriarchy? lol You said "not ambitious". There's a difference between " not ambitious" and another gender more ambitious than the other. That already said, I still do not agree with you. |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Coolgent(m): 12:01am On Nov 21, 2022 |
nokia1000:
I am fully regretting marrying my wife. She is always right and doesn't take corrections.
She doesn't have sex drive. Prefer sleeping alone that she doesn't want someone body to touch her.
She is not serious in anything that can generate money.
I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly.
Suicide just because of a woman? Shame, hustle more and stop worrying about her. |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Betgold84: 12:48am On Nov 21, 2022 |
Chai Over sense no go kill you. Lol Bro U said it all.. It's left for d nigger to adhere right away. I support the advise. Moh247:
Na wa oo, there is always a way out, don't let her fustrate you...
While you have it at the back of your mind that divorce is inevitable in the nearest future, due to incompatibility
Limit your investment on her, both emotional and financial... Just see her like a room mate, or someone under your care
Try and avoid having kids or more kids, infact deliberately push for a family planning, so that in case of divorce, the billing won't wreck you
Ditch your wedding ring when you are out of the house and start looking for a younger side chick., You'd be amazed at how young girls love married men .
The intresting part is side chick are cheaper than all this lability housewife, and they are always humble and caring, because they hope to get married to you some day and turn monster like your wife.
A low budget small girl side chick with just 10k weekly and some urgent 2k, would knack you, cook for you and practically adore you
Once your wife start noticing you are more lively and less miserable, you are chatting all through the night with your side chick and you are looking good, she would panic and have a change of heart
Ohh!! And remember Polygamy is perfectly normal in Africa, the white man only decieved you with the idea of one man one woman just to turn you to simp and also turn you to Bobrisky
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| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Kobojunkie: 2:35am On Nov 21, 2022 |
Octopusssy:
Did you consult God when you chose your life partner? He sent you to Nineveh, but you ran off to Tarshish. Wetin concern God with this? All around the world, people who don't believe in God choose life partners and they do well together. Why is it always about God with you lot when God sef no talk say you must first ask Him such things.  Look around you, even your pastors and mogs wey dey feed una the joke say God cares about your marriage lives have marriage track records that rival that of the unbelievers so leave God name out abeg! |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by livinbygrace: 4:09am On Nov 21, 2022 |
Omootayo123:
But you saw this trait before you choosed to marry her.
Which wan be you saw this trait before you marry her?Una know say humans Dey change,especially women? They can pretend and do all you wanted but immediately you marry them ,they bring out their true character. |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by AntiWailer: 5:49am On Nov 21, 2022 |
NOETHNICITY:
Mumu I don’t mean that I hate you in person, after all I don’t even know you.
But men like you are the people corrupting women upadan by being SIMP thinking you are an ideal man.
With this useless disposition of yours you can’t even hold a woman down and earn her loyalty.
Grow up and man up and stop being a bitchhhhh He just sat behind his miserable phone and concluded the kind of man I was. U are not worth engaging. If u have a brain to call ur own. That advice simply means take final steps to work things out if it does not work, quit but don’t kill ur self. How this bruised ur ego as a hard man still baffles me. Or u just lacked comprehension skills ? Ur type will raise another person’s children because u think u are a hard man. So what should we have advised him ? Beat her up , scatter the marriage and go marry another person ? When that person turn out to be worse , he will beat her too and go marry another person. Hard guy , I pity u |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by PapaFejiro: 5:53am On Nov 21, 2022 |
My dear young friend, before you have that silly thought of suicide, just know one thing, there is no married man dead or alive who at one point or the other have not regretted marrying the wife they married. So just keep trying to make her improve in one aspect at a time. Things will improve gradually. nokia1000:
I am fully regretting marrying my wife. She is always right and doesn't take corrections.
She doesn't have sex drive. Prefer sleeping alone that she doesn't want someone body to touch her.
She is not serious in anything that can generate money.
I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly.
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| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by AntiWailer: 5:54am On Nov 21, 2022 |
SirMichael1:
I don't know why I always get really angry when I see 'Calm down, sit down and talk to her'. Like what do you think he's been doing? He doesn't talk to her?
You ladies always think calming down, sitting you lots down and talking to y'all always results in meaningful endings and a change of heart. That advice simply means take final steps to work things out if it does not work, quit but don’t kill ur self. How this bruised ur ego as a hard man still baffles me. Or u just lacked comprehension skills ? Ur type will raise another person’s children because u think u are a hard man. So what should we have advised him ? Beat her up , scatter the marriage and go marry another person ? When that person turn out to be worse , he will beat her too and go marry another person |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by AntiWailer: 5:55am On Nov 21, 2022 |
riverbird:
This is the most useless post I have seen coming from a simp  , you are practically telling op to worship her while displaying more signs of a weak man. OP DITCH THAT LAZY WOMAN AND GET YOUR SELF A FINE YOUNG AND BEAUTIFUL CHICK AND REDUCE YOUR WIFE'S IMPORTANCE TO ZERO, WHEN EVER YOU ARE HOME BEHAVE AS IF SHE DOESN'T EXIST AND MAKE SURE YOU ALWAYS LOOK HAPPY . You are a king That advice simply means take final steps to work things out if it does not work, quit but don’t kill ur self. How this bruised ur ego as a hard man still baffles me. Or u just lacked comprehension skills ? Ur type will raise another person’s children because u think u are a hard man. So what should we have advised him ? Beat her up , scatter the marriage and go marry another person ? When that person turn out to be worse , he will beat her too and go marry another person. Hard guy , I pity u |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Bishopwizzy(m): 6:13am On Nov 21, 2022 |
nokia1000:
I am fully regretting marrying my wife. She is always right and doesn't take corrections.
She doesn't have sex drive. Prefer sleeping alone that she doesn't want someone body to touch her.
She is not serious in anything that can generate money.
I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly.
Please don't commit suicide I beg you. Call her sit her down and talk to her about it and how you feel, get her books about marriage and women's obligation in the union, give her time inform her of your expectations and that if you don't find improvement that you will file for divorce.... just be very open to her.. if she loves you and wants the union to work, she will change. |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Kankawormm(f): 6:22am On Nov 21, 2022 |
I am a married man, and got divorced at the month of our anniversary which is this october..to me its highly spiritual..
If you ask what causes the whole issue? Charger
I took her charger out, I have mine but was big to carry around. So I took hers to go charge.. She called and was ranting on phone about her charger that she has warned me not to be carrying her charger.. I tried to calm her down, that was when she got even more aggressive on the phone, I cut the call, took a bike home and dropped The charger and went out without saying a word.. When I came back in the evening, I now called her and told her the need to tolerate ourselves, she was still raking that it's her charger and all sort.. I now told her to muitiply the charger with the 850k I gave her to do business and Check how many charger the money go buy.. She flared up that how much did I give her that I am shouting, that is it not someone that gave me the money..
This was a woman I was with for four years, without a child, we have been going to hospital after the 6th month in marriage, she doesn't see her mesis completely.. I was still with her believing it's God that gives children, but she claimed she don't respect me cause I drink alcohol and smoke cigarette and can't tolerate but wants me to tolerate her knowing fully well of her condition..
After we had the fight that night, I was mad and flogged her with the charger cord.. She started shouting like I had hit her with a plank. I left the house immediately cos me no like shout. So the next day, she called my elder brother and a friend of my mum cos my mama is late.. She explained and I explained too.. She started displaying her arrogance in the front of my family people which made them disappointed.. They were leaving when argument was much.. We were escorting them, I now told her to go back so I can see them off, she said she was not gon go back that she brought my own family down not me... So the woman told her to go back.. I now explained everything to the woman that my wife doesn't menstrate at all and I have never told anyone in my family but when she was telling them I smoke, drink and bringing out my yansh for outside, Naim me ma tell the woman and my brother her own issue.. The woman commended me for keeping such.. When I got back home after I escorted my brother and the woman, she Don run go her mother house and me don lost my own key.. I called, She didn't pick, I had to jump in to the house.. That was when I knew she was not in the house.. I had to go sleep at a friend's place.. She taught i was going to come beg in by her mums place like I always do if we had a fight.. But I thought about it. And decided to divorce o.. A week before the incident, I slumped in a friend's house cos of the thinking of having no issue...when I was brought home.. My ex wife said that it was because of beer that was why I slumped.. Lol.. Whereas the thinking of not Harving a child wan run me.. Knowing fully well that i can impregnate a lady.. She went to police station and human right, told them I smoke weed, beer, and also layed some false allegations on me.. And was hoping for resolution... How is that possible.. I am divorced and I am beginning to regain my sanity... 8 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by riverbird: 6:40am On Nov 21, 2022 |
AntiWailer:
That advice simply means take final steps to work things out if it does not work, quit but don’t kill ur self.
How this bruised ur ego as a hard man still baffles me. Or u just lacked comprehension skills ?
Ur type will raise another person’s children because u think u are a hard man.
So what should we have advised him ? Beat her up , scatter the marriage and go marry another person ?
When that person turn out to be worse , he will beat her too and go marry another person.
Hard guy , I pity u
The day she will kill him thesame you will come here and spew the usual senseless line of "marriage is not do or die", Mr. Marriage counselor oshi. |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by lailo: 7:22am On Nov 21, 2022 |
Rich4god:
First of all... The deed has been done. Except you are planning on divorce.
Secondly, you need to move away from your wife's actions. Just do things that makes you happy. Go about making your money, drop the little you can for the family to ensure that they have something to it... Then leave your life as if you two are just room mates. No dey try to initiate sex. I know it won't be easy, but it's a step in the right direction.
Women always want to crave for unnecessary standard especially when they feel that they have something you are longing for.
Believe me, the silent treatment work a great deal. Just live your life as if she's not there. But ensure you still provide for her.
When she notices that you no longer send her, she will be wondering if there is someone trying to take her place.
In all, avoid violence and confrontation. You solve a problem to create another one. This style don't work with some women. When they notice u care no more, they begin to think u are already cheating and this encourages them to begin to Bleep around too as a payback. Meanwhile ur motive is to change her but u would end up worsening the situation. |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Omolatoke(m): 8:15am On Nov 21, 2022 |
Rich4god:
First of all... The deed has been done. Except you are planning on divorce.
Secondly, you need to move away from your wife's actions. Just do things that makes you happy. Go about making your money, drop the little you can for the family to ensure that they have something to it... Then leave your life as if you two are just room mates. No dey try to initiate sex. I know it won't be easy, but it's a step in the right direction.
Women always want to crave for unnecessary standard especially when they feel that they have something you are longing for.
Believe me, the silent treatment work a great deal. Just live your life as if she's not there. But ensure you still provide for her.
When she notices that you no longer send her, she will be wondering if there is someone trying to take her place.
In all, avoid violence and confrontation. This is correct. It worked for me. 1 Like |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Nne26: 8:17am On Nov 21, 2022 |
[quote author=nokia1000 post=118531288]I am fully regretting marrying my wife. She is always right and doesn't take corrections. She doesn't have sex drive. Prefer sleeping alone that she doesn't want someone body to touch her. She is not serious in anything that can generate money. I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly. Did u not know all this before u both got married? Don't tell me it's cos of religion becos getting to know ur patterned before marriage is not bad oooooo. Pls ur mental health is also important here ooooooo. U can learn how to publish on Amazon with just ur smart phone and get paid in dollars. The best part is that u must not be a writer before u do this. For more info on this click on this link http:///ybmody or contact 09014675521 |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Mimicle101: 8:35am On Nov 21, 2022 |
Kankawormm:
I am a married man, and got divorced at the month of our anniversary which is this october..to me its highly spiritual..
If you ask what causes the whole issue? Charger
I took her charger out, I have mine but was big to carry around. So I took hers to go charge.. She called and was ranting on phone about her charger that she has warned me not to be carrying her charger.. I tried to calm her down, that was when she got even more aggressive on the phone, I cut the call, took a bike home and dropped The charger and went out without saying a word.. When I came back in the evening, I now called her and told her the need to tolerate ourselves, she was still raking that it's her charger and all sort.. I now told her to muitiply the charger with the 850k I gave her to do business and Check how many charger the money go buy.. She flared up that how much did I give her that I am shouting, that is it not someone that gave me the money..
This was a woman I was with for four years, without a child, we have been going to hospital after the 6th month in marriage, she doesn't see her mesis completely.. I was still with her believing it's God that gives children, but she claimed she don't respect me cause I drink alcohol and smoke cigarette and can't tolerate but wants me to tolerate her knowing fully well of her condition..
After we had the fight that night, I was mad and flogged her with the charger cord.. She started shouting like I had hit her with a plank. I left the house immediately cos me no like shout. So the next day, she called my elder brother and a friend of my mum cos my mama is late.. She explained and I explained too.. She started displaying her arrogance in the front of my family people which made them disappointed.. They were leaving when argument was much.. We were escorting them, I now told her to go back so I can see them off, she said she was not gon go back that she brought my own family down not me... So the woman told her to go back.. I now explained everything to the woman that my wife doesn't menstrate at all and I have never told anyone in my family but when she was telling them I smoke, drink and bringing out my yansh for outside, Naim me ma tell the woman and my brother her own issue.. The woman commended me for keeping such.. When I got back home after I escorted my brother and the woman, she Don run go her mother house and me don lost my own key.. I called, She didn't pick, I had to jump in to the house.. That was when I knew she was not in the house.. I had to go sleep at a friend's place.. She taught i was going to come beg in by her mums place like I always do if we had a fight.. But I thought about it. And decided to divorce o.. A week before the incident, I slumped in a friend's house cos of the thinking of having no issue...when I was brought home.. My ex wife said that it was because of beer that was why I slumped.. Lol.. Whereas the thinking of not Harving a child wan run me.. Knowing fully well that i can impregnate a lady.. She went to police station and human right, told them I smoke weed, beer, and also layed some false allegations on me.. And was hoping for resolution... How is that possible.. I am divorced and I am beginning to regain my sanity... I wish there would be some kind of group, specifically and strictly for married men. To discuss and share ideas on how to manage and save our homes and marriages. Bro, it is well with you. Know you are not alone. So Many men are going through same. I will not stop blaming the devils agenda to destroy the family structure. The internet, friends, celebrities, movies, Are the role model of our ladies of today. Even that church goer of a lady. Once they are entered marriage, and they don't experience quickly/immediately what they learnt from there role models, Flashy lifestyle, A life that can only be imagined. There true nature would be unleashed. Look, I personally feel that woman are never satisfied. If the husband has all the money, they will look for another excuse to unleash there nature. With things like not being home for her and the kids, not giving her good sex etc And if the husband does not have enough money, that is another level of madness, because the angel of a wife will suddenly reduce the man to a toilet paper. It is only woman that I have seen that you can do heaven and earth for for 50 years. But fail to maintain her for 6 months. That whole 6 months will be like 50 years to them. And they will never remember the 50 years that you have done everything for them. God bless every good wife out there who honestly lobes and respects there husband irrespective of his status. Continue, at the due time laughter will be your portion 1 Like |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Nigeriafirstlad(m): 8:38am On Nov 21, 2022 |
Piptocoin:
Eve was not unruly or disrespectful to her husband. She did not deny her husband his conjugal rights. Maritally, they were an icon. Eve disobeyed God. She fell. Adam loved her so much and was willing to suffer the consequences with her. You have no idea how long they had lived in bliss in the garden of Eden before they fell. It must have spanned millions of years in total and maximum marital bliss. Your analogy is unrelated to the issue. Thanks |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Amhappy(f): 8:55am On Nov 21, 2022 |
nokia1000:
I am fully regretting marrying my wife. She is always right and doesn't take corrections.
She doesn't have sex drive. Prefer sleeping alone that she doesn't want someone body to touch her.
She is not serious in anything that can generate money.
I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly.
Whatever you do, do not commit suicide if you can no longer cope with your spouse separate for a while. |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Pootle: 8:55am On Nov 21, 2022 |
Octopusssy:
Did you consult God when you chose your life partner? He sent you to Nineveh, but you ran off to Tarshish. which god  the problem of africans always ascribing everything spiritually. |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Poleski: 9:48am On Nov 21, 2022 |
nokia1000:
I am fully regretting marrying my wife. She is always right and doesn't take corrections.
She doesn't have sex drive. Prefer sleeping alone that she doesn't want someone body to touch her.
She is not serious in anything that can generate money.
I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly.
Do you feel like committing suicide? Really? For marrying the wrong woman? You may want to go for a thorough mental checkup.
Divorce her as soon as possible to free yourself from this nonsense. This is why it is always good to have a long courtship before marrying.
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| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by decision01: 10:10am On Nov 21, 2022 |
BirtherOfKings:
Stop regretting and take action
Threaten her with divorce and keep praying for her. She will change ..get her pregnant too.works wonders You are indirectly telling him to dig his grave |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by NOETHNICITY(m): 11:04am On Nov 21, 2022 |
AntiWailer:
He just sat behind his miserable phone and concluded the kind of man I was.
U are not worth engaging. If u have a brain to call ur own.
That advice simply means take final steps to work things out if it does not work, quit but don’t kill ur self.
How this bruised ur ego as a hard man still baffles me. Or u just lacked comprehension skills ?
Ur type will raise another person’s children because u think u are a hard man.
So what should we have advised him ? Beat her up , scatter the marriage and go marry another person ?
When that person turn out to be worse , he will beat her too and go marry another person.
Hard guy , I pity u I am not a hard man. I’m one of the simplest characters you will ever find. Infact I’ve encountered issues as a result of my simplicity. Also it is important to note that I’m not a beat-her-up-man, never ever. But when it comes to relationships I don’t compromise. How you expect a man to kneel down and beg a woman who abandons her matrimonial bed and decides on her own to sleep in a different room weakens me. If you have been doing that stop that. |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by AntiWailer: 11:07am On Nov 21, 2022 |
NOETHNICITY:
I am not a hard man. I’m one of the simplest characters you will ever find. Infact I’ve encountered issues as a result of my simplicity.
Also it is important to note that I’m not a beat-her-up-man, never ever.
But when it comes to relationships I don’t compromise.
How you expect a man to kneel down and beg a woman who abandons her matrimonial bed and decides on her own to sleep in a different room weakens me.
If you have been doing that stop that. where did u see kneel down and beg her. and what rubbish matrimonial bed are u talking about. ? u think matrimonial conjugation is just about just opening leg and enter that u do with girls while dating ? your type learn very very late. Boys who know what to do to make her wet will bl***p your type's wife till they dash you a bast*rd as a child. |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by NOETHNICITY(m): 11:15am On Nov 21, 2022 |
AntiWailer:
where did u see kneel down and beg her.
and what rubbish matrimonial bed are u talking about. ?
u think matrimonial conjugation is just about just opening leg and enter that u do with girls while dating ?
your type learn very very late.
Boys who know what to do to make her wet will bl***p your type's wife till they dash you a bast*rd as a child. A capital SIMP like you trying play sharp guy I understand bros, you can face ur front now 1 Like |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by AntiWailer: 11:26am On Nov 21, 2022 |
NOETHNICITY:
A capital SIMP like you trying play sharp guy
I understand bros, you can face ur front now lol if i am a SIMP, i will advise u become a SIMP like me and you will enjoy peace..... You can go and check my post on my baby and how i relate. it was posted some years ago may be when u were still in SS3. Have a great day brother. |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by ahnie: 12:12pm On Nov 21, 2022 |
Interesting thread.
Sup with all these fights and dog bants?
Someone should pls cook banga soup and starch. |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by CaptainAyub: 1:11pm On Nov 21, 2022 |
Kankawormm:
I am a married man, and got divorced at the month of our anniversary which is this october..to me its highly spiritual..
If you ask what causes the whole issue? Charger
I took her charger out, I have mine but was big to carry around. So I took hers to go charge.. She called and was ranting on phone about her charger that she has warned me not to be carrying her charger.. I tried to calm her down, that was when she got even more aggressive on the phone, I cut the call, took a bike home and dropped The charger and went out without saying a word.. When I came back in the evening, I now called her and told her the need to tolerate ourselves, she was still raking that it's her charger and all sort.. I now told her to muitiply the charger with the 850k I gave her to do business and Check how many charger the money go buy.. She flared up that how much did I give her that I am shouting, that is it not someone that gave me the money..
This was a woman I was with for four years, without a child, we have been going to hospital after the 6th month in marriage, she doesn't see her mesis completely.. I was still with her believing it's God that gives children, but she claimed she don't respect me cause I drink alcohol and smoke cigarette and can't tolerate but wants me to tolerate her knowing fully well of her condition..
After we had the fight that night, I was mad and flogged her with the charger cord.. She started shouting like I had hit her with a plank. I left the house immediately cos me no like shout. So the next day, she called my elder brother and a friend of my mum cos my mama is late.. She explained and I explained too.. She started displaying her arrogance in the front of my family people which made them disappointed.. They were leaving when argument was much.. We were escorting them, I now told her to go back so I can see them off, she said she was not gon go back that she brought my own family down not me... So the woman told her to go back.. I now explained everything to the woman that my wife doesn't menstrate at all and I have never told anyone in my family but when she was telling them I smoke, drink and bringing out my yansh for outside, Naim me ma tell the woman and my brother her own issue.. The woman commended me for keeping such.. When I got back home after I escorted my brother and the woman, she Don run go her mother house and me don lost my own key.. I called, She didn't pick, I had to jump in to the house.. That was when I knew she was not in the house.. I had to go sleep at a friend's place.. She taught i was going to come beg in by her mums place like I always do if we had a fight.. But I thought about it. And decided to divorce o.. A week before the incident, I slumped in a friend's house cos of the thinking of having no issue...when I was brought home.. My ex wife said that it was because of beer that was why I slumped.. Lol.. Whereas the thinking of not Harving a child wan run me.. Knowing fully well that i can impregnate a lady.. She went to police station and human right, told them I smoke weed, beer, and also layed some false allegations on me.. And was hoping for resolution... How is that possible.. I am divorced and I am beginning to regain my sanity... Congratulations |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by CaptainAyub: 1:27pm On Nov 21, 2022 |
AntiWailer:
where did u see kneel down and beg her.
and what rubbish matrimonial bed are u talking about. ?
u think matrimonial conjugation is just about just opening leg and enter that u do with girls while dating ?
your type learn very very late.
Boys who know what to do to make her wet will bl***p your type's wife till they dash you a bast*rd as a child. You are not a very wise person,sorry I'm saying this. Giving your partner sex is a LEGAL OBLIGATION in marriage,you can ask lawyers. A marriage can be dissolved legally cos of denial of sex. Most times in marriage,denial of sex by the wives is not about not doing it well. If it were,how difficult is it to tell your man you're already stuck with to "do it like this,I like it this way" etc. At worst naa,open your legs and allow him have his way,highest na 5-10 minutes maybe twice a week,how hard is that? Problem is most African women forget about the obligation part and carry their ashawao mentality into marriage. They still see their pussy as a commodity/bargaining chip. Let's face it,a Nigerian girls idea of dating is "I give him sex,he gives me gifts/money/flexing etc". So when the bribes stop flowing,they lock up. If this man divorces that woman now,same woman will start 'enjoying' sex with another one-minute-man she plans to trap. |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Nobody: 3:48pm On Nov 21, 2022 |
shortgun:
You are a weak man, women hate weak men.
Them never born any woman well that will enter my house and detect how I'll run my home.
Men like you are the reason we have alot of spoilt girls all over.
Any man that dates any of my exes will be thankful to me for the way I groomed them.
Until you become the man and take charge of your home you will continue to whine n suffer How did you groom them? |
| Re: Regretting My Marriage. by kunlebco(m): 4:18pm On Nov 21, 2022 |
Ori e ti pe ju. Moh247:
Na wa oo, there is always a way out, don't let her fustrate you...
While you have it at the back of your mind that divorce is inevitable in the nearest future, due to incompatibility
Limit your investment on her, both emotional and financial... Just see her like a room mate, or someone under your care
Try and avoid having kids or more kids, infact deliberately push for a family planning, so that in case of divorce, the billing won't wreck you
Ditch your wedding ring when you are out of the house and start looking for a younger side chick., You'd be amazed at how young girls love married men .
The intresting part is side chick are cheaper than all this lability housewife, and they are always humble and caring, because they hope to get married to you some day and turn monster like your wife.
A low budget small girl side chick with just 10k weekly and some urgent 2k, would knack you, cook for you and practically adore you
Once your wife start noticing you are more lively and less miserable, you are chatting all through the night with your side chick and you are looking good, she would panic and have a change of heart
Ohh!! And remember Polygamy is perfectly normal in Africa, the white man only decieved you with the idea of one man one woman just to turn you to simp and also turn you to Bobrisky
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