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Am I Missing Something? How Did You Woo Your Partner ... by ccjoe: 8:15pm On Nov 20, 2022
This might sound strange in this present generation of ours but the fact is I have never wooed a girl. I am 27, all the girls I have been with either showed signs that they liked me and I capitalized on that or it just happened by chance. Right now I have no one and I have been thinking of approaching a certain girl for a serious relationship but the thought of walking up to her sends shiver down my spine. Mind you I am funny and outgoing. Still schooling though, in my final year. I don't have much money to play any trick on her lol.

So guys how did you woo your girl? What did you tell her and to the ladies, how did your guy woo you?

I am pretty sure I am not the only guy in this predicament so sharing your experience will be of help to a lot of guys.

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Re: Am I Missing Something? How Did You Woo Your Partner ... by Moh247: 8:19pm On Nov 20, 2022
smiley


Wooing and toasting is kind of outdated this days

Simply walk up to her, introduce yourself and tell her you stay around and would love to be a friend and get her number

If she gives you her number call her and make her know it's you and if it's cool to chat her up on Whatsapp

If she agreed , chat her up briefly to know basics about her, hobbies, her kind of music, any intresting thing about her and be funny, relaxed and make her comfortable enough.

Next thing is to ask her if you guys can hangout on a date,

Take her to a simple restaurant, order for food, chat her up and make sure you know if she's single or in a relationship, if she's single then move on to start flattering and teasing her in a funny way to soften her up

After the date chat her up for a day or two then request another date

If the second date goes smoothly, then move on to inviting her to your house


.

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Re: Am I Missing Something? How Did You Woo Your Partner ... by SPAMBOX7: 8:34pm On Nov 20, 2022
Op swallow the redpill first. If you can't do that at least go learn game.
Only then you will see that the poster above me spilled trash.

"Tell her you'd love to be a friend"

Lmfao

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Re: Am I Missing Something? How Did You Woo Your Partner ... by Moh247: 8:39pm On Nov 20, 2022
SPAMBOX7:
Op swallow the redpill first. If you can't do that at least go learn game.
Only then you will see that the poster above me spilled trash.

"Tell her you'd love to be a friend"

Lmfao

Out of curiosity

As I don't belong to your new generation of GenZ Red pill Alpha male bullshit

Give us your game on how to get a get chick

Throw your so called redpill lines and step to get a girl

.

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Re: Am I Missing Something? How Did You Woo Your Partner ... by ccjoe: 8:47pm On Nov 20, 2022
SPAMBOX7:
Op swallow the redpill first. If you can't do that at least go learn game.
Only then you will see that the poster above me spilled trash.

"Tell her you'd love to be a friend"

Lmfao
Bro I don't want 2 be manipulative..I want to be sincere, and I want an honest relationship ...not all this faking here and there...thanks

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Re: Am I Missing Something? How Did You Woo Your Partner ... by libertyfather(m): 8:47pm On Nov 20, 2022
Face front jor
Re: Am I Missing Something? How Did You Woo Your Partner ... by ccjoe: 8:48pm On Nov 20, 2022
Moh247:
smiley


Wooing and toasting is kind of outdated this days

Simply walk up to her, introduce yourself and tell her you stay around and would love to be a friend and get her number

If she gives you her number call her and make her know it's you and if it's cool to chat her up on Whatsapp

If she agreed , chat her up briefly to know basics about her, hobbies, her kind of music, any intresting thing about her and be funny, relaxed and make her comfortable enough.

Next thing is to ask her if you guys can hangout on a date,

Take her to a simple restaurant, order for food, chat her up and make sure you know if she's single or in a relationship, if she's single then move on to start flattering and teasing her in a funny way to soften her up

After the date chat her up for a day or two then request another date

If the second date goes smoothly, then move on to inviting her to your house


.
thank u sir

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Re: Am I Missing Something? How Did You Woo Your Partner ... by ccjoe: 8:50pm On Nov 20, 2022
Moh247:


Out of curiosity

As I don't belong to your new generation of GenZ Red pill Alpha male bullshit

Give us your game on how to get a get chick

Throw your so called redpill lines and step to get a girl

.
pls don't mind them...most of them are the ones making some girls think every guy is a Playboy that only wants to take advantage of them

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Re: Am I Missing Something? How Did You Woo Your Partner ... by Badhguy(m): 9:07pm On Nov 20, 2022
Moh247:
smiley


Wooing and toasting is kind of outdated this days

Simply walk up to her, introduce yourself and tell her you stay around and would love to be a friend and get her number

If she gives you her number call her and make her know it's you and if it's cool to chat her up on Whatsapp

If she agreed , chat her up briefly to know basics about her, hobbies, her kind of music, any intresting thing about her and be funny, relaxed and make her comfortable enough.

Next thing is to ask her if you guys can hangout on a date,

Take her to a simple restaurant, order for food, chat her up and make sure you know if she's single or in a relationship, if she's single then move on to start flattering and teasing her in a funny way to soften her up

After the date chat her up for a day or two then request another date

If the second date goes smoothly, then move on to inviting her to your house


.
And the rest will be history.
Guy you bad! grin grin

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Re: Am I Missing Something? How Did You Woo Your Partner ... by lilvicky68(m): 9:24pm On Nov 20, 2022
I would have said you should face your studies.. but you are already 27 at final year so no need.
Re: Am I Missing Something? How Did You Woo Your Partner ... by ccjoe: 9:29pm On Nov 20, 2022
lilvicky68:
I would have said you should face your studies.. but you are already 27 at final year so no need.
yeah! I'm already graduating with a first class.

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Re: Am I Missing Something? How Did You Woo Your Partner ... by phorget(m): 9:34pm On Nov 20, 2022
Dont bother to woo any girl please instead woo your finances and see girls running after wooing you nonstop.

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Re: Am I Missing Something? How Did You Woo Your Partner ... by SPAMBOX7: 9:35pm On Nov 20, 2022
ccjoe:
Bro I don't want 2 be manipulative..I want to be sincere, and I want an honest relationship ...not all this faking here and there...thanks
And I hope you are also ready to learn the hard way

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Re: Am I Missing Something? How Did You Woo Your Partner ... by SPAMBOX7: 9:36pm On Nov 20, 2022
Moh247:


Out of curiosity

As I don't belong to your new generation of GenZ Red pill Alpha male bullshit

Give us your game on how to get a get chick

Throw your so called redpill lines and step to get a girl

.
Why should I use lines on a girl. Is that what you do? Grow up angry

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Re: Am I Missing Something? How Did You Woo Your Partner ... by ccjoe: 9:41pm On Nov 20, 2022
SPAMBOX7:
And I hope you are also ready to learn the hard way
what hard way..c'mon not all girls are into that shi!t

I've spent 5years to study in school
..am coming out with a first class... And now I want a great relationship

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Re: Am I Missing Something? How Did You Woo Your Partner ... by marlow1962(m): 9:42pm On Nov 20, 2022
Moh247:
smiley


Wooing and toasting is kind of outdated this days

Simply walk up to her, introduce yourself and tell her you stay around and would love to be a friend and get her number

If she gives you her number call her and make her know it's you and if it's cool to chat her up on Whatsapp

If she agreed , chat her up briefly to know basics about her, hobbies, her kind of music, any intresting thing about her and be funny, relaxed and make her comfortable enough.

Next thing is to ask her if you guys can hangout on a date,

Take her to a simple restaurant, order for food, chat her up and make sure you know if she's single or in a relationship, if she's single then move on to start flattering and teasing her in a funny way to soften her up

After the date chat her up for a day or two then request another date

If the second date goes smoothly, then move on to inviting her to your house


.
All this things cus if woman?

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Re: Am I Missing Something? How Did You Woo Your Partner ... by Moh247: 9:44pm On Nov 20, 2022
marlow1962:

All this things cus if woman?

If you get simpler cheaper faster alternative that isn't rape, prostitution, or sexual harassment and anything that would make you join Baba Ijesha in a cell


Then abeg share it with us

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Re: Am I Missing Something? How Did You Woo Your Partner ... by SPAMBOX7: 9:49pm On Nov 20, 2022
ccjoe:
what hard way..c'mon not all girls are into that shi!t

I've spent 5years to study in school
..am coming out with a first class... And now I want a great relationship
Ok grin

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Re: Am I Missing Something? How Did You Woo Your Partner ... by TrossardT: 10:58pm On Nov 20, 2022
Why not go for the ones that show you sign that they like u??
it will give u peace of mind

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Re: Am I Missing Something? How Did You Woo Your Partner ... by Silentgroper(m): 11:15pm On Nov 20, 2022
Moh247:
smiley


Wooing and toasting is kind of outdated this days

Simply walk up to her, introduce yourself and tell her you stay around and would love to be a friend and get her number

If she gives you her number call her and make her know it's you and if it's cool to chat her up on Whatsapp

If she agreed , chat her up briefly to know basics about her, hobbies, her kind of music, any intresting thing about her and be funny, relaxed and make her comfortable enough.

Next thing is to ask her if you guys can hangout on a date,

Take her to a simple restaurant, order for food, chat her up and make sure you know if she's single or in a relationship, if she's single then move on to start flattering and teasing her in a funny way to soften her up

After the date chat her up for a day or two then request another date

If the second date goes smoothly, then move on to inviting her to your house


.
After inviting her to ur house, what happens next?

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Re: Am I Missing Something? How Did You Woo Your Partner ... by Silentgroper(m): 11:21pm On Nov 20, 2022
TrossardT:
Why not go for the ones that show you sign that they like u??
it will give u peace of mind
apt as hell...

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Re: Am I Missing Something? How Did You Woo Your Partner ... by Joshmuch: 5:49am On Nov 21, 2022
Moh247:
smiley


Wooing and toasting is kind of outdated this days

Simply walk up to her, introduce yourself and tell her you stay around and would love to be a friend and get her number

If she gives you her number call her and make her know it's you and if it's cool to chat her up on Whatsapp

If she agreed , chat her up briefly to know basics about her, hobbies, her kind of music, any intresting thing about her and be funny, relaxed and make her comfortable enough.

Next thing is to ask her if you guys can hangout on a date,

Take her to a simple restaurant, order for food, chat her up and make sure you know if she's single or in a relationship, if she's single then move on to start flattering and teasing her in a funny way to soften her up

After the date chat her up for a day or two then request another date

If the second date goes smoothly, then move on to inviting her to your house


.
OP, Listen to this intelligent dude, and you are friendzoned for life!!!

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Re: Am I Missing Something? How Did You Woo Your Partner ... by Nobody: 7:30am On Nov 21, 2022
ccjoe:
yeah! Am already graduating with a first class
I'm** undecided
Re: Am I Missing Something? How Did You Woo Your Partner ... by Delight2014(m): 7:43am On Nov 21, 2022
Joshmuch:
OP, Listen to this intelligent dude, and you are freindzoned for life
Can we hear your own tactics

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Re: Am I Missing Something? How Did You Woo Your Partner ... by ccjoe: 8:14am On Nov 21, 2022
Nia69:
I'm** undecided
Thanks dear.
Happy now?

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Re: Am I Missing Something? How Did You Woo Your Partner ... by obinna58(m): 8:21am On Nov 21, 2022
Moh247:
smiley


Wooing and toasting is kind of outdated this days

Simply walk up to her, introduce yourself and tell her you stay around and would love to be a friend and get her number

If she gives you her number call her and make her know it's you and if it's cool to chat her up on Whatsapp

If she agreed , chat her up briefly to know basics about her, hobbies, her kind of music, any intresting thing about her and be funny, relaxed and make her comfortable enough.

Next thing is to ask her if you guys can hangout on a date,

Take her to a simple restaurant, order for food, chat her up and make sure you know if she's single or in a relationship, if she's single then move on to start flattering and teasing her in a funny way to soften her up

After the date chat her up for a day or two then request another date

If the second date goes smoothly, then move on to inviting her to your house


.
You sounded cool when you said toasting is outdated, then you started contradicting yourself.

Hello is enough to tell if she wants you or not, but never try to show any girl she has so much value, if they aren't showing greenlight and coming to you, then you need to step up your general standard, finance, body and looks.
The redpill is not meant to favor you or get you what you need at the moment but it'll build your value in a long term. You'll be unstoppable.

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Re: Am I Missing Something? How Did You Woo Your Partner ... by Joshmuch: 8:25am On Nov 21, 2022
Delight2014:

Can we hear your own tactics
Here comes the tactics.

1. Dress well, look good from head to toe.

2. Approach a lot of girls, ideally 3 girls daily.

3. Apply the SIT method on approach: Smile, Intent and Touch.
S- Smile before approach
I- Show your intention by desiring her, look her from head, boobs to toe
T- Ensure you touch her, be close to her when talking. touch could be handshake, a tap on shoulder anything to break touch barrier.

4. Deliver your opening e.g. hi, I saw you from behind catwalking or walking or dancing or sitting etc and I had to come say , you have a nice figure.( remember with SIT method).
She will smile, then introduce yourself. Then say what you are there doing e.g. I just came to buy something before I got distracted by this sexy girl( You are referring to her, now she is smiling and happy) . Ask her what she is up to or where she is going etc. Then, cut off the rapport, SIT method again,tell her you are rushing somewhere and ask her that you would like to see her like tommorow maybe around 5pm to get to know her better.If she agrees to see you tomorrow or maybe she is free another day. Give her your phone to put in her number.( Don't ask: can I have your number). Then, give her a beep for her to have yours. SIT method on the closing and leave. Call her the next day about the meet and tell her the address or location to meet, bar, restaurant ( for me it's usually my home) and proceed from there if you know what to do. If not ask, and I will continue.

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Re: Am I Missing Something? How Did You Woo Your Partner ... by Great0ne1: 8:28am On Nov 21, 2022
ccjoe:
Bro I don't want 2 be manipulative..I want to be sincere, and I want an honest relationship ...not all this faking here and there...thanks
Are you sure she will be ready for honest relationship ? It takes two of you, to make it work.

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